0:00 Chinese poems have movements it's the the sh Yan dance performance no way you have to learn Shen and have two two spinning [Music] plates what do you guys as Asian women feel about the neck shark complaint that like Asian girls won't date Asian guys have you heard that oh I mean yeah I've heard that yeah it's not very often that we get two girls of you know taies are you guys into Asian guys or I never was no never was what so is she's the perfect person they don't like that what did she say never was what never was into Asian guys but I've dated some I have oh that's interesting so you
0:52 never were but you actually dated what's that wait how does that work okay but okay Arcadia High it's like as yeah limited options that's true yeah there's not a lot to choose from I see but what does that mean to not be into them but you still dated them so like that's that's interesting no no no it's not my first okay that's going to sound bad you're going to say hold on it's your spare tire no no sometimes you got to ride that spare tire no no no no no but there's got to be some attractiveness to be able to do it right if you're asking for initial like what my preference is that would not be my first choice but I like just human beings so like I'm not like oh you're Asian you're out like I wouldn't do that that's hilarious though
1:43 you're out but I think that is what whatever like that thing is where it's like oh no I don't want to date Asian men because whatever the um I don't know back then it was like oh they're not as manly or whatever was like the stereotype which now is like completely the opposite because of like two man they hit you now I was thinking more K-pop now every everyone wants oh K-pop oh yeah K-pop my bad yeah yeah K-pop did a really good uh thing for them yeah are you into Asian guys or no um I've dated Asian men um I don't really have like a preference like ethnicity or whatever so just whoever's cool whoever whoever's less
2:33 Asian no the guy that I dated in um College was Cantonese oh wow is that allowed if you're Taiwanese Rivals yeah I don't think there's an issue between that's was my parents my mom's tanese my dad's Cantonese and my mom thought my dad was a villager wait does your dad speak Cantonese around you with with his family yes but at home with spoke Mandarin doesn't it sound like they're always yelling and angry at each other always yelling always angry that's what it sounds like and they have less rules than Taiwanese families do so it was like it it felt like my mom was always likeu ████ Savages but to the outside world it's
3:23 just Chinese people that's right yeah I would go to my ex's like house and then like his dad would come over and I'm like oh my god what happened like should I not be here it's like no he's asked what we want for lunch and I'm like oh okay I thought he was what does that sound like how do you say what do you want for lunch there just the tones are like it sounds like that rice fried rice it's like German sounds angry oh yeah and then the you know like deal like it's it's ████ and they say in regular language you could be like at the bank and they're like oh like can you see if I have a overdraft and they like dude imagine on a Bank of America and they're like hey can you look at my account they like ████ ████ like that's how crash the language is they
4:13 really just say ████ normal vocabulary and everyday life de like ████ you go to a seafood store and they're like hey you want this Lobster in the bucket and then the L let's say the lobster a little bit small D like it's that's normal is that how you pronounce it yeah d d d e u d e i u do how many D's but it means ████ and it's that's how crash the language is everyone just saying ████ all the time damn ████ ████ that's kind of sick yeah but then like so a Taiwanese person would see that and be like God there's almost no cuss words there's almost zero cuss words in Mandarin yeah there is like what that's like your mom okay to be fair I don't know that much yeah I don't know like like like B then it's like stupid egg stup stupid
5:04 egg is that really what that means yeah but cantones is like ████ your mom you ████ like yeah f word that you can't say anymore wow I've always I've always been taught that Mandarin is like more proper and Cantonese is like the dirtier like cese is crazy it's pretty dirty right it's pretty dirty apparently ████ your old mom you speak mine still still um yeah I speak only conversation accent you speak it what did you grow up speaking out in the house Mandarin oh really yeah but then I would like respond to my mom in English and I went to school Chinese school for 10 years and that was such a waste of money cuz I used to read write and like we we would like U recite these like chines poem like yeah no not Opera just like the Chinese poems but like with the
5:54 movements and stuff and I used to be really good and now could not do a single thing like none of it stuck literally none of it Chinese poems have movements it's the the sh Yan dance performance no way that's what you learn you have to learn shenyun oh so 7,000 years of Chinese history and now two two spinning plates that's what that's what she did I think the um what were you saying earlier the OG question right I was I I had I had some backup question cuz that complaint that complaint is so among Asian guys that they they're so mad that like Asian women have a preference against them I think it's interesting is like when I've heard um Asian girls have preferences or whatever right it's mostly at least the ones that I ran into
6:44 are the ones that grew up around like mostly white or whatever or they're adopted yeah so they feel comfortable in that world versus like actually dating an Asian guy is maybe foreign to them so I I've heard that before but I haven't heard the other part where you know some of these guys say that uh girls are like they hate their own culture or whatever yeah that's the complaining guy that says that right right but then I I think it's interesting to hear from like someone's perspective of I mean everyone has different preferences right that's normal everyone's allowed to every had different porn searches like like for you for example you grew up in a pretty much all Asian neighborhood right so like when did you get I guess even like that chance to
7:34 date or like meet guys that um if you're only around Asian guys all the time like you had to go to college or like outside it was all Asian but also I started dating outside in college oh okay yeah but also I mean what you're saying might have so I so my stepdad is Cuban so I grew up in a mixed family although I did spend I I mean it's predominantly Asian but I guess I did have some sort of mix in my upbringing so are you what what's your preference you like Cuban Guys now cuz they're like white guys Cuban Cuban Filipinos well my husband is white yeah so so that's your preference so yeah but it was never specific to like
8:25 oh that's a white guy all right I'm going to go for that guy like you know this what you're naturally I think that's what those guys are imagining though that's what I thought when I saw Paul Walker when I saw Paul Walker I was like man if I was a girl I'll go after that yeah he's hot yeah PA Walker come on but I also think these dudes are tripping cuz you know there's a ton of like Tik toks of like black chicks Hispanic chicks they're like I like Asian dudes but they don't come and talk to me yeah so I just think it's just shy ass dudes yeah it's just shy ass dudes in general regardless of what race you are if you're just yeah if you're not out there talking to people no one's going to get to know who you are they're just butt hurt cuz I just remember like years ago I was at a club and some guy was like trying to talk to me and I was like not interested like you don't don't buy me a drink it's like what you don't like Asian guys and I'm like what it's like can I just not like
9:16 you yeah how about just you I don't like you like you George George definitely not a George I was like I where did the this come from and I was just like okay like don't talk to me any inse security cuz like I think um I I forgot where I saw this but there was a clip and it was a girl talking about how um she didn't want to date Asian guys because it reminded her of the there's a paternal Instinct yeah or like something off like that right or like girls with I I guess they might have ran into a girl that said that in the past but I I think that's rare like most people that like prefer a certain type they're not they're not doing it because they're disgusted or like like someone you know like I think most people will date but
10:07 then like they just prefer like you you dated Asian guys but you prefer a white guy or whatever so it's like I think it's the initial attraction it's it's not even it's not even prefer like oh like physical attractiveness like if you guys are like if you like boobs or butts like it's like the same you know I feel like that's why I'm wondering like why just trying to be so straight oh yeah oh yeah now you're speaking my language now it makes sense guys have preferences too right guys have preferences too we have cultural preferences we have like body preference and types why is it that when women do it's all of a sudden weird yeah that's weird and it's it's funny like we were always joking about like I think we have enough Asians in the world too like we're not running short that we
10:57 need to make we need to make sure we make pure Asians right now well most of the people that I know are in mixed relationships like mixed like you know couple like he's a product of yeah he's a product of one yeah also we talking about like when we talk about Asians it's like are you also talking like different types of Asians like you know what I mean it's like oh likees yeah yeah yeah that's true like those yeah like you're half Chinese half Cambodian that's a good point because it's it's our for parents generation that's even rare yeah that's considered interracial in our parents yeah that's true cuz like yeah Japanese and Japanese is like that's all they do when they come to America they still and so so you're a product of like some revolutionary ████ right here dude 1ent her baby so when when a girl is not
11:48 interested do you say what you don't like black guys or you say Asians whichever the opposite she is usually did your dad ever tell you what he saw in your mom m no no really you never asked that little Asian thing like that have have a seat son no it's funny though cuz they met they met roller skating which is I think is funny oh ████ that's so cute that's really cute I was like that's in Japan rolled up to her like in Japan that's dope I I guess I don't I don't really know the full story they had a mutual friend was is like another black dude so my mom knew this dude and then he knew my dad how come your mom knew so many black dudes I was like well Okinawa right so my mom's from Okinawa so it's like mainly like mostly
12:38 americ like mostly black dudes there's a lot there just cuz of the mil the military maybe your mom's like I have a black preface you know what though in Hawaii so at at my shop Juni I want to say like he's so uncomfortable we had about five or six blazion because the mil right like a lot of military kids you know they find love out in Asia and stuff and then they all like gorgeous G blazion man yeah thanks because we look Alik I said that I should ask them that question though I never really asked dude that would be funny well like roller skating yeah it's really funny I I mean like I don't know my dad was never home often so I never really got to ask these questions so but yeah military away
13:31 would he like respond well to being asked that at this point do you think probably yeah this might be the right time after his like testosterone calm down he's like a regular ass dude exactly I mean I've always wanted to ask him about more about like his work and stuff and like like what he do his dad is a special forces like military did you did you ask your mom did you ask your mom how come you only date black guys like he's mad about the result no so the crazy what's wrong with Japanese guys no so what the crazy thing is I think my mom's only been in one relationship and has been with my Dad wow that's my mom too wow they were in school together wow and my mom's like I was number one in the class and your dad was number two he's like but he was number one male so it's like that means she dated down in Taiwanese yeah she gave him a chance
14:24 they met when they were 18 and then the rest is history in high school um I think college yeah wow but is your mom like is she kind of like you should date a Asian guy does she care my mom is very like she's like don't have kids don't get married unless if you really really want to don't have kids don't get married like she's not don't they want grandkid and stuff no they don't care yeah they're very like unless you really want to it's a big commitment and I'm not your caretaker what did you do to her no what me he's like don't have kids not at all you're going to regret it just make sure you want want one no but it was always like don't think that we are expect like we're not don't have the pressure of it from them that's kind of cool pressure yeah they're like I don't
15:15 care that's so un Asian very un Asian yeah cuz I swear Asian parents are like they don't even care about your situation they just want babies they're like you don't have a husband well you could still have a kid right they're like oh you're broke you have any money well you could still have kids that doesn't cost anything damn what do they eat like this much no my well where like a lot of people like just have the kid we'll watch it for you yeah but yeah not but your mom's like don't have the kid cuz I ain't watching I don't know I've never dealt with that so that's cool that she doesn't pressure you about that yeah and I have a niece now and I definitely feel like sometimes my mom is doing what she didn't want to do like babysitting a lot and whatnot doesn't want to do that no she does like she'll do it but she's like really tired after she's like kind of
16:06 like she's like this sucks don't have kids
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