0:05 So, uh, there was a a journalist from the New York Times who wrote like an article about how they let their wife have an affair and the affair ended up >> for the sake of journalism or it was like personally I'm going to let you have an affair. Oh, this might be a good thing to write about. >> We don't know. >> He didn't exactly open up like that. But he says like, "I let my wife have an affair and it didn't end well >> cuz she left with the guy." >> No, no, no. It's apparently it didn't work out. >> So like she had an affair and then he broke her heart basically. >> Good. >> And he says this article is called I left I let my wife have an affair. Do I have to console her now that it's over? >> That's hilarious. >> What the hell? >> Console. Do I there? >> Cuz like it's that's your wife still and
0:55 she like went through a bummer time. >> I'm curious about what he wrote. Is there like a quick summary that >> Okay, I want to know how he is there like how he let her >> like how where did it was it her idea or like >> it was it was they didn't say if it was her idea or whatever. >> Journal is such ████ cucks man. >> That's true. Huh? >> It's for the sake of >> They only bone in like New Mexico. >> Maybe because it's a it's a girly thing like to gossip and like tattletail. So then if your if your dream is to be a journalist, you're just saying I want to be a professional rap. >> What if what if though? What if this is just like the creative version? Cuz I get duped by random AI ████ nowadays too just because it is interesting if it was true and then you look at it and you're like what? And then you look at it a little deeper and you're like man this is fake. >> Yeah. >> What if that's what like some
1:45 journalists or creative writers are doing nowadays >> because it's like this is just barely insane and relatable enough to be believable. >> Okay. >> Could be. Yeah. For many years, I still love and care deeply about my partner. Over the past year, she had an affair, and I knew about it from the beginning. She said that it gave her vitality, that she enjoyed a sexual freedom that she had longed for, and she felt it was wrong to do this in secret and without my consent. So, of course, I agreed because what she said made sense to me, and she convincingly assured me this was no threat to our relationship. That's good news. At the same time, I always suffered when she was away with her affair partner and could not find a way to take this easily. She recently decided to break it off because the overall emotional burden for both of us was too great. But while she is grieving about it, I feel relieved. >> She decided to break it off and he has
2:35 to console her for break. She didn't get dumped. >> Yes. >> That is ████ complex and weird. >> Yeah, dude. >> She wanted this affair. So, she just basically wanted a hall pass. >> She wants a vitality. >> He didn't want any of this ████ >> He's like, I'm the I'm the supportive husband. >> Yeah. While she's still grieving about it, I feel relieved. Even though I wish that I could have better coped with the situation I rationally and ethically consider okay, all caps. It conflicted with something deeper inside me that I can't easily change. My question is, should I feel sorry for my wife? At the moment, I don't. I understand her feelings. I care about her, but at the same time, I feel it is not my job to console her for this particular loss. What do the JK Careful Boys >> Can I start with the staunch uh point of view? >> Yeah. I think I think like because of so much open sexual liberation that's entered the
3:25 world, people end up engaging in like the more debaucherous options that they feel are actually like free and then they end up in positions like this. And I think at this point you just don't deserve to be happy. >> Neither of you and and you're not allowed to ask for advice because your s███'s so beneath the average person that you just deserve to be ████ sad. Okay, >> I could side with that cuz it's almost like you get okay, you're like you're complaining about ████ burgers and fries, burgers and fries, right? And you're like, I want to try the buffet and you're like, okay, you go to the buffet and you keep getting crazier and crazier ████ And if you're going to eat the ████ truffle maduffle beguff steak or whatever the ████ and you're still unhappy, >> then it's like, >> well, they realize they don't want it every day. Truffle muffle mcguff wasn't doing it for me. I miss burgers and fries. >> Yeah. do something like this and you ask for advice from other people, you're
4:15 lowering their intelligence for them having to even >> almost put themselves in your stupid ass shoes. You know what I mean? It's like you Yeah. It's like you did something so ████ dumb that it's like why are you asking people >> stole my Camry and then I got a Ferrari and it cost so much in gas. >> This is a ████ And tires. The tires are ████ 800 bucks. >> Like there's some things that society already had figured out that was like healthy to do. You probably don't want to play with fire cuz you might get burnt. That's basically what it is. And you got burnt and it's like suffer the consequences. >> Only 90 kids will know that reference. >> But that's my staunch like ████ uh stick up my ass uh opinion. >> This guy loves her though cuz he's like come back to your Camry. Let's see what we could do about this. >> That's the problem though, isn't it? Like cuz should he have to console her? He's like I don't want to. >> He should have went on his own ████ >> You think? >> Yeah. You go ████ She go ████ Double
5:06 ████ >> He's had to deal with it. At the end of the day, it just sounds like she doesn't really respect him. >> You know, >> the fact that like he doesn't respect yourself either, though. >> I think there's more respect in her doing it behind his back. >> I think there's actually way more respect behind it. >> Explain, explain, explain, explain. >> Okay. The fact that you want a blessing >> and you want your ████ cuckass supportive husband to clap while you're getting ████ deeped by by the ████ what do they call them? Bulls. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> While he's at home. cooking food so when she comes home after sucking a long dick day's dick she could get some ████ food >> that's the that's like that's the worst >> she wants truffle muff >> yeah but I think if she was out just like oh I don't want him to know >> cuz I don't you know I don't want it to
5:56 >> traditional cheating >> I think that's actually way more respectful >> only JK could draw that conclusion >> a secret out of respect >> out of respect >> and Bart having his back on that immediately is the Well, what if she's like, "I want to respect you super hard, so I want to let you know this is happening, but like look at the look at the dude I'm having an affair with. He's butt ass ugly compared to your hot ass." You know? Like, I'll never leave you fully. I just need like a different ████ >> Then you better you better take care of your own dinner before you come home. You don't get to suck long dick and come home like, "Can you make me dinner after I suck long dick?" >> What if his dick is short? The first words out of my mouth would be >> long dick. >> Why are we married? >> Like, >> yeah. Yeah. >> No. Huh? >> For your money. I I married you for your money. >> And why am I married to you? For your ████ loyalty. Like a woman marries for the money and man like that p████'s
6:46 mine. Finish that sentence. >> I'm going ████ put put I'mma ████ put a baby in that ████ ████ ████ is mine. >> What if she's the one that's rich? Cuz he's the journalist. >> There's something about this that is sexually a kink for the guy writing this. >> Yeah, for sure. >> Because he says, "I've been married for many years. I still love and care deeply about my partner. Over the past year, she had an affair and I knew about it from the beginning. So there's something kink. There's something cucky going. >> Bust the nuts to that. >> You can tell cuz he called her partner >> and a boner. >> It's hard for me to believe though that like even though that is a kink >> sometimes I think some guys in order to survive, they make things a kink. >> Yep. >> Because it's like he may not have access to do the same. >> He might just be like, "This is inevitably going to happen. I might as well force myself to be horny about it or else I'll cry." >> Yep. >> I don't think he respects himself. I think he's just trash and he's just >> He sounds like a ████ >> Yeah, he sounds like a ████ So, it's
7:36 kind of like >> I just have a hot wife fetish. >> What do you mean? Like she's hot and he wants to see her do other guys. >> No, no, no. Hot wife means it's like a cuckled thing. It's like it means like you have a hot wife and you want to see her get absolutely railed. >> But he doesn't see it, right? He just tells him about it and then >> I think even that can be hot to them. >> I read so >> getting railed in mystery. >> So much cook psychology. >> I'm telling you, dude. That's the thing. >> It's true. There are that does exist. them trying to survive though or that's really a >> they know that she's on a date right now with a guy with a big old dick and they love it. >> Wow. >> Big old dick. >> Big old ████ long boy. >> Yeah, there are people that relish in the humiliation. >> I think there's guys that have such low self-esteem that they want to appear like the loving, supportive husband that gain control. >> You know what? I >> I'm so secure. I'M SO SECURE. I LET her
8:27 do anything. >> It's like Adam 22. It's a I think when it comes to marriage, most things are copes. So, you have to really think about like the first thing you should suspect is that something is a cope. I think >> Adam 22 let his chick get railed twice. >> Yeah. But Adam 22's been railing her friends for ████ years. So, there's a difference in that. But it's so different when chicks get railed and >> Exactly. Yeah. >> It is because we're we're not >> we are entering their bodies and dominating them. >> So, it's to me it's different. Like it just wasn't news when he was ████ a hundred of her other friends. >> A real cuck is like you're not allowed to ████ anybody but you could just jack off while you watch me ████ >> Yeah. >> That's a real porn creators. >> I respect those guys. >> But if she's like if he's boning everyone, it's like they're just to me they're just orgy swingers. >> Yeah. They're just open. >> Yeah. >> And he's good at marketing stuff. He wanted people to have outrage about that
9:17 cuz they made a lot of money off it. >> And in the fight too that they had >> still going. That's the truth about like even this guy. They probably just have like definitively an open relationship. Didn't call it that. Explain the procedure and how it became a thing so that he could have a journalist piece. That's interesting. >> Well, what's weird is that he he's been knowing that it's been going on. Right. >> So So he he found out somehow. >> He found out he says I knew about it from the beginning. >> Yeah. But how? Right. So that's to tell him because she she didn't feel good about it. Yeah. >> Be on the level with you. I want to do this for my vitality. >> What's vitality? >> I don't know. She says she needed it. It gave her vitality. >> She's probably got more sexual energy than he can. >> Yeah. She says she he says that she enjoyed a sexual freedom she had long for and she felt it was wrong to do this in secret and without my consent.
10:07 >> So she has scruples. She's a moral chick. >> Yeah. So they make they make rules. If your wife's like longing for a sexual thing like you that's that's kind of your job. >> Yeah. But what if what if that's her kink though is to ████ >> whoever wins. then that's okay if that's like their relationship. If she admitted it and she wants it, she knows he knows about it and he's cool with it. Like that's cool. That's just your guys' relationship. >> But but but the ████ the thing that I don't understand, he goes, "Well, can I go?" >> Well, cuz it wasn't it wasn't purely sexual. If he feels like there's something to console, that means she's sad about something. >> Well, he also says at the same time, I always suffer when she was away with her affair partner and could not find a way to take this easily. Cuz you know who's actually like open and does this and it sounds pretty they're pretty chill about it is actually Margaret Cho. She spoke about how her boyfriend sometimes would come over with his girlfriend. They
10:57 would bang and whatever and she'll have breakfast press ready for them and they would just be chilling and talking and then sometimes she's doing her own thing too. And I was like that to me sounds like actually someone who's secure with this ████ and then she's just like yeah ████ it. Like >> I I believe that there are people like that. I don't think any of them are talking about it. I think all the people that are truly cool with it never mention it. And I think the people that do talk about it, that's how they cope is by normalizing it to the world and being like, "Right, it's it's fine, right?" And then like they get that acceptance. There's all these people that later on turn around and have another speech about how the whole time it was actually oppressive and sad. >> Dude, hand up. I'm too little a man for this ████ You know what I mean? I'm a big man, but I'm >> too I'm too loved for that ████ >> Yeah, dude. That's what I'm saying. Funny though, you know how like uh Destiny was was was notoriously confident about all this and then like
11:47 his wife actually just left him for for the for the guy she was having an affair with. >> Well, it wasn't even an affair. It was like it was open. It was fine. >> But then they were talking about their open marriage, all that and whatever. And then and then >> destiny. >> He's like this dreamer. He's a blue-haired gamer. Yeah. >> Do you remember you guys remember Shan? >> Yeah. On the show. >> Yeah. She she's she told us she's in an open relationship. They've never ex executed on it. So, so are they really open? Cuz that's to me that's like giving you a pass, but if you don't act on it, I don't actually think that's open. >> So, that one I think I go back to Ryan's example where I think it's cool because they went to the buffet and they stuck with the burgers and fries. Like, this makes us happy, so we'll just stick with it. >> They they went to the buffet and they go, "Nah." And then they walked away. >> That way. Yeah. >> They they thought truffle McGuff was
12:37 like not >> Truffle McGuff. Yeah. >> Yeah. Not with the diarrhea then. >> Maybe tomorrow. >> Maybe. >> That is interesting that they can keep that open like, oh, maybe tomorrow though. But >> I still do believe that like we're all still a product so much of like our own environment and our society's like standards though, right? Like I think about historically, you know, tribes and stuff like that. The way that like cavemen style dudes were or you know how monogamy is is maybe socially more recent in human existence than not. So for us it's very easy to be like this is kind of how we are but it's probably because the example of like our parents or whatever you know >> but then it's like there's got to be so many people that naturally like on on just generally like a it's like a guy being just attracted to I'm just attracted to this type of person even though I might be like married it's like
13:28 that person still like has has something that is attracted to me. Um, society has deemed it so that we should not be in like these open relationships too frequently or whatever or it's adultery or it's whatever, right? But that's like that's still very interesting to me because there's there is a natural >> thing that like people are just attracted to this thing. They'll make the choice not to do anything about it because they're in marriage. But >> I feel like it's natural only one way. I think this guy, if he was in the Neanderthal days, a caveman hiding in a cave while his wife goes out and ████ is is weird. It's usually the other way around. The cave lady stays in the cave and he's like, "Boom, me too f███." >> And she even maybe knows about it. >> There are examples of like primitive or different tribes and cultures where like they just had orgies and that was normal and then like no one knew whose kid was
14:19 who, right? But like people can't reference that cuz we're a civilized society now, right? So like there's different stakes. And then for me it's not even about getting your pleasures off. It's about like there's so many things at stake when you're an adult with a family. Like you're going to you're going to ████ your family up. There's other things more than just getting your dick wet, right? Or getting your ████ ████ bang. But like if you're single and you want to live a sexually free life, there's no consequences because there's nothing at stake. But if you have ████ kids, you got family, maybe you belong to a church, maybe you belong to a community. There's just so many layers of you could ████ your reputation up and just there's just so much of a mess just because you want to get off. And I'm like, that's not worth it. >> No, you don't want to be a mom with ████ herpes, mouth kissing all your kids. >> Oh yeah. You want to be ████ Bill
15:09 Gates having to drug your wife with STD ████ >> Yeah. >> In the words of Nick, if Nikki sat sat me down, she's like, I want to do this for my vitality. Murder, suicide, triple homicide. How's that for vitality?
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