0:00 I think she likes that I make a mess cuz she likes to clean. [laughter] That's what I cuz I think there's no way. >> Welcome back to Careful Boys where today we are going to speak with relationship expert Nick Dunn. >> Nick the dick done. >> I'm just kidding. You don't got to answer anything relationshipwise but >> my relationship is crumbling. the most experienced cuz out of everyone you've been in the relationship the longest. >> Who hold the record for sure >> to hold it together the longest. >> Yeah. And that's really difficult. Dickn >> and through very key phases of development in in your life which is really admirable. >> Y >> we had a good first half dude. Hopefully >> we have a good second half. >> You guys grew together the whole time. >> Yeah.
0:50 >> But once again I think a lot of it is we got very lucky. >> I think I think so too. >> That's a big chunk of Hey, but then like luck is when opportunity meets like preparation. >> ████ You're right. You're right. You're right. >> Word. All right. So, here's the question. Um, >> you were prepared. >> And the reason I I'm bringing you up because I think you you you'll have a good answer for it. What's something that you cannot even believe your girl likes about you >> like this? D. >> True. >> Add that to the list. [laughter] >> You're asking Nick, right? >> Anybody? >> Oh, I thought you were asking Nick first. I think he'll have a good answer, but I think you're all, you know, >> if I were to really think about it, I don't even know what Gio likes about me. >> I [laughter] ask that all the time. You can't even name one thing confidently. You don't think she likes your face? >> Definitely not my face. My unexpressive face >> with zero emotions.
1:40 >> You don't think she likes the default way it looks? >> I think she's used to looking at it. It's almost like I think it's like imagine the the the sidewalk you walk home from from school every day that has a giant crack in it. You're used to seeing that. So when they repave it, you're like a [laughter] >> I like the crack. I like seeing the root coming through and cracking the whole thing. >> It used to be cracked. Now it's paved now. >> You don't think she likes your goal oriented attitude? >> Yeah. Let's let's use our powers of of deduction real quick. If she don't like your looks, then then she either likes your personality or your money. And since in the history of your guys' story, she was supporting you for a bit. I think maybe she likes your personality. >> Obviously wasn't the money >> and the money. >> Maybe. I think Okay, maybe go go goal oriented and then maybe family oriented. >> Okay. >> Like I I I would do do my best to be a
2:32 good husband, be a good dad, and then take care of like >> the the squad. You don't think it's also your sense of humor? That's probably a big big part of it. >> She don't laugh on none of my ████ >> Tired of that ████ [laughter] >> Wait, wait, wait, wait. So, in private when it's just you two, she's not laughing ever. >> I don't know. >> But it's it's really about like she, you know, she clearly likes something and you're like, why that though? That's ████ weird, right? >> It's not on my list. And we and we got to get like really base level with this. Not like why she loves you because that's like a developing over time, you know, and you she's learning that about herself. What's just something she just likes [laughter] >> surface level? To be honest, I think I think she likes that I make a
3:23 mess cuz she likes to clean. [laughter] I that's what I cuz I think I >> there's no way >> I think she's a slight like massochist. So she was like I think cuz there's some sometimes I hear it in her voice. >> Clip this ████ and send it to her. >> I think sometimes there's a voice there's a like this tone in her voice that I hear where she's like ah this thing again or whatever can leave the sink empty and I can hear it and I go oh there's some ████ tender love in there. [laughter] Cuz if I didn't do that, you wouldn't be having to wash it, >> man. If that's >> ████ hilarious. >> If that's true, that's ████ amazing. >> I think >> she just re she just really likes to clean. >> She reminds me of kind of like the tough mom. >> Oh,
4:13 >> where she's like >> like from Malcolm in the Middle >> kid is ████ leaving her ████ all over the ████ place, but she'll do that every single day and everything looks perfect. So, I think it's like >> it gives her purpose. >> First, I think if she [laughter] really hated it, it'd be like my dad where he beat the ████ out of me so I fix that problem. >> So, she would never have to see a mess. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> That's right. >> Interesting. All right. I didn't expect that. That's a pretty good answer. >> That's hilarious. >> Anthony, what's something that you can't believe she actually likes about you? >> Geminis. [laughter] >> Honestly, like you want to be serious right now? The honest thing that like was like what is that? She watches JK News. >> Oh man, >> you think she watches it cuz she wants to see you like say stuff that you normally don't say. >> Yes, because because you guys know this
5:05 especially in this last year since I moved out to Vegas, I've actually spent less than 50% of my time at home. So, she's actually been like getting lonely and wanting to like >> ████ connect with me in some way when I can't. And so she got into a rhythm of just being like, "F███ it. I'll just watch JK News." She didn't she didn't watch ████ Kenja's videos. She didn't watch JK before for years. And then it's now when like, you know, I ████ sweetheart, she like moved out here for me type ████ too and got a new job and like ditched a lot of her friends in her old career or not career, but like her job >> and it's like move out here and then I'm bouncing all the time, >> you know? So it's like it's different. >> Sick plan by the way. >> Yeah. Got her. [laughter] Then she starts watching JK news and like now she like likes it. She has like >> she actually likes it. >> She Yeah. [snorts]
5:55 >> Holy crap. The day she starts watching the JK episodes that I'm not in though, we're ████ done. But >> does she think we're ████ Probably. >> Absolutely. >> Yeah, >> she should. She's getting the right reaction. >> I think she's normal. >> Does she just think I'm just a Filipino guy being normal then? >> Cuz we're all ████ [laughter] She thinks you're sensible. >> Really? >> Yeah. >> Ryan is sensible. >> She's broken, bro. Get a [laughter] new one. >> Something's wrong with her. >> Get a new one of those. >> Do you guys ever do like your own JK News? Like, if you guys just chilling, you just have random philosophical questions or topics. >> Yeah. I mean, but like it's never we what we do here is so unique. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. You know, it's like and and there's even like a a uniqueness to like um as funny as we talk about like
6:45 Sweatshot Boys type stuff, like finding different things that are we're trying to discover. >> Yeah. >> So, like we're doing like ████ therapy deep dives of understanding at like levels unprecedented on normal relationships. >> Yeah, that's very true. >> For conversation. Absolutely. >> It's insane >> what we what we actually do here. >> Yeah, that's true. talk about like that. That's >> so it's like it's it's literally like on par with marriage where you spend so much time day in and day out that you talk about random ████ >> That's what it's like. This is like my my other other marriage. >> Does she like your or from the back? Did she like your sense of humor? Was she just like vibing with it instantly? >> Cuz your sense of humor is a little like if I ever think back to when I didn't know you that well, your sense of humor is pretty crash. It's like pretty
7:35 strong. >> Yeah. It's like [laughter] M. >> It's true. >> Like now I think we know each other to the point where I'm worse than you, but before I knew you that well, I'd be like, "Yo, that guy's makes make some strong choices [laughter] >> in my comfortable circle." >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Not Not just like Well, nowadays I am. And I think that's your guys' fault now. [laughter] >> I think JK made it so that I expanded. >> Yeah. Because I remember distinctly I when I was living with like Mike and everybody this dude if he visits he he'll stick his head like through the door of my room just to be like what's up and like he'll say something that makes fun of me and then leave [laughter] like you'll be you'll >> try talk like I'll be playing games I'll be like oh what's up man and then he'll just say one oneliner that just is like a dig on me and I'll be like all right later.
8:25 >> I bet I know what the oneliner is. [laughter] Sup. Leave it in. Leave it in. [laughter] No. And you wonder why I'm getting more crashed. [laughter] Damn it. Yeah, dude. This is actually a really funny thing because we just had this conversation when we're going on our one of our nightly walks. Uh I think it was during a nightly walk, but and we [snorts] were talking about >> I like that you guys do that, by the way. That's so sick. >> It's my favorite thing out here. very such an intentional such an intentional thing with no sirens in the background, you know. >> That is very nice. >> So, are you able to bust her up laughing sometimes? >> I think she makes me laugh more than I make her laugh nowadays. >> Oh, >> yeah. Because like I think I just see the funniest sides of her >> and and I think she's not trying to tell me a joke. She just does something that's hilarious and so I crack up and
9:16 then she cracks up. >> Did she do stuff like that? [laughter] >> This just happened. This is so ████ funny. We're talking about this. This just happened, right? Um, obviously she's pregnant. She's kind getting kind of big, right? So, like what's a natural very like ████ low-end joke that has no whatever, you know? I'm like, dang, dude. You're getting kind of fat. Right. [laughter] Right. And she's like, "You can't call me that." I'm like, "No, no, no, no. PH fat." Every ████ kid knows PH fat. Right. Everybody knows it. It sounds phonetically a fat. It means pretty hot and tempting. It's a It's stupid shallow joke. has nowhere to go. And then she goes, "Yeah, well you're ugly." >> Oh ████ >> What's the acronym? What's the sweet acronym for that? >> Bro, I can't change ugly, right? She's like, "No, no, no. U G L L O." And I'm
10:06 like, >> "Oh, oh, >> ugloo." And she realizes that it's she didn't mean to say it and she just spelled some weird ass thing cuz she was put on the spot. >> And then I call her out and then we just bust it up. Oh, so she don't even have an acronym for that? >> No, she was >> she just wanted to come back. >> She just wanted to like she was she's trying to quick drama gro you. Dude, >> that's hilarious. >> She'd be good on JK. >> She's just trying to counter punch and I ████ died. So literally for the last like and this happened a couple days ago. So literally the last couple days we were just calling each other ugloo. >> That's ugloo. [laughter] >> The dumbest thing. >> That's cute. That's how you build them insiders. >> But but we were talking on the on the like what do you like about somebody type ████ We were just talking about when we like was first getting together and like what what about kind of like this this conversation very JKesque in a sense and
10:57 then she was talking about like all these dudes and whatnot uh before and you know I'm trying to find like a through a thread of like what was going on and just the dynamic at which like I was maybe u introduced her was I was an alumni of the the dance team that she was on. Her was on too. Shout out Hana CDC back at UCI. So, she was on the team when I was coming back as an alumni to like choreograph. But also, I'm like one of like three people from CADC that like actually continued my dance career. So, I it wasn't just like I was an alumni. I was also like >> returning as a predator, right? >> Oh my goodness. [laughter] >> A professional dancer. Professional. >> Okay. >> So, there was like, you know, I I was there and I was just in that position, that very predatorial position where [laughter] I had the pick of the litter, if you will, lucky guy, right? And uh and I think what she liked about me had nothing to
11:48 do with me being me. She liked that I was like uh maybe just like farther like a like a cooler guy like on a pedestal. And so for her it was like a let me see if I can get this ████ >> Wow. >> Cuz you looked more unattainable. >> I think so. >> From her like college perspective. >> And I'm I'm paraphrasing. >> It's very anim animalistic of her. Wow. >> Yeah. It's just it's cuz like you know she's also I'm going to say it the way I see it. She was she's a very very you know hot person like ████ her entire like dating life or or in her younger years in that sense. So she it was easy for her to just like guys would just do ████ for her and she'd be oblivious to like >> she was a hot kid. >> Yeah. Yeah. Hot kids. My favorite. Joe's favorite for sure. >> No no no. I'm reverse. >> Just like grew up like as one of the prettier girls type thing, you know? So
12:38 >> Oh, okay. Okay. People will ████ just She's just like, "Oh, yeah. This guy was just doing me his favor." I'm like, "No, he he was getting trying to get in your pants and was doing insane things to help you out. Like, you don't see that he liked you?" And she'd be like, "Yeah, maybe he had a crush on me." Like I I did this like two times. There was another like one of her other friends and I was like, "He likes you." She's like, "No, I don't think so." And later on she be like, "Okay, yeah, maybe he had a crush on me." And it's like, "Dude, what do you think?" >> It's cuz all the guys around her are like that. So, it's normal. >> That's all she's ever known. >> So, I think it was just easy for her. So when it was like harder, like >> the tables are turned. >> Yeah. I think it was more difficult for her with me, that's what made her more attractive >> and hard to get to top it off and make her even more zany. >> Yeah. I was negging her out the whole time. >> Well, I I've told you guys hands off the merchandise, babe. >> I told you guys this story before where uh one time she tried to invite me to
13:28 like one of like the afterp parties, the team afterparty for like I don't I don't remember what holiday. So she she was working she worked at Disneyland with one of our mutual friends that was on the team together, Calvin, by the way, right? She they both worked at Disneyland. So she asked Calvin to hit me up to tell me to come to this party. I was like, "All right, cool. Y'all come to this party." >> Sneaky, dude. I had no idea that it was because she was trying to get me to go. I was just like, "Oh, it's cool. It's my old team party." And then my ex-girlfriend shows up as well. And again, we're amicable. I haven't seen her in a minute. So we just start connecting. I was like, "Yo, like how you been?" Blah blah blah blah. And then so she just sees me hanging out with my ex-girlfriend at this party she really wanted me to come to. >> Classic Anthony Lee, dude. >> Because we're alumni, it's like, "Hey, when you bounce, I bounce." So we just left together. We didn't do anything, but me and my ex left together cuz I was, you know, I was like, "I'm a bounce." And then I I come to realize
14:19 later after we were dating, she's like, "That's the reason why I got invited to that party so I could hang out with her." >> Power negging by Anthony Lee. >> That's the book on this kind of stuff. >> That's high level. Yeah, cuz it was so intentional, guys. >> Get the hot girl by making her feel low. >> Ignore her. >> Yeah. Wow. >> That's a master class. >> And you know what? And then once we actually started dating, I had to bounce all the time for work. So, it was even more like >> But I think be emotionally unavailable. >> It's true. That is how it >> You're right. And it is timing too that like cuz I had the same thing with Smack where like dudes were always being too subservient to her and trying to get her and then I also was busy and it made her feel like oh finally someone that's not ████ trying to like take up all my time. It just like was a nice breath of fresh air you know >> someone that gave them space. >> Yeah. And whether it was inadvertent or not like I didn't mean for anything like
15:09 that to happen but it kind of does work out to where they feel like there's less pressure involved. But she messed up because like let's say if I wasn't getting booked and like busy all the time and I was just around, she would have seen my true colors right away. >> I know. That's the lucky part of that, right? >> Boom. She would have dumped me quick. >> Got her, bro. She's locked in. >> Got her. >> All of a sudden, you're just around all the time. She's like, "What are you doing here? >> I have no bookings." >> That's sexy. [laughter] Take that ugloo.
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