0:00 so he had these two Pomeranians that like were left after he died and my grandpa just like had he he's like make sure you take care of him three walks a day water my grandpa just had him put to sleep and he buried him with him cuz they're so annoying oh God shut [Music] up welcome back everybody to a very finina episode of the careful boys where today we have Kristen here with us good to be back good to be back this is your first time here at the new office it is it looks amazing I like the new my wife for working on it took us a while okay actually it's kind of boring wow yeah so we're going to go and change topics right away it's falling apart this place fall now go ahead tell us how you did shy job what have you been up to
0:51 all right it's been a while and I'm happy to be here a lot of people have been asking for me back oh hey that's nice thanks thanks thanks everyone watching yourselves yes express yourself yeah it's been a minute I don't live in LA anymore you don't where do you live no I live in Atlanta I moved there in December how do you like it it's cool oh you moved in oh she told us she was moving when we were we were at Airsoft we're having it on I did no I didn't no this was at uh Christmas this is recent this wasn't Christmas I went through I went through a break up yeah same same yeah oh you broke up with the dude yeah the dude but why why did the breakup result in Atlanta um well the dude did some dude things that I wasn't duding with yeah um and yeah it just it just made I had just gotten back from
1:41 tour in Australia for like a dance thing and while he was ding around while he was ding with dudes I'm just kidding I'm just kidding these dad libs are really good n keep it he's just dood doodling um no I had to make a pretty quick decision of like getting my own place or leaving and it just made more sense at that point to go to Atlanta for a little bit I'm staying with my sister oh cuz you have family that I see yeah I have family there and there's still an industry out there I thought you just any miny mode the ████ no no like coming to America here Nebraska n so I've been out there like four months um it's cool but it's like kind of like a little boring sometimes I definitely miss la they say it's like
2:31 Hollywood 2.0 there is it or no it is the the film and entertainment industry is really booming up oh is it oh cool right when I moved there I booked a Six Flags commercial so like there's stuff there's stuff going on all the time a lot of acting stuff um I just feel like I'm more of a la person though oh and I got the gang out here you know what I mean G gang um but yeah so you're loving Georgia you're in love with it I absolutely love it it's perfect no it's cool it's nice uh there's a lot of nature there I feel more ground Ed um it's like a good change of pace for a little bit Yeah I I'm treating it more like a vacation and we were talking I travel like every weekend for dance anyway so I'm hardly over there yeah just take advantage of that did you feel like being in Atlanta sped up the healing process better than being here a th% I had to just get away from it I feel like taking a break is nice I feel
3:21 like if I stayed here I would have been so caught up and not healed it and people don't he heal their ████ anymore you know you know what's the sick way for people to heal ████ though is like to talk ████ about you know those dudes on camera absolutely I I do it all the time you know what I mean any detail make I'm too nice that's a thing we could guess we could guess okay okay okay what do you think he did she did yeah okay any other guesses um murder jeez murdered your heart There It Is by cheating is he in your industry murder uh no he's in the music industry but I very involved with um we have like the same friend groups and stuff oh I was going to say with a friend SL your gigs or something murdered your heart with a friend no got I'm minus one he embezzled
4:11 money from your account exactly stole from your dance Huge lot of ambassadors Dance Crew start and only fans waited when you traveled and then made in a slippery slide move he was in another country working we just grew upart nothing wrong love that guy great guy what a nice person do you are okay so if you had to plan his death hypothetically jeez um slow slow right but you guys are you guys are fine I would like I would like lock them in a room for eternity and play the same song over and over and have which song like baby shark probably like the oh that's tiptoe for eternity un repeat forever that's you got a dark heart
5:03 punishment Mo REM he really ████ you up dude what the hell did he do to you no that's crazy guys stop focusing on her pain she's moving on but honestly like disregard that nothing against him I am fully enjoying being single yeah talk about it yeah it's fun I forgot how fun it is to just like go out in the world of course everyone loves attention and just like opening myself back up again to just talk I feel like you're in a relationship you don't go the extra mile to meet new people connect and it's so cool I've met so many new people along the way I've been like going to shows and events by myself and just cool kind of getting back in the world I think it's fun so there that's a wonderful segue actually because one of our patrons in the Discord was asking uh a little bit of a question um and this
5:55 is from bosan ban sh out ban uh she was asking what advice that we may have for women in the dating scene for context she's been happily single for a year after being a serial monogamist uh relationship for a decade and she's not eager to get back into the dating scene because honestly she's scared but any advice that we may have for a woman because we have very good womanly advice getting back into the dating scene anything that I know that you're fresh and that you're liking the single space why she scared did she didn't say didn't we do this one she didn't say did we do this one yeah but we didn't get like I thought you were getting christas take edit that in okay my take getting back in the dating scene um you just got to do it you got to get back out there and I think once you it's scary before you get into it cuz everyone loves to stay
6:45 home and just be alone and likes their independence but I think the more you get out um more people you talk to you see that there's so many options out there and I don't think you should put pressure on it either like I'm not looking for someone right now but if it naturally comes that's cool I'm not a big dating app person are you guys I'm pretty big on it yeah yeah only cheat on my wife big on it yeah usually only in other countries I I like never was into using dating apps I hate the like conversations and the weird cheesy pickup lines I like just meeting people organically but I think she should go out there there's so much ass on there though it's hard to look away from see you guys have the good end of it when we swipe through it's like fish fish fish fish that's so funny what's the guy holding fish thing what is that
7:35 stereotype that's everyone uses that on dating apps I think it's a bro thing to like have your first pict here's my fish I caught a big fish and girl and they're like oh this is going to get girls going she's going to want me is that really the new world I know nothing but I think it's more like Midwest Midwest places yeah I I don't think in La there's fish she's one of my friends she's a she's a doctor in Milwaukee and she says every time she goes on the dating apps it's always guys holding up fish and saying how they want to like watch football all day I really thought it's just because some guys just don't take pictures of themselves other than moments like that so that's just a picture they have of them but that's why you got to hit one of these being honest but if you're trying to be on a dating app it's like dressing up for an interview right shouldn't you like present yourself way I think some guys think it's gay to put real effort in they'd rather just be
8:25 like well here's what I got in my phone man like but that's what they think is cool because I grew up in Milwaukee so she's completely right everyone in Milwaukee they just there's a lot of lakes we have the Great Lakes out there they just fish they hunt they watch Packers football and they watch football at least it's honest it's a simple life you're seeing what you get so cartel dudes are like there like with the machete to this is what I do is honest probably probably they just have pictures of them in fish I love his honesty cartel a cartel dating app that's dude you know I just uh I just learned that on those dating apps there's also you know like when you first um learned about how on like uber you could also swipe to the food side of things and you're like wait a minute there Uber Eats there's a whole different like SE I just learned that also on dating apps there's a just a friend one yeah that's
9:17 that's fake though yeah but that's the one where you really use to like you know is that right so you pretend like you don't use it that's that's that's game that some people do oh we're just friends guys will use that to like be friends with like girls and then they'll start like oh so they really are like using that for scumbag I think I think that's a percentage of them not maybe not all of them but dude I ████ like 17 chicks using Facebook Marketplace you did absolutely you just get there you strike up a convo you like load a clock in your car or whatever and you're like what are you doing right now hey you're free right cuz most of those girls are human trafficked yeah what up guys thank you for watching us for so long if you like what we do please support our patreon Joe tell them what we have to offer so every week you get two videos one never released director's cut and another one too hot for YouTube patreon
10:07 only every freaking week you get that and you get access to our Discord where you can come chat with us and ask us questions that become episodes here cuz we're going to answer them and we're going to take it seriously and we want to give you the responses that you want so come stay connected with us join our patreon click the description below for full details CLE is on Facebook Marketplace all the time how many times you get hit she only dates on Facebook wait what yeah yeah she got she got to sell like selling something and the guy afterwards was like oh my God you're so beautiful yeah I I actually I had that happen to me one time too it was a long time ago I was selling a mirror and like I didn't know how to take a picture of the mirror without kind of being in it and yeah there was a guy that definitely replied he's like I'll buy it I'll buy it right now you I'll come to you does that come off creepy and weird or how did you take it
10:58 yeah that's creepy and weird I'm just trying to sell my mirror what would have saved you as if you went to film school then you would have known how to take a picture that or it's probably it's probably unnecessary for you to have taken it like this I'm like in a swimsuit I'm like selling a mirror that's good marketing you know yeah what weird people get weird how did you Shug how did you brush the guy off how' you she went out with him she had a good copy with after she for three years it ended horribly oh no no okay you just ignored him yeah I did I just ignored him that's yeah cuz it was after the exchange oh right he was hitting up after so when you uh first became single was there any moment of catharsis where you're like I need to just do lines of cocaine and see some strippers and ████
11:48 or no I was I was pretty good about handling it I actually cut out um I got rid of like every substance um like weed food water no that's true though water um you know how heartbreak is I didn't eat for like 2 weeks it was pretty crazy I saw you guys I was so skinny I looked I looked so good um but yeah it was hard to eat for a while I feel like just relationships are hard like that your nervous system breaks down but I just I I'm really happy with the way I transitioned out of this I've obviously been through hard times and heartbreak before and just knowing that if you use substance or something like that it's just prolonging the healing so I was like okay I'm going to get out of here I'm going to cut out all the bad ████ in my life I'm going to be healthy you know
12:38 the gym thing you have that after breakup glow up that's really mature the gym is great um so that's pretty much it did you have that situation where you know when like ladies when you when you're newly single and then a friend that you had like that's a guy finally decides to confess there's always that guy huh I've had a couple of those I knew it yeah so so many people like what was his name first and last I can't they're like so your ex was such a dick he never appreciated you I always knew he was so mean to you yeah yeah yeah that's when I slide in yo that's when I slid in that's that's Steve Green's ████ favorite guy the long game guy the long game guy yeah guys are disgusting dude dude they put a doubt respect they're being friends with you to put a down payment on a future ████ set yeah that's that's
13:28 always the thing I like to ask people what's wrong with Investments cuz it brings out your long game dude yeah hey so that didn't work out but good guy TM a lot of people um I mean I guess it makes sense people wait for their chance they get excited on the market again they're looking they they're pring I was like e no it wasn't the one you wanted no did did you stop did you like keep being friends with them or was it like all right we got to like not talk for a little bit I'm I'm cool with everyone he reverted back to friend mode like perfectly I'll wait for the next boyfriend yeah really timing is a weird thing you know that's true that's true one day we're going to give hope to all of you you simps out there yeah Steve Green says never give up give up say it just say it put the Sound by never give up never give up dude we could be great say we could be great we could be great yeah see we could be great hey any dude goes
14:19 up to you right afterwards right after your break break up and like we could be great like come on dude that's your opening line yeah we could be great we could be great how are you how are you at like moving forward you know like everybody that goes through a breakup you end up kind of a little bit different or a little bit biased because of what went wrong how are you able to like clean slate it and not feel like you're taking something with you for yeah called baggage and Trauma you know like are you able to do you think you'll you'll be able to trust the same way I think I'm going to have more boundaries cuz I'm in a relationship I'm usually pretty laid back low maintenance um I trust the person that I'm with and you know it's not we go somewhere I do my own thing they do theirs but they're always going to be there I'm really good about giving people freedom but I think moving forward you're going to be like this hey let me see your phone let me see your phone see that's what I do I
15:10 hover I hover but that's the thing and maybe that's just what happens cuz I know there's like crazy girls with crazy boundaries and like won't let their significant other talk to someone else or be friends with girls I'm I don't I'm not like that but I could see if some if this keeps happening to me in relationships how those boundaries are going to keep build and then I have to get a little bit more psychotic but if you're in a relationship you don't need a lock screen why do you have a lock screen on what's going on yeah why you have a passcode what the ████ is that we don't need that why put your phone down like yeah if you have nothing to hide don't hide anything phone like exactly why don't we just share a phone yeah we should have an Instagram account actually you share a phone why aren't you paying my phone bill um work on me I could tell that breakup was Mutual then yeah I I think it's I think it's good though you take you take the the best out of it right that's all you can do um
16:03 I also I'm a little bit of a people pleaser and a giver and I just realized I need to invest in myself as well in a relationship I kind of just you know you love someone you do everything for them but I kind of forgot about myself my career my things did you guys have pets together or no uh he had a dog coming into the relationship I had a cat um so his dog felt like my baby that was really sad that that that was the hardest part not losing the dog um and then my cat uh the breed of my cat isn't um legal in Georgia so if I would need to take my cat to the vet they would take it or put him down so I what kind of cat is it it's a savannah bangal mix you have a savannah bangal mix what's that is that like a tiger what is it it's like my cats it's my cats but more
16:53 wild and bigger okay but it's a it's like a F3 F4 so it's not he's not super big um but he's and he's an indoor outdoor cat but I couldn't bring him so I had to leave him out here some friends took him but that was really sad cuz I lost my cat um by visited him yesterday it was like cool yeah this ████ looks like a baby leopard what the ████ that's what I'm saying those things are ████ bad they're expensive too honestly your cat was way cooler than his dog I'm sure was his dog though if it was a Goldie I don't know it was a Pomeranian they're cute though they're cute put that dog down hey they're cute dogs pom ran is can be cute hey put that dog down dude if they're well trained they can be cute how quickly that dog's not illegal in California was a p oh dude yeah golden rever that's a hard one to say by D dude
17:44 my uh I had an uncle who died of AIDS thanks for bringing it up um he had these two yeah thanks for bringing it up so he had these two Pomeranians that like were left after he died and my grandpa just like had he he's like make sure you take care of him three walks a day water my grandpa just had him put to sleep and he buried him with him cuz they're so ████ annoying oh shut up not buried him with hey A Pet's a big responsibility you leave a pet with somebody my grandpa was a ████ badass dude he's like I'm not ████ doing this ████ that's wild dude my my dad's dad my grandpa he's not alive anymore but um one time growing up they thought it would be smart to get a pet alligator oh my and it bit his arm and they had to get rid of him when it was a baby I bet you could
18:35 have had alligator in Georgia probably probably but not your cat but you can't have a cat yeah but not that cat no what the ████ who's picking up these rules how'd you get rid of the alligator his grandpa yeah well I wasn't even alive yet I think they but they got rid of it somehow thought they ate him or something yeah they at was like a giant chicken yeah oh yeah I guess kind of in way yeah is your grandpa alive or is he like ████ Buri dead decapitated in the sand he's dead the second one oh yeah yeah not decapitated I don't know why be decapitated what the ████ with AIDS I don't know no he did not have AIDS he capitated with AIDS thanks for bringing it up dude I think that's the end of the video
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