0:00 [Music] welcome back to careful boys everybody these boys could not be more careful we've been pretty good i i think that because of the state of how the world is like we've been extremely careful and we've been dancing around topics in a very respectful way spreading awareness and peace of love joy and respect and unity joy and respect yeah i like the joy part yeah that's the yeah i hear that as much and also making hard news very enjoyable and standing up for the rights of people who can't stand up for themselves i think that's what that's what really i'm proud of myself about and taking heart anthony yeah mainly him well taking hardline stances on topics that are really extremely difficult to talk about yeah definitely you know what i mean you gotta actually go into a good joke it
0:51 can't just be a recurring thing it gets really boring anthony's grumpy huh i'm grumpy what's going on um this is what i wanted to know since you guys have learned so much in your lives if you had to go back to your high school and give a seminar to the kids of today what would you say oh i can't wait bro but they never want me back i ████ email every single school that i got kicked out of dropped out and i say dude check this out like i'm a great success story of a proposition let me go back let me talk to the kids knock some sense into these sons of ████ and i'll ████ make sure that you'll have a higher percentage of successful students you know what anything's going on they don't they don't even message me i think they're just reading your email [Laughter] just now and i think they just read it and
1:42 they're like oh yeah we definitely don't want those yeah like i have all knocked some respect in these sons of ████ like i think they're just reading it where do you think those kids are going wrong that they need to be too they might be like hey you got to see this email yeah that's true i just want to tell them to get the ████ out of that place as soon as possible ████ yeah that's probably why they're not bringing you like drop out or graduate or no get out go just walk down what are you doing you need this what's the next step for these kids that they're all just believing yeah let's get out they get out they're like then what what if these kids listen to your every word what's their name what grade are we talking to i think that six to eight sixth to eighth grade oh at junior high school i haven't thought about that yet dude i haven't thought about that no no no no but but real talk though i get uh a call from my you one of my favorite things to do okay graduated from cal state la i always get
2:33 a call from them asking if i would like to donate and things like that my favorite thing to do is to tell them no that's it i'm not using my degree ████ you oh wow okay what was your degree again psychology you don't think you're using psychology no it's a bachelor's you can't do ████ with that and i didn't pay attention as hard but i still got good grades and i judge the school system because i'm like i should have to work my ass off for those straight a's i should have to like i should the work ethics that you learn in the real world college is too ████ easy and maybe it's just that yeah you're right yeah i agree it's too ████ easy yeah at cal state la right you know who relates to you right now college students they're going this s███'s too easy this thing i'm stressing out about yeah every night it's just what so easy give me something hard in the moment i thought it was the
3:24 hardest thing i've ever done and then um you live life and you go ████ this is a fake world because this is a ████ isn't that the point though to like edge in slowly you know what i mean not dump it all on you at one time i think what happened was i grew up too early in high school and i saw some adult ████ and then when i went back to college i was like this is ████ easy bro yeah cal state l.a yeah you should have known that joe was seeing some real adult ████ so if you went back and spoke at cal state l.a you would tell them to get out he told him it's easy nah to be honest i'm just ████ with you guys i think a lot of people actually need school but when it comes down to the economics of everything i think it's horrible so like back when i was going to college um the financial aid and all those things were still really good so you could
4:14 practically get out of school without too much debt in your you know i mean obviously you have to consider in like what kind of major you're in you might be like going into the medical field you might be doing like a you know doctorate and you might rack up bills that way which is still a hefty price but it was still a reasonable rate where like you know you go to school you can get a good degree that will get you a good job and you can pay off that loan um because it was reasonable but right now i mean dude you're getting a ████ degree in humanities or like ████ i don't know like journalism or some ████ and then you're gonna be in debt for a hundred grand after you graduate that's ████ crazy and for those reason i would say damn watch out for those call like don't what like how much is your degree gonna cost you watch out if you don't have a parent paying for that ████ be careful
5:04 so just for the for that aspect i'd be like watch out for school but other than that so you go back to like seventh and eighth graders and tell them to watch out college college yeah yeah yeah but if i don't know you guys talk i'll i'll talk later what would you tell them junior higher or the college either one either one you pick man that's tough dude because you know when you like when you feel like you have good advice because you went through it but then you're like man these ████ are too dumb to even know what i'm talking about because i was dumb too you know what i mean if you're like if you're like how do you it's like how do you give good life advice to someone that's getting a boat or every three minutes when they're staring at you and they're not even attracted to you that's true confusing it was so hard for me to pay attention in junior high because just having ████ boners and you got the craziest 80d like i would
5:54 see people like rip their the gum wrapper the foil and then put it on the binder and i'm like you could do that that's ████ crazy man i'm probably learning about some crazy ass science newton's law ████ but i wasn't paying attention because i saw some guy putting ████ gun wrappers on his binder that looked like the cool thing to do that is pretty cool so how do you compete with that you know you can so i want to have a good message but i want it to be received so maybe i'll go to the college route best thing is though is that nothing we're going to say is original anyway because like everybody ████ says the same ████ all the time like think about i think about my high school valedictorian who not i wasn't the valedictorian but the person who was talking and they're like ████ up make mistakes and everyone's like god damn this is gonna be ████ that's true i wish someone was like yo man ████ cal state santa barbara's or some ████ or like
6:45 that's cool but nothing's going to teach you like life will they i want them to come out and be like in high school they're like check this out all the best parties are at ucr and then if you want to ████ if you want to ████ really uh go out and ████ a lot then you go to uc san francisco or whatever right and i'm like ah you're speaking my language i love house parties cal state pomona baby you know like i know what school you know what i wish they taught me i wish they would have taught me to find out what you want to do and then reverse engineer the way to get there right like if you want to be a comedian just probably go to improv school take some stand-up classes or whatever or if you like ████ parties maybe you figure out a way to get like
7:35 in the insomniac crew so you could throw like big-ass parties like edc versus i think the way that's taught in school is you jump into the method without even knowing what the result is so the goal is get into college get skills yeah it's the method and then you explore within the method but that's weird that's like saying like go go to the gym and then figure out what you want to do with your body no like figure out what you want to do with your body do you want to be a boxer do you want to have a six pack what do you want to do and then now find the way of training to help you get to that result rather than just do for the sake of doing just rep that's right the thing is with usually like we still talking about college we talking about before college whatever you want because i think not before college cause they have boners too much yeah that's true though well then i guess i respect kids never mind dude um did you ever have an army recruiter or
8:25 marine speak at your school when you're a kid uh i remember taking what are those things called the ████ of satinizer so i'm sure everyone's taking in the cafeteria like those standardized tests to see star testing or story or whatever those things are and i remember like there would be recruiters walking around oh but they never gave a speech about like or they ████ set up a a pull-up bar or they bring a hummer in with yeah they would do the pull-up bar but they're bad they bring a hammer in with subwoofers and ████ is that what you're talking about pandering rotc right maybe yeah usually like rotcs uh on campus and stuff we didn't have rotc in our schools i just don't know what if i've ever listened to a speech before i'm going and gone man i learned so much from that speech especially at that eight yeah sometimes i i remember i remember having like a moment of like damn that guy's so right and then you start playing basketball and then you go home and you ████ eat dinner
9:17 you jack off and then tomorrow you forget exactly any of that ████ exactly and i i i don't know maybe i'm just dumb as ████ but i feel like most people all the way up until college never take nothing serious and don't also have the discipline to even execute when they're inspired because nothing teaches you like life does that's what i'm saying like because you can hear the speech you can get the inspiration it's temporary it's fleeting it'll go away but you you when you go through ████ in life you actually build the methods that you can get over obstacles with but but hearing somebody talk about it isn't gonna cement it the same way that's cool is that there's one guy that when i was in third grade he came to my school and spoke and i never forgot this advice that he gave today's video is brought to you by bombash mission is simple to make the most comfortable clothes ever and match every
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11:48 do not let anyone tell you that you can't learn something and i never ████ forgot it damn that's pretty cool isn't that the most effective way to speak to like a kid i was in third grade and i was like holy ████ and then he just proceeded to like talk about like there's no limit to knowledge whatever you choose to do you can do it you can do multiple things you don't have to focus on one you can do anything you want i think i'm the kid who sits there and goes um i don't know if i'm listening to scorpion face guys he spoke to me yeah supposed to be because i feel like i see these ████ ten squares and i'm like you got a guy with the scorpion i'm like i want to be that guy third grade third grade i would have been the kid like excuse me why are you so fat there's there's kids like that i do think though that like when you're an impressionable um at that age like you
12:39 gotta speak that language if you want that person to understand what you're talking about it's got to be you know your room i remember um a sub came into econ class one time and taught me more about life than the entire ████ class and i'll never forget too he's like he lady comes in and he's like hey so i just want to let you guys know that um you're allowed to cheat you're allowed to cheat in here and already i was like what the ████ you doing huh and then he goes as long as you don't get caught you get caught you want a great trouble other than that and then i was like uh in my mind i was like i know there are like elements that are wrong about this did he have his chair turned around and sitting like this when he was talking but ultimately i'm like that peep game that like changed my understanding you know what i mean hey guys let me tell you something about it just made it real it just made it a lot like oh let me try and like outsmart
13:30 this teacher or whatever and blah blah it just made it like okay cool like that is the relationship that we all have and everybody's smart enough to know that that exists and it's like cool i don't want to get caught you're right you know what i'm saying yeah that's no in the room for sure which i guess is i guess what i'm saying is uh that's what speeches do right like of course i think you guys are right most people don't give a ████ about those speeches but chances are if like that one person gets something from it that one person is probably actually going to be running like the corporation that most of these people are working at anyway you know what i'm saying so it's like kind of all that matters yeah i think the ones that really spoke to me or if i do go back i would want to talk about the realness of like um how kids probably are feeling in high school with the whole depression and wanting to kill themselves and everything because everyone thinks that they're so special like when you're at that age you think you are you you have a ████ up haircut
14:22 and you feel like everyone's looking at you no one gives a ████ about you dude but then like you really are a goddamn narcissist when you're like young right you think oh i can't go to school man it's all over dude my sweaters ████ shrink now they're gonna make fun of me dude my life is over and you're a narcissist and you probably look up to a narcissist who's like on tick-tock yeah i think i would structure my speech in a way where i want to make them feel like you know like dude this is it's normal and then you'll get over it because like i think when you're in your head at that age that's why there is like teenage suicide and self-destructive behavior and drowning themselves in drugs because they're trying to i don't know like ease the pain of the ████ that they're going through not knowing that this is just a part of it like it sucks but it's a part of you
15:12 know going down the rabbit hole of negative thinking and whatever and it's just a part of being human and when you're in high school and you have all these hormones going around like you go through a dark place you might do that and i think that's that's something that no one really talks about and maybe i probably do if i do get up there and like talk about it is like yeah dude life's gonna ████ suck like heavily you might want to kill yourself right now whatever but it does get better you know yeah i'm not bringing you into my high school no way i like the idea of telling kids that like you might want to kill yourselves or just a mixture between both of your things where it's like you guys want to keep yourselves good that's good just know that if you do you're going to get a a huge bunch of trouble just know if you do you're gonna be dead but your seat has to be backwards you're gonna be ████ busted you kill yourself gonna be busted it's like a 90s like i'm a rebel teacher
16:04 kind of ████ he comes in with a boombox chewing gum blowing it but that ████ did resonate with me when i was a kid like if a sub came in and they were just like younger and cooler yeah it you it did resonate hotter big boobs and then later you realize that that guy was so lame oh yeah he was fine but it was age appropriate at the time that's true i remember for my college uh graduation our keynote speaker was um the bass player for lincoln park what that's dope cause that was his alma mater and he came up like all square ████ in a ████ suit and you can have like a piece of paper and he's like kind of like shaking and he was we and he was like reading the words he was like ████ that i was just kidding he just ripped it up he tore off his suit and he had a ucla jersey underneath and he just started talking to people and then like all of a sudden everyone that was like this stuff like speech was like oh ████ he's talking to us like
16:54 normal people and that was i forgot what he said but just that impression of like you can be successful and be a human being was was cool yeah yeah especially at that age all the teachers or the mentors that you talked to the ones that you really enjoyed were the ones that actually talked to like just a normal person they didn't talk to like an adult talking to a kid i think they know their audience yeah they know how to like just communicate they're effective communicators at the end i wonder how like um military recruiters like because i'm sure they all have their own individual like skills on how they get their person to sign up but like the one that came to my school did not do a good job what do you do he was just talking about like what the process is like for boot camp and everybody was like ████ that you want to starve dude [Laughter] people were dying boot camp every ████ year it was like it's called helicopter
17:44 all i remember is like my impression of it was very negative and like the standout thing that i remember him saying was like yeah so there was a time where we all had to uh your your task is to go underwater with another uh person and inflict pain before you both drown and i was like inflict pain before we drown like what does that even mean that guy's not meeting his quotas yeah yeah yeah there's one kid in there who's like see green who like graduated from my high school and he came back to talk to the kids about it oh he went to that house i went to that high school yeah our high school it would say gabriel yeah if i could tell kids something that that has resonated for me it's that every room i've been in no matter where i've ever been everyone doesn't know what the ████ they're doing i cannot emphasize that enough to people i was at a company saying about it
18:34 but but everyone's figuring out as they go yeah like if you could learn anything i swear to god it's that nobody knows what the ████ they're doing everyone's making up as they go along even the cats at disney are going like yeah i think i ████ know yeah this is some new age ████ this is worth a billion dollars right and so so those cats meanwhile at disney right they sell that place they end up you know actually acquiring the company then finding out like oh my god what the ████ is all this what did we buy yeah they they popped the hood like jesus christ there was no engine and in the guys and then the guys that bought it are probably working for apple now no they're not even at disney anymore yeah oh and they got shuffled somewhere else nobody ████ fails everyone fails up if anything that is that is a that is a hardcore truth of reality that might be the number one key right headless ████ chickens everywhere everywhere from top to bottom everywhere nobody
19:25 knows what the ████ they're doing as they go that's it that is so good because there is no exact way to do something otherwise everyone will just do it to the letter and they don't nobody can because there's such different factors and circumstances for everybody yeah and just depends on where the ████ you are too yeah so that's why the worst thing about people who give speeches like that and um that's all they did was kind of freestyle their way through it but then in retrospect they put the pieces together differently and they say they did it a different way but it's like that's probably how you think you did it but the reality of it was way more ████ ad-libbed yeah and people hardly ever tell anybody that dude mark cuban sold broadcast.com to yahoo for billions of dollars right that it was a ████ joke broadcast.com was a ████ joke bro there was they had like a couple of things going on but it was like a ████ joke but mark cuban wasn't a joke no he wasn't and he was a good salesman and that's why he's worth the
20:16 billions right so but the company that he sold was was a result of excellent craftsmanship and just hitting the market at the right time and but i would do what the ████ they were doing what happened after you sold it who bought it like what whatever became of it after they bought it go go look at broadcast.com right now exactly what happened afterwards mark cuban got of no never air 404 i forgot who said this go daddy now buy this redirect me to angel fire [Music] so
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