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What is the Most Money You're Willing to Lend a Friend?

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0:00 Okay, use your brains, guys. Think of the most >> Yeah, Bree. >> closest possible friend you have in your life that you trust the most out of anybody else you know. What is the highest amount of money you're willing to lend them? >> Oh, that's easy. >> For real? >> Yeah. >> What is it? >> Who is it or what is it? >> Or what's the highest number? The whole situation. The amount of money you'd be willing to lend. >> Well, it depends on what it's for. But if they say they needed it >> Let's say it's a don't ask, just give me the money, trust me. >> And they're going to pay me back? Or they say they're going to >> Well, it's a it's a lend. >> They said it's a lend, yeah. They'll pay back, yeah. >> I'm from the casino industry. That don't mean ████ >> Yeah. >> This is your closest friend. >> Closest friend, um >> Or closest person. >> The most I would lend >> Yeah. >> is whatever's in my savings. I wouldn't take out of my house or anything for

0:50 them. >> 78 million? >> Yeah. >> [laughter] >> Holy ████ >> I don't HAVE MY CHECKING ACCOUNT. >> HOW DO I GET closer to you? >> [laughter] >> God damn, bro. >> I have a favor to ask. >> So, you have no limit when it comes to that person, basically. >> For sure. >> Wow. What terms What are the terms you would have for like paying back? Just anytime whenever you get it? >> Yeah, whenever they're able to. >> No interest or anything? >> No. >> [laughter and clears throat] >> I'm not a bank. >> Who's this person? Can I ask? >> You can say You can say >> She's Mexican. [clears throat] >> You can't trust Mexican money. >> [laughter] >> No. NO, HONESTLY. HONESTLY. >> MONEY COME, money go, you know? Like what the >> I don't know what happened. >> No, it it's actually >> Slipped through my fingers. >> It's actually Geo. >> What? You would lend Geo >> Geo's Mexican? >> Holy crap. >> 78 mil, dude. >> There's There's There's There's

1:41 something. She ████ knows. >> Can you Can you borrow like >> [laughter] >> There There's I have friends that have been in my life like 20 [snorts] years >> Mhm. >> that I wouldn't trust >> Oh, wow. >> as much as I trust Geo. >> Wow. >> 100%. >> How did she get you to think like this? >> I can't tell you that. >> [laughter] >> Hey, just trust me, fool. >> All right, sure. >> You begged, fool. Don't make a big deal. >> [laughter] >> Damn, that's tight. What about you, Anthony? How much can Mike borrow from you? >> Yeah, same thing. >> No limit? Is Mike your closest friend? Like closest, closest, closest? >> Yeah, friend that's not family. Cuz like blood >> But he's like your brother pretty much. >> Cousin or you know, like or actual like my sister or something like that. Like closest person. Family's different, right? Like >> No. >> Well, for Yeah, true, true, true.

2:31 >> Cuz I'll put I'll place Joe above hell of family. >> I'm saying I'm saying >> He's all no. >> I'm saying blood that like is still close to me. That's all. It's not It's not just because you're blood. Like blood who's close to me. But for for Mike to not be blood, yeah, he would be It's him and then it's a It's probably my buddy Shawn. But there's I think there's a also a difference. Like for example, let's say I only have like a 170 >> A million >> loan somebody. Also, if Bart was like, "Yo, dude, I need to borrow this." I think he's good for it. So, I'm like, "All right, like sure, no questions asked if you if that's that That's what you need." Cuz I think that that's >> 100,000? >> [laughter] >> Yeah. >> If you're again >> You asked me. >> questions asked, you came to me and asked for it I'd have to be like, "Okay, man." Cuz I've I've seen you in your life move seven figures here and there and do stuff. That's true.

3:22 >> It's different. >> The trust you've earned, you know. >> Versus like >> Like like she said, I I might have a friend for like >> I think Anthony just admitted that he loves me. >> [laughter] >> I got guys in Kendras who I've known forever. I don't know a loan on 100 grand. >> Anthony thinks you're a good investment. >> You know, I'll I'll more more than willingly let go of 100 grand to save their life. I'm just saying I'm going to talk to them about figuring out what is it you actually I can't do no questions asked on this ████ You know, you can't. You know, I'm for some people, yeah, I'm going to be like, "What do you really need?" Like you got yourself in this problem, I don't trust how you handle problems, so just let me help you handle the problem. I'm going to do no questions asked to you. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. >> I don't know the limit to helping you. I have a limit on me giving you my money, though. >> We're in this together now. >> You would give somebody 100% of your disposable income? The closest

4:12 person to me, yeah. >> Holy crap. >> What about you? You're far far off from it. >> Mhm. I don't know if I if I know anybody that I would give 100% of all my money to. >> Yeah, for real. >> Disposable income? >> Yeah, no, all of it. >> Even in your tightest circle, like in your tightest of the tightest circle? >> I mean, to the point where like I can't even get McDonald's right after? >> No. [laughter] >> Well, I guess so so for her like it's like her savings, right? That's not her checking. Her her daily life is still going to be okay. >> if I got my 6-month mo like to just take care of life and then I had to sell all of my like brokerage account stocks just to like do this thing or whatever, I'll do it. >> I think if you're if you're the person closest to me and you're asking me you're not that close to me. >> [laughter] >> Cuz you know I DON'T HAVE THAT KIND OF

5:03 $100,000. >> Or what what is the amount that you're like you feel like comfortable? >> Probably like realistically, probably like no 10, 15,000 feels like it wouldn't kill me. >> Yeah. >> But anything else, I would be like, I'm going to get another job because I lent you money. It's crazy. >> [laughter] >> No, that's the thing, I'm not sitting on 100 disposable. I would have to like go sell things to like make it work. >> Damn, you would sell things for that? Okay. >> That's cool. >> I mean, having a stock or whatever, like it's the end of the day, money's what for what? To take care of ████ Like you have to take care of you. And if my like closest person's coming at me, no questions asked, needs to take care of some ████ I'm like, the ████ do I need money for? You got to take care of some ████ do it. Let's go. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. >> Depends on the situation, too. >> Oh. >> That Well, that's what I'm saying. If he's going closest person, no questions asked. >> It's a It's

5:53 >> No matter what, we're asking questions, but still. >> I guess if it did sound like an emergency, then that would be different. But if it was just like All right, check it out, dog. I need this money. >> Yeah. >> Something good's about >> I got this idea. >> Yeah. [laughter] >> That's how every movie starts. >> Yeah, I think I think if we're going to be super dramatic, then then then business idea and me investing in it is completely different than like dude, like I'm going to get murdered if I don't put this ransom up or some ████ You know what I mean? That's completely different. >> What about you, Nick? >> Kind of leaning towards no. >> [laughter] >> Just straight up >> Straight up, no. >> Just straight up, no. >> If I'm being If I'm like truly being on it Like that's my That's my first instinct, though. It doesn't It It It doesn't mean I will say no in the end. It's just my gut instinct is like, no. So, from there, my decision-making is very different, you know what I mean?

6:44 So, it has to be like, all right, why? You know, you have to kind of go down the You know, your gut >> instinct go to is like starting with no. >> I think it's my own ████ ████ Seeing like my family going through that type of ████ where they're lending like they're too kind and they give their money away, you know? Like that type of ████ So, when I see that and I see I see like me and Tiff have that the same conversations with like her family as well. Like where she's like her parents would give too much money to people. You know, like that type of ████ where she felt like, "Hey, yo, chill the ████ out." >> You know what? I think I also have that gut instinct. I just have a stronger version of a stupid gut instinct, where like there are certain people in my life that it's like the gut instinct is yes. What's it for? It's like yes first. You're always just Like these people are like yes to anything. >> For sure. >> You know? It's like him being like, all

7:34 right, I guess yeah, you know? I guess I'm going to go ████ fight this other dude who wronged you. >> Yeah. >> You don't know that person. You're going to destroy them, but you're like, "Well, that's our code." >> I think but then it becomes too like I'm trying to think of like the closest person in my life, like one of the closest people outside of my family. >> So, let's just say David so hits you up and he's like 50 Gs. >> I'm like, "Sorry, dude. You got to talk to Bart instead." >> [laughter] >> You got to call Bart, bud. >> You got to talk to Geo to talk to Bree. >> Yeah, talk to Bart. Bart's going to call Geo. >> any amount. >> Geo's going to I can make a deal, but >> Get any amount you want. >> [laughter] >> And she gives the money to Geo. Geo gives to me. I give it to Nick. Nick gives it to Bree. >> We all go get pizza. Damn. >> But but then it goes to certain people, right? It's like, all right, well, like then it goes to my reputation with this

8:24 person, like okay, David, I know David is pretty responsible, but also does he leave his wallet everywhere? Yes. Does that make me nervous as a friend? Yeah, a little bit. So, it's like it it's my own ████ >> Wires only. >> [laughter] [gasps] >> But like yeah, I'll be like, "Hey, I can't give you 50, but I can give you this. You know, I give you 10. I give you 20." >> What if it's Coach Joe who asks? >> Yeah, that's different. >> Or Jeremy. Or what about Jeremy, too? >> Yeah, that's different. But Joe's on another level cuz Joe is like, you know, that's like >> Dang. Okay, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. >> He's also ████ He's helped me so ████ much, too. Like he's he's saved me. >> That's what I'm saying. When you got Yeah, I got I got people like that that saved me. >> And it's like, bro, if any of you guys ask me, there's a conversation, but it's

9:14 like, "Hey, bro, I can I I can only give you so much." >> I'm good for like I'm good for like 600, though, right? >> Yeah, I can help, but you know. >> Who's get Who gets the higher Who gets the higher loan? Uh Coach Joe or Gilbert? >> I don't know if it's higher. >> [laughter] >> I don't know if one's higher. I don't think it's about like the He gets 10,000. He gets 12. [laughter] I don't think it's that. Like for both of like for I would try my best to is >> No, but if you could put a number on it, me or Steve, like what? >> [laughter] >> Like who gets the higher amount? >> No, you guys are >> Who wins the video? >> Yeah. >> Basically is what we're asking. Once you're only >> Yeah, careful boys are one >> After all the times I saved you? >> Yeah, dude. Careful boys are one tier. >> That's fair. >> Right? >> But but we got sing the prom flu like the other day. >> [laughter] >> But even on the JK tier, I think maybe

10:06 Papa Bart, Papa Joe might be like a little bit under the same >> Just a little bit. >> Maybe a little bit. >> You know, I'll give I'll give it to I'll give it to Nick in that in that Careful Boys is like one tier and that means like for like uh Like that means in my life everybody's upgraded to like Ryan's tier. What tier is that? Cuz if Ryan needed to like borrow a hell of money from me, I'd be like, all right, Ryan, whatever you got, no questions asked, I'll give it to you. And for that reason everybody else in Careful Boys gets the same because we're all the same tier. >> I agree. >> Damn. >> Cuz there's like I don't that's how I think about like my groups of friends. Like there there are certain people I'm very close to. You know, I I would consider you guys in that group. You know, like we're all very like >> Yeah. >> We spend a lot of ████ time with >> But there's also like I feel like >> also, too. >> [laughter] >> Yeah.

10:56 >> Yeah, but like all of the time >> Right. >> Who else are >> You guys are the guys I talk to the most in my life. >> I don't talk to ████ [laughter] anybody else, really. >> Yeah. >> Outside of you >> We talk too much here, guys. >> I know too much about you guys. And your friends, too. >> We should just loan money IN A CIRCLE. >> [laughter] >> JUST FOR THE WE TALKED TO GEO >> YEAH, just for the gesture. >> [laughter] >> Only Geo loses money. We all just move it around. >> to know, Bart, what if I went to Geo for money and she went to you to get the okay, what would you say? >> I would trust whatever Geo's judgment was. >> Okay, what if I went to you? >> Skip Geo though. No, it's different cuz [laughter] like cuz like you know when you if you go to the club straight to the bouncer, like back of the line. But then if you go you're like, oh, I know this

11:46 promoter, front of the line. >> [laughter] >> Geo is the promoter. If you come straight to me, I'm like, what the ████ B? >> I'll [laughter] go to the back of the >> But if if Geo >> So neither of you guys owns the club? >> [laughter] >> Who says Taika? ████ it. >> Yeah, Taika technically owns the club [laughter] now. >> True, Taika owns the club. You got to just go straight to Taika. >> Yeah, cuz for me I think that amount was way higher before I had like a full-blown kid. And also in this like retirement phase of my life, I've been way more uh like stringent with how money flows because like it's almost like if you you you set up like one lemon tree, I know I'm only going to live off the this lemon tree. I can never out drink the lemonades off this the lemons

12:37 here. You know what I mean? So it's like way way way different. If I was actively making income, like if it was like Barbell Brigade days, I think it might be like 100 Gs like like uh like Anthony. But I was actively making income, right? So I can work a little bit extra harder for whatever. But now if the whole point is to chill, then it'll be like whatever's in my savings. That's That's also not in my >> I'm not saying I'm comfortable with the hunting. >> yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. >> I'm just saying you asked me the closest people in my life. If they're asking, they're uncomfortable. >> Yeah. But yeah, no questions asked would be like 10 or 20 Gs. I don't But anything after that, questions are going to be asked. >> [laughter] >> I'll question you. I'm asking you. >> You're a part of the process now. >> I'm just saying, yeah. >> Whatever it Whatever the situation you're in it now. That's what happens. >> Yeah, I'll be like, here's like 20 Gs. >> Yeah. >> There's more money here, but I'm asking

13:28 questions. >> [laughter] >> Damn. All right. Well, there'll be no answer at that point. They'll just be like, well, you know, I'm just trying to build. >> So, what [laughter] style? >> DUDE, ████ NO. >> WHAT? ARE YOU ████ SERIOUS? >> I'M GETTING IT BACK. I'M GETTING A 20 BACK, DUDE. >> Come on, man. >> Bro, you're 40 years old. We ain't BUILDING NOTHING. >> [laughter] >> LET US KNOW IN THE comments how much money you'd be willing to lend the closest person to your life. Um and then when it's time to borrow that money, just follow the Geo pipeline all the way up through Bree. >> Thanks, Geo.

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