0:00 Welcome back to Careful Boys. Suban has a very important message for everybody. He wants everyone to know this very important thing. Take it away, Subi. >> One important thing what I learned is you really feel everything older you get. Mhm. You know >> heart or on like the like >> He's talking about like getting hungover. >> [laughter] >> We don't drink. >> Is that what you're talking about? Recovery? >> It's not It's not the same. >> That's true. That's very true. >> It's not the same cuz growing up I was just like, "I don't care if I get hungover." You know, when you wake up the next day you're just like, "Ah, let's do it again." >> [laughter] >> But today really was like, "Oh my god, dude." >> What was I thinking? >> You want to do it again? >> No, I just like, "Dude, what was I thinking?" Bro, I got work to do and
0:50 >> You want some mezcal? >> Oh my god. >> Hey, you want maybe? >> No, all all jokes aside, but all jokes aside, you know what I really noticed and there's something that really changed after boot >> What? >> is just the the views on like like politics. I don't I'm not going to talk about politics. I'm just saying about You know, before we're all so ████ invested into politics and stuff like that. Like I realized like that doesn't even matter. >> Cuz it's all controlled by one group anyway. >> Yeah, it's just It's just controlled by one group. >> By rich people. >> Hey, regardless of what you like or not, it's just like there's no freaking way of controlling it. And were we really on that side or this side this whole time? Or were we just going with >> Oh, cuz they control both sides to fight. >> Yeah. No, we are we are a flag, my
1:42 brother. We get pushed by the wind wherever the ████ they want us to go. >> Yeah, and I just I just hate how we're so um to this day we're we're constantly being divided by small things. You know what I'm saying? like >> Small hats? Is that what you said? >> No, by small by by small things. >> Oh. >> Like small ding-a-lings. >> You just have this Hawaiian accent. >> Yeah, I know. >> Do you feel Do you feel like you're more or less motivated as a National Guard to like protect like the squabbling bunch of idiots that we all are? >> No, bro. I'm like super excited and super hyped to be a guard cuz I want I want all the action. >> But what if it's like like I think when you mention small things, right? People fighting over small things. Sometimes there's hell like just riots and protests that I feel
2:32 like y'all stupid. Like that is not the way to fix a problem. And then they have to call the National Guard because there's just civil unrest and they're like destroying their own town. And then now you got to be like bro, I'm I'm right here with you guys. We're all ████ broke together. >> Yeah, you know, it's just >> But this ain't ████ with the rich people that actually need to hear this ████ >> Yeah, it's just hurting us. It's hurting It's the riots and back and forth. You're hurting you're hurting nobody but the same circle. You're hurting your own people, taxpayers, all la la la la la. But being in boot camp, you know, we all had our differences, too. You know what I'm saying? Politically, too. Views-wise, too. But uh one thing I really learned is one side of the bay
3:23 you know, go you know, they're more on the left side and this side of the bay was more on the right side. And then at the end of the day because we're stuck with each other for 6 months straight, we actually got to chat it out, talk it out, and we both were looking at each other like, "Oh, wow. That made sense. That made sense." But at the end of the day, our results were just one thing, which was just like um everyone everyone's No one really cares about it that much as people would make it seem like outside of here. you know what I'm saying? >> I remember the day after election day, I went to Target to like get Christmas ████ early cuz I like the deals. And it was just like nothing happened. But if you're on social media, it was like I can't believe this is happening. It's like an an asteroid is hitting the earth and ████ But like you you wouldn't believe how normal everybody is.
4:13 >> gave a ████ >> Yeah, it's just like when are we going to all just be cool again? >> I think there's two worlds going on right now. I think there's a physical world and there's the online world and I think the online world is way ████ crazier than real life. Because >> Yeah, if you went by the online world, I should have went to Target and everyone's weeping in the aisles and they're all saying goodbye to their loved ones cuz they're going to get deported or whatever and like this just wasn't how it is. >> But I think because the algorithm favors um things that go viral, it's always going to be crazier and crazier things. And it it has to be crazier because the novelty wears off. So, uh I don't think it reflects the real world even though there's real real world events. But to me I'm like the volume of how much
5:03 crazy ████ is out there, it's because there's millions of people recording. So, obviously like we're actually in the most peaceful time ever in human history, right? And people don't believe that because we see war in front of our faces. >> It's just chaos. >> Well, they also use they also use that as a dangly little shiny object to to get our attention. I'll never forget watching my mom watch the news every night when I was growing up. So, and we listen to talk radio all the time. But I'll never forget ████ like ABC news. You're watching ABC local news and they're like they're like, "There's something in in your house that's killing you slowly. You find out what it is at 11." And you're just like >> Ha, yeah. >> Aren't you guys supposed to like have our backs and just tell us what the ████ going on? >> Yeah, why do I got to wait till 11:00? >> Right? Like >> Cuz it's entertainment, right? >> Cuz they're not there to help you. They're there to coax you into what they
5:53 want to show you. >> They They They do that because how you how why else would you tune at 11:00? >> Right. >> You're like, "I'm so ████ scared. I have to I have to tune in at 11:00." >> But now you're ████ bricks for like 6 hours. >> Oh my god, I just had a baby. What What is going on in my house? It's like that. >> It's good TV though, isn't >> It's primal though, and they they know how to work you, man. >> I believe social media should only be for businesses. Like strictly business. >> Then we should call it business media. >> No, I'm saying You know what I'm >> watch mostly drone ████ and ████ like that, at least before you went >> Yeah, but then leave that to somewhere else, but IG is so powerful and people you know, people realize how powerful it is, how influence how how much influence people these days. Like social media, if it's not about business or like work-related stuff, don't even
6:43 don't even post about it. Like the news got to get out of the IG. >> So like LinkedIn, it's so boring. >> It's just a bunch of people like stroking each other off. >> Are you inadvertently saying that advertising and news should not be combined in a way? >> No. Yeah. Yeah. >> Cuz I think that's really the the biggest thing about it is that they use our attention, our eyeballs to sell products, right? And that's what everyone does. That's what Tubes do. Like all the Tubers come does. But like I don't know that that's a net good. >> Or I think maybe people can take a little bit more responsibility and agency of their own life. Cuz I feel like a lot of times it's like, you know, people with really bad like spending or financial habits, it doesn't matter who the president or what the economy is, it's always going to be someone else's fault. And the people that are crushing it, doesn't matter who the president or what the economy is, they're still crushing it. They just have the good habits.
7:34 But then when your things aren't going your way, it's easy to blame the other person or blame whatever outside factor. And I think that's the way it is with social media, too. Like you think your life is so affected by this online world that it's your you think it has more effect on your life than your own actions do and what you're actually doing. And I feel I think if you view it social media as oh, this is just another form of entertainment like I'm watching Peaky Blinders and Peaky Blinders actually has no effect on my life. I think there would be less of a separation and people wouldn't be fighting so hard online. They'd be like Like their online persona would be more like their in person where everyone squashes it. Everyone's cool. We can accept each other's differences and you believe in this, I believe in this, but we can still be homies. >> You know what I used to think is corny as ████ is when they would ask politicians personal questions about
8:24 like their lives at home and who they are and all that kind of ████ I used to think that ████ was corny. I'm like, can you just ask them damn issues? But now, like I have a friend my buddy Phil DeFranco, right? His wife is running for like God damn. So it's some kind of a student or school council member or something. She and I couldn't disagree more on politics ████ Like she's pretty left and I'm I've always been more right. Uh I I'm I want to vote for people that I like now. I want to vote for people who who who answer those questions about core values. Like I don't know that if I buy it anymore about the issues that matter the most because I feel like the issues never change. So I'd rather just have good people around us to protect us from ████ you know? >> Yeah. >> You know? Kind of where I I've evolved.
9:14 >> And piggybacking off the idea where like how easy access movies and shows would be the the talk of the day or talk of the anything in general arguments would be about movies or episodes and ████ like that instead of about ████ stupid politics and other people doing this and this and that. You know what I'm saying? >> Yeah. >> So I I don't know. That's what's one thing uh when you ask me that question, I should let people know it's like, "Hey, whatever is not affecting us really, we should not even give a >> I remember yeah, you you told me that recently. >> About what? >> You're like, all all we can do is control our own lives and I'm like, yeah, I got to remember that ████ >> Oh, yeah, cuz I think what ends up happening is when people get consumed in the politics stuff or these like secret societies are controlling everything and whatever, but
10:04 it's kind of like the Jordan Peterson concept of start with cleaning your room. Like a lot of people want to change the world, change the government, fix this and that, but their own house is a mess. So, it's like start with that and the relationships that you have with your friends and that's how you can affect actual stuff every day that betters the quality of your life. And it's like not being blind to like the government. Also, there's like ████ like that, but I think the pothole on my street, I could talk to my polit- like my local politician that could fix that and that has my like interest and my direct effect >> Yeah. >> than maybe something that happened in Iran. >> Yeah. >> You know, and I I could be involved in both, but like prioritize. It's kind of like starting from home and prioritizing that and then going this way versus like everything's a ████
10:55 mess and then you're like fighting with someone about politics on some high-level ████ when you're a peasant and these people are making king moves. You can't even affect what they say and you're having these fall philosophical discussions while you like don't do anything. And I'm like, that's such a waste of time, bro. >> Yeah. >> Such a waste of time. >> You tell me you want to bring on the new world order or you want me to clean my room? >> [snorts] >> Yeah. >> Clean your damn room. >> It's going to make it trust me, it's going to feel so good. You ever watch Walking Dead and that one dude, he had his house super clean, he still lived like he was normal and I'm like, he's got his humanity, dude. >> Yeah, but once I found out that the Jews want us to clean our room, I never clean my room again. >> You're playing right into it. You're playing Don't let them do it, dude. >> to plan your ████ ████ >> Dude, big Maria, dude.
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