0:00 thank you [Music] and welcome back to a very special careful boys we are very careful boys and today we're talking about who is the biggest impact on who you are today that's a good question damn these type of questions are crazy yeah the biggest wouldn't it be your parents who became I couldn't could necessarily be that if you want I don't appreciate Ryan laughing at him like that I think it's a combination I don't know if it would be like one takes like the fool who's around that's the biggest though what's the one you have to keep yeah I like that who's the Mount Rushmore who's about Rushmore oh I like that too it's the Rush Limbaugh and they got to be whites who's the oh okay
0:50 George Washington I have to be white Mr Rogers oh Mr Rogers he was my favorite white guy Mr Rogers man Steve Urkel was my favorite one but he's not white he's pretty white we just yelled he's not white his name's Julia white man that's a good ████ question the Full House dad Bob Saget he was like a father if I had to do a white Mount Rushmore you don't yeah oh because the white I mean Mount Rushmore is kind of white I've never changed the prompt it's already white we can only pick from one who are the greatest white people on the on the earth Bob Saget Jean-Claude Van Damme okay Mr
1:40 Rogers yeah and I think David Hasselhoff David ████ dude that's a sneaky pick pick the Honeys that give me boners as a kid that's tight that's tight but his son was so annoying I remember job or whatever his name was yeah oh the kid that they will be on yeah every week getting ████ almost killed by sharks and ████ also you're just envious very weak you're just envious that he gets to hang out with them yeah oh my God yeah yeah I would say my my amount rushed more of white guys would be the great whites would be Hulk Hogan oh Mr Belvedere okay all right all right um Mr Bill Dean huh Mr building Mr Belding you know that's a good one
2:30 that's a good one skins yeah I like him what about the Charles in Charge who's the boss guy remember Charles on Charles in Charge Scott Baio uh okay and then the last would be um Alan Greenspan all right Alan Greenspan chairman of the FED former chairman of the FED I don't know I just made that word up I knew he was an old special man oh dude good list ████ khabib number one come on dude no four whites bro Stone Cold Steve Austin oh that's a strong thing that's a strong white man ████ I think that's it dude that's a stone Cold Stone I like how we all have wrestlers
3:20 dude Stone Cold John Claude is up there bro okay Jean-Claude have you seen the splits ad yeah I might have just skipped over a legend who Okay Larry Bird no no Andre the Giant but I don't know if he's white because I saw him as a giant that's true he's above Race he looks like a caveman giant where is he from I think he's out of Texas he's from Austin I have no idea what are you guys as real Mount right now let's keep doing this what the ████ Archie Andrews you guys know what that is who's that from Archie Comics oh Archie oh yeah I think he's actually a dishonest answer he really is a big
4:10 reason because Archie in the comics he's he does every ████ job these are great white Rushmore this is a real Mount Rush well he's as he's the whitest yeah the real one yeah no so it's not even an uncle a a family it's just a ████ person you never met before Michael Michael J fox is one of them oh wow that's true I like Michael J fox it's a good pick so you're Mount Rushmore and your great white mouse or Mouse for the same thing oh you can only pick one out of the four it's white it's very strict yeah you know what we got to change it did I lose your Abraham oh you only could choose one so who's my my great emancipation who's your most fascist I'm really confused he suspended Mount Rushmore has four yeah you gotta have
5:00 one it was easier when it was four white guys yeah because you could choose them for different reasons I was doing a real family oh okay well then not your real person so wait explain the Archer thing why why Archie for you I'm very because I used to I grew up reading him in the comics and in order to maximize because he's in high school the whole ████ time right but in order to have like a million Archie comic stories he you have to give them different jobs and different lives and it just made me think one dude was able to do all of his Hobbies yeah and I was like wow that's really cool my dad did like so many different Hobbies but at like a certain degree yeah like he plays in a band he fixes his car he like he also is is not too cool to take a normal ass job working at a cafe like this guy's a
5:52 great great dude you're just explaining me yeah yeah Joe sees himself and everything truly Archie is JoJo right when Joe stands in front of a painting he takes the the colors and then he paints Joe over it yup yup he's like that's me up there really like in real real life damn that's a that's a hard one yeah those are tough can we do four can we pick at least four absolutely not okay it has to be four total or total thirty four you do whatever the ████ you want you do seven okay they just have meaning behind it for me I think the first one I'm talking about the number the first one is for sure my mom for both do's and don'ts so the dues that I thought was really dope of her is
6:42 um she got divor her my mama my dad got divorced when I was six and as a single mom I should never really let me feel Financial stress or anything like that and she always had this very like I can solve anything attitude so like when we got left the house um we had three other rooms so my me and my mom would go to the grocery store this is pre-craigslist pre whatever it would go to like the Chinese grocery store and put up like ads for like to seek roommates and stuff so that my mom was like no we'll find a way to like pay for the house and keep the house we don't have to sell the house or do whatever so I felt like I got my spirit of like there's always a way to solve a problem through that and she's she's like she's just tenacious like like there's if she wants to do something She'll always do it she doesn't understand the word no she doesn't
7:32 understand the words or consent she just goes yeah and then on the same side where like my mom like loves to like uh ████ contribute to Time Travelers I think it made me very very skeptical of like sneaky people and be able to like kind of smell scams come in a mile away so I think that really helped me the other one is probably my grandparents but those two would be just like it'll be a two-headed head on a one head on the Mount Rushmore because I think even though I didn't have parents that had like a loving relationship I think they were my role models of like how a relationship could play out because they would I would always see them as a kid like holding hands like arm and arm walking through the park and like just like look like at like a really lovey-dovey family that I
8:23 was like oh ████ like couples actually do this and you would just see how like um how Keen they are to each other's lives like if my my Grandpa would be like oh it's gonna be a girl Grandma's gonna take a nap now and then she'll look at his cigarette box and like make sure it's like she's my grandma likes to smoke cigarettes before she sleeps sorry girl but like okay we gotta go during lunch time we gotta go buy more cigarettes but they'll do like like little these little things for each other you know like uh like like lay out her toothbrush and they would just like have these little things for each other so that was like my role model for love I would probably say it's not as much of a big influence now but as a kid huge would be Bruce Lee because I think like
9:13 um like him being able to transcend all cultures and him even putting maybe Hong Kong Cinema on the map like he was just such a cool guy that I was like man this is like probably the first time where all my friends come over come over that weren't my culture watched a movie and said my culture was cool cool yeah yeah and I'm like wow that's really yeah that's a big deal and that was before like Panda Express orange chicken fourth one how come you have to have four I'm trying to well it's not much more who said you made this thing I don't know they said Mount Rushmore The Prompt is who the ████ is the biggest impact on who you became see
10:03 that's why I was like there was no route Rushmore yeah Nick started I didn't say Colleen said through Mount Rushmore and then I just did a bit about it about it's got to be white people she's obsessed with whites dude look at her she's obsessed with it oh and then the fourth one if I had to choose one is my junior high assistant principal Mr Tarpley shout outs to you um during the time where like I felt like my life was over because I already got kicked out like three elementary schools and um it felt like all the teachers hated me because I always got sent to the principal's office like almost every single day and so much to the point where the principal even believe in talk ████ like you're not gonna last here for long um the assistant principal he would bring me into his room and uh he just made his room like a safe place and he just made me feel like like
10:53 there is hope you know so when you feel like the world is against you and you're a ████ loser and you could only make mistakes just by him like um letting me be and not be ridiculed in the front office and just being in his room um watching him like smear all his papers because he's left-handed so I was just sitting oh no sign ████ and just literally smear everything and I'm like [Laughter] there's always this glimmer of hope where I'm like if this guy Believes In Me Like I think I can do better that's cool yeah so those are my four I love that thank you Mark that's tight and Mr Belvedere you want to add him to the list no number five no I like Mr Belvedere a lot yeah he was really good he was a very
11:44 yeah we all cried Father Figure man in your life was he yeah maybe we all needed a bear we didn't even know it's called bears I was thinking about something else I was like wait what like Steve's news I think that's it that's 12 minutes we're gonna end the video I'm really trying to dig deeply and to see like who really made positive impacts or negative but shape there's plenty of those but I feel like a lot of times when I back in the day when I put like these figures as my pedestal what I would do is like I'd start climbing right to the point where my crotch reaches their face and then I'm like slapping their face with it and then
12:35 above it and I'm looking down on them yeah so then like I'm like thank you for giving me a place to aim for but there was a time when I stop respecting you has that ever happened to you guys no I mean I'm Petty so I I sense where you're going with this because you're talking about your petty well that you drive energy from yeah yeah it's kind of like that but then in a different place I don't know how to explain it you have to conquer your enemies it's like like let's say there was a leader like a in your church or a pastor or someone that you looked up to and then you start to see that they're human not someone on the pedestal and then you surpass them in a lot of ways and you're like you're stupid and then used to think they were so smart or they were so
13:25 powerful and I've I've had so many of those instances happen very early that I don't know if I um I had a huge distrust in people or do you have skill sets or character traits that you're derived from them that you still rely on till this day I think there's positive and negative right like kind of like how you have like my mom is like I learned what not to do and what to do yeah so like public speaking or Charisma and things like that I think I picked up from like a lot of the extroverts in my family yeah today's video is brought to you by Warby Parker has this ever happened to you you're like oh I'm online shopping and these glasses they look so cool and it comes home and you get it and you put it on your life that's that's not what I bought it looks nothing like what it looked like in the pictures on the website
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15:56 like whatever so it's hard to Define I don't know okay so to simplify it right maybe there's teachers out there that felt like they're like oh you're cool there wasn't like and one was my Bible teacher in junior high and he would take like some of the students out fishing and all that and he stopped doing it because his wife was like Gabriel no no I went to a this is the Christian school I went to with Tim oh okay and back then it was more I feel like there was more Community you know like there wasn't this like everyone's trying to molest each other right so then like um so there's no he was a he was a teacher that was more like yeah he was he was really hands off it was different he was cool right and he took some of my um um buddies fish I was supposed to go fishing but it landed on a Saturday so I
16:46 had to go to church yeah and then it was like things like moments like that where teachers kind of it wasn't this like weird like I'm just punishing you and you're in trouble and then you'd follow rules those were the opening things of oh they're treating me human like they care yeah hmm yeah sure it's on a Saturday I know right monsters yeah how about it Colleen how about you yeah um I would say my family my mom my dad and my brother um my dad specifically just because he was such a curious person and he I was I I took traits of curiosity and variety driven in different like skill sets or interests so like my dad was a chess master he was like a professional rock climber like where you climbed tie
17:37 yourself to the side of the mountain and sleep keep climbing that's crazy he was a professional dancer and like traveled he was a he had like the first like LaserDisc store too or like Michael Jackson and Jay Leno came in oh wow he like cut film like this dude just did so much ████ like um which I think just opened up my mind to so many other things it made you think okay well I don't have to just be one thing or I have to try just one thing um so I think that was a big influence on my life for sure Nick Dunn you're up all right dude I got I've been thinking about this Rubik's cube in your head the whole time so I'm gonna stall for the next four minutes till this video's over I was stalling uh but I would say Obviously my mom and my dad right my mom she taught me
18:28 how to be a little ████ stop being a little ████ all the time dude that's what she taught me no but she she stays my mom is a hustler like she she gets after stuff she's always staying busy and she she knows how to be very um very light-hearted and I think I get a lot of my uh my social skills from my mom a lot of ways she's a really funny she's really funny mom's hilarious and he's really funny too he just no no no he's so funny [Music] you know like oh ████ like she's ████ really funny she's she's way funnier than I am because she says wild crazy ████ and she just she doesn't she's Unapologetic about it um my dad I think I learned from my dad how to be um just watching him move through life
19:18 he's very adaptable as soon as he ████ hit something he always finds a way to make something happen right um and I think that's a really important skill set to to learn and to understand that like okay yeah if you get into a spot where say in a job you can't do this anymore you could always pivot and do something else and you'll be fine like just keep moving as soon as you stop you're dead in the water right um one later in my life was probably my Jiu Jitsu Coach Joe the guy that is the black belt at our gym uh he's he taught so much to me just based on being the most selfless kind of coach teacher always thinking about being just improving no matter what and he kind of he's one of those guys that just leads by example doesn't really
20:08 talk much about like you know some people they're they're kind of fake about like the things that they do and all that he was one of those dudes that would just do things and we would watch and observe and we would just be like okay that's just the move that we're on like he creates a Vibe of self-improvement without even having to talk about it all the time you know and because we could see how he leads from the front we all kind of take notice and I think that's been so helpful for all the guys that came up with him and there's a reason why all these he has like a what's the word I'm looking for he has a whole group of people that would do anything for him just because of that nice you know and his Brotherhood yeah exactly like everyone will ride for this dude he's real nice too yeah he's like one of the most selfless dudes ever you know and he's done so much for me
20:58 without even asking for anything back in return he's he's just that kind of guy and um I think later in my life I I can it's helped me so much in the things that I've done and how to just to move forward so he's definitely one of those guys that's up there and it's something that I kind of really didn't think about until these past couple weeks of like damn this dude actually is a huge impact on who I am today I think wow especially later in my life yeah wow that's beautiful dude thank you I can tell you're like this close to crying honestly no I love that guy he's really nice he's the man how about you guys oh look no more time dude well I'm letting him are you good but also too it's kind of hard to find
21:50 the words to describe all these things because you don't you ask some good ████ questions dude I don't really think about it like because you're probably right there's so many people that influenced everyone here and then like we probably don't give credit to where it's due because it's just you absorb these traits as a human and not know where they came from yeah you don't think about it no because you really don't think about it yeah that's why and you might even be wrong attributing benefits to someone that didn't even really deserve it right no yeah it's true because I give my grandma hella praise and my mom was like I did that ████ and I'm like oh my bad that was you I thought it was my grandma yeah oh my bad yeah um I wish I ████ knew what happened to this guy but um it was my principal when I was uh
22:41 I think when I was a junior he was only principal for like a year or two at San Gabriel Academy and then I guess everybody hated him or like they wanted him out because turns out he was just like gonna write some book and that's the only reason he wanted to be principal was to like have the experience so then like nobody liked them but then this dude like I wasn't even super close to him but I think he like he did a good job observing all the students in the school and he knew I was like super ████ at school like I was pretty bad and then uh at the end of the year he was like hey I'll get you excused from like first uh and second period if you come do this thing and I thought he was gonna uh ask me to like do a favor or like do some work and then it turned out he had me come to this like like uh I guess there's like something called a Bavarian Club where
23:31 they're like a community of like old dudes that are kind of like an Elks Lodge yeah yeah and then so uh sing German songs or something sort of like a Steiner scope yeah it's like a thing like that and I guess he was a member and he brought me to their like they have like a pancake breakfast that they do and they do it once a year where they award one student um like a small Grant and like a certificate but only if the student uh showed like high signs of creativity so it had nothing to do with grades wow that like nominated me for it and then I I went there with my even no I guess he just like saw the ████ that I do in school I saw the hairstyles or something and then he and then like uh so I go in there and then he's like uh yeah just tell them a little bit about yourself and then like I you know told them what I like to do whatever they're all like
24:21 clapping and then they gave me this thing and that's like the first time I got anything like that wow that wasn't like directly correlated to like oh you got an A or a b or a C or D you know like and then um that fool is just telling me like hey you know it's not all about getting good grades right and I was like what that's a mic drop kind of yeah for a kid especially at that time yeah principal too yeah and I didn't know that he was going to be gone I thought I was gonna see him next year was he was he in the chair backwards you know it's not all about the grades and he told me like this yeah dude I'm so relatable it was like it was how much did he give you you're sick it was like super not much but then the the main thing was that uh his so his name is Dr Penner and then um I remember that it
25:12 made me realize that like doing something creative was worthwhile because I've never been rewarded for it like you like you get trophies for doing like piano or whatever the ████ but like in terms of what I thought was goofing off he saw it as like hey keep doing that because that could be a thing someday and I was like no what how and no one ever would ever tell you that yeah so it's nobody no adult would tell you that and he was literally the only adult in four years of high school to actually Target it like that out of the game and then he pieced out I never saw him again I don't know if he like passed away by now or something and there's no record of him ever existing he was an angel he was a fever dream appeared in the message he's Michael Landon from Highwood Evans that's sick yeah I was trying to look him up right now but I can't even figure out his first name I can't figure out Mr
26:02 Tarpley my sister principal I'm trying to look look him up for years but it's just it was during that time predates the uh the public storage of data yeah they made such an impact on you guys you forgot their ████ names I know mine this is Marlon yeah but yeah it's it's crazy to think that that that does change everything even though it was like that one gesture because really I thought all the creative stuff I liked doing was a distraction from what I'm supposed to be doing so it's like oh like you shouldn't be doing that until this is done but then here I was like oh there's a good side to it yeah yeah what about you quickly right in and out Bill Murray for sure because I remember watching Ghostbusters a little kid and going like that's what I want to do and be funny person and then that was awesome for me but then like
26:53 um my grandfather definitely for showing me my father and my grandfather for showing me like what's what it's about like being a man what it's about and like how important it is to like you can't just like be a like um you know a forceful person like my grandfather I always thought I was like this forceful person and ████ he's a veteran veteran Marine badass ████ when he got taken to the hospital at the end of his life he had just gone to Costco like two days prior and they're like this guy has like four broken ribs and he he wasn't even in the hospital for that like he was just on another level never ever let them see you bleed was this whole thing like you just don't like bleed on people like you just you know you're you're a strong person as ████ but then that's another beautiful thing I learned from him because he would always shut himself in I think he was dealing with a lot of pain obviously physical pain not that I know that but
27:44 he would he would like watch movies on full blast in the other room he's like watching old war movies and ████ like ████ like like Bunker Hill and just ████ that nobody wants to sit there and watch right the river Bears over the river dude ████ all this terrible ████ and then um and so I but I think that you know watching him do that I was like I don't want to be that guy like I don't want to be the guy where everyone is like my family's around and I am absconded it's like alienated yeah yeah and and who knows what he was doing with I try not to judge obviously but it's like man I really did learn like like so much strength from him but then I saw so much weakness in that and I tried to do the opposite of that tried to be empathetic try to understand where people are coming from a lot more um and then obviously I think that um
28:34 I think that Hitler for what not to do thank God for that last [Music]
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