0:00 Okay, we got another one of these things. I know we've talked about it many times, but it's kind of all over the Asian internet right now. Um, so get ready for another one. >> Oh, this ████ >> I saw this one. Sick. >> We got to watch. Yeah, >> hate her already. >> No, I like her already. Give it to me, dude. >> And I'm Asian. Here's why. Okay. So, I can't get it to play exactly the right spot. But she says, "I've never dated an Asian guy before >> because there's no sex appeal or something." >> Well, that's what she'll say. Yeah. >> Up across Canada, United States. All the Asian men I saw depicted in the media were definitely lacking in sex appeal. I think of Long Doug Dong from 16 Candles, who's just this like goofy, silly character um with, you know, no sex
0:51 appeal. >> Old references. Um, and then I think about various kung fu masters who are very strong and competent, but emotional range. And so it was definitely heavy heavily influenced by what I saw from Hollywood. Another reason that I don't date Asian men is because I feel like I already have an Asian mom and I really don't want like another second Asian in-law to disappoint. I feel like the expectations are high and I guess like with a different culture it feels like there's more of a range of thought if you are from like the other so to speak and so you're still learning about someone else's culture. >> So she's not saying like Asian men are yucky or anything. >> It's it's just the most stupidest outdated take that you could possibly have in this day and age. >> But also it's like why did you make this content? She looks young enough to to
1:43 not be stupid about K-pop and all the Asian like like ████ we watch like Fast and Furious all that stuff. >> There's a lot of hot ass boys out there that are Asian for sure. >> That's why I'm like those references that she's making, those are like Asians that are Gen X. >> She's never seen Anthony Lee. >> Well, she never seen Anthony Lee for sure. But for me, I'm like, okay, if you put out a thesis, right, it's like going like I hate dogs. I'm like, "Okay, I would like to hear maybe new information you're going to add." But then she goes, "So citing this paper from 1974." I'm like, "WHAT THE F███?" >> WHY ARE YOU WRITING a old paper? >> Yeah. Or at least people in your life, not ████ 16 candles or something like >> that's crazy. >> Anthony, you said that she made a good point. What did you mean by that? I mean, I said she's not wrong in the idea that like I don't think about being like
2:33 if I'm going to uh date another person and then their uh their parents will become my in-laws. And if I have a problem with my own parentage and then I see a mirrored or reflection of that, I can understand how that might be problematic. walking into another Asian in-law situation. I can see how that's going to be like, well, ████ here comes here comes that can of worms versus maybe like uh like she was basically citing let's say I got married to like a a white family or whatever. And because it's a little bit more like, oh, we're respectful to each other's like differences, then you get more Yeah. leeway. That's all. >> So, you're saying whites are better. >> They smell funny >> in a roundabout way. >> White people smell funny. Well, I heard that earlier, but I'm talking about >> It is weird though. It seems like it seems like Asians are the only ones that
3:23 point out like, "Well, I don't want to marry my own brother." Like, I don't really hear that from other Like, everyone's dating their own kind, but they never say, "I'm I'm incestual." >> Like, that's your cousin, I think, though. So, I mean, >> well, that's true. >> Yeah, I dated my cousin and it didn't feel like it. But yeah, it just feels weird cuz you don't have you don't see like a black chick going, "Oh, I don't date black dudes." >> It's like my brother. I mean, you you you do see a lot of black a lot of black guys say they don't date black girls, >> but not the other way around, right? That's a stereotype where the It's like black women are like Asian guys in this case. >> I I still think it's about how hard you're looking cuz I think we're not going to be in conversations where Indian people are saying that. We're just not going to be there. How do you guys feel about what she was saying about like representation and depiction so that over time somebody might not
4:14 feel like this is a sexual act? I think you have to really work hard not to see any Asians in movies. Like I was I grew up watching like Jackie Chan movies all ████ >> talking about the sex appeal, the lack of romance character. >> So Jackie Chan's like comedy. He's goofing around like falling in funny places. It's not necessarily like ████ Sean Connory and James. >> I guess cuz I'm not a chick. I don't know what that's like cuz I just thought Jackie Chan was ████ awesome. You know what I mean? Like but I'm not a chick. I'm not like trying to ████ or nothing. >> Were you trying to ████ Jackie Chan though? The way you're trying to ████ >> I'm with Steve. Because since I'm not a chick, if I were to pretend to be a chick, I'd be like >> I would ████ rub my ████ to Wolverine every ████ >> Exactly. Exactly. >> But I also think chicks never do that. >> But I don't I don't need movies to tell me someone's beautiful. Like if if you're if you've never seen like Polynesians on film, right? But you've seen them in real life, you're like there's some hot ass ████ islander
5:05 girls, right? There's like so many women that aren't represented on film, but they're ████ gorgeous. And you don't need like media to tell you that. So, I think that argument is so stupid. >> Yeah. I think it's it's so old. >> See a hot Indian, so I don't think they're hot. And it's like, well, >> it just feels weird that that it feels weird that someone Asian took the stereotypical ignorant white 1990s opinion and is using it now as like like why would you bring up these super the no one knows who Long Duck Dong even is now. And she also reinforces, you know, how there is that like uh self-hating Asian chick stereotype. She's like reinforcing that stereotype, too. >> Exactly. And also, it's like, and a lot of pe, it's not just me pointing it out. You can you can go ahead and call me chopped, but I don't think it matters if
5:55 you look like that who you're dating. No one gives a ████ dude. Like, I I can't not say this. >> That comment says the same thing. >> That's what I'm saying. Lion's not running for mayor at all. >> He is not running for mayor. Oh, ████ ████ politics. I'm like vote for him. >> If you have like a really like like Disha Patani saying why she doesn't date Indians, that's news cuz I'm like why? >> And it's valuable. >> Yeah. Like why this this person everyone wants? Why is nobody like >> Cuz all Asian dudes are like I don't want her anyways. >> That's what I'm saying. Yeah. I'm like you're not even in the pool of like It's like when ugly people come to your school to talk about sexual abstinence. >> I have to say you don't have the problems that pretty people do. I didn't find her attractive until she opened her mouth and said a bunch of racist stuff. >> Then you got horny. You're like my type of girl. >> Then I kind of liked her. >> I think that has to be said because that's every Asian's pointing that out. They're like, "Dude, that's not even who
6:45 you want to hear that from." >> Oh, that that was my question. Like what's like the majority of like the comment pools like the consensus? >> Oh, it's going to be just roasting her. >> The majority is she doesn't speak for Asians. >> That's the majority thing. They're like because they're like >> that's fair. >> That's who we want. That's That person's ████ invisible at UC Irvine. >> It's It's impressive to see a chick who has more forehead than I do. >> Like, come on, man. Don't make me the only person not in politics. >> Okay. >> Hey. Whoa. I just did a I just stepped out of politics just now. >> It's It's a very funny frame that you paused on her, though. That >> Bro, pick a ████ >> Oh, the whole video is like that. >> Oh, dude. This is getting meanspirited. >> Darren, that's what you want. Personality like whack whack personality, too. >> That's what you want, dude? You know what she reminds me of? >> Really good example. She's like cringe. If cringe was a embodiment of a person, that's her. >> You know, like those old black and white pictures of like feudal Korea and like
7:38 you see like the peasants and stuff. >> Okay. How about this? For for the sake of conversation, what would be the number one reason why you wouldn't date your race? >> Okay. For me is just I don't even know that I wouldn't. I just know that my experience from having dated my own race out of literally just my isolated track record, it didn't go as well. And that's not based on the >> cuz they were your cousin >> cuz they were my blood cousin. No, you ████ No, it's it didn't it's not me saying like I'll never date Filipinos now. It's just that if you asked me because I have it didn't go as as >> it's on your personal experience. cuz it has nothing to do with like a overall racial thing >> to and to be fair, it's probably my ████ fault anyway. >> I actually think it's a legitimate excuse, not excuse, but a reason where where like if you've associated abuse
8:29 with your race, >> like >> abuse? Oh ████ Yeah, it's bigger. Yeah. >> I don't want to ████ like it just it just reminds me too much of like all this ████ and I want to be in a completely different world. I want to escape from this world and I want to be like I don't know like I find comfort with the black community or the white whatever right so I'm like yeah that makes sense um another one is like I would I would kind of see um if you if you had the the trauma linked to that gender too or like whatever and then you become like >> like you kept if you kept getting beat by Korean boyfriends like that >> something like that that would make sense to me >> but at least that's still >> I I find it hard to fetishize white women the way that I do Asian women. >> You know what? That's not That's a fair statement. They don't turn you on. >> No. No. The fetishizization
9:20 is is big for me. >> Okay. How about this? How about >> because he's watched so much Asian porn by this time. He can't get off. >> This this might not come out the right way, but just for the sake again, you three you three dudes. >> Yeah. No marriage. >> No. >> You three dudes have married non-Asian people specifically. >> There's four. I'm I'm speaking about because it's Asian topic specifically about Asian Asian. >> Yeah, cuz he's Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. She looks mostly Mexican, I will say. Thank you. >> So, hypothetically, I have no idea if we can do this, but hypothetically, let's say uh Hannah was exactly Hannah. The personality, the way she talks, whatever, where she's from, but she's just Asian looks. Which one are you more attracted to sex appeal wise? >> I don't know. I find Asian girl. I've dated mostly Asian girls. They're hot. >> Okay. Okay. But you know what I'm saying? No, I know what you're saying and and I think it's really just coincidental. >> Who's got the nicer ass? Who's got the
10:10 bigger tit to me? It's just who's hotter. >> It's coincidentally where we ended up. Like I don't think it's >> it's just who's hotter. That's what I think. So So that's what she's saying. She's just saying that Asians in general don't have sex appeal. It's not about like their worst people. >> But she's the ████ example of that. >> That's where I'm like That's why I'm like shut the ████ up. Like where's your sex appeal? Why you acting LIKE PEOPLE NEED TO YOU THINK people need to serve your ████ taste? you're do you're giving nothing. That's like a neck beard being like she ain't got no ass. IT'S LIKE WHAT I'm like look at the strides that we're trying to make in our generation as Asian entertainers and we're trying to get out there and do stuff and create appeal of different sorts. But she's just sitting back talk about it looking busted. >> I'm like, dude, that's not ████ fair. You got to get out, do some work. >> Like a homeless guy going to ████ LV and I'm like, I'm not into LV. I'm like, LV is not INTO YOU, DUDE. WHAT THE ████
11:01 >> YOU'RE NOT THE DEMO. LIKE, ████ DUDE. SO, you think if she looked like Michelle Yo, like 1997, it would be, you know what I'm saying? Tomorrow never die. >> I think people would be hurt. >> You think people would be hurt, right? >> Yeah. Yeah. We'd be Yeah, we'd be hurt. >> I think you should have been offered a good amount of the thing you say you don't want in order for that to count. >> Yeah. >> What if What if she is in like a really small pond, though? >> But then I get I get that she's I do understand that she's trying to say that it's the media that caused this opinion of hers to take ████ >> That's like blaming video games. Shut the ████ up. >> Yeah. Shut the ████ up. uh says more about how stupid she is. >> That's your brain though. Your brain is just like, "Oh, long duck dong from the ████ '8s caused me to think men have no sex." >> I shut up at school cuz I watched a ████ I I played Doom. >> Cuz on the on the same on the on the other side of the coin, you have all these white chicks that watch ████ Bruce Lee movies. Like I can't wait to suck a Chinese dick because of Bruce
11:52 Lee. Like you could have ████ watched >> all we all knew about those chicks. Bruce Lee was more popular than Long Duck Dong. How are you focusing on that >> obscure character? Well, maybe he doesn't have sex appeal, but I mean, Linda Lee felt that it was suck worthy. >> Yeah, >> Bruce Lee was jacked. >> Yeah, he was great. But also like I I mean I guess that maybe in this case it's like she doesn't see an example of the white approval of these characters. You know what I mean? Cuz that's a lot of the inter a lot of the internal uh feelings about that is like, oh, you know, with with those funny Asian characters on those things, the white people think they're dorks, so I think they're dorks. >> Right. She's reinforcing it. >> Exactly. It's like instead of just looking at it, I guess like objectively, well, that's just another guy with a role and a chance. And that's Hollywood's climate at the time was they weren't giving shots to leading men in that way. That's the end of that. You don't have to be like, now I think
12:43 Asians are gay. >> Yeah. Or just go, what do you like? >> There was there I could kind of relate though, like if someone grew up like let's say all white or Mexican or whatever in that neighborhood, cuz that was kind of like me until high school. Um, I didn't find Asian girls attractive because Mexican girls, black girls, they all develop quicker and then they dress like hella hot and ████ and then Asian girls, they kind of like late bloomers, you know, like their parents still >> or they're more conservative with how they are. >> They probably had all their parents in their lives, so they had to be more conservative >> until I moved to Monterey Park. And when I moved to Modern Park, you got these ABGs that are dressing just like Mexican girls and they look ████ good with makeup and everything. And I was like, I think I'm hard for Asians now. >> I didn't even know about ABGs until my 20s. >> Sad to be you. That's how we all saw it.
13:33 I think like even in the late '9s, we looked at the Asian girls in our scene in our community like that's a unsung hero, like a unknown treasure. Cuz then >> all the import tuner girls >> cuz mainstream mainstream entertainment didn't know they existed until maybe rush hour too >> and then we used to draw them like little stickers. You know what I'm talking about? >> Yeah. But then I was like dude these are the finest women on the planet and and then they're all for us. Like how lucky is that? But also like on the flip side too they talk about how it's so contrasting where the dudes are desexualized and the women are over sexualized. So they talk about that too in the woke Asian woke world. So then they're like, "Yeah, Asian girls are like the most highly soughta like, you know, they're the number one searched in porn, all that s███." >> They moan the best in pornos. >> That the Japanese ones, not the Japanese ones. They just cry. >> I like that. >> I don't like the crying one.
14:24 >> Max volume. >> And I know there's examples all over all over media of like unsexualized, neutered Asian characters, but it's like you're choosing to see that at this age. Do you know what I mean? You're selectively going, "That's why." And you're not just saying like, "Oh, maybe something's wrong with how I'm seen." >> Name our current sick sexiest celebrity, Asian celebrity. Go. >> Lucy Lou to me always. >> Menow men. Men. Men. I only have old references like that. Daniel Henning guy like Long Duck Dong. >> Charles Melton. >> Who the ████ >> See, you guys are going got no pride. >> I think Lucy Lou doesn't ████ age. >> No, most of the Don't ask us that because most of them are going to be half white. They are the half white ones are fine
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