0:00 don't make it easy for your kids all right put your priority together get a check and ain't all about the money all right but it's really about experience creating experience with loved ones oh yeah experience bro at the end it's all experience [Music] anyways welcome back to another episode of careful boys we have fash to win with us Bart has a question about your marriage so in a lot of your um the stories that we talked about in the other episodes in both like raising kids the right way and then like even like saving and kind of like even guiding some of your like life's decisions it seems like like your wife has such an integral part
0:50 in it yes um and i' and nowadays I also see a lot of memes of like how important it is to find or have that like significant other like that is almost like one of the biggest determinants of people's success um how did you know your wife was the one because during like the whole indictment like she was just your girlfriend right and so how did you know she was the one and like um what did you look for in the person I was supposed to be the one well if you backtrack back then all I was thinking back then what an idea girlfriend was someone that was that's almost like a trophy wife you know the one that everybody think of yeah you know like this person with big boobs
1:41 and you know what I mean right it's you know the one that stands out that everybody like oh my God that's your wife that's your girlfriend people were Envy right that was my vision and um the first time met Cammy was she was a senior in high school and I uh my was the coach at their high school and I already graduated two years ago and he asked me to come back and actually help coach the Tennesse so when I was coaching uh she was one of the players and we all used to go out together all the whole team and then uh Cammy and I used to talk and what's interesting is what I Envision what I want as a girlfriend but what I like and prefer even I look back today is someone who's actually more
2:31 quiet not someone like cuz I have friends I have wife and girlfriend that's like out there yeah you know what I mean and so Cammy and I started talking to her I actually like the the quietness the invert you know what I mean I thought I wanted an extrovert girlfriend I think I think the reason why it's because I was hoping that it can bring something out of me or something you know what I mean girlfriend and so the more time I spend with Camy I like the the down to earth the humbleness um and we just started um just going out playing tennis and I like the normalness of it you know what I mean and we would do more of that and I still didn't understand what I really wanted other than I like this girl cuz
3:21 she's uh just she's just lowkey and when I went through trial it really really made me think think you think about this guys she went to the grand jury almost every month for almost two years getting torture mentally raped and everything you can when a fans get on you they will just ripped you down and she was out there defending me even though I was clean but just going in every month yeah she could have rolled just cuz I was like I don't want to deal with this anymore right every month coming home crying bro and and then um I remember the day they
4:13 said you know she's already gone she's already on immunity and they said they're going to come get you on Monday Cam and I decided I need to take a quick mental break and just get out of my environment S I drove over to Vancouver BC to try to like figure out how to do this thing and we went up there we're like all right I realized Cammy has really been batting for me this is the right one you don't really know who you know what I mean tell they really bad for you and I had no money back then either you know what I mean we still broke we went through the worst case scenario if I go in for 15 years let's create a game plan on what you going to do game plan number one was will you please bring my mom and dad
5:03 when they come want to come visit bring him all right to confin me okay I got it two I'm going to give you power fraternity to have the right to sale do whatever you want to do the property you don't need both signature we're going to have that in place we went through all this other thing and the last one was if you don't want to wait until I get out of prison then you can go and start going doing being with anybody else which is fine I understand it's a lot to ask yeah and she says I ain't going nowhere wow two years of torture and then another 15 years of potentially right not even being able to see you see that's freaking crazy Next Level Next
5:54 Level bro see so that's how I knew right I got the right one yeah and then of course when we grew up together right she really is the smart one she's The Logical one she's the one who also is let those ████ kids ████ skim their ████ knees you know what I mean quit being a ████ and let them ████ skim the knees get the hell out of the way like God damn you introvert but godamn you're straight so I get the best of my world she not how to save money she to manage money yeah she's keep it humble right she's a thinker she's a you know what I mean she's smart analytical and she's a badass yeah let those ████ kid rot ████ them ████ them kids God damn it but
6:46 seriously you ask Cammy you ever give a chance she's not on social media she does have Instagram she don't have Facebook she runs the business in the back end and she she'll tell Russ Hudson no y'all ain't getting that ████ like Hudson want you know when Russell turned 16 he wanted to get a new car right I got money to buy it yeah right we're like no you ain't buying it you going to have to drive this H for a year first before you buy it my friend you know they all got new car I'm mer Island you know like they all get new cars when they turn 16 nope got to drive it so now Hudson just turned 16 I want to get a new car just like Russell yeah but he didn't get it to he was a year I know but you know what steal I mean like come on I got the money to buy it now no you should buy this Honda for a year so driving the Honda for a year yeah see so it's Cammy me I would like okay ████ here you going to have
7:37 it tell your mom why should I park this car Dad I don't know park down the street somewhere don't show mom so from like uh so obviously from this side we could see why she's such a rider and she's so down yeah from her side if we were to ask Cammy why she would do that for you at that stage what would she say like why did she want to be that loyal about you yeah that's a good one um I think the reason why uh Cammy stuck with me because she says to me she doesn't know anyone that is so focused so passionate when they want something they get it and few people can do that and as I got older actually coming through that come through what I do there had not been anything that I want
8:27 I couldn't get yet I really wanted it and few people will ever be able to do that and on the spiritual side as I got older um I was told by multiple different spiritual teacher yeah that and it's so funny cuz I just got another one this one of my other teachers sent this to me um uh this uh uh the other day she says when you add up your birthday my birthday add up like may may was my month mhm May 18 right yeah and the year 1970 add up to 22 and she sent this to me said right the life path Master number 22 those with a life path number 22 tend to have greater spiritual
9:17 understanding and the ability to apply knowledge in a practical way they have the potential to achieve a normous success with a unique talent for manifesting idea into reality and as such uh are often referred to as the master builder and what's interesting is this is this another thing and I have had one I had many spiritual teacher on my journey in the last 20 year had commented on stuff like this and I don't even know but today everything I want I always get and so Cammy uh really uh because she's also one of those kind of person she wants some she get too so we both have this interesting thing where we very driven and she's an introvert and I'm an extrovert interesting they make a good
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10:59 and you can come talk to us directly so if you like what we do and what we've been doing for the past 10 years please support our patreon and click the link below to get all the details there's so many different tiers you can see it when you click that yeah one thing I thought that was really cool was when we first started talking like I would actually hit thatch up for a bunch of advice yeah and seeing like like how big of a person he is in the real estate space uh you would think that like if I have asked a question he would just fire back but almost every question I ask he goes let me talk to Cammy first wow and then they would come back and reply as a team sometimes even in voice memo as a team this is what we think about your situation right I was like the brain do you know this there's a lot of people don't know this so in my uh mentorship when student
11:50 they email in question that I got this deal I'm paying this much for it it's going to cost me this much I'm putting this much money down my monthly payment is this interest rate is this my rent is this and I'm gonna do this Adu or not ad you and um and here's my question what do you guys think what do you think that's what they ask me and then what happened is that Cammy will read all these students and then she read it and she reply back without even be replying it a lot of student think it's me but it's Camy uh so that's the lot that's the smartness of it because you understand so that's why when Bart asked these questions I like honey Bart ask this question what do you think oh if I was in Bart you I would definitely do this D D D D D all right let me tell him that so she is the Smart logic one so I know how to go out there and bring the
12:41 fish she know how to hit that fish and make goldade dinner out of it yeah you're like the CEO she's like the CEO she is yeah yeah so she she operates and then you can do the sales you can do the networking the promotion everything yeah I'm the promoter she's the CEO yeah oh yeah and it worked out well right and I think it's it was part of the Journey of we attracted each other from day one and she's been a Die Hard die right to to all way to man 15 years for real right that's why I think right if you're going to have a healthy balanced successful life meaning money joy happiness peace of mind all that you got to find someone man that can just ride with you like that that's crazy to know that like your partner even if all of this went away yeah she's still going
13:31 to be there it's pretty massive I'm going to catch a case and test how book me up book me up book me up right now are you going to stay if I'm locked up for 15 years ████ no I'm out of here I'm when can I leave that's such a crazy thing the fact that she was down bro I'm telling you time like she would have been you think G would do that for you yeah I think she would cuz my my moment with that was um was when me and Joe first graduated college and we didn't really know what to do cuz YouTube wasn't really a built thing yet um we were like ████ are we going to like become police officers and try to do YouTube on the side are we going to become nurses like what are we going to do we're trying to find like a job that like worked three four days out of the week and we'll do YouTube on the side and we were really conflicted and I
14:24 remember like the the moment exactly for what it was I never had anyone outside of family like sh like portrayed this amount of like loyalty before I was staying with Gio at at her place um where she was renting a house with other people in their 20s that were all like working professionals and I was sitting on the counter and I was like man I don't know what to do and she could just tell that this was something that was like going through my mind and then she was like how about this I'll support you cuz she had a job she was working at a bank at the time she goes I'll support you for as long as you need until you figure out uh if you want to continue that's cool bro and I was like what the ████ like you support me cuz most I think most even till this day right you go on a date with the chick they assume you're going to pay that's right so that's such a and that's just a ████
15:14 dinner right for her to go like I'll support you the whole thing you're living like I'll pay all your bills you and you and Joe have something special going on go figure that out see if you can make something out of it and I was like oh ████ and and and and even just talking about YouTube back in the day it's like that's like forign you know what I mean like what the ████ how yall going to make any money do talk yeah it like 2009 yeah I don't even know if they were monetizing channels yet yeah it was she was just like you figure it out and then when I told her recently though I was like hey you know thinking back to that moment I actually had two sides I had one side I revealed to you there's another side I didn't reveal to you she actually got mad like the one side that I revealed to you I was like that's so ████ dope that you're that loyal and that committed to me the other side of
16:05 me I was like see that's why Mexicans are so irresponsible so financially irresponsible making stupid decisions like this what a dumb decision wrong thing I should have invested into crypto or something now I'm this guy he's like I could have left you I could have freaking I could have invested in real estate but I invested in you God damn it SS what a bust but that's good bro that's that's that's serious though you talking about did I all in I mean that's that's that's that's that's a lot of money think about it yeah it was all in she was like you move in with me uh I'll cover your bills you don't have to worry about it you just work on whatever you need to work on with Joe all day for as long as you need and I was like what the ████ that's crazy dude yeah I feel like
16:55 that's such a lucky thing that you know like with Camy or Gio how they were down to to do these things but they didn't have to do them is pretty like that's pretty that's pretty lucky that cuz there's a lot of women out there that are down to do that and then they end up having to do that somewhere out there there's some lady that's literally 15 years in waiting for her man to get out of jail and she's been loyal and it's like sad and the dude's been cheating on her in jail with another dude no but you know what's crazy though it's crazy it's crazy is I'll tell you from my own life experience and and Bart you maybe you can share your thoughts as much uh Financial blessing that I got it wouldn't be even be the same if you didn't have nobody to share with that's true yeah you know what I mean yeah like
17:48 get out there's money and you go on vacation with who yeah you know what I mean right like all right got the let's let's go to Japan for two weeks with who you know what I mean by yourself I mean you could you know what I mean I wonder what your life really would be like if you were doing all this but you didn't have a family like what would you what would be the point like you might not even be as driven maybe I wouldn't I wouldn't cuz you know you only need so much for your own self yeah after a while what take you to the next level whose future are you doing it for you know cuz after the next level it's all about outside of you yeah for you you know for all of us in this room right we can make 100 Grand be good you know what I mean or whatever right but once you go beyond that the wife the kids the
18:38 family the friend the mom whatever right it's beyond you now it's a bigger it's a bigger cost and so like I that's I think about man it's like if I was like Divorced with her like ████ what the ████ I do all this for anyways like like go have this money do what there's a lot of people I know that got a lot of money they riding solo to a car show you know what I mean I mean it's like what sometime I look in my garage I'm like this is all cool and Dy but like you know if my kid didn't like want to kick it with me or you know like my kid the other day H my birthday and they brought me this card and it's like you know thank you for doing this thank you for that thank for that and then they say at the end thank you for always showing up to my baseball game and watching me play damn it's going to make me cry yeah different from the 9s movies
19:30 where the kids are playing and then there's like dad's gone working again they look at the empty bleacher seat empty seat the mom's like you'll be here any minute son listen where I live there's a lot of parents that don't show up bro yeah I bet are they are they busy cuz they're just constantly working or like they're not buying real estate so they got to actively make their money they got no passive income streams they're busy working and I hate to even say it a bunch of them are Asians yeah that's I mean that's the mentality bro too many Kickbacks dude work first do you know that uh Jason's parents they from uh he's from China his mom and dad um you they wanted to come over to the US and you trying to see if he can get a better life when he was 13 and he came over here to take off school and after he got here 13 and then he
20:20 liked it then his parents just shipped him off and Liv with a um with a uh nanny or something uh uh like a sponsor spor family he oh yeah they're called uh parachute kids they send them over first and then later they might come to America whatever he been living here on he been living in Seattle since 13 years old he's 22 years old wow dang you know Mom and Dad will come visit once in a while right yeah he talk to me every day but he been living here in Seattle went to school went went to high school went to ele middle school high school college right everything since night 13 wow on his own see so um so he's independent for sure but you know everything else is lonely man so like like that's why when I say yo bro you want to go to LA with me he's like oh man he love kicking with me cuz I'm like his dad you know what I mean and he get to learn from me you know I
21:11 mean that kid just already bought a million dollar uh forp Plex recently where he got money from helling Wow and so now he's like 22 yeah see 22 dude but but uh but yeah so um you know that's you know when my kid wrote that like thanks for coming to my baseball game all the time watching me play yeah yeah that means now you know in their mind what matters oh yeah and it means a lot that you go and they're not even starting bro Ser I'm going to watch you sit you look good out there son seriously that means a lot right so that's to put the thing in perspective a lot of people like in our world I'm trying to work my ass or so you can have something you didn't have you know yeah and the kids like you show it to my baseball game yeah the kids don't care about they don't care yeah that's true yeah see yeah I never care about that
22:02 and so sometime you know the old generation we got it backward man they're so busy working trying to provide to these kids so they don't have to suffer when the kid all the kid want is just man where my parents at every all parents they suffer from Something Different yeah you know and you know when I came up of course my mom didn't had to work some of these parents today you know what I mean at least one parents you mean one parent can show up you know what I mean yeah but I remember this one Asian Chinese kid he he he he's go to the game man his mom and dad or the nanny would drop him off and and then when they get de Nanny pick him up like what the ████ that's what I'm saying I don't envy Rich Kids man when you see the full like picture when you're that age you go ████ you have everything the newest things that come out I'm like man your life must be so good and then you turn around you're like oh ████ no friends no family just no purpose no motivation everything is
22:55 just solved with money and then you're just like man I I'm glad that I had the opposite I don't know I don't know if you remember um our friend Victor was being paid to hang out with some hedge fund manager's son I do remember that remember that yeah cuz this guy was so busy that he couldn't spend time with his son yeah he paid one of our friends to just be his homie wow you think about it why are we doing all here for anyways you know what I mean exactly really thing about the Deep why the hell you do it all anyways you see what I mean so it make me no don't no DN sense you know what I mean so I agree with you bro like some of those kids they're the most loneliest kids man and they do ████ you know what I mean like like just get attention yeah yeah yeah they act out in order to get seen I know I know one that just be lying and ████ just to just so you can like they can think can like
23:46 they feel like you know he say ████ this so life you really get attention yeah right and and and he and he lived like that bro since I've been knowing him since middle school damn still do it today test me bro so don't make it easy for your kids all right put your priority together get a check yeah it ain't all about the money right but it's really about experience creating experience with loved ones oh yeah experience bro at the end of day it's all experience anyways and it is a blessing that both of you guys went through something that was made a big enough chance for them to show how loyal they were that's pretty and the thing is I always tell people you don't have to learn it on your own you can learn from other people's mistake also that's true right I don't want to learn from my mistakes
24:36 anymore I've done enough I made enough mistakes you learn everything off Joe give us a mistake Joe so we can learn [Music]
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