0:00 [Music] welcome back to careful boys today we are going to help you if you are in fact going through a breakup we are going to get you through that breakup right now and you by the end of this video you will be over it you will not even think about what happened before and you will be moving into your new life boom we're ending this video in 3 minutes that's how fast we're going to do it it's the easiest thing in the world fire 18 minutes to fix their whole situation first step I don't know go ahead sorry my first step is you start training you go to a gym you start focus on your Fitness you start there I like that one that's easy one start thinking about yourself you cry on okay invest in your health you call her on a different phone number so she picks up and then you go before you hang up I love you so much please don't let me go and then you hang up you know what alternate move and always gets her back yeah yeah yeah there's another thing you do besides
0:50 calling you create a bunch of spam accounts on Instagram and you go on her page you call her ugly or something like you're an ugly ████ and then she'll come back running to you slowly no her power bar starts to go down HP is HP is getting low getting low thir step you start there and then you you're she's like maybe wasn't so bad everyone's kind of mean yeah yeah now that I'm single third step third step immediately fly to Thailand and get jacked off by a lady boy no just have fun no jack off lady go swimming swimm whatever you decid to do go swim go enjoy the beaches hang out with elephants that's really good for monkeys monkeys out there right now jacking off lady boys but then the beach reminds me of her so much what am I do you fly to Thailand for we used to go here all the time then from Thailand after that you
1:41 fly to Indonesia yeah okay and Bali and then you see all the other romantic couples that are having such a bad time fighting with each other I'm going to put this on hard mode hard mode if you guys were to give advice to a female how to get over a breakup what would you say could you get in the gym I kind of still still still doing it like a man doing it like a on his accounts just to be safe I would say block them I agree block going full no contact is everything ghost mode is good working on yourself block them and and the very very first thing don't don't ████ play sad songs play sads don't play into it at all but what if you need to just let it if you're going to let it out grab a bottle why you always going alcohol or
2:31 you get a journal you you write it all out you say you got to let it out you write a note to yourself or to your ex and then you don't send it dude you just ████ Jour you Journal it take on a new skill that's inside of a new community of people you don't know like like if you start a bouldering and you join a a a Climbing gym you'll find a hottie with a body plus it's just like different people that don't remind you cuz you might cuz there's chances chances are high you may have to change your circle a little bit okay chances are extremely high yeah what if you don't talk to her friends no that's done oh what what if you want to send a message though and then you use her friends to kind of tell how you've been doing yeah did she ask about me that's just keep on taking really happy selfies dude that's all you got to do yeah you know what also a lot of people forget send your side boob you got to purge all of the items the other person owns all
3:22 at one time cuz some people do it slowly and then they have to see him again and then ████ doesn't go well that's a good one oh I have to give him his stuff you know do that fall for that and then there's more and more stuff but you got to like do it all in one thing the sooner you're done with the purge the sooner you're over the whole thing you're in a new life you're in a new life even if it's committing to the new life even if you find a hair tie and no matter how bad you want to call and say you left your hair tie don't do it yeah if it's a hair tie burn it burn it with ceremonial giant fire is it still a girl we're still talking to either or but but but see the reason why you're holding on that little ████ charm over there is so you can use it as an excuse to call them up that's your link still but you need to kill that no but I'm not a thief though so I want to give back the things that grab a bottle get drunk go to the strip club do something really regretful
4:13 because if you even did get back with her now you're ashamed cuz you have a bad things going there's no going back what if you can't get with anybody cuz you're so ashamed it's a strip club it's literally just money they don't care about but I did bad things at a strip club what do you suggest for the pets situation though if you were sharing a pet who's giving back we're talking you got I think you got to go exclusive rights either way so it's either that's what that there it is right there no sharing pets whose pet was it originally cuz you know sometimes people come into together yeah I was in a situation where we got together and guess what I never saw a little ████ again yeah broke your is that a blessing and disguise though yeah honestly it devastated me for a long time yeah but was it a blessing in disguise after the fact it has to be cuz it's a te it's a tether they're going to Loop you into other ████ I think it was not a necessarily a blessing in this guys it was good that I
5:04 just went non- contact because if I didn't if you had a moment of regret where you felt tied down to a pet I'm not going to lie and that that's the s█████ situation that you're in let it go the way the best way you could think of it though is like would I like to let this pet have its own real life or do I want to keep seeing it be used as a way to keep this bridge which is what's going to happen inevitably it's going to be like don't you want to see him don't you want you loved him it's like you're using that pet now like don't let it become reduced to that kind of an accessory that's true don't be a divorced if you really love that animal you let it go plus we had I actually had two dogs with my check right uh and then we were we broke up and then I was like I'm just going to not I'm just going to let them stay together and just see you later you can't separate them can't separate them and also you don't have to pay for the dog food you don't have to pay for any of that I didn't think about
5:55 that but then years later dog support years later I found out she gave away the other dog and I was like just hit me up I would have taken the ████ dog that was to hurt you huh I I yeah why cuz you she liked one but not the other no I think it was just like overwhelming to have two dogs and be alone she gave one away but she gave one away and I was like you should have told me that's ████ up but I think I think it was like a final like yeah ████ are cold they're cold as ice they're careless sometimes you know what this this is speaking to girls I generally think like this is I didn't think of this but I I understand it makes sense a new look kind of helps get a haircut do try something different become a new that also is included in the training hitting the gym andu be a new you do mustache down yeah I'll just put it in my mouth hey I say I say I say delete your IG oh ████ Del that's all
6:47 your lead okay okay not delet it but unactivate your IG why unactivate he just said block the other person unfollow and block unfollow block yeah but if you block that ████ then that mother bucker ████ homies are going to be up the ████ stories that don't matter that that means nothing to you you I know but you still going look at you still going to look at that ████ and think about that ████ at the end you know what I mean every time you open up your Instagram now oops I don't have an Instagram anymore that's your move yeah it's called Contact it's called ████ text message bro how do you connect with your homies and Sh Facebook boo no like step two to invest your LinkedIn that's what he's going to say I'll check out Facebook if I want to check my ████ uncle sh yeah get red note well ████ never mind yo don't listen to me you got to be strong enough where you can stay on the platform because it's the world
7:37 that's like saying you're going to cut yourself out of the entire rest of the world to you you can't ever have power like that yeah don't don't do that is what we during a breakup sub's this big sub's like hey stay at home lock the door throw away the key don't go outside if you can you know like the whole thing where uh let's say they living together obviously you move out or if they move out obviously all the ████ goes out but if you don't live together is it too much to just like try to find a new place to live entirely just so you're not connected to that old spot and they can't find you again yeah that's a good one especially if you're a lady I think that's a good why you run it away from them like they the CIA you're not running away from that I'm talking to girls cuz you said you said hard mode and I think hard mode is a lot of the time women will have to deal with a guy showing up unannounced because he knows where she lives yeah they got to get a new zip code and I think that
8:27 helps a little bit that he doesn't know cuz that ████ I seen it happen a lot yeah yeah no that's true that's true and in in the some of the murder cases we've watched that's one of the ways that it happen it's always an X it's always something like that yeah and then call ICE cuz yeah call ICE if they citizen just call call ICE anyway keep stop feeling sorry for yourself as soon as you can possibly can like legitimately that's a good one like watch your watch your favorite show or movie or whatever puts you in a good spot and stop feeling sorry for yourself there's no excuses to feel unless you truly made a mistake and that's why the relationship ended then you got to ████ sit in that for a junk like that for a second and realize that you learn from the lesson and then forgive yourself change all the passwords of anything that might be shared right 100 ways why it's their fault except that's
9:17 another good way share the Netflix share the Netflix account save money I do think like going along with working out doing something that changes you physically something about that it like snaps you out of a different head space yeah close your gauges let close your gauges let them droop yeah yeah get get a tattoo lasered off or something that might be a good one get get invisaline go get AIS line how about you get a how about you just do a bungee jumping that could work too without the bungee cord just end it well don't suicide Jesus I didn't say that I got to say you said w f the bungee C what the ████ ████ you mean what a parachute jeez you don't got creatives hey you know what you know what too go back to all the friends that you bur because you
10:07 were in a relationship and you didn't want to hang out with them and say sorry say ████ sorry you ████ say sorry say sorry to those friends that you ████ that's true all the friends that told you that he was ████ yeah ████ say so you're right or you know all the friends you haven't been hanging out with for like 2 years because you've been kicking it with your chick who just dumped your ass now you got to be like hey we're boys yeah be remember me question if you don't got a ████ up relationship with your parents sometimes go on back to like have like a a home-cooked meal from your mom or something like that that takes the the rest of the world's pain away good when's the last time you guys really had that heartache where you're like ████ this ████ sucks and all you could do is just like wait it out like it's been ████ years like 5 days before me and Nikki started I'm
10:57 going to be honest really you were in like a a longterm relationship and then 5 days before me and Nikki got together just about nine days maybe uh we got together and then it was like pretty it was intense I'm not going to lie that must be a huge polar though you're just down and then you're just like wait a minute this way ████ better yeah it happened pretty fast honestly it was it was a warwind for sure but it was not like I was just completely healed when I got with Nikki it was just like took a while for we were that's why we were fighting cuz we were working through our ████ with our exes we both were working through our ████ with our exes with each other but clear Sal after we F that out yeah you still take it with you it's hard to horse me you wake up and you're like wait this not the same person why am I giving the baggage of what the ████ I yeah but you got to be real like mature and like takes time you got to own that it takes time it's like when it's like you beat a dog it's whole life and then he ends up with a nice owner
11:47 the dog will still wince every like like thing we roll up a paper will freak out but yeah D get rid of that PS PTSD hey the last time I was ████ hurt was when me and Sasha was about to break up on their it was two years in and we're about to break up and I was just like I was just like driving and I was just like slapping the music you're working against me gravity and you're just like ████ crying not even looking on the road yeah C you're catatonic gravity I was just ████ I was just like I think this is an advice video yeah don't do we're doing advice don't do that no no the advice is is how we reacting to this oh oh oh advice yeah don't ████ do
12:37 that I just did ████ ████ loser but you're saying learn from my mistakes ████ ding he's a success story though they broke up and they got packed together and now they're married because he listen to Gravity and drive D and he was driving like this I was like what song is this it's when I just snapped out of it and I was just like Y and then y played you snitch ass ████ ass ████ and I was just like yeah I'm a ████ ganga ████ that's how you suppress your feelings how did you get her back after that um you know he F what you hey what you laughing so hard Bro ████ You Wish You Wish it hard on your homie I don't know that's out of a comic book dude listen listen we got that's out of a movie we got back because you know you just have to mature like you have to the ████ you laughing at dihe you defeated yourself
13:28 just now I hella did defeat myself you can't be like you have to be mature yeah he was like yeah because you you have to be mature the only way you could beat him is if you finish the story that's the only way you defeat this guy go ahead get it out tell us tell the only one laughing Anthony I'm sorry go ahead be so basic go ahead go ahead you know okay sorry sorry sorry gravity uh it was just like dude you you everything she wanted to say everything I wanted to say lay it all out okay what if it's toxic things that you're saying to each other Lay It All Out bu lay it all out and that actually worked it heal it it did it did cuz like at the end of
14:18 the day we lay it down and are you willing to work with it and deal with it wow are you willing to take that and fix it so good and actually be one together you don't want to deal with seven out of the ████ 10 things she said then obviously it's a nogo you know what I'm saying but if you're if you're willing to work two of the 10 things she said then ████ 80% I can take on that heat 20% I can take on that 20% you know what I'm say where you get those numbers but at the end of numbers at the end of the day lay it out lay it out we were both willing to work through it have you guys ever been through a breakup where the your partner your ex partner's parents contacted you afterwards ████ that sounds and would you suggest severing that contact don't even don't pick way though cuz if they were like hey dude remember
15:08 like that one time we talk about that thing and then can you can you give me that call like the number again or like it's a it's something that has nothing to do with the relationship he can you still come over fix my internet like that yeah it's just random ████ I mean either way I think I think you should just not be yeah do you say goodbye like to them too or you just ghost them no I don't I don't say goodbye no I yeah you can't do it that's their kid though bro you know what side they're going of course there's no they hate you already there's no there's no winning take your side and not their kids their kid was the problem their kid sucks you had an ex's parents contact you yeah a couple of times one of them was just she wanted her mom wanted to find out like oh what happened like a very friendly thing but I just didn't even like I I got the voicemail both times and I didn't I didn't call them she wanted to know your perspective she just wanted to know what happened cuz she like loved us so then I'm like I I got the voicemail and it
15:58 was like what happened just call me I want to know I just didn't call a keeper though no no no it was it wasn't that it just it was just because she did they don't know everything that's wrong about your relationship yeah and you're not going to oh hey here's what's ████ up about your kid good luck with that one yeah yeah they just don't know so then they think like that came out of nowhere what was you do that that's a parting shot and you're a piece of ████ for and and then my ex dad had called me once because something happened to her a few months after we broke up and he wanted me to look out for her and he's the ████ man like we're cool like that so he really thought like hey I could I can rely on you to check on her and stuff but I didn't even bother I just was like no I don't know but you're an ex at this point I know but he don't know anybody else in like they he's not from Laing she went hiking and nobody can find him he's yeah he's like not from LA and and she was still living in La it is hard to tell a parent though if like let's say they're like why do you break up with my daughter and then you're like bro she doesn't give
16:48 head and then it's like how does how does like how do you that's constructive that's and then her dad her dad sends me all those crying laughing emojis yeah or he at his daughter what the ████ is wrong with you okay I tell you a real situation and this is my friend is going through this right now and it's a you'll you'll understand where it went wrong so he he just got he got a divorce not too long ago his uh wife's family he was very very close with her so um in his the wife moved out he's alone in this house and his ex-wife asked if he could take in her uh cousin and her and her cousin's kids like the very very close they're like little kids it's it's an arrangement they have where now his he's living with his ex-wife's cousins and like two little kids in his house so
17:38 then he met somebody new and it's not working out because that new person's parents are like what the ████ Arrangement is that we don't want you to date this guy who's got his ex's like family in the house cousins not even sister yeah that is so but then like it's a non-negotiable on his end because from his perspective he's like he's he's my age so he's like hey as you get older like life has more elements it's more complicated it's got to be this or it just doesn't work he sounds like a good guy yeah he's he's just like sounds too good of a guy he's not doing a favor for his for his ex-wife it's for them specifically cuz it's like a thing where they they just needed him and they have this thing together but well if you remove the ex-wife tight word right and it's like let's say he has a relationship with her cousins and they became friends then all he's doing is taking care of friends kids yeah that's
18:30 that's what it's to him but then to this new girl and her family they're like we don't want you having anything to do with that it's too complicated I kind of get it I get it I I get it but it also shows that like yo this dude is kind of like he's kind of tight now you ████ smack he's kind of tight for what taking these kids you know what I mean like he's tight but but it is it's both side it's both side uncomfortable I would favor the other side that's what it it definitely is weird but it's also like this guy saled Earth though you know like he's taking he's taking in some kids C sit he's currently on the side of like hey like if if you can't work with that I don't know what to tell you because he does have a point the same way he's like I don't have kids these aren't my kids I could have kids and lots of people with kids can still get married yeah he's like I'm just helping them he's like I'm not and if you can't deal with that yeah well it yeah it
19:21 might be but then his thing is that if you can't deal with that like how do you the idea of someone else having kids already that's okay yeah well it's just I just understand there's the complication of let's say uh let's say she's like okay cool we'll go for it a little bit and then like things start working out and it's like all let me move in with you now I'm living with other people's kids it has nothing to do with the ex-wife it's just like now there's other people that aren't your kids yeah they're not even at the point where she's moving in it's just they they can't progress because her family knows that his family's like that and they're doing this so they're like no we don't want you with this guy sounds like some red flaggies there yeah exactly and and they they're in their 40s everybody in this story is for that see you later kid got to go hot take just to end this hey good luck with whatever and also uh rebounds can help if you're okay with it yeah pound it out pound it out of your system I age
20:12 suggestion alcohol and rebounds baby
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