0:00 [Music] have you guys heard what about the group that names and shames dudes when like they go on like a date with a chick and the chick's try to warn everybody this guy is's kind of weird what is that like a is it is it like a yel for women is is that a girl code it's a Facebook group for women in Ireland where it's called are we dating the same guy and it's a group where can share stories about dudes like hey I went on a date with this guy and he didn't want to pay or whatever like ████ like that right well I mean when it's when it's like I would I would wonder like how do girls kind of share information if they're like hey this guy's a ████ serial killer you know like that's it's for safety probably too
0:52 I usually between friends but now there's a group I wonder how many crossovers there are it's kind of like a Carfax but guys do that to girls members there's 50,000,000 what city though in Ireland do chicks pretty much like um they'll write their story about what happened on a date and it's kind of like am I the ████ type of thing right where it's like is this guy the ████ I think there I think it depends on the conversation about the guy cuz like what if there's just a chick that's crazy and then she's on this group and she's just talking mad ████ cuz what do they say about chicks they're pretty much they're I didn't they're crazy right logically sound when you think about a woman you think about the word say it sensible cuz there's there's two sides to it there's a side where they're just trying to protect other women from weird guys but then there's also a side where what if they're just m mad talking ████
1:43 about so unfortunately that's exactly what happened a man was driven to Suicide which left him clinically dead for 3 minutes due to a Facebook group that named and shamed him see why cuz he was like banging all these girls and then they all turned on them he was banging all every single one of them yeah and and they were and it was Valentine day and then they all wanted roses and he he y he went broke D lost his he lost his house you know the highest um on chocolates that's a better story that's a better story on chocolates and Teddy Bears lost his house liquidated his house he's completely broke he's like I can't keep this Li and most of them never got delivered I really like all these women they got lost Ed could like s ████ it's too many choices I should have dumped them
2:34 before I would have still had a life God the highest uh season for breakup is actually winter it's true right before the holidays yeah nobody wants to deal with all of it because like they don't want to bring them to Thanksgiving dinner they don't want to bring they don't want to start buying gifts and it's like I dump my high school girlfriend day before Christmas Eve yeah around Christmas that's the highest then what's then what's the opposite what's cuffing season then cuz they also say I haven't read the study for that what's cuffing mean cuffing season is thought was win purposely get with somebody right before the holiday so that you can enjoy all these things as cuz sometimes I would like to think that is right after summer and um so around the fall and then it's right before the holidays after winter oh I would say those are the two Valentine's Day they want to
3:25 have somebody right I think guys would probably want to do it after Valentine's Day yeah yeah yeah one of my buddies he always like he'll be dating this girl like this happened like three or four times he'll be dating this chick and then he won't break up with them before like Christmas time but he kind of wants to get out already by that time but they'll get him some like a really nice gift like Apple watch or something and he feels like he has to stay a little bit longer and he does that every single time we're like dude get the hell out of there how many days do you get for an Apple Watch I think I think that's another qu more weeks crazy to quarter so what he does he does another months wait he gets a Apple watch or he gives a apple get he gets it but he's already thinking about breaking this is happening three times he doesn't want to be the guy that breaks up with you as soon as you got him a gift yeah and he goes yeah but where do you draw the line from being nice I just want to be nice
4:15 and versus like I got to give back to myself I know K cuz you're kind of a scumbag on well yeah what's the what's thee okay situation and I was already thinking of breaking up and then boom Apple wash I'll be like ████ like like okay I'll give it like a month a month I'll give it a month that's pretty fair cuz 15 days 15 days okay not not 3 months though that's crazy not three months not a quarter CU you already are like dude this relationship would not work and you're just buying me stuff that means like it doesn't mean anything at that point you know yeah but what if you bought her a ton of ████ and you're just like well I probably bought you like a couple Grand worth of things an Apple Watch but is the Apple watch worth the headache of like dealing with a relationship people no I wouldn't stay I would I would I would probably I would probably just be like I don't want that
5:05 and I don't want you yeah if it's if it's the sport strap basic model watch but if it's the watch oh if it's got the little ████ bling I stay at least two [Laughter] months for months I'm I'm staying Pro I'm cut it down yeah deal going I'm St I'll buy my own Apple cuz that's kind of balling dude ████ they give you a MacBook Pro and if I don't like someone though no no amount of money can make me suffer longer yeah but you ate a hooker's ████ wait what that's crazy that contrast I mean think about that like that's he didn't even need a gift changes the game p that just tells that just tells you how much I don't care about money yeah it was
5:56 business Strictly Business Strictly Business he's a giver this guy money for ████ okay okay so check this out money and ████ um this guy was contacted by a friend of his who told him he was on this website and this woman started sending screenshots of his profile to this group pictures of him and a kid pictures in his work clothes his name his address and then they doxed him on this group yeah they doxed him and they they said that he he had um Negative they had negative dating encounters they were asking for advice about red flags about him and stuff like that well there's so there's other women that were like dating him and other women that were like maybe I should date him can you tell me some details there's no more like personal privacy anymore there's just it's just everybody's laundry is just out there now the idea is that it's
6:47 promoting female safety because often you don't know what you're going to get could be like oh what's fascinating to me I know but in the real world like dude you could get anything like when you open up the ████ Pandora's Box you know the aall says it's not looking good try again it's like that stupid whatever you know what's fascinating to me though is the fact that they're all dating the same guys so like you know how they say about like the 10% of guys are dating all the girls or whatever right does this prove that I think so because if they're all like hey there's this guy did you date him yeah I dated him and then it's like well Ireland's a big country like not big but it's like enough people it's not a ████ small town the reason why they're posting this guy on there with all his stats and all
7:38 informational stories cuz they know that like something's fishy but like they don't want to make the decision maybe and so they have to ask like the group of ladies cuz it's like if you're listing the guy's red flags it's like you know what the red flags are yeah why leave at this point like but it's so easy he's also it might so easy to lie about it's easy to lie and it's easy for them to have red flags too like it's it's both sides why when they try to create something for something the the opposite is always going to happen I thought this site was more like hey I'm dating this guy are you dating this guy too I thought there was that side that's how it starts a part of it but it's also about they start dishing so there's a lot of victims of abuse right and they are very nervous about getting into a relationship with a guy who will do that again and so the idea is that there there kind of is a screening process through social media but like K said it can be weaponized yeah here here's my
8:29 issue with it is is what 50,000 women in this group and I'm betting the majority of these women don't know each other so I'm taking your word for face value like we have no Rapport I have no idea like what your views are how you operate in your life and I'm supposed to take advice from you you say women be lying it should always be through your friend circles regardless of people I'm just supposed to Democrat right wait what they're a Democrat right well there's some Democrats that are fine you know what I'm saying like Democrats yeah they won't yell at you and act dumb but there's democ if I was a woman okay I think um I would be BL victim blaming yeah i' just be like yeah he beat your ass cuz you're annoying but when he's with me yeah he loves me that's not going to happen you never do that to me that's positive that's literally how I think I
9:20 would be to you cuz you're a h yeah cuz remember your story with your stepdad you changed so you changed exactly you never know you never know it might be like with me oh I I that that fool never hurt me wait so they said this guy killed himself because he was outed or tried to kill himself because of because that was happening to him it was bullying but what if the what if the bullying was like yeah he sex assaulted me and then everyone was like yeah he assaulted me too and he goes ████ they know so that's why he killed himself probably that probably that and not that he's innocent and they got him all wrong and he feels very he feels like terrible about you know something's got Lost in Translation emotions involved I think if it's used to protect yeah of course it's fine but well it does kind of suck though cuz then he doesn't get a chance
10:11 to tell any yeah it's just a ton of people that's like ████ this guy they're not adding him to the group right and and they're but they're talking about him and you know how women get when they talk about something and they all start agreeing with each other about it they're like yeah that that is true spinning each other up oh yeah yeah yeah ████ that guy yeah yeah yeah ████ him oh really he did that oh yeah ████ him cuz then the emotions come in instead of logistics once emotions coming in together and then I'll tell you something their brains are I'll tell you I'll tell you something really funny that happened so made in sin the fans made um a Facebook group called citizens of Jalia right and then so uh the girls in the group thought it would be funny to make um a h Malia which is
11:01 so then they invited me in there and whatever and then um one day good raos in there I remember one of the girls um she I think she graduated or overcame something and I would just come in once in a while like type congrats or like I we know about something that happened in the main group so then we go in there and then we would just say as they're becoming legal you're congratulating them yeah 18 what a milestone [Applause] congratulations says he I was going to go put a message in and then like just tell them like hey good job on this and this and whatever and then I was like oh you're no longer part of the group and I was like that's funny what happened there so I I wrote it in the group I was like hey I got kicked out of my own fan group and then one of the girls like yeah we realized we wanted to keep it a safe space with all
11:52 women so we didn't want any guys in there and I'm all like that is the funniest thing it's a fan club that kicked me out and it was for me cuz you're a male dude and I was like that is the ████ funniest thing ever it's problematic and harmful potentially and you guys heard this thing about like women would prefer to be alone with a bear than alone with a man oh yeah that's right is that a thing is that really a thing a real ████ thing what was your answer bear of course it would be no dude Nikki picked Bear yeah Nikki picked bear but then she calls you bear she's like my bear call me dad bear yo but going back to that Joe's thing it's probably it's it's it's probably cuz they want to talk nasty about you you think so I I think so that's probably why he kicked so it's a good thing they kicked them out a good thing it's a good thing cuz the girls were in the group
12:42 they could see what was in there yeah they they weren't talking sh no they're just they were just being woke as ████ yeah that's crazy actually uh yeah we didn't we wanted to create a safe space with no man and yeah we just didn't feel comfortable and I'm all like then why even invite me in the first place true that part is illogical out of nowhere it's just I it's funny by the way and I would I would I would message like once every two months nobody had a problem right nobody n times out of 10 every relationship I've ever been in it's always girl on girl yeah girl on girl Warfare for real right how many times you can't mend girl on girl Warfare no girl on girl Warfare can do you can't intervene would you be like like girl like your you're you're in a relationship with a girl and then like she's fighting with her friends and ████ all all the time oh yeah it's always girl on girl Warfare so it's like oh we have a safe space with for women I'm like yeah dude you each other alive it's
13:34 only safe until you're affected like all the drama I ever hear about it's always my my girl friends that are telling me about it cuz girls be tripping girls be tripping Colleen you think that's true you I have only maybe three or four close girlfriends and you guys fight all time and you hate them and arguing about ████ that's true cuz I think it's unhealthy when a guy has no male friends or a woman has no girlfriends but then what I typically see is like like women that have like a handful of just like day ones like like they're like tight friends it's like oh that's a healthy normal relationship but then I'll see groups of like 50 friends and I'm just like like a college sorority kind of thing and then they're always fighting and then they got hella
14:24 for enemies and I'm like drama y'all are 30 years old and you're still doing this ████ well their life becomes the drama and their drama becomes their life and how they commiserate with each other is over the drama they don't even talk about ████ they just talk about the drama yeah but guy friendships are so simple too like we could have a hobby buddy that we could know for 40 years doing one activity and never know what their wife's name is and even know if they were Ser serial killer it's like oh that's my ████ that's my gum buddy we'll just go to do this one activity when that's done peace yeah yeah but then there's also the other side of the guy friendship Spectrum where they ████ totally screw you over and they're like the worst piece of ████ that's all people that's people can screw you over but I'm saying like guy friendships I I know the difference is that girl friendships get deeper yeah
15:17 typically we can get deep in what way the way that they do I know okay emotionally not the way that they person I hang out with the most in Vegas I know he likes the Mets I know likes fishing he likes fishing okay and I know he likes sex okay all right sex is cool sex is I think girl relationships are more involved and work and emotionally like deeper than guy friendships yeah we go down the rabbit hole yeah a little bit further way more I go down the rabbit hole too with my guy friends so yeah me too I could know somebody what rabbit hole we talk about you know we talk about like their their traumas and the stuff that they're going through yeah right the ████ just kidding I'm talking to girls I'm not talking sound like a girl bro but guys ████ confine in
16:07 women whether it be family members sisters or like like a female friend before they even ████ talk to guys about it yeah I have way deeper I have way deeper conversations with my girlfriends than my guy friends same yeah we don't talk to each other about ████ marital problems and ████ in that way but what I do like is the guy friends when we do have our deep conversations are about like some like weird like trippy ████ like qu asking questions that like you can only feel comfortable asking uh guys you know ask us right now like what did you ever get jacked off by a friend no I will leaning for me like got something it's never about like it's never about like relationships sex or anything like that cuz I don't know we just never talk about those that's my point it's philosophical it's deep deep in in like a Trippy way it's like
16:58 different ████ so guys don't get emotionally vulnerable and deep with personal things with other guys that's why girl emot like relationships are like a deeper like connection of like and then that's why they get hurt and ████ cuz it's like the last text messages from my veggas buddy Giants are going to be on hard dunks thumbs up can you help me buy more crypto soon for my girlfriend the Giants uh schedule and for the NFL season do to give you guys a context last text message from my girlfriend hi walk yoga question mark okay okay it's nice nice I like that do like daily walks it's really cute that's nice and then that's where the the Deep talk walks and talks yeah during the talk yeah the New York Giants un new uniforms are absolutely
17:49 disgusting our deep conversations are detailed into like cars and motorcycles yeah like just like going the rabbit hole of how we can get get this engine to go faster that's our rabbit that's true actually you know what I mean just you know just anything like that physics just like you know why are you buying this $200 shoes you're you're you're a ████ you know like come on like what's what's wrong with you that's our deep Rabbit Hole I feel like that's true and you offend a man's ████ hobby that means you're talking ████ about their personality y the deepest talks I have with dudes are in this room that's true cuz we were forced to do it on camera dude we have to do we make it to the but in real life I'm just picking my nose watching TV Dude thinking about the Roman Empire God I love that it'san for me but yeah yeah I like getting uh to
18:41 the rabbit hole of like history and all that ████ too it's pretty sick like because I'm always wondering like how did you feel in that war yeah what were you going through bro you guys don't talking about history I talk about history with your girlfriends yeah you talk about all the time we talk always you guys what talk about like Greek mythology and how how gay ████ yeah horoscopes that I don't talk about oh what do you ever talk about like tarot reading guy who talked about that more than I did talking about the babysitter's club book series don't know what that is you never Babys oh you never had a highlights can I be honest with you why you can't stereotype people the homies I do the homies I do talk about you know we go into rabbit hole about their emotions in the relationship they're usually the B
19:31 you know they're usually the softest one in the you about to say bottom you're about to call them bottom call them bottom but yeah every one on the bottom I heard that dude like the girl is on top financially and physically and oh I see those guys who talk very soft and emotion and you know about the relationship they're the softest but you're a good listener right I don't think guys ████ talk about problems unless it's really bad in most cases unless you have one that one friend that complains all the ████ time CU they're just funny about it yeah yeah other than that it all has to have gotten demoed around them yeah it's kind of like the whole world is crumbling and now I'm going to talk about it and it's like okay no it sucks to say though like you know like how do how should I act upon it and we go stop being a ████ you know it sucks yeah yeah yeah but it's just us going straight to the point but that is part of most of his problems
20:22 right was like stop being ████ about it I give action steps okay first step one in order to be a ████ step one step one deal with this fool step two it's the same a step a you're on there's only one step but they'll be asking what do you mean stop being a ████ like go ride a motorcycle or sh guns and they're like what is that going to feel I mean what is that going to solve just tell me what you feel when you do it yeah do you think I'm in the wrong if I called a guy a weak little ████ no yeah get that ████ guys need to hear that so that they dok you thank you get that ████ cracking and then I double down on it did you recent if a if a woman told me that I would ████ wake the ████ up yeah I would have too because no woman has ever told me that I'm demonized for it I'm the worst
21:12 person in the world because I called him out for it can we talk about this talk about that yeah what not fully not fully not fully not fully wait but we can talk about we can talk about the context to a degree we will in another video all right we'll do
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