0:00 [Music] all right welcome back everybody to part two of the car boys meeting ATI above the influence today we're sitting with wac and Esther and V and also Kira over here brand new creators that we've never met before rising up on the scene up and coming just started a um a couple weeks ago on a new podcast thank you so much for giving us a chance we're just buying the dip that's all let's go buy the dip iszy when they get too big they're not coming back they're not coming back that's what K she's like oh this a low point I'm jumping right in smart girl so tell us above the influence what what's the ethos behind that where where you
0:51 guys going with that I feel like uh even with with uh Under the Influence like we were doing it for about 2 years all together and in those two years like who we were when we started and what the show became like by the time it ended was so completely different like all of us started to care like he didn't believe in God for say like that just one aspect right in the beginning of the show and then to becoming a Christian now like everyone's Journey trying to kind of just like really evolved the things we are interested in and like um so with that like it kind of felt like we're no longer like under the influence you know what I mean like like like where we weren't just like partying and doing ████ all the time where we're like you know we're all a little bit more mature and ████ natural 20s to 30s trans literally that so it kind of almost feels like God driven that like that happened at the time cuz I don't think I would have ever left that situation all the work we did to build that page right and
1:41 um and then that means it would have kept being owned by company that will not be named but um but yeah now now it's ours and we can do what we want with it and reflects where we are the good old buddy Jeremy yes living in my house yeah she she keeps them locked up there yeah shut up when it's time to eat come here boy here's your Gro I just want to make it very clear to a lot of people are always guessing like oh there's a Jeremy that no Jeremy is our boy through and through still one of my greatest friends one of the people yeah one of the people that helped me out the most in La biggest reason I moved here the man no hard feelings towards him and um but yeah but he is unable to be involved for all his own personal reasons yeah yeah no for sure thank God cuz I really like his videos where he swallows all those pills new arc is crazy I'm not I don't know why I never think I would like that
2:31 kind of content but I'm like that's a lot of pills I don't think he SW and he does it every day and you never see nobody do that online and I'm like that's crazy and I was like I should take more vitamins I was like he tells me you you wouldn't understand how many DMS from guys I get I'm just like why are you telling me this yeah I think he said this is like the most engagement he's ever had L I can see why from pill swallow have you seen how many pill they're big pills they're not like it's a lot he he he says ladies get your man yeah yeah ████ now the funniest thing is um when uh when it was like all closing down he like put a goodbye message in our UTI Discord follow everyone to see what kind of content they're going to come up with personally and then the like the people that are now in the ATI Discord find it so funny that the only thing they've seen from Jeremy since is throat goat here watch me swallow 30 bills at
3:22 once but it's it's great content I'm a fan of it so how come you guys decided to add two more uh like cast members uh I think we want to build a six like uh like get like we want more just because like um I think our like our format can sustain it you guys have a lot right like you guys have like too much yeah High regret over here high level regret it's a lot of people to manage and even vit right now is kind of like an on in off like reoccurring guest uh and then like eventually he'll he'll become a host again but Kira was just somebody that we need another girl that was a number one thing and then Kira was somebody that I saw like okay she's the one of the very few people I've seen where like I have evid and she can podcast you know and um so it worked out nicely same with Jordan he's been on UTI episodes before and he's just a homie so you said you said he has ████ you money what what did he do to that happen I'll let him explain more when he gets here
4:12 but he so he's on his way right now but he um he owns like a slew of like music marketing and tech companies in the music space wow and he's just been on on his entrepreneurship he's 26 by the way he's been on his entrepreneur ████ since he was like 15 and just to get an idea of like how much ████ money he has he spends $150,000 a month on on his girlfriend W on his girlfriend more than what I miss I wonder if he wants another side chick right I was like that should have been me he does like Asians yeah he does I think we're in dude hey we're all in hey 6 for one hey we could split the 100K that's true Caucasian no Caucasian 34.5% in Caucasian like yes no bro he could have a herum here we're going to be so nice when he gets here we're going to be so nice Asians he walks in everyone's like holding his
5:02 hand likeing to his SE yeah hey that's still good hey 100K split by 6 150 oh don't cut a short all G all good dude well no I was taking 50 cuz I'm the leader so I don't know dude we negotiate we'll see what Jordan says when he gets yeah but he'll figure out the splits okay so kir what's your story oh um what is my has so many we talking about Jordan when he gets here no no yeah that's true should I just tell you guys a story to ask ask her about absolutely ask her about her relationship structure oh my God that's a CRA that's I never heard that before structure so man this is always like my first impression I'm like whatever at this point I'm sorry should we start with something else oh it's okay well all the boring ████ like my career no
5:52 one cares she's also smart ask ask what she did before she's also smart I want to know the relationship structure first start there I'm in a oneway open relation relationship well that's not the right name it's more like I'm a cuck so I love ████ that's our favorite here I'm a proud CU so I on the Reddit threads I like I like pimp my boyfriend out to my hot girlfriend and like if he you know like it's a one-way open relationship where he can do what he wants and like I get turned on by that and like people just can't comprehend it he puts his we wee in your friends and then you go yay yeah I'm like do it yeah that's her boy so she wants him to have fun she wants the best for him and if that's the best for him she's just like I'm so proud of you wait so do you do it cuz you like watching or you just it's a mystery like you don't know what's
6:42 happening well initially I well I wanted to watch but I feel like that'd be disrespectful for the girls that are involved cuz most of them are not like whose idea was it oh it was my idea he was very monogamous before me but then I was like encouraging him to you know partake how did that come up were you like you want to ████ my friend oh yeah literally that's literally exactly how happened actually so the first time it ever happened um we were at this like influencer party and one of my friends like she's really attractive and then she was like oh K I'm so horny and I was like do you do you want to go home and ████ my man before you go to the club and she was like sure and so I went to my boyfriend I was like do you think she's hot and he's like yeah I'm like all right let's go home now see in that moment I would have been like this is a setup e what did he say did he buy it he kind of su yeah yeah yeah I'm still feeling sus right now it's a test is she testing
7:32 us it's a test for sure was his first answer I love you so much baby I can't even think about that that's a good first answer she was a girl that's what Jeremy better say yeah if he didn't oh that's normal yeah how how she so she why would she in the in the club just go cuz I've never just hey Nick I'm ████ horny I'll be like Mar get the ████ away for me don't ████ say that to me again what's your relationship with please don't share that with me she was young she was like 22 at the time she's just very open about how she's feeling and down to ████ your man a couple of shots also I don't know if you like I don't know if you know my man but he was kind of like people in the Asian Creator space know him he used to be a streamer and think he's tall he's like 6'4 so like girls like every time I go to the club or go out with him there's at least like three girls flirting with him like heavy like heavy FLIR he's a man by the
8:23 way I've never seen a man that deserves this more what a statement yeah good for him yeah it's a big W so he's been he's been taking advantage of of the offerings you've been giving him um here's your sacrifice she he he's he's a golden retriever stud service he won a lot of AKC Championship ████ certificates and he's a sperm donor yeah um I mean we're we're like slowly closing it up not because it's like affecting our relationship negatively but I think the Public's perception of our relationship is not good people make assumptions they're like he must be really rich he must be like abusive she must like have no self-esteem or self-confidence and I'm like no cucks exist you know but but does he feel like he's like um they're ████ blocking him now yeah like they ruined my fun that would be ████ up he's like he's like
9:13 such a good like he's not the reason why I can like do this is cuz like he doesn't abuse it like even though I give him like 100% Freedom like in the last like 2 years I don't think he's like engaged with many women like only like a couple uh when did you start realizing that you were a cck like 10 years ago and what was that moment like when when's that transition or cuck Awakening epy yeah what was that my cuck Awakening was when I was 19 my first boyfriend at the time um I found out that he was like basically cheating on me with like 10 different women W um not emotional cheating it was all just very physical like he went to work and I opened up his laptop and then I saw all the messages where it's like so clear that like he's been hooking up with at least a few women and my first reaction I wasn't I wasn't mad I wasn't threatened like I wasn't upset you were turned on yeah I was more turned I I wanted to make out with him he came home and I was like guess what I went through your laptop
10:04 and I found out that you're doing all this with women and I was just like that's kind of hot I was like could you tell me the stories and he's just like what the ████ is wrong with you but yeah what the ████ is wrong with you insane insane wait wait wait but also with you from that put the tell them the part about how he tried to like finesse you into into the he said to you he's like Master Level like people all the people in the comments like when I said that on our podcast we're like oh he needs to like drop a course BR always on like Charles Manson level manipulation like he told me like he was trying to get me on board with this whole thing and he said um Kira look like the way that men are wired like we're biologically wired to want to experience different women he's like I love you and you're hot and like I'll take care of you forever but that like no matter how hot and how great you are and how much I love you that doesn't
10:54 mean that I won't want to ████ another woman once in a blue moon so he's like men just want to like spread their Seas it's a biological urge just like women have their periods and you can't control it men also have that urge too but we're supposed to control it yeah but I mean everyone it's like yeah if I ████ every single girl that I thought was attractive I'd be called a rist Joe hear him out he's not done yet he's not done yet hear him out hear him out Mak a lot of sense like even Arnold schweninger I think his wife was like this really attractive I think she was a cousin of the kennedies like this beautiful woman and then he I think he had an affair with his nanny or something and he wasn't that attractive so he's like see like it's not that you're not good enough it's just that you just want variety and like no but the thing is like I know in Western Society this sounds absolutely crazy but if you can compartmentalize like love sex versus
11:45 like sex sex and I think guys are better at that than women I don't consider that cheating because um in Japan they also have a lot of like prostitution services or um a lot of wives actually say oh it's not cheating if my my guy uh boinks another woman and there's no emotional attachment involved or if he pays for sex then it's not cheating then it's just like this what's the difference between that and watching porn and wanking herself off getting like a like a massage butt just on your dick professional for for a women it's like do you love her for men is like did you ████ him yeah yeah that's exactly yeah isn't that crazy I would be so jealous yeah yeah bu built different built different I mean it's true that all guys want to ████ everything that they can but then the goal is to not yeah you know what I mean meet somebody that makes me love you more than my
12:36 ability my desire to that's why like it's like yeah it's human nature it's also human nature to kill someone when you get angry at them but then you don't do it that's the thing or like if you ate everything you wanted to only when you wanted to right you just get fat and die right so it's a it's a matter of self-control but the rules that you keep within your own group or whatever a culture that's the rules that you engage in like you're right like in Japanese culture for the longest time you find love outside of the house who you marry was to build a family with and that's different from romantic love you find romantic love with a professional damn what is it still like that over but that's also why they see sex differently like they don't see sex in the way that all the way we see sex and is is uh
13:27 highly built around Christianity like the morality around it that's what Americans don't understand that other cultures didn't have that to Define what you know when we look at relationships and sex and things like that out there it's like hey you get together because it's it's good for the family they come from this family pedigree whatever you build some it's like Royals right they did that they didn't love each other they're like oh this Kingdom I'm going to send you my daughter so then we can collab and then daughter you be a good daughter go marry this ████ dude have a baby now not going to fight building companies together yeah so that's the mentality and if and if if if it's he's like you know what like I want to have a romantic experience then you pay for a professional to create that experience for you way better probably that's the mentality behind the best at it yeah I wish I was
14:17 Japanese my wife I mean but also like people are like oh like this is like this generation is cooked and I just want to make an argument for I'm not even pully but like I'm just want to make an argument for this kind of concept is like in America people kind of put monogamy on a pedestal and anything outside of that they kind of look down on but like even in monogamous marriages 50% of marriages end in divorce and even the ones that do stay together a lot of the ones that do stay together they're not in love like they're just there because either finances or they don't want to traumatize their children so if you look at it from that perspective um does monogamy really work like I don't know like philosophically are humans built to be monogamous their entire lives or are there like other kind of relationship structures like it doesn't have to be open relationship like I'm not Polly I'm not an open relationship like I only love one man but you know we just have a
15:10 longer leash phal things that you do outside of it that's okay within your relationship that other people look at and judge yeah but it's a physical thing right or like it's a fun it's just a fun physical thing I mean I don't really partake in it just cuz I don't really need to um but yeah I mean I don't I think there's lots of different relationship structures and I don't think it's necessarily entirely detrimental to when you when you first had that cook moment did it surprise yourself were you like oh ████ like I'm reacting in a way that that I'm not used to or you weren't expecting um I I I I I think so but I think it's cuz like I just know um that guys are really good at compartmentalizing sex like the way that my ex the first one described it was like um he's like the girl okay this is not my words but he
16:01 said the girls that I sleep with he's like they're not human they're just like body ████ like it's a body it's like a like and he's like here like you are like you know like wifey whatever girlfriend and then these girls that I'm like they're not even human they're they're just they're pocket ████ with heartbeats and re and Social Security numbers they objective women don't forget the social security number that's the most important part wait can I ask for the men is is that true what can you just yeah see a girl as just a pocket ████ emal attachment the default is physical so the default is I'll have sex with her cuz she's beautiful then you get to know her and you go I actually want to be more than that the opposite is true for women because we produce far more
16:52 oxytocin when we have sex think I'm aot I'm a lot more like that chemically we are wired to exactly what she like said girls don't I feel like with girls we can only be intimate with a guy that we really respect or we're attracted to like he has to be almost dating material for me to even want to share a bed with him but then for guys this one comedian was like I don't care what she looks like she can have a bag over her head and like that's you know like if it's free you know like they'll just take it I don't like ugly chicks though true yeah some people some people have standards okay yeah yeah that's crazy you still have to have some sort of Attraction yeah but I feel like guys don't necessarily need to be super attracted if as long as she's not up and it depends on the guy standard level and an opportunity presents itself like you
17:42 are sure if you're dying of thirst you know you'll drink toilet water but if you're if you're if you've got a constant flow of natural spring water then I think you're just not going to drink the toilet water CH question question what what's your question okay so I know there's outliers everywhere but what about porn star stars like women porn stars like do they produce less oxytocin they're already outliers if you're a porn star you're an outlier they could be the exception to the rule yeah there's just so many exceptions to everything that like there's always like one way you can just disprove everything but I think for example in the concept of compartmentalization I think as a guy I can but because I'm I've been trained I guess through society and through my relationships like I can't any more like I know that it can't like it's like math
18:32 that don't work also I think it depends on your ideologies and your principles right like if it goes against that I think that typically totally agree will prevent you from of all dudes and then you guys could correct me but I feel like all dudes have uh you're different dudes in your lifetime right I think when you're 15 whatever you're saying is 100% true if you could and there's no Society no rules it you would be aring every single hot grow you see if we're animals right yes yeah yeah oh my God thank you stuff the Rhymes is the stuff that makes wine yeah it it would be you that's what you would be doing then you go Oh you mean like a caveman not 15 caveman style A Primitive mind mind but if we're at 15
19:23 that's how your brain operates right that's why you have the most thirstiest guys that say the dumbest things at that age cuz they have this amount of feelings and this much like brain power then I think as you get older 15 to 20 25 it starts going like this and then by the time you get to like let's say in your 30s maybe you're like I I want to build something with someone then there's so much more meaning attached to it it starts going like this and then by the time where you're at my age so I'm 40 I've seen my partner create a kid there's no way in hell I could ever go back to here cuz what we have now is so much more beautiful than the caveman it's the risk reward trying to like me take you back home kind of though actually can I can I interject because um I think that it show goes to show
20:13 that you're a really good man with really good principles but I read a study that said that um the time that men cheat on the most with their wives or their baby mamas is like during pregnancy and right after pregnancy cuz maybe they're not as hot during those times not they're not they're not down to give it up maybe the vagina stretched out you know they're not well they're not as closed for a little bit speaking from personal experience and I was 14 so like she was Way Beyond not pregnant or anything like that but I I always think like it's just down to self-control because some guys have higher lios than others but at the end of the day it just goes down to self-control cuz like it's like um yeah like we you can desire it's like you know what it is the easy the the the
21:04 best example is like being addicted to drugs you're addicted to ████ booty right and then you can either act upon it or you could take the long-term no you just micros is good micro you know that no matter what it's not going to be good for you just a bump just a quick bump to get me through the day but also your tolerance with what that brings right like you may not want to deal with the emotional drama that this person brings because you just want to get your dick wet yeah but if you're in a situation like like with Kira then if your partner is cool with it then it's not an issue it's only an issue when you know that your wife isn't going to react that well yeah but but but also I I actually found that having that super Long Leash makes him almost care about women less so like initially when I gave him that freedom
21:55 like there was like a 6month period of time he's like this is Paradise this is so fun you know I get to have you know great things on like being in a stable relationship but also the benefits of being single so I think that's when he was like really enjoying it but after that six-month period of time and when he was experiencing like more women he's like this is kind of disgusting he's like I don't need it he's like he's like it's not building my life and he's like none of these girls are really like interesting I feel like it's just opening the door for like drama or judgment or even STD so even like my boyfriend realized he's like I don't need to do this he's like this is kind of I mean if if someone just falls on my lap sure started see the risk rewards now now I got to ask Jeremy if he wants a long Le because I keep him on a very short leash where I literally lock him up in the basement as you should and I got to ask hey you should trick you should trick him like hit him with the K you know you know Kira just
22:46 says something that really resonated with me and I want to try something jerem imine I already know Jer would never fall for you at 15 you were already monogamous at 15 you're like this is oh ████ no yeah like at 15 it was like the goal was like as many as possible I feel like but like yeah like you said you just grow up a little bit and that starts not mattering as much like you know yeah I think it's understanding The Emptiness behind it yeah yeah yeah it's like the the chase is exciting you get there and then afterwards you got post-nut Clarity and you're like oh okay now I need the next one the next one so it's like drugs right literally and I also feel like with that specifically that there's like um whether you're religious spiritual or Not Right But like this in my experience I am religious but like in my spiritual experience with it it like they the considering it like a soul tie with somebody makes a lot of sense and every
23:38 time like why like a lot of religions practice like you should have it for the first time with your wife cuz if you have all these experiences previously it's it kind of like opens up that door to like wondering what's out there versus like this is the only woman you've ever shared that with very easy to stay with them you know and I think that's part of the reason why the divorce rate is so ████ and it's like it's so true it's like girls that I don't even like hanging out with if sex was good I'll have like a random flashback about them you know and then suddenly I'm think about them or like toxic relationships you're like what a you're what a person that's like in every way bad for you and yet you stay with them and a lot of people's reasonings is like the sex is good you know and it's like damn and then so I just started to realize like I'm like opening up all these like portals to my soul with people that I would never want to have that much access to me and then it was that's a good point also when you sleep with someone apparently their DNA gets inside you and it circulates in your body for like quite a long time for men too like years I heard it was for
24:29 women I don't know if it's with men so it's like go down on it's in there always that protein what about if you jack off is that a soul portal to your hand not not your head that's always there you're never going to get rid of that that's been there since you're 13 they're closing the doors yeah good luck so close
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