0:00 [Music] welcome back to careful boys today we're going to talk about the differences on how situationally aware you need to be men versus women all the time and why is it so easy for the ladies it's so easy apparently d That's a hot take I like that you're a wild boy you wild man starting it like that by now everybody knows that's completely not the case it's tough to be a girl anywhere but we we don't have to be scared of the same things but statistically men are a higher victim of violence than women so like so so like men tend to get into situations violent situations more get into them so like
0:52 guys are getting robbed guys are getting beat guys are getting all this stuff right like but then um when it comes to just who has to be aware on a day-to-day basis women have way more things to worry about than men 100% And to be on consistently cuz it's not even just like full B violence it's just socially awkward situations where you get hit on or things like that that's just like man I don't want to ████ deal with this today also being stocked I feel like is it's like way slanted towards women crazy so I think women's what they really got to worried about is just the ████ the weirdos and creepies you know what I mean which is terrifying scared just big ass dudes like being all weird creepy and ████ you might get taken so it's good to learn Jiu-Jitsu but for dudes we got to worry
1:42 about just Savage ████ like five dudes up on you and be like what's up let me take your ████ Bro boom boom boom and then ████ stab you know what I mean and women got worried about that and dudes too yeah I was say anything but you know what I also think that um like so for example right like I was talking about this with Hannah cuz we were walking together and we we we were at the park alamana park there's an area that's pitch ████ black and I'm like let's go take this shortcut and there's a couple bumps sitting around and then she was like I would never walk this way if I wasn't with you yeah 100% And then I was like I know but I'm here and let's just go and then she was laughing about that cuz I'm like these guys are Mal nutrition like bums if they try to do ████ I'll ████ murder them right cuz I'm a tough dude but in
2:32 reality no dude this one bum was like picking his toenails just having a chill time this other dude was just like getting ready to sleep in his sleeping bag I didn't see I I to me they're just minding their business they're not thr you off their sent they're picking their toenails like yeah yeah but clearly like I could tell if a guy was like I'mma bite you ████ or like I probably should not deal with it but for her she's like I'm not even going to risk that like it makes me uncomfortable to see that ████ I'm not going to walk home a few minutes earlier like you know exactly stay in the lights which is like I get it but there's things that when women are walking alone or or whatever guys also treat them differently is what I realized I didn't know that before what do you mean guys also treat them differently like so so Hannah would say
3:24 like if if you're walking with the man around you um guys won't check you out as much or try to talk to you true yeah that's right if you're walking alone or with other girls like like guys so then guys don't actually see the ████ cuz when they're around guys act differently when they're around like those videos that girls have been putting up where they're just by themselves and they're filming and a guy comes up starts talking to them and they're like oh no thank you and they just won't go away do you like those videos I like that they're able to show people What It's Like New York good save good safe a lot of it's dude New York is pretty bad for that New York's a holla Hala oh yeah they C for you the whole time that's crazy baby yeah I had to tell a guy like turn around are you following me like look at him straight in his face he's like no I'm not following you I was like
4:16 good cuz ████ don't and then his mom comes out in front of you hey son and then I asked no and then I look at her get her than no she's distracted get her and then and then I look at his mom are you following me you just keep asking every person are you following me I have a boyfriend are you following me oh God and then she pulls out her phone on Instagram on Instagram we are fun we had fun big fun big fun hey you know what's the worst is when you're ████ walking down the street and you're just minding your own business and there's a lady in front of you right I'm walking behind this happens a lot at the gym cuz I'm walk I park in the neighborhood and I walk and I'm always standing behind a lady and as soon as I started walking behind them you could see that they're
5:06 visibly nervous already and they're just like kind of they look over their shoulder bunch and you're like a I feel bad so then I try to walk faster to walk around them and then there like they get a little nervous sometimes and you walk past them and then it's all good but you can see like those Reactions where you're like oh yeah that's why you look at them you go you got great sit situational awareness and compliment them yeah what the ████ actually I shouldn't say that I tredy to catch you but you just couldn't let me yeah yeah that's what I say so I'm like why are you noticing that you know you ever you ever noticed this this is a different one you ever been waiting for a gender neutral restroom in a hallway that has low visibility for everyone else in the restaurant next time you do that when the girl comes out and you're ready to
5:56 go in look how scared she is cuz she or maybe she embarrassed cuz she took a big ████ she just pooped cuz she just pooped and she knows I'm walking in that ████ SM my ████ even if she did I guarantee she's more scared that you're going to smell her assit has she thought about how scared I am that's a scary place to be though like if you think about it cuz nobody can see you and then they got to share the bathroom so you're waiting for the same door yeah that's wild huh that's not that's not ideal hey that made me hey good I just had a great idea oh my God why don't we have a vehicle with a big ass sign says or you walking alone we're here for you and all of us just go woo woo you know like a party Vibe but walk with the ladies not a walk with the lady but with this guy's all holding like a plastic knife that's super safe for you it's sad because when I think of programs like that I just imagine creep signing up for right the
6:46 creeps want that job cuz we're like we'll sa say I thought you were going to be like here's my idea why not have a separate bathroom for the girls yeah that's what I was going to say I was going to say that well that's an automatic bro why why the ████ not no more bu not no more that's the reason why I don't like like gender neutral resters for that reason oh yeah cuz I I I see the I see the weirdness and why is it always like the dudes that wants to go into the girls it's never like girls aren't dying to go to the guys restroom I'm sorry you called them what yeah I don't wait wait I never like you never hear that where like no no I more see girls want to go to the guy restroom because the girl line is too long yeah I see that yeah but they're not doing that because they want to be a dude yeah that's okay I think oh
7:36 yeah is that why you go yeah that's why I go regardless no matter what I would always wait for the boys boys side no matter what that's the my worst nightmare I hate coincidentally being like walking outside and it's just one girl and I'm also going the same way I hate that dude same you should just start doing jazz hands and then they'll be like all right he's cool he's cool yeah just walk by hey S I feel like doing any amount of anything just seems even scarier you never do that I I never jazz hand no no no like you guys pull Anthony Anthony Anthony becomes extra flamboyant to seem non-threatening to make her feel safe so his wrist gets Lim he starts getting he starts walking with the more butt yeah I go like this ████ you ain't got nothing to worry about you think you think this guy is going to come across as gay this guy
8:28 that guy hey dude Jaz to jazz hands and dude nailed it you ever been like the the the worst is when you're walking to your car like you walk to a parking lot and so is some other girl and it's far and it's dark and it's like oh and I'm wearing a black hoodie I'm wearing all black I'm always wearing all black and you happen to be holding like duct tape a trash bag I feel like when I'm walking on the sidewalk I look like a a creep is that bad what do you mean why how do you walk no I just feel like you know my ears are kind of you know I think they make people feel uncomfortable especially if it's like a lady you're walking on the street people give me weird looks I think I'm starting to realize what's the song you think you just start breaking out in hum that's like really going to calm the situation down Annie Taylor Swift very bad thing oh my God that sounds creepy creepy I don't you guys I'm not very musically talented
9:22 really oh there's a crazy guy walking behind me singing touch for the very first time also not creepy my strategy is to walk as fast as I can around them that's what I do that's what I do but then for a second she's going to have to think I'm CH got something to say but comes out when they move the Liv and then as soon as as soon as I I walk run around I go right into neutral and I walk very slow it's funny because I also think generally I look pretty non-threatening but I don't think any girl like plays it that's they're all just like you say you speed up around them and then you slow down again and then I keep looking over my shoulder I do I I would ra i comfortable if I'm with invisibility cuz I don't like comfortable yeah otherwise she and I drop money behind me yeah but what if she goes that was the plan oh she gives me yeah sometimes I think about that too
10:13 though that's why you always got to look over your shoulder situational we good last words bud I just stop that was good that was good hey I just stopped I feel like girls though are born with situation aess made him crack during a really nice thought you had a good one for once you realize that right and it was interrupted by another good one Joe just got joed dude that's a Joe original they don't even know the reference on this video no but it's it's going to be fun I like hearing it but I just like hearing it this is your new merch you're welcome said Eagle Peak and no don't explain it that's Easter egg that's a JK Easter egg
11:03 hey you got watch all the videos merch I'm super on point like I'm aware of my situation worse now with the kid when I'm walking with the kid now you're looking at the kid all Weir like you can't trust him yet hey but don't you think that's my kid so who knows what he'll do but don't you think guys and girls have different like danger meters cuz there'll be ████ that I think girls are just like so unw that's just dangerous you're like it's over your it's going over your head right now and then girls would just be like oh ████ no we got to go this way and I'm like wait what are you afraid of and they're like yeah don't you see those guys over there and ████ and then I'm like oh I think we're scared of different things no I think so what I noticed with my lady is she goes like oh just don't worry about it nothing's going to happen like that part and
11:54 nothing's going to happen now i' just rather not put myself in a situation if I don't have to like if I if I can avoid a group of people okay maybe I will but if you could save 30 seconds walking this way though how do you navigate the gym oh that's a good oh yeah why I have a structure on whether it's leg day or stupid I ha you yeah I know you do oh they know which day is leg day yeah what do you mean you get approach to the G yeah don't you get yeah so how do you handle it don't you wonder like someone might follow you from there or someone might stalk you because if someone sees I've never like I see you every Wednesday here girl I've never ran into like a stalker situation at the gym a good stalker you're never going to run into yeah that's true good stalker will drop textbooks and you both reach and then we
12:45 go oh I didn't know you were going to be here huh K drama style this guy's good dude it's like they show you it's the guy that goes you know you're doing that wrong right oh I love the guys that like try to correct me on my form yeah what they what do they say wow you know so much this talk is going to be like usually I've SE you're doing that can you correct me on my form on that I usually just say I didn't ask you oh ████ that's the scary part to me is that i' I've known of so many crazy Bros that would snap at the at the voice of a girl like saying some ████ back but I say it like very matter of fact you're just a ████ you know like they they turn like this you know just a ████ you're a ████ what I what I understand is most guys are saying that because they don't have any any other opener so like that's what they've chosen well so you don't get offended and and get defens yeah I just
13:36 put my headphones back and I didn't ask you but that's so true you don't you don't see like a danger in like being rude to a but I don't think that's being rude like I'm not saying it in a tone right like I didn't ask you like I don't have to take this I'm going home e you know um I think ever backfired on you where you rejected someone and then they go like oh ████ you and then they go crazy remember the ████ that would happen to you on offer up like when you're trying to sell stuff yeah that's wild dud then they start like stalking you why I just block them but offer Up's a huge dating site I just walked have you found success have you found success sell yes but it's kind of weird that even though but you don't do it like they know where you live now right no no no no that's good and even even the building that I
14:27 have it's so massive and the way that I frame it is like oh okay you want to pick it up at this time well I'll be at my friends so you can pick it up at my friend you know I mean like wow look at that extra ████ she has to do it in a way that even they can't possibly think that that's my place hey don't give all your secrets y just let me know what time you want to pick it up because you know I have plans I'll be at my friend's place at that time so I'll cleaning our guns yeah exactly I'll just bring the item with me just in case you want to pick it up so they already assumed that I don't live there if that was a place that I picked it up and even if it was the place I live in it's like over two 300 Apartments just take your profile photo Nick's face like I do yeah that's actually what I've been doing that's why I have such great success Nick's a huge sales face yeah yeah with like a red background or something you'd have to do that much extra ████ where guys like us
15:18 could just be like yeah come on in I'll just be in here drinking a beer no it's so true like you don't want people I think guys are guys are bigger victims is because we're too comfortable or we do we do riskier ████ or First Dates like if it's somebody that you're still just trying to get to know um I know it's like nice to be like oh I'll come pick you up I don't want you to know where I live yeah yeah right I'll meet you there I still think even though the statistic is that guys are higher rate of like victims of violence that we have a Fighting Chance in a lot of those situations right I don't I think even though there's less for women those are kind of one-sided a lot of the time definitely yeah we're at a disadvantage yeah yeah but that's if you know how to handle even that even still like you're still at a disadvantage just in general it's like even like walking down the street like if I'm walking with Nina then you got to be paying attention like
16:10 200 yard out and then if you know something's on this side you got to like know when to cross the street and then no one to cross back so it also doesn't look like you're crossing right at the problem right but then me as a guy when I'm walking by myself sometimes I'm like that would normally be a problem for her but I must be a guy so I can just walk straight past it and not be you know what I mean and it's also like you just it's stupid ego ████ you would have to think that way though like when I take my like routinely neighborhood walks I'm always thinking about stuff like that I never and I think about during my walk man it'd be so nice to walk without having to think about my surroundings every single second I know do you think if you move let's say you move to a really nice town do you think you would be able to shake that off or you oh yeah I think the environment
17:00 helps as far as like the crime rate and how many homeless people you run into that's where we're think in Florida are you always walking with like pepper spray I have a I have a knife on me um that's easy access and I have pepper spray as well it comes down can you imagine that's how that's how easy accesses the bottom of her tongue she's those those razor blade cholas remember those hiding razor blade sometimes fantasize about a Nacho Libre moment oh where you get to like where you're like hanging out with with your lady and you're like and then these guys are coming up and you're like back up never even happen specifically na Li
17:50 moment is you think it's people that's planned and then it's not you ████ up oh that where it's a setup but it's not a setup goes wrong and it goes right some wrong guys so funny I'm about to invent that though a knife we can easy access and then shoot pepper spray out of it baby a pepper spray knife yeah problem with a knife for a female is it could be used against you I mean pepper spray can too of course any tool can be but at least you have some distance and it's made to create more distance correct um with the knife if you're not training with it one it's kind of like obsolete and two it could be used against you pretty pretty quickly and it's close combat what if it has a buddy band around it and you can just or it has a sign that says please
18:40 don't take me and use it for yourself property property of colen chain link yeah once you stab it's your knife not mine once you stab somebody you just press a pepper spray so pepper spray inside also it all sounds so good in theory until ████ hits the fan yeah yeah I think the best is being able to Sprint yeah honestly yeah get get away from the keep run whistle you know how to run you could outrun a lot of ████ don't let anyone get too close to like this is as far as videos where the knife gets dropped to know that it could get taken pretty easily but then with knives too you got to be so close to actually using you got to be closer than you probably already are then bring a sword you got to bring a sword you got to save for a kill shop First Choice run yeah preferably into like a restaurant or like a public area
19:30 that has other people but you got to also have a ████ whistle while you run yeah we have we have that thing where you just pull open it makes the craziest noise the what we have this uh tool where you just rip open it and it just makes the craziest noise oh those are the like the birdie things right yeah yeah the super alarming noise you just got to pull it there was a different article that I didn't I didn't use it cuz we didn't need it but it was very short article of a girl that was like a fitness enthusiast it says and that she she goes on the same jog every morning and that a guy was hiding in between two cars to like Ambush her and then got her and was like trying to take her down and she literally audibly yelled he's trying to me mhm and everyone heard it and before they could even react and they all did
20:20 he just shot her and killed her holy ████ W and he wasn't a homeless guy he was just a guy and they arrested him at his house later that day that's why the best case scenario if you can just get away from the person but the I think the problem is the Ambush part right cuz she got ambushed she did get ambushed yeah that's why I'm saying if you can yeah like find a way to that that's when you have to pull this up as a lady it's it's really sad cuz you really can't let anyone get close to you you can't even make you can't like a shoulder distance uh-uh you can't even risk it these days the amount of anxiety it it comes with to always be on guard 2 smack she always does this thing where if we're going to pass a corner like let's say we're passing a building and you can't see if something's there she always goes like that yeah yeah bro that's ████ so smart oh my goodness she always like
21:11 goes way wide around it so cuz she doesn't want to be right at the edge of it that's so scary comment your ████ tips below honestly that's crazy I'm sure people got some some little tips yeah we need some more mansplaining for Colleen cuz she doesn't get it she's not getting the point she doesn't understand
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