0:00 and then some stupid lady like this is just letting dude just come in her all the time why do women do that clean what's up with your kind [Music] bro all right we are back into another Mi ████ oo I love these and this one is MI 4 refusing to bring my ex's other children Along on days out with our two sons it's going to be a lot of details but the details I what build the contest so yes because they're still your kid right moving on next next Anthony I am judge and jury so this person 32ye old male has two sons age 11 and 10 their mother and
0:51 I were in high school were high school sweethearts who had the boys before we finished College we had planned to get married but then I found out my ex was cheating on me and I broke up with her oh one of the kids was 14 months at the time we split custody and I paid child support for the first 18 months post breakup until my ex was earning similar to me which meant child support ceased and costs were simply split with nobody giving anyone extra you got to pay child support when she's the one that cheated how whack America so America my ex had another son 2 years after we broke up the father was not in the picture she told me he was a guy that she cheated on me with and that she realized he was a piece of ████ and asked if I would consider adopting her son and raising him as my own alongside our boys I told her I wasn't going to do that we ended up arguing about this for so long that she had time to get into another relationship and move in with or move this man in so I told her that he
1:42 should be the father figure to her son since they plan on building a life together within a year the guy was gone and she had a daughter that he fathered Jesus damn I continued to being a dad to myself she makes a lot of dumb mistakes I didn't interact with her other two children but I would see them from a distance during exchanges she asked me to adopt both of her additional children stating they needed a father I told her to go and find their fathers then she eased up when she met her husband I thought maybe it was finally the end of her trying to make me responsible for her other children she has a child with her husband now too so five in total in her household when our boys are included but it has not lasted my ex has admitted her husband isn't involved in the lives of her other children and they are still missing out on having a father so she asked me to include her three other children good Lord that does include the
2:32 child that she has with her husband in days out that I have with my son she said especially during summer and around Christmas time when I take them to do fun holiday themed activities it's not something she can give her other children she wants them to experience these things too off of his book I I you know what I would do it you but you know why what I would say they're mine now you can't be around cuz you're ████ a loser and I don't want them to be affected by your ████ loser they already have your loser jeans and the guys that ████ you now I have to take care of these ████ animals that have s█████ genetics these ████ animals and I have to civilize and I have to civilize these ████ animals that you ████ up on honestly everything Joe is saying is what I was saying in my own head while you're telling the story like for real for real well I mean these kids are innocent and these poor ████ kids yo move out of country at that point to
3:22 expect him to pay when she's cheated is she's obviously a ████ and she's like continually screwing up I'll be her father I'll be but I mean again if you're going to do this then you'd have to be doing it for the kids and not for her you got to be ready to take on five children but if they're all like really cool kids I can see it being so two of them are his yeah yeah does he have any outside of that relationship no not him or not that he's mentioned okay so he has two and then so he's like am I the ████ for not including three who are not even my genetics yeah corre oh it's hard cuz like is it different when you have kids do you have more of an empathy for this or less I think you do I think you have more of an empathy like for other kids that you're seeing them going through like a really hard time but what
4:13 if you have your hands full with your own kids I think that's the definitely the case like the fact that this lady is trying to make him cuz every bit of the story she's a ████ she's trying to get him to take care of her kids that she she cheated on him with right mhm had a baby did it like two other times so it's was like she keeps making don't let these guys come inside you Shing the responsibilities onto people who had no part in the mistake that she made yeah and she keeps making mistakes she cheated on the first decent guy that probably would have stayed with her and then they could have had five kids of their own but she ████ that up and then she gets with all these other guys after and makes mistakes damn I feel so bad for all these kids I feel bad for the kids but also like he has no legal responsibilities to those other three kids so it's more of a like moral let me let me add some last
5:03 details real quick she finds out that when he does these things AKA take them out on these experiences and stuff she founds out when I do these things with my boys because she will quiz them about their time with me and each time she gets angry but when the boys were with her two weeks ago she got extra pissed because she had mentioned to me that her son the oldest of her three kids didn't get much for his birthday and she had wanted to make it up to him that was meant to mean me so when she heard our boys and I had visited an amusement park around his birthday she blew ause and asked me how can I be such an ████ to children she told me I should be doing better as a father oh dude she's she sounds horrible she's the problem I think I think she's the ████ I think these kids are going to turn out to be ████ too the chances are very high yeah cuz she's probably raising them to be ████ like I mean that's a i me you're not always a product of your envir I mean does Grant like the
5:53 opportunity to be an ████ because of you know who's raising them and there's no dad in the picture that's tough yeah that's so so tough I know Dad but let's say I would want to adopt all the orphans but they have to I have to go a different country cuz the laws here won't let me do what I want to do the expenses yeah the expenses if I had a tie orphanage yeah much easier I would make them super I think if you had orphanage in general you'd be down right they're going to be super business soldiers and the new leaders of the world what's the first thing you're going to do in your curriculum make sure that they can control their human urges and thoughts that's bro that's the first thing in the curriculum this the ████ X-Men mansion yeah that's what I want to do it's a danger room just throwing ████ at him don't get
6:44 mad don't get mad that's that's child abuse and I'm like no it's not it's discipline like they probably came from chaotic ████ places I'm like they have to first learn how to wake up on time they have to ████ learn how to sleep they have to be able to control their so they don't act up crazy I'm preventing them from being future like like her like going to jail or doing stupid ████ yeah you got to take those kids away from that lady bro yeah that lady is a problem what check check this out though right Nick you're the dad all right five of us right here are kids all right these two these two are your sons me Su and Colleen we're just leftovers right from other and and then but we're getting close you know what I mean cuz like we're all five kids I I think for me I'm a sucker bro like if I saw my kids being
7:34 you know very friendly with the same situation I'd be like oh I want to take care of all of them like honestly cuz I I am kind of like that I think but financially you might not have the means to do that how do you get the help I have to sell this one off to somebody I'm just kidding joking I'm joking no sell one of the kids nice probably the best chance you got selling somebody yeah you know I'm not going to I might be able to get a nice pretty penny for you dude come on look at look at your hourglass ████ say you know I think I think it's really ████ hard because I think that's probably what the battle is and that's the reason why he's probably writing this is cuz he understands that these kids are in a ████ up situation and he's seeing it and he's probably way too close to the situation and he feels like a moral obligation to do something with his kids but at that point it's like it sucks cuz you guys your own kids
8:25 yeah and you're by yourself dealing with two kids you're raising Boys by yourself that's hard man mhm and then some stupid lady like this is just letting dude just come in her all the time that's why do women do that clean what's up with your kind bro don't ask me can you rephase the question so that it has all the information in one sentence why wom do that let everybody come in it's in our genetics and our DNA to just be mischievous by Nature you're going to say come gutters yeah I like to that word is there like a like Hey we're wired to be cream pie Bandits okay is there is there any like science in uh has there been any like scientific studies that guys are predisposed to like reject the kids of another I don't know because there are a
9:17 lot of dudes that do adopt like the step kids like there's a famous study called The Brady Bunch where there's a family that's a show right huh based on stford stud medical journal no there's a there's a family and he said huh the guy's name his name is Brady and and he got with you know so he had three sons and she had three daughters and they came together as one big happy family yeah and I'm surprised they didn't ████ each other cuz they're not genetically combined or I would have ████ I would have ████ I would have ████ like hardcore especially cuz like ████ but they didn't they did they did it and it's a it's a beautiful a genetic position to Jo would have ████ fued yeah cuz it's not e you barely know them hey what would you do you got to do it within the first window though if you
10:08 don't do it within the first window then it's ill cuz that's like incest we got to ask subie cuz he's the only Dad here wait what that's true you have would you adopt adopt the whole situation we were just listening to he's like he what video we talking about maybe not adopt but take more of a role in these three boys lives of three other kids one is only half of the problem right it's like if you could like are you even financially stable enough and you have to prioritize the two kids that you have you know maybe not maybe not adopt all three of them cuz that's a pretty CRA that's ████ that's a slippery slope that's that's nuts but like you know taking more of a taking more of a bigger role in their lives and like she still got a husband she does I thought they broke off they didn't say it was divorced I thought she was like three she just not around yeah he's just not taking care of the so she has three separate baby daddies then
10:59 yeah well Tech techically four F no I would I would tell yeah I would say tell the dad to do it their dads to take care of them hell yeah yes if it's not my kid I wouldn't just because financially I'd only focus on my kid cuz if it was my kid obviously we have a closer relationship you when will when would you guys actually do it though like if if you had to do it how would you do it cuz my my solution is just I'm taking full custody you can't even be around cuz you're bad influence in my situation I would take full custody of my children yeah and show showing the courts in some way that she can't ████ stay loyal and like she's just going to keep pumping out babies you know what I mean not be able to take care of any of them because if my kids stay with her she's going to be constantly brainwashing them that I'm like a bad father or have to constantly it doesn't sound fun dude baby mama
11:49 drama sounds like a good TV show baby mama drama that is a good TV show like that out of all the fears of of how to ruin your life in my head like that that's probably top top they said that's one of the most important decisions people will make brother is who you have a kid with can't be having sex with these random ladies and coming inside that ████ can ████ up your life y it's not yeah it's also don't blame it on the guy dude yeah ladies be careful who you let who you let cream pie inside of you be careful care be careful cream pies brother please don't just cream pie no okay don't be a cre pie Bandit don't be a cream pie Bandit pull out just don't yeah away leave it out ████ just read books run away don't even talk to her read some books who the ████ is that
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