0:00 Imagine being gay, looking at that and going. Leave it in. Welcome back to Careful Boys. We're doing a little checkin with the boys episode. Uh I'm going to start cuz Joe said, "Well, we need to think about this for a second." And so I was like, "Okay, you know what? And I don't want ████ 3 to 5 minutes of us searching for something to hit and then we talk about it cuz people click away already. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We don't want to talk about Nick's schedule. And I'm bored out of my mind. Don't start with me, please. Well, we should definitely swear a lot in the first minute. Quack quack. Rare ducks. Rare ducks. Please don't be lazy editors. Okay, so uh yeah, for me recent one is, you know, bummer bummer bummer. But yeah, my dad just we found out that my dad has prostate cancer. Oh
0:50 man, it's a bummer. But it's it's looking okay because he's got a good team around him and they're they're basically gonna do a procedure. He's going for the procedure I think next week. And they kind of have just like a way that they're going to deal with it. That didn't make anyone like go like, "Oh, I'm scared." Or anything. Okay. How did How did he drop the news on you? Oh, that's He um he he said, "Hey, are you there? Are you there? Call me back. It's an emergency. It's emergency. It's emergency. It's emergency." Shut up. He really did that? No. No. Cuz he never picks up his phone. My dad would never do that. Oh my god. My dad would never do that. Is he the kind of guy that would like he won't say it but his your mom would? My dad doesn't want to bleed on anybody ever, right? So he would never even like tell us and except he knows it would make us mad if he didn't tell us and just handled it by himself because that's what he would normally do. Is he is he telling you all the correct information about like what stage it's in and everything? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So So but he he basically
1:41 called me. He's like it was weird cuz I had just talked to him like usually me and my dad talk maybe once a month, right? And so I had just talked to him cuz it was like what was it like mom's day or oh no it's Easter. I talked to him on Easter right and then he calls me like the next week and I'm like dad called me the next week. What the is going on? And it's like the middle of the day. So I picked up cuz normally I just I let it let it ring. No but but I was like that's I just immediately was like that's unusual. And then he you know you know always like how you doing? Oh good. All right. And then lol. So yeah I got to tell you something like that kind of thing. Oh no. And then Yeah. So yeah, which is it's always a bum mate because like because like you just you know until it's done like my mom had breast cancer like three years ago, right? And so until that was done it's just something that you're always like well I sure hope that you know I sure hope everything's tracking well and so yeah I learned from uh Tom Green when
2:33 he had testicular cancer. I know it's different prostate but he said uh he had a whole song about playing with your balls so you don't get cancer. After that, I was like, "Yeah, I'd ████ do it every day because I don't want testicular cancer." Did your dad not play with his prostate enough? I think he I think he he told me he did. I bet he's afraid of that. Cuz that was the first thing I was concerned about. I was like, I I Were you playing with your prostate? What's that? He told you in the voicemail? Yeah. Don't worry, son. I'm playing with my pro. It's like It's a very early stage. That's It's not like a crazy Yeah. Yeah. It's not like um They got it early cuz my dad's pretty on it and all that stuff. And uh Oh, that's good. Yeah. He's like a He's had type 2 diabetes for like Oh ████ for like 20 years now. So it's like 4 weeks of treatment. Um I think they're It'll be It'll be the the procedure and then the treatment. Okay. Okay. Yeah. Damn. That's We're at We're kind of at the age
3:23 that we need to keep getting checked up and ████ to I know, right? Seriously. I just found the same out same thing out for my mom. Really? She she has breast cancer. Why is everyone's like titties and like private parts getting ████ up? No, but it's like she they caught it at such an early stage. It's not even stage one. So, they're able to just it's it's the four-we um uh chemo treatment and then it should be good. Oh, good. Yeah. They got it real real early. God. Yeah. Yeah. I don't think my dad has to do the radiation cuz they're just going to try and just kill it. Like the the first thing that he was going to do was the one where they freeze it. Yeah. I guess it's like a new one that they do. And then like skin cancer. Yeah, totally. Like they freeze it and then they remove it. But um he said that they you know he was going to go in for that on the 4th but then he texted us the day before and he's like look the the doctor said they want to try a different procedure so I'll give you the details soon. So that's like the
4:13 latest. Wow. That's good. That's scary. Catching it, man. That's how you do it. You got to That's why my my parents are good at like going to the doctor all the time. They just like keep going and going and going and going. Do you guys fine? You guys go to the doctor? I'm starting to now. Yeah, I'm going to I'm going to get I'm going to get back in there. Yeah, I should probably go. You have a doctor? Like you have a how long like how do you find one? You go to Yelp or something? Um we found one that's like healthcare in Nevada or something. You go to Zogdoc and just like type. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I haven't gone to the doctor in a decade or something. I went to urgent care a few times, but I don't have a doctor. And I ████ pay so much money for insurance, but I just never went. It's not even the It's like once you get a doctor, the main thing is going to like a diagnostics. That's what you got to do. That's the most important. You got to go like Quest Diagnostics and just get a full read of how your body is doing. But how come you
5:04 could just go there like the doctor's got to look at it? Yeah. Does a doctor have to prescribe you too or like to go there? Like you can do it at the same time on your own. Yeah. You can it's it's up to you. You know, it's really it's really on you to do it. I'm looking at all those things that are like, oh, if you're if you're a man and you're 40, it's time to schedule that cold out. Someone has to finger my ass. It's a million% true that you do have to do that. Hey, JK Adventures. All of us call colonoscopy. Maybe I'll do an early one. Sounds great. I'd click on that. Yeah, I think I have I'll do it with you guys. You We really do got to be I'm 41, dude. Someone's got a finger my butthole. Yeah, you're you'll be all right. Yeah, you you play with your prostate. They'll probably just when you come in, they'll just go, "You look like you don't have it." You're good. I know you're up there. I don't want to touch it. ████ you go in there. They're like, "How come it's so it's it's going all the way up?"
5:55 Oh, my glo where my hands disappear. Hey, somebody somebody grab me. Whoa, whoa, whoa. My my uh my mom had already been in treatment for a week already, and I was like, I better um better drive down and see her. So, I went over there, and I was like, dude, is this going to look like crazy? Am I going to feel like shocked by like her being so weak or is her hair still there? She went through chemo. Yeah, she's doing chemo. You do like four weeks of chemo. So then I went in there expecting like that she was going to be all like messed up and she's just walking around. She's like, "Hey." And I was like, "Are you okay? Aren't you like tired or something?" She's all, "Yeah, I'm kind of sleepy." But like other than that, she looks completely the same. And she's like, "Yeah, it she's like, "It's not going to get that bad. I it may get they said it's going to get really dark on her skin around the area that they're
6:45 doing the treatment and that later it's going to get kind of rough but for now like week one was like okay like damn good thing they caught that fast man be ████ I want to be perfect with my health now I got to go see a doctor bro I haven't got a checkup in a real one me too you got to go I always have recently I've been having paranoia I'm like ████ do I do I have something why what do you feel do you feel different HIV positive or something feels guilty Yeah. I just feel guilty for not seeing a doctor. That's what it's the guilt that's killing me inside. I should go. That's my sign to go. Nothing like physically though like is I guess off for you. No, I don't know. I think I just been living like this for a while. So, it's just good to go check something out. You know what makes me feel like it's a scam though? Cuz every single time it just goes away on its own. So, I'm like what? I never like a check engine light. I never needed a doctor in the first place.
7:35 Dude, my thing is just cuz I have had kidney stones like I always get nervous cuz like the other day I was picking up these big ████ bags of cement like these like 60 lb or whatever and then after I was done I I started to feel like little tingle little tingle next to my balls or whatever and I was like oh ████ I'm about to get kidney stones but it's just cuz I was lifting ████ and then it went away. Oh ████ It was like that's just your testosterone awakening. Yeah. Yeah. Sometimes when that happens to me after lifting or something I'm like oh am I getting an hernia? Yeah, exactly. Yeah, it's that thing. But like Yeah, it's okay. Stones are where I'm like, I don't want to experience that. I I hate those stories, dude. Aside from you, some of the toughest dudes I know said it hurts. Yeah, bro. Aside from me, so like not a tough dude. Not a tough dude. I'm just kidding. When I hear that and gout, bro, when I hear people getting gout, I'm like, ████ I gout.
8:25 Serious. That's a real ████ problem. You got to go get check. We're at that age. It's like for real. Wait, am I really not a tough dude? You're all right. You got to go get checked, man. No matter what. Show them the guns. Show them the guns. I'll get some blood work done. Cuz it's like do it for like your girl, you know? If anything that like don't bring her into this, man. No, it's that thing because Yeah, you're right. You're right. I feel bad because one of my my um my cousins was such a tough guy that he didn't say anything when he was like feeling weird and then uh just died, you know. Jesus. What he have? I don't know what it was exactly, but he he was like he was hiding it like he was feeling really like faint at work and he he worked with my dad and he would just keep on like going to take naps and he just didn't say nothing because Filipino dudes have this thing of like ah don't worry about me like I'm good. They're always trying to give and they don't
9:15 want to like take anybody's attention or time when they need something. So he just played that role all the way to when it was too late bro like our family is full of medical professionals. You could have told one person, we would have been able to act on it. But, you know, it's your responsibility when it comes down to it. You just have to like really make those appointments, go in and just do it. Damn, Ryan just put put me on a notice. I don't know, dude. Everyone's kind of feeling guilty out there. Like, ████ Yeah, you're probably right. Was this uh the same uh cousin or Well, was it like a funeral and then there was that old dude who like couldn't speak and was choking on water? That's a wedding. Oh, that was a wedding. You know, funeral wedding, but it almost was a funeral. I guess you can say the video is actually funnier than the description. Dude, it was so funny. Today we have love. But yeah, that's the last thing I did was I went to the doctor just for a regular checkup of up
10:06 and down everything. And they were just like, well, you got to go to a diagnostics place and just do everything like blood and then just they will tell you if you have, you know, one little thing off, which is nice to know. Time to get some blood work. You know what they're doing nowadays is like you can get that blood work and then they'll tell you what you're deficient in for for vitamins and stuff and they're like it's like a preemptive like way of um keeping a doctor away cuz then it's like you're super low on zinc and you could be going on for 3 years and that can lead to some ████ up ████ But then it's like, okay, well, make sure you take them zinc pills and magnesium. And that's why regularly helps cuz they see the pattern like over time. So, you got to go to the doctor to keep the doctor away. Yeah. No, you got to you got to keep the surgeon away. Yeah. Seriously.
10:56 But this service is I don't think it's actually a doctor. I think it's like new where you you send it to like a lab or like a lab takes your your thing and then they they they have like a they make a whole supplement ████ for you like that's custom for your Yeah. No, they're going to sell my data. I don't trust them. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like 23 and me, man. I ████ gave my spit to them and they they clone me now. They can ████ clone me. They got me too, bro. They got me too. They didn't get me. I don't need to pay to see that I'm from Appalachia, Florida, brother. I got got for that. I got got. You told me I was Chinese. But that's good news. It's good to know. Yeah. You got to go to your do your checkups and stuff, man. Do you guys have like vet insurance for the cats?
11:46 Uh so we don't right now. And uh when we tried to get some uh we needed to the problem is we we had an issue with Tiger Lily uh back in the day when we were in Glendale. So a little over a year and a half ago I think now. Um so we took her into the uh to the doctor. Uh we thought it was more serious because the the doctor or the vet wasn't um like they made us worry on some stuff. They're like maybe we should keep her overnight. We got to x-ray her. We got to blah blah blah. And we're like okay for sure. Like let's do it. Let's do whatever we need to do. And then they like got a reading and they're like, "Oh, this might be some something in her like, you know, stomach, blah, blah, blah. I think we need to keep her blah blah blah for like a little bit longer, yada yada." And I was, "It's going to cost us much more money." And I was like, "Damn, I think she just ████ ate some more rubber. She was chewing rubber and stuff like that." Yeah. And then one day she like
12:36 throws up and like this giant piece of rubber comes out and it's like at the end of something that like we're like, "Oh, what happened to this? Tiger Lily probably chewed this." And um and they ended up being fine, taking her back to the vet and it was like fine, but like cost like she cost me like $1,000. Yeah, bro. You know, to like figure it out. But then to um to like after that get vet insurance. It's like all right. Well, you need to go to the doctor, make sure she's clear on some other stuff and yada yada. Or you get a high rate. Yeah. So now now we're um that's one of Nah's jobs that she's totally putting off because she can't do anything without my help. No, I'm just kidding. Um I wasn't passive aggressive though. Just just he's just kidding. Yeah, I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. I swear to God, I'm just kidding. Please, please don't show this to our mother-in-law. She's kind of overrated. And uh so so now we're looking into potentially Costco venge uh pen. Oh, that's a thing. Interesting. I heard I
13:27 heard Costco has some of the uh the best rates uh for Costco's ████ clutch, dude. It has everything. I just got mine back cuz Sam's Club just wasn't cutting it anymore. I have both, but Costco still wins. Better, dude. I was coping for too long. I got Why did you get Sam's? Cuz I got it for 25 bucks and I was like, "This beats the ████ out of Costco." Paying 3x that. Costco has better things. Better things, but I was coping for too long. I got a vet insurance. We have vet insurance for the rabbits. How much is that? Like 10 bucks a month or like It's not much, but but it's worth it because we had to um the our rabbit that's the little orange one is like uh 2 and 1/2 years old. He had what's called liver torsion, which is like a thing that happens with rabbits sometimes where their liver twists on itself. And it basically loses functionality and you can't untwist it.
14:18 So, um, that procedure cost eight grand. Holy god. To like fix. Yeah. Eight. What? If you can't untwist it, what's the procedure? Giving it a new liver. You have to cut it off. Is a rabbit like 45 bucks? the rabbit itself. I'd be like, uh, or we could buy like 10,000 rabbits. It's a It's crazy. Like like because No, we had to get it after. We got it after because we were like, "Oh my god, we didn't know that that that could be a thing." But uh exotic animal surgeries are way more than like dogs and cats. You paid 8 grand. You had to pay 8 grand for for the liver torsion. Uh, but Steve wants to know how much you got the rabbit for. Yeah. How much was the rabbit? I think it was like a maybe $75. Close. You're close. Under. You got the under on that. But you can't put a price
15:08 on love. Yeah. How many does the rabbit live for though? 8 to 10. 8 to 10. Oh, 8 to 10. Oh, that's worth it then. Cuz I was going to be like, you know how some some of these like rats, they only live for like 2 years. So I'm like, dude, dude, that's what I thought. That rats live for 2 years. Live 8 to 10 years. Oh my. Because they're not feeders. the Well, even then, like we have I think the the breed that we have are the ones that live a little bit shorter. So, it's like eight to 10's on the short side. Got it. Like some of the crazier ones could live way longer. What are your bunny's names? Sunny and Jimmy. Sunny and then the one from before is named Billy. And they're all named after double dragon characters. That's funny. They're double dragons for sure. My my buddy's dog just just passed away and it was a super bummer. And then uh his name is Kingston. He's a great dog. really good, dude. And then uh and then
15:59 my my you know, Ryan, he's like, "Hey, like calls me. He's like, you know, could you come over?" And like cuz cuz Kingston and me were buds. Now that I know him and then I hear the story, I'm like, "Okay, I get it." King Oh, Kingston passed away. Kingston passed away. Yeah. Oh, super bummer, dude. Yeah. You know, Kingston. Yeah. So then, you know, I got I was talking to Kingston before he goes and stuff. It's just very sad, you know. And I was like, "Hey, dude, go say hi to everybody for me." You know, have you ever seen uh have you ever been in the room where they put your dog down? Uh no, but I was there for my buddy Mormon. He he put his dog down and and I was there with him. His dog London's little little guy. Very cute. You mean you all went to the vet together? I went with him. Yeah, cuz he needed somebody there. That's very hard to do, dude. That s███'s tough. We had to do that one this year for old uh one of Tiff's family's dog, little Yorkie.
16:49 And then we had to put him down. And then like it was crazy cuz he was holding on for a while. He was like laid out for the last couple days and then like the last day we knew we were going to take him to the vet. So like he kind of like walked around and said bye to everybody which was kind of crazy. And then you know we all went and then when as soon as they inject the the the the death liquid into the the animal you just see him just kind of like slowly just let go and just drop. Jeez, dude. That is heavy. It's a lot. That's heavy. And I think the last year our my other dog, my family dog, passed away and I was at work and I couldn't go and I felt that sucks. Last year. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Last year. And that that ████ was a bummer, too, cuz I felt so guilty that I couldn't be there. And then like finally
17:39 seeing it with Tiff's Tiff's dog, you're just like, "Oh my god, I don't know if I can do this ████ again." I feel like I'm hearing about this a lot. Yeah, it's been a year of losing pets for sure. But these were cats passed this year and wasn't an old cat really. So like right after uh Rapture's about to happen right after she like graduated college actually. Uh she like went back to live at home before she started grad school and stuff. So she got a cat thinking she was going to be at home for a while. Uh ended up like she moved in with me blah blah blah. We got our cats but um that cat became like her her mom's cat and then like in March or April or something like that um he just passed. And the way that it happened is like actually really unusual cuz usually obviously the cats go down eat at a certain time and this cat just wasn't coming out. So, uh, Nah's mom went to go check on him and he
18:29 was just under the bed lifeless cuz they hide, right? Those animals they try to leave the whole area. But usually it's like when they're like older and you know like death is coming. So sometimes they don't want to die where they live. Yep. Exactly. They try to escape. Yep. Oh, that's how they do it for kids. Yeah, they usually try to like leave leave the area, but like this is like where he would sometimes sleep. Mhm. Wow. So, it's really weird to just like have him like pass passing asleep probably. I mean, but no one knows the reason. If only there was animal like autopsy. You could be like the aa poison or something and it's like you know what happened. That'll be $10,000 if you want to do an autopsy. The humans don't even get autopsies unless there's some sort of clear foul play. Like so ████ Or you just pay for it. I know like a lot of people don't like to do the take your animal to the vet and put it down, but
19:19 that I think is a very unselfish act. I think it's very like to see how once you've seen how an animal can die when you don't do that, the amount of horror that that animal can experience. Oh yeah. They're in pain going like they're suffering, dude. Yeah. Because it's like it's like having a seizure at the same time as like everything like organ shutting down. Like nobody should have to experience that just because you know it's hard to take them. Like there's a potential for them to just Why would you want them to ever experience that level of like pain? You got to put them out of their misery. Vette came in for when you know Mormon were putting London London down and the vette comes in and then they're like, you know, just say bye and I'll Yeah. And then they put the needle in and then they do that and then you see the dog just slowly pass away. The vette's like, you know, I'll be back or whatever. And he leaves and I was like, Mormon, that guy just killed your dog.
20:11 Vette comes in here. Can you sign this? It's $600.
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