0:00 there was this thing that you said I think I told you this before but you said this in like 200 I want to say 15 when we were hanging out and it like changed the framework of what I wanted for my life what that's crazy because this fool was like cuz I like to jack off yeah and I started jacking it wow Jo's [Laughter] [Music] right welcome back to another episode careful boys today we're going to talk a little bit about uh something that a lot of you might relate to uh before the cameras turn on we were just talking about some life ████ stuff that we were up to and then subin what did you say to us we're old no I said I was stressing not like keeping up with y'all financially and just like assets wise
0:51 you can't keep up with me ever I know it's not a universe it's not possible first of all it's already late to even keep up with him but I I I was just in my head like yo they got all this and that I was like where am I at you know I was have a baby but then I remember they're like 20 years older than me 20 years old 20 yeah I think so are you what are you 28 20 what 28 28 you're 28 right 28 28 okay 28 I just hit 40 yeah man you are 40 now happy birthday yeah happy bir hey you ████ great thank you thank you seriously for real I'm like 12 years older 12 years older wait you're really 28 so you said I'm 20 years older than you he made that number bigger so he don't feel so bad the difference between
1:42 me and Joe is I actually look like I'm 20 years older than you pal Punk it's a great comeback Wait so you actually feel like you're you you feel like you're not where you wanted to be by this point in life no not necessarily it's just like wanted I know what you mean though it's like it's like you forget how young we are because of how we look so fresh and cool and but I think just being in a circle it's natural to like kind of compare yourself and be like what what am I doing with my life when all these guys are like set up which but I actually think um we're late bloomers hell yeah dude we we ducked around a lot we ████ around a lot yeah but also the times are changing too because the is like the new 30s it's not
2:32 that's what I believe Coter wait so we're wait how old are you you two I think cuz we're one I feel like we're one generation you guys are one and then he's right behind us we're like in the 30s 31 yeah we're I'm 33 damn you are 31 huh yeah I feel like a piece of ████ it's like 40 well you're wait you're all you're right in the middle actually 38 yeah you're right in between us and them yeah yeah you're freaking I'm the bridge that's the bridge I allow you guys to communicate with each I think I think we just seem younger because we have such Virgin uh like features low body count low body count like we just we act like virgins and ████ those videos are good though they're like what would you tell what would you tell your 20-year-old self or what would you tell your 30-year-old self or whatever I like I'd be like
3:22 there's nothing you can do man just have fun bro there's nothing you can do you're ████ yeah you know how I feel is when I was in my 20s like younger than you listening to them in their 30s that's when I was like okay this is what you should be doing this is what you shouldn't be doing and now that I'm in my 30s I still don't have what they have it's because I realized like it's it's like a it's like a generation thing it doesn't matter it's because you guys were born in a in like a certain generation so you're already ahead in terms of like certain assets and certain things but then once I'm in my 20s it was already a different time there was the internet like there's so many things that are already changing in the world that by the time I get to my 30s it's like well I still have to keep working and keep doing stuff in order to even get to where they're getting so I'm probably not going to even get close to
4:13 them until I'm in my 40s I feel like but the difference the difference is who took the most risks right always that's true it just is cuz like if you ever left the comfort of a job and you like set out to make your own business or whatever the ████ like I hate saying that because I'm like what I do is not a business to me in my brain because it's so stupid but but it is it is and so it's like but when you do that you leave the comfort of the 9 to5 and knowing that you have your weekends and your nights and all this ████ you don't have to stress but if you take on that responsibility you don't have a day off not really that's true I think that's one thing this particular group did differently so like we're we're all like Freelancers or business owners or investors or something that isn't like working for some else or even if we are it's temporarily right so it's such a
5:04 specific field of like all right we made it to our 40s pursuing our dreams now we can tell people 30s and 20s what it's like and it might not apply to people out there that are like working nine of fives cuz that's the First Leap I think to I think that's one thing we all did well is like being able to just do what you want that's the first that's the actually the hardest leap cuz not a lot of people even get to that point but we also we also kind of did it on accident it wasn't like as deliberate as it seems for sure whenever we talk about this stuff it sounds like it was so deliberate weed we did not do that like it just kind of kept on happening and if you keep the momentum going let it roll like a snowblood down the hill and you don't ████ it up for yourself too bad it it can work out yeah I would say though like ████ it up whether you're a 95 whether you're a
5:56 freelancer whether you're like business owner owner I think like straight out of high school what I wish I did is as soon as I had a job was put that money away and don't even dip into it cuz I had savings I had ████ and I'll be like man I want those new rims though and I've been saving up four grand and then I would go spend it but then but they looked fire yeah but they looked fire but also back then we didn't have ████ like Robin Hood we didn't have ████ like Bitcoin and like crypto and then like coinbase and things that we can deposit it our money into that can like we didn't have access to stocks back then you had to talk to like a stock broker and ████ you had to throw your money into an actual fire yeah where whereas now we can do it digitally everything you can do it online so I think at that
6:46 age ████ if as soon as I started working ████ Target Subway whatever I would put like 15% even every every week I would just put that paycheck and then by then by the time you're like 2530 you'd have a good chunk of change yeah it's also like so relative when you think about it too it's like depending on like if you have group chats with old friends some people will be like oh man dude you have it made you get to wake up and do whatever you want and then other people who are like multi-millionaires would be like bro you got to get your ████ together it's like it's depends on what direction people are talking to you from and it's like to some people we're like massively failure of course it just depends but but it is like your friend group like I've had friends where like growing up with them they don't talk about like putting your money away investing saving all stuff but then you
7:37 talk to a different group of friends who might be older different place in life and they're constantly talking about it and then you're like oh this is like a different language you guys are speaking but then you kind of have to put yourself on game to be like oh okay I guess I'm lacking in this area but I feel like that was like what you said about the saving money I'm like dude totally yeah plus it depends on why they're talking to you about that in the first place cuz some dudes will talk to you about your life and then at the end be like so I think you should sign up under me to sell this mushroom tea it's like ████ man don't say mushrooms on here well also too I think that this group is great like in particular because everyone openly talks about Finance stuff in ways that I don't think a lot of other people do there's like this weird politeness about oh we don't talk about money and I always get along more with people who get in the gritty Financial details of things so I can learn something like Joe taught me a s███████ about credit card stuff that I
8:27 didn't know and this is just like what like frud yeah how to fraud how to actually do it how to get away with it no Bute no Joe like Joe like showed me blew my mind about points about like how your points can like be used to it's like free money exactly it's like chuckecheese tickets and it's not it's not corny or fake or anything he RI really goes into how he does it and he actually has lived this life that way and I just that opened up a whole new part of my brain where now I I understand that stuff better I just think that you have more transparency helps people learn I know I think finances and stuff like that get really touchy like diet and health emotional yeah yeah yeah yeah and I I don't really hang out with people that are too touchy broken fat too n they're either rich in fat or or broken unhealthy wait what
9:19 broken healthy yeah yeah yeah I don't I don't I don't do the fat and broke I only do rich and broke combo or Rich and broke rich and Rich and broke and broke no I was hanging out with some this this couple and they were telling me how they had they go to the Super Bowl like every year and I was like oh ████ how much you guys pay for tickets like oh we don't talk about that I'm like what pay for I will not I first of all I can just go look it up what row what SE isn't it like 20 G's or something or has to be has it's at least it was I think well the last one I think was least last okay dude we don't talk about that I was like oh what a way to respond well exactly I'm like first of all I brought you ████ confetti from the Super Bowl dude you should be sucking my dick right now but what if it's a thing where they just get a deal
10:10 if you don't want people to even ask don't even talk about your wealth like real wealthy people that are like not ashame but like they need to hide their ████ because people are like you're that ████ rich and they hate that ████ they don't even mention that they went to the m thieves or whatever that's true they don't even they even look like the type what's up guys if you do not know we have a patreon I want you to click in our description and go over there and check out all the beautiful stuff we have for you it's super duper access for only our super duper exclusive lovers like yourselves you're going to be getting one never been released director's Cup every week but not only that you get another fresh too hot for YouTube video we say some crazy ████ on
11:00 there two videos a week but not only that you get to join our Discord and come chat with us direct access we're in there the whole careful Boys in there jumping in dog piling on people laughing playing joking whatever and you can come talk to us directly so if you like what we do and what we've been doing for the past 10 years please support our patreon and click the link below to get all the details there's so many different tiers you can see it when you click that some of these guys I know that are like um what do you call it when they're when you grow up ashamed of your wealth right you know those types that like oh yeah I'm I'm normal like you guys but they're so ████ loaded but they don't like loaded people they like imposter syndrome socially yeah that's true and then you find out you're like you're so much richer than I thought you were yeah
11:53 but I also like I hate the inverse of that which is like you're super not rich and you're just kind of like Aver but you act like you are and by buying certain luxury things and you go oh look at this new thing I got but really you're like ████ in debt or whatever I don't I don't like that either yeah like if you heard of it I would rather have the rich guy that pretends he's not rich versus the poor person oh dude I love those guys to me it's like the guy wearing the Constitution shirt and he's got an American flag hat and I'm like we get it all your passwords have 1776 the Bill of Rights boxers Bill of Rights hey you know what's really cool though stupid is that uh if that's how you feel literally all these dudes here will tell you everything they know about how you can make money and stuff it's like really
12:44 cool that's why I was like this the amount that he's helped me and like all of us with with crypto stuff you know as as funny as it sounds from the outside that that's a real thing like it's actually like you can ask anytime or just hear you guys talk and I'm just sitting on the side I'm like that's what I'm doing I'm just been his information uh helped me with the combination of my balls make 2 million dollars yeah but my brain made me lose it all wait what okay on the on the men it's a hard comination get dude that's what's cool is that like there's sometimes people around you that have all these like Secrets but they won't tell you or they'll tell you something that's the weirdest thing um I don't know why they people do that it's like why don't you want your friends to come come up because I always had this mentality of like when your friends come
13:34 up it actually makes your job so much easier yeah and it's I don't know like why like when you're sitting there jealous of your own friend cuz they're like doing well I'm like well if they're doing well that means now you can combine forces yeah I don't want to be the most successful in the room cuz that means we're really bad in a bad place like right I'm Top Dog you don't want to or like you don't want to be the most successful in every room you want to at least have like different groups where you're like oh this group yeah they're like 40 and 50 and then so when I'm there I'm like the little bro and then they could teach me and then now I can have like another group where it's like oh yeah they're a bunch of younger guys but they're fun because maybe like they like to do outdoor ████ they have more energy right but then in that Circle I
14:25 could be the guy that's like oh like teach us about some you know old man ████ you know it's cool too cuz even if you're competitive by Nature it's sick to be competitive as a unit against other units but other people be competitive by destroying their friends yeah they're like internally internally competitive like me me and bar had had friends like that in our old old group where they were so uh fixated on being the lead and so fixated on competing and like they spent so much time just trying to compete but like in a more destructive way that it didn't even I was like why like you're just jealous and angry for what reason and then like having internal competition things but it didn't even produce work yeah it's just like it just
15:15 produces drama and you're like you you're not even doing making money you're not doing anything productive you're just hating and I'm all like I mean that was just there are people that exist out there but that's just ████ weird to me dud you know what's scary is like people that found the secret to financial wealth but then they lack heavily on like me like their mentality so areka Health yeah like like how he's saying where it's like super toxic they're always treating each other negative like bad competition or whatever but I feel like that's that's another thing that you can also be wealthy in and that's what I learned early on actually the mindset of like how to actually be like think like a wealthy person or whatever and then from there that's how all the other opportunities will come because you're already setting your mind right to be in
16:05 a positive growing and whatever I mean if you already are in a good head space then you're thinking more open and creatively I think when you're like stressed the ████ out you're thinking more like scared so you're that's like scared money that's what they call it in poker like it's like you're afraid uh to make moves and do logical things because you're kind of Afra you're just afraid to do anything there was this thing that you said I think I told you this before but you said this in like 200 I want to say 15 when we were hanging out and it like changed the framework of what I wanted for my life what that's crazy because this fool was like cuz I like to jack off yeah I started jacking it wow I Jo was r no it's like uh I'm no longer team no
16:56 fat we were hanging out it was like uh cuz at the time I was still working on diet's channel and then uh we were always like working on a bunch of different stuff he was working on diet's channel too at the time and then uh and then we went to hang out with you guys I forgot like where we what we were doing but you know uh Dom was like talking about all the stuff that he wants to do to you and Bart and he was like yeah I want to write a movie do all this stuff and then you and Bart were just going like this and then um at the end of it like when it was like your turn to say what you want to do like you just went I just want to be a professional lazy person and then I was like I do too I was like you could do that that sounds pretty cool that's so funny I would have never said that today yeah you were like I just want to work enough that I don't have to work like I don't want to do all that these projects and ████ I was like dude that's ████ tough and now he's
17:46 now he's cleaning bathrooms in juie Hawaii scraping ████ off the and try to tell everyone it's the gr like what are these ████ kids eating match making them ████ like crazy what's all this loo we're taking off we're taking I swear that was like that like really blew my mind because like it's not often that successful people to me are always trying to give you the 12 step plan oh like cuz they're always like on that grind yeah and I'm just they're like bro I'm just trying to have fun yeah yeah and and I always felt like that was like one of those things that maybe isn't allowed to be said cuz it's not inspiring you know up until that point I was always like preparing a good answer oh okay so that's what you took I think the intention behind the messages is
18:37 what's more important but it's just the way he say it was very honest too it was very that's how you define that's how he defines happiness and everybody has a different version and then and then I do too but I always felt like that I couldn't do that I was like oh no I have to be this inspiring figure and I have to have my ████ together in a certain way cuz I think like I would have never said that today but what would you say today well what I think what I took from it is the consistent part of what I do do is I'll just say how I truly feel so then it doesn't matter like I'm not presenting anything and I don't have anything to like get ready for anyone so then like if someone like you subin that's like 28 like you might hear someone say something at at a certain point but they're also going to change as people too like me like I I wanted to be a professional lazy person where the ████
19:28 that idiot man and then it actually meant something to Ryan and then now I'm like I would have never ████ said that that's so stupid no man no he's like no I'm too lazy now I remember talking to I was talking to this guy who's like a communist one time and he I was like like one of those parties and these guys like yeah a ████ communist or whatever and I was like and he was basically like saying that we don't need certain things like like the way he was like he was like you don't nobody needs all this stuff you don't need all this stuff and I was like so in your world like it doesn't matter if like so for me my definition of happiness is I have a big house that I can host all my friends in and like we all can ████ around and they don't have to worry about anything when they're staying with me like they're they're set and and for you it's like oh well I live in an area close to a farmers market and I I can ride my bike and like I can go
20:18 get a baguette and come back home and I'm happy right like to you that's happiness so we have different versions of happiness and I'm willing to work to get to my version of happiness and for you you already got it so you just think everyone should have to be like you and so to me I have to be as miserable as you because that life is misery to me you know what I mean like I don't get that ████ to me you'll never have the equal ████ that you want because everyone has different desires and he's at an advantage that he requires so much less in order to be satisfied right so professional lazy person I get what you're saying I really do cuz it's like that to me is that to you is happiness where dude I've always asked myself that I'm like Warren Buffett is 9 ████ 8 years old or whatever he's sitting up there for birkshire doing like a an 8 hour talk and he could be anywhere in the world like literally ████ anyone's mom or whatever anyone's mom anyone's mom and are the hottest women
21:09 he could do whatever you wanted to do he's so specialized to where he can do all the projects that only he wants to do right but he obviously likes it and I think that takes that takes so much more work to me like someone saying like when you said I want to be a professional lazy person in my mind I saw the greater amount of work it takes to be that and I'm like yeah it's harder it's hard how do you set up cuz nobody can tell you how to set up that many sources of passive income that you don't have to go to work that day that's way ████ harder and I was just on a cruise like you know I was just on this cruise going all over the ████ Caribbean or whatever and the whole time I got any chance at all I was doing my crypto patterns like I always do because that's what I enjoy so it just comes down to that it's like if you enjoy something no one's going to be able to rip you from it no matter how much money you make you you know why I would never say that is because I actually achieved uh profession Laz ISM and then I semi
22:01 retired during Co and then um once you get to a point where cuz like I only when me and bark came here and we worked four days a month just JK news everything else is like it's been running right yeah so then that is professional lazy and then then I was like I I don't have any purpose anymore cuz I you got something else so that's why I opened up a Jun be want to clean ████ off the he jumped into the void man that's but isn't that why people say you when you retire you die yeah yeah that's true I think like a good balance is is what makes me happy is like all right cool work a lot and then be lazy a lot and then go back to work and then just keep doing that yeah bouncing back and forth is nice yeah cuz you know you're going to keep growing and you know
22:52 you're going to get the time to do what you want at the same time so but also I think like it depends on what you spend your time on cuz like if you compare someone and go like man they got a really ████ good relationship but then they're like 20 years deep into the relationship with all the ups and downs and they ████ fought through it right and it's like well if you only been with your girl for like 2 years how do you expect your relationship to be as good as this couple or like yeah like you see a guy like one of my friends he's he he has a fund of $100 million I don't think I've ever seen that number ever in my life even on a calculator right so like and you can press it anytime the calculator doesn't fit and but when you hear story though like he didn't have a like his college straight out of high school he he worked
23:43 his ass off and and he didn't have a like a youth like that I did I didn't he didn't get to travel like I did and like he didn't do any of that stuff until he was like mid 20s late 20s and even then he was hanging with old people while he was doing doing that stuff so it's like yeah he's like Mega ████ rich but he exchanged our experience that we had in our there's a tradeoff he went straight from 18 to 30 something year old man so like yeah it's like that was the sacrifice he gave so I can't compare myself cuz I'm like well that's a completely different exchange you know what I mean and then he can't compare himself to me like oh you guys had so much fun you you had you dated so many sanch yeah so I think it's that like you got to see uh the true comparison is if you
24:35 did exactly the same thing and this who's crushing it that's when you know you're a loser he that's a good point yeah that's a good point and at the same age to I didn't even try bro things are a little different for me also now because I do have a kid coming so I'm willing to sacrifice my fun you know for I feel like that's what all guys do is like oh ████ I got a kid once you have a kid ████ I got to make money I'm sure something clicks like something different happens I was just driving one day and I was like looking back I was like imagine if I had a kid in the behind me you know and I was like what the ████ probably shouldn't be doing a wheelie on the freeway no I was just like I have a kid coming back in July and I have to pretend I was like talking to my kid in the back of my truck it was weird I was just like dang I got to make sure he's set so clicked it's a he yeah
25:27 do do you know that did you talk to him about it so far so far they are in West Hollywood his face he's like no uh we're moving yeah you should move quick no we
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