0:00 Okay, this is going to be a bad question, okay? But you can answer it however you want. You can um you can call this person stupid for even asking it. It's not me. Okay, I read it somewhere and I thought it was a very interesting question cuz everyone started flaming over it. >> Bree's going to go first. >> Okay, Bree's going to go first. >> Bri question is why are so many women attracted to domestically violent men? >> H [laughter] drink for all women. >> Yeah. Not not speaking from experience at all. Um I think well obviously it doesn't happen right away. >> Okay. >> That's what a lot of people are. >> It doesn't happen right away. You get stuck. It happens once. >> They say I'm sorry. >> They continue to do it.
0:50 >> You're stuck. You're in love. Blah blah blah. When you're with someone, you don't see your life without them. >> Right. Yeah. >> So, it's hard to leave. >> It's hard to leave >> cuz it's almost like easier to live in the pain than to leave and be in like the unknown type >> or be alone. Yeah. >> Cuz like it's same thing with cheating, right? >> And how which way is the same? >> And like this is from experience where I've been with someone for years that constantly cheated on me. >> Constantly cheated. >> Yeah. Like constant >> catching them every single time or you caught them at the end having done it a million times. um towards the end. >> Okay. And it was all like kind of snowballing. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> But you're also like, damn, like I don't want to start over. >> I don't want to be alone. He won't do it again. >> You're kind of in denial.
1:41 >> I feel like it's similar to domestic violence. >> Okay. >> What do you think about like this? What do you think about this situation, though? >> Remember when this guy who was really hot? I don't even think it was a real guy. It made a Tinder account and um on the bio he said that you know just full disclosure I have been convicted of domestic violence in the past and still he got like hundreds of matches. >> That's easy. I think it's cuz like chicks are like oh I got my ass beat before and now he's fine. >> Yeah, I got my ass beat by ugly dudes already. I never got my ass beat by a fine guy. >> And this one being convicted. Hopefully he learned his ways. >> Yeah. You think there's some grace there that women might have for like, well, he's hot. >> Yeah. >> Like my the last guy that cheated on me was ugly. Now this is going to be fine and cheat on me. And then him saying it too, that kind of does something to me.
2:33 [laughter] >> He's so honest. >> He's such a nice guy. >> I think because like they're used to it, too. They're used to it. >> They're conditioned. >> Yeah. >> You mean the ones that responded or women in general? >> The women that go for that? >> Ah, it's familiar. >> Yeah. like they've been in those >> or they feel like that's my level of worth. >> Is it a self-esteem thing? >> Like I'm trying to get into the next domestic violent relationship like I miss one or maybe that's what they're comfortable with. >> Yeah. It's like a comfortability type of thing where it's like it's happened three times with my past exes. It's going to continue to happen. >> Like you know some chicks only like date thugs and then they like the same drama happens and they're like why do you keep dating thugs >> but it's the life that they know or whatever. So they're like, "Ah, but that's comfortable, so I understand this." >> Or maybe some people have that like hopelessness of everybody's going to do.
3:25 >> Yeah, that too. >> Or I could save him. >> I can save him. >> He won't beat me. >> How common? >> Yeah, there's that. >> I don't know. Am I imagining that that's more common than it is that women want to save a guy? They want to change him to the good version of himself. >> Yes. I I feel like a lot of women try to do that. So that's the thing like you hear people like with that actual mission where they're like he's ████ but after I'm with him. >> No, not initially. They're not going into the relationship to do that. >> They're in the relationship. He's ████ >> I'm going to try to change him, >> you know? >> But like if I if you know he's ████ you're not going to start anything with him. >> So it's probably So yeah, you find out he's ████ I see. >> What do you think, Anthony? Why is it why is it that women are attracted to violent men? And I got to speak on behalf of all
4:15 women. >> Do it. You can speak on behalf of Viet guys. [laughter] >> The dude's doing it. >> That's I think that's the the easiest or quickest go-to, right? It's it's the daddy issues type thing. It's like the it's the reflection of their own relationship with their father. But let's let's not go self-proclaimed Joe philosophical therapist ████ real quick. >> Let's let's try and Yeah. Joe, maybe just at the end of the day, what's the other option, right? is if the other option is just like the nice guy, maybe that's just weak to them. It's just boring. It's just not fun. And if you're saying the compromise is like, let's say, yeah, I might get beat like 3% of the time, but 97% of the time I'm going to enjoy it a lot more than 100% of the safness over there, maybe. I don't know. You know, there there's a I got I got this stupid thing in me, too, where I'm
5:05 like I know that if I drink or if I smoke or something, it's going to kill me fat. It's not good for my health. But it's fun right now. >> I feel good for a little bit. >> Oh, you just do ████ sometimes. >> Yeah. >> And it's maybe it's that version of advice for a person knowing that it's not right for you, but knowing that like it gives you a certain type of thing and the mental gymnastic go like this is what makes life fun. And so I'll take it comes with the surgeon general warning, >> but I'm not doing it for the warning. Yeah, >> I'm not smoking this cigarette because it's going to give me cancer. I know that the risk is cancer. Um, I'm not smoking for the cancer. I'm not going to date this hot ass dude to get beat. I know the risk is I might get beat. >> It's like King Taco. You know, you're going to get diarrhea.
5:56 >> Yeah, we should roll those dice. >> Right now, it tastes bomb. >> You're like, "Maybe I won't this time." And then you go, >> "Maybe I won't get diarrhea." >> And then there are the one or two times you don't. They're like, "See, it's okay. Broken clock is right." And and then later on you get diarrhea and you're like, "F███. [laughter] I was too early." And then and then your family is like concerned like, "Why do you keep eating that? You're going to get diarrhea." And then you're like, "Not all the time." You have to deny that you have diarrhea or it tastes so good. Come on. It just tastes better than that taco. It's clean. I get it. But it just it just tastes better. Some people probably look at it as almost like a side effect of what that choice is. like it's it's gonna come with it no matter what. >> Maybe maybe they also already dated a nice guy and it was just genuinely also whack. I don't know. I I >> that's that's a tough one. That's a tough one. Obviously, cuz I'm not a ████ woman. Uh and I don't
6:47 understand. But I I that's my related part like I I do things that I know are harming my health anyway. >> Yeah. >> The funny thing I guess like from the reason I'm asking also is cuz like from the other half of the situation, right? Like I don't know if you guys have ever known dudes who were physical with women in that way. They are not starving for women at all. >> Never. See that >> where it's odd to me. >> That's what I was going to say. >> Yeah. >> Is that guys who beat up their girls, they have a lot of game. >> Have an endless line. >> And and and I think it and it's for the same reason why like we talked about how we liked the movie Obsession, right? >> Yes. And we talked about how like the whole point of the movie is like the dude who's the sn like he's the nice guy ends up being kind of like he's like a piece of ████ in his own way. Right. >> Actually on his end to her. >> Yeah. Exactly. And I feel like sometimes
7:38 with these nice guys they don't attract girls because they're just like please pick me and they'll never get picked. But the the ████ guy who is very assertive and is like yo I think you're fine. What's up? And she's like oh you think I'm fine? and then like you know and then it goes just because he was being forward and like kind of take took a chance. And I think it's not necessarily that girls like these guys because they're bad or whatever. It's because they're more forward. They're they're willing Yeah. They're willing to take a chance. You know what I think the real reason is? >> I think it's cuz chicks are ████ dumb. >> Cuz like watch there's a chick, right? Watch watch watch. There's a there's Imagine Imagine this chick. Okay, we'll do a test. We'll do a test. We'll do a test. >> Okay. Test test test at the bar. >> Okay, but he's at the bar. >> Two dy, they get into a ████ big ass
8:29 fight. Then we'll call the guy ████ Rocky or something. >> Rocky comes, ████ some dude up. He gets thrown over here. He gets thrown over there. ████ beating the ████ out of like, "Yeah, that's right, motherfucker." Right. He gets thrown out. >> And then like, let's say, uh, that's Rocky. Person A. >> Yeah. >> Person B. Rocky, another guy ████ fighting. He's like, "Hey, don't you ever ████ do that again." Person B comes in and he goes, "Stop. EVERYBODY JUST STOP." >> DID YOU MAKE HIM sound like that? >> Yeah. >> Stop everybody. Let's have peace. [laughter] >> Right. >> You mean you meet both of them. You meet both of them in the alleyway. Everyone's smoking a cigarette outside. You're smoking a cigarette. >> Squeaky squeak. Squeak. [laughter] Squeak. If Rocky or Nathaniel asked [laughter] you for your number, what are
9:20 the chances you giving it to Rocky and you giving it to Nathaniel? >> But Nathaniel with that voice would never break up a fight. [laughter] Like he would never even step in the middle of a fight if he sounds like that. >> That's a false premise. >> Yeah, but stop. [laughter] No. >> And but they wouldn't listen to him if he sounded like that. >> No, but that's just his voice. So, but like this fool's like buff. He's yolked and he just comes in. He's like, "Stop." All right, but he's like, >> "Yeah, >> well, but he's gay." [laughter] >> Yeah. So, he's not going to ask for my number. >> He's not gay. That's just he just does moves like that. >> Cuz I just think there's something I don't know. Maybe there's something like where chicks are looking at an extra layer, you know, like the whole like Sydney Sweeney commercial thing. It's like >> women see something else. >> Well, layer one, it's maybe she is putting sports back, women sports back, whatever. Right. Right. But if you zoom out, what she really is doing is a great
10:10 business move. Sure. >> Crazy conversion >> company that she's an owner of. Yeah. >> Yeah. So maybe if the chicks are looking at like let's say Rocky like hitting a ████ chick or whatever. It's like yeah domestic abuse but then zooming out enough like that's kind of ████ sexy. >> Oh yeah. At a point it gets sexy >> or you just feel like I don't know the the dude's more alpha or something. >> Yeah. >> Versus like you meet a guy like hi nice to meet you. I never hit chicks. Then you're like >> that's a gay dude. [laughter] That's a gay. >> That's a gay. Like you can't >> Why are you gay? These premises don't make sense. >> It doesn't. [laughter] >> No guy is leading with you. I used to be my last girlfriend. What's up? You trying to kick it later? >> To be straight and say, "Let's have peace." [laughter] >> No, but I think girls do like when guys
11:00 are like Rocky. >> Yeah. >> For some reason, >> I think there's a little bit of like for some reason at the end of the day, too, it's like uh your protector. >> Yeah. >> Right. Like you you want to be the guy who's getting his ass beat or be with the guy who's get you know what I mean? You're not thinking, "Hey, which one's going to whoop my ass if I get in a fight?" >> Like when your protector turns on you, you know? Yeah. You're not you're not going out there to date and be like, "Okay, if I got in a fight with this guy, >> where's my safety?" versus getting in a fight with the hot guy and buff guy, you know? That's not the question. You're just more like a Well, that looks like a capable one. So, it's worth having a protector as long as he doesn't turn on you all the time. But like she said, you don't know in the beginning. >> You don't know. Yeah. guy getting his ass beat. He's like, "I'm 6 feet. I make six figures." [laughter] >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> That's like That's literally everything that >> that's everything you want, but he's getting his ass beat. >> I don't think [laughter] I think that
11:51 was on the list, though. Like also getting your ass beat. >> The one that's getting beat was not on the list. >> No way. >> Okay. >> Oh, you're right. [laughter] Yeah. Yeah. You're right. You're right. He wasn't even choosable. >> He's in the He's >> He's an option now. [laughter] >> Okay. Now, option C. >> I want the guy that's getting beat up. Oh, really? >> Oh, she's like maybe a a mother bear taking care of him. Yeah, >> but he's 5'4. >> No, he's 6. >> He was he he was yelling he was 6 feet, but who knows? >> He was 6 feet, >> but he's [laughter] >> he's like looking up at you. Hey, thanks. Thanks for saving me down there. He's actually 5'8. He's >> He gets up at you. >> Hey, [laughter] he's he's 32. >> He's dusting himself off. Hey, thanks. Nice to meet you. [laughter] >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's the guy you like. >> You saved my life. >> Stop fighting everybody. >> Six-pack. beat up. >> Thanks for saving me. But he's getting beat up. >> Well, maybe he's not a fighter. >> Yeah, he's not. He's not.
12:41 >> Or No, that's another guy. [laughter] >> There's three guys. >> No, there's three guys. Two of them are gay, though. >> One is unattractive. The other two are gay. >> Oh my god. >> Rocky's gay. I think he is. Oh, [laughter] >> is he not? >> No, the beater is not gay. >> Usually that's the gayest guy. >> Some people need a beard >> inside. Oh, yeah. Euphoria >> inside. He has the highest likelihood of gayness. >> Yeah. >> Undercover. >> The peace guy has the lowest likelihood. The peace guy's going to beat your ass out. >> Don't beat up. >> Getting beat up. >> There you go. Now we've arrived back at the chances of getting beat up by all men is still there. So, you might as well be with the hottest one. >> No. [sighs] >> I don't believe her. >> What? >> I believe she's going to go for the guys getting his ass whooped. [laughter] >> What if he's not fighting back because he's in the army and he's not allowed?
13:33 >> Oh, yeah. Yeah, there you go. >> He's like, "My hands are ████ registered weapons. I can't. >> I'm not allowed to. I'm as deadly as Steven. I can't. [laughter] I'll go to jail. I'll kill everyone in this club. >> MY BODY'S A MY BODY'S A WEAPON. I'm not allowed to. >> I'm a nuclear weapon. If I let it go, I'll kill everybody. >> I've seen Conair and I know the ENDING. PERMISSION TO DEFEND MYSELF, SIR.
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