0:00 In my head, Chinese ladies aren't necessarily like on the outside they might >> [laughter] >> Yeah, physically they might be a little smaller and a little like timid, but like in how they run things in relationships, from my experience, I've always seen them as like the tyrants. Like they're the ones telling the white boys what to do. Oh, yeah. Welcome back to another episode of Careful Boys. We have with us Mr. Nick Dunn, expert in sexual relations. Yes, yes, sir. United Sexual Nations. It's a big honor for me. Um what Asian-American in this day and age >> ████ the hardest? >> do you think has the most dick >> interracial relationship success? Success? Mhm. Interracial relationship success? >> Outside of their race. Like white,
0:50 black, Hispanic. >> Japanese-Americans? Japanese You said You said Asian-American Oh, you said Asian-Americans. Yeah, out of which Asian-Americans today? I was thinking worldwide. I was thinking worldwide. Yeah, or yeah, just in America. >> Filipinos. I think it might be Chinese. Oh. >> population. So it's just by sheer numbers. Yeah, so there's more Chinese in America than any other Asian? They're They're up there. Yeah, but I think also if you think about the the like like what it's probably like white guy Asian girl. And then it I think it's between >> counting those. We're not counting those. I think it's going to be probably Yeah, >> [laughter] >> yeah, we're just guys, just guys. Yeah. That's a higher population. >> by that, yeah. Yeah, yeah. It's going to be probably Chinese, um Filipino, and Japanese in that order. Oh. I think there's a lot of Filipino
1:41 married because of military. I would initially think Filipino. You see more of like Filipino mixes, huh? Uh but then I'm only thinking it regionally, like where I grew up or where like >> Are we going to get facts behind this? Can I look? >> Yeah, look up facts. Look up facts. >> So I'm thinking from a uh Cuz you're [snorts] not asking about I saw growing up, right? What it is now. >> What it is now. Oh yeah. Oh yeah, like what what are you thinking? So growing up, I thought it was probably Filipino, because you know, there's a bunch of like sailors that go to Philippines, whatever. >> [laughter] >> Like in the navy, right? And and then so I think so I think uh Filipino and then Japanese, cuz you know, Japanese been in America for a hell of generations. So it's you're bound to assimilate. That's true. But I think in the new new, I was thinking maybe Koreans. Yeah. Because they're so well packaged uh from music to food to whatever, that if you were to like go somewhere where
2:33 you're butt-f█████ by yourself, it's way easier to like know what they're about. That's true. So I think that's the first barrier of entry, right? >> culture. Yeah, like if you're like some random >> Familiarity. Yeah, they kick you and they ████ throw you in the middle of ████ I don't know, Brigham Young University, whatever. Then you're like, "Yo, I'm Laos." Or whatever. They're like, "What?" But then if they there's like K-pop the whole country. Yeah, they're like K-pop demon hunters. Okay. You know, I feel like it's like more digestible and it's already the marketing is placed there for you. >> feel like Yeah, yeah, yeah. people are way more into like or more likely to date a Korean person for those reasons. >> I think so, too. How it is. I think there's a lot of stuff that's predisposed predisposed to be like almost give you an entry level into Koreans. Yep. Kind of like uh how they have that dating show now where it's like Colombian women dating Korean guys. You seen that?
3:23 Dude, check this out. watch this. Asian-American women those born in the states, they uh marry outside of the race more than any other group. That's ████ up, dude. With 36% of newly wed Asian women marrying non-Asians, compared to the 21% of men. All right, Asian men out there, you guys got to go find non-Asian wives now. This is just we got to skew the numbers back. >> Japanese and Filipino have the highest rates. But But, that's what about now, the new What you talking about the now now? Cuz I think that's like historically. Oh, like that's the sum in total? >> This was in 2017. Oh, damn. That's a A lot's changed in since 2017. That's crazy. Squid Games. >> I think Japanese because uh they're the most Americanized. >> Yeah. So, the more Americanized you are, you're probably like you're just not going to date within the culture. Yeah.
4:14 Because you're not trying to preserve anything cuz your culture is American. You guys know a lot of people that are not Korean that watch Korean dramas? Yeah, actually. Isn't that Isn't that interesting? My mother-in-law watches Korean dramas. Yeah, I think that's also a big entryway into why some girls might be attracted to Korean guys just based off that by itself to be like, "Oh, I wonder what that's like to like date someone like that." Honestly, when I saw K-pop like the BTS guys get a McDonald's meal, I [laughter] was like, "This is This is a new age. I've never thought I'd ever see that ever." >> Yeah, that's pretty tight. >> Hella non-Koreans listen to K-pop. Yeah. >> Like crazy amount. >> Most It's mostly non-Koreans, I think. Yeah, that's that's why I like I like the fact that when you're trying to like show Asian excellence or something, I think we're on the same page with this where like I'm not I don't think McDonald's gave them that meal to give Asians a shot. Yeah, I think they knew metrically that this was a good idea
5:06 financially for them. >> I agree. >> Yeah, and I like that Asians earned their way to that rather than like be like, "Give more roles to guys like me." >> [laughter] >> Yeah. And I think true Asian excellence would attract more than just Asians. Yeah, exactly. If you're like, "Oh, I'm the Asian version of the best violin player or whatever." It's like, "Okay, you're only attracting Asians that are inspired to be that." But like let's say you ████ Let's say you're the Panda Express owner, right? You ████ crushed it. You're a model for other franchises of all kinds. >> Yeah. Burgers, tacos, whatever. Like that guy is just a mogul on his own, you know? I mean, it makes sense that why like in a room full of 30 kids in a classroom, the Asian kid's not good at math because they're teaching Asian math. Yeah. That's just math. >> That's just math. >> [laughter] >> And it's in English. >> And those are English numbers. Yeah. [laughter]
5:56 Yeah, there's like a I love that there's that striving to just earn your your spot. >> Yeah, for sure. >> And then and then now the product itself is not necessarily Asian. It's just a good product. >> race, yeah. It's just a good thing. Like like BTS makes dope ████ That's it. They're on lane. Yeah. They don't have to be the Asian version of whatever. They're just doing dope ████ >> them the Asian Backstreet Boys. It's just BTS. Yep. >> [laughter] >> That's actually an insult. >> get called what is it like the ████ they they're always getting called appropriators because you know, everything in pop has like roots in black music. What's cool is seeing how much uh That's the response. It's like they influence everything, dude. Like black people influence all kinds of music like the whole argument with like about rock and roll too, right? It's Uh what about reggaeton? Is that considered You for sure it's I'm sure there's black roots in there, too. Yeah. It's got to be. >> Absolutely. 30% [clears throat] of Asian American men date outside. 30%?
6:48 >> Yeah. Asian American men. >> Yeah. So we're even. They take 30 of our women, we take 30 of theirs. Yeah. Miscellaneous. Yeah. >> We were in that we're we're all in that category, you guys. That's a Wait. Wait. Well, that's newlywed. I I was looking into male dating statistics. So they might end up marrying Asian. >> Asian, okay. >> It could be like they were dabbling. Yeah, but So like what's cool is uh at Taika's school, I remember growing up there'll be that one mixed person, right? And they seem like super exotic. And there might be like three or four grades would have that one person. Yeah. Uh in Taika's class, there's probably in his class alone with just 20 30 kids, there's probably like four or five mixed kids. It's very mixed up. >> Numbers are coming up. Yeah, these day like it's For marriage, it's 36% of Asian women marrying non-Asians compared to 21% of men. Oh.
7:38 >> the 21% technically. >> We're catching up. Yeah. Ladies. And that's not to say again like if if you're watching this from a net shark perspective, that's not to say this is how it should be that like everyone Asian should not marry Asian. It's not that. It's just like where if you're in America, you just want everyone to be on an even playing field of like, "Oh, I can't not date them cuz they're Asian." You know what's a bad a net shark deemed net shark deemed bad thing that I actually think is a good thing? What? >> Could also be controversial. What? >> I think the reason why there's so many Asian chicks that get taken by other people. Taken? Well, it's I think cuz I they actually like, "Oh, they just fetishize us because they're timid and they're shy and they're obedient." And they can be controlled. >> "That's I don't know if that's all true though." >> That's all ████ good things. >> [laughter] >> You know what I mean? Like I think most
8:28 people >> say that. Exactly. If you're I think Asian chicks honestly are probably the the model like traditional wife. Household wife that knows how to clean, cook, they they listen to you. They're they don't have got all these ████ crazy like I'm a I'm a fight you ideas like a Latina does. I'm a fight [laughter] you. You know I mean? But they don't want to admit that. >> I was talking to a I wasn't good enough for a Asian woman. That's why. >> One of the clients at the gym is old white dude. He's hella cool. He he's dating like a hot fiery No, he's married to a like this like fiery Cantonese woman. Yeah. And when you talk to him, who really want runs the the relationship? It's the lady, dude. It's the I like I this this idea of a lot of Asian ladies and I'm sure it's very true. >> Cantonese ladies are kind of different though. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
9:18 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But like But Chinese in my head Chinese ladies aren't necessarily like on the outside like Yeah, physically they might be a little smaller and a little like timid, but like in how they run things in relationships from my experience, I've always seen them as like the tyrants. Like they're the ones telling the white boys what to do. Oh, yeah. That's how I feel about Filipino women, too. I don't think they're pushovers in any way. I think so. I don't think so. I'm not buying it. Guys find that out the first one they date and they're like, oh, ████ I'm looking for more of a Japanese woman. >> [laughter] >> But is that the stereotype for Japanese women, though, too? >> Korea is the biggest up-and-comer. You were right. >> Oh. So, I did find a a staff for [laughter] for staffer men. So, US-born Filipino and Japanese men show higher rates of marrying outside race compared to Korean or Chinese. But in modern times, Korean
10:08 >> for Filipino men, though? are rising. [laughter] How many second families are we talking? >> divorce papers? Unsigned. You can't serve them to the guy cuz he's never there and he's He says he's not him. What's the stereotype for Japanese women? Yeah, like when they when they're dating like a white guy, are they the ones kind of I think all Asian women are actually way more masculine than white women. They ████ run ████ but they appear like they present feminine. >> have better manners. Yeah. Yeah, they're just They're just more like >> [laughter] >> It's like, you know how Asians they're like looked upon as like That's so true, though. >> meek and weak. Is that It's the cultural It's just culturally different. Like, you're just quiet. You just don't ████ talk or whatever. Like, we talk too much, but we're too American. Yeah, for real. When you look at you you don't see a cowboy, right? You don't think like, oh, big strong cowboy or like their idea of confidence is like just egotistical. It's not really real
10:59 confidence. So, then when you see a Asian girl, they misunderstand what that is representing. They're like, oh, she's a good little docile girl. But she'll ████ run you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, they'll do ████ Like, they'll chip away at you and actually run the whole household and then you'll for for some reason you're saying, "Yes, ma'am." And you don't know why. Right. Yeah, they're they're really clever that way. But yeah, I definitely agree that like growing up throughout school, every year of my life, every classroom I've been in, the quieter, more timid, more shy people across the board are Asian. Just in general. In general. Usually the white the white dudes the more like louder or you know, the black students are louder. Everyone's louder than the Asians just how it kind of is. >> like the Cantonese kids. >> [laughter] >> They learn to be like Culturally though, they're the ████ loudest. I think culturally we're meant to move more as a
11:51 group. So we all kind of line dance together, you know? Yeah. We're all under the veil and we move together. >> legs together Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I think that's why it's like it works for our society and why we're not necessarily like I'm going to be Jordan. >> Try to be the star. Yeah, yeah. Well, we work as a team well and and that makes us a little bit more quiet. >> That makes sense. Yeah, I think it's the cultural value that and I think to be honest like you said, that's a very touchy topic because a lot of the time they don't want to admit that like the cultural values that some Asian women bring to the table are what these white guys like. EVEN WHAT I LIKE. I LIKE THAT TOO. I I like that and the other ones. [laughter] But then Geo bamboozled me. >> that. But if you think about the guy, okay, so >> [laughter] >> bamboozled. Yeah. If you think about the girls that do date like like let's say they're like hella more western and they're more activist and they're more like outspoken, right?
12:43 Like a white guy will tolerate that though. That's why they date white guys. If you think about all the like activist in the street but like colonize in the sheets ladies, they're all with white guys. Cuz like white guys are actually way more like progressive. Like like a lot of us won't ████ thoughts. Fine, I'll listen to your thoughts. >> Right. And then they'll they'll have a discussion, they'll do all those things where we're just like shut the ████ up. Hell no. Everyone's business just like yeah, that's It's different. So I think like the type of women that will probably get with minorities, they're probably way more like traditional. Like if you see especially if they're marrying someone that's like from India, from China. Like all the western women that are dating them, they want to actually be in that role. Oh, you mean like a guy that freshly got here? I think that they're they're So, think about all the minority
13:35 women that do get with white guys, right? They're typically way more progressive. Cuz they'll they'll they're more open to like breaking those gender roles and someone who will talk back or fight you or whatever, right? Where it's like I just think that they're okay with that cuz they're used to that. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't know. Like um I just feel like there's things that minority guys won't be okay with and that's why they don't date women like that. Yeah. I think if you're one of those minority guys that's upset at Asian women dating other races, you're kind of already not going to be too good for a lot of American Asian women. Like if you Or women, period. >> Yeah, like that this attitude is like just not hot. >> Any guy >> It's not a sexy take, dude. >> thinking that they have the rights to their own women without like being
14:25 charismatic and dating and doing any of the basics, that's just incel ████ Yeah. But like I just think that um you can't just look at a person and be like, "Oh, this is one race, therefore they should be with this race." Like that's such a archaic way to think. It is, yeah. So, you said on your stats Japanese and Filipino historically are have the most rate of marrying outside their race in America. >> Oh, wow. And then and then Korea's on the come up contending for number one. Wow. >> Not contending, but he's like the new player to the game. >> [laughter] >> Numbers are going to go up then, dude. Yeah, that's pretty cool.
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