0:05 Welcome back to another episode of Careful Boys. We have Drew Belcher with us. This is the owner of Would Love Always, Sorry Not Sorry Creamery, and also you may have known him from his Unlocked page where he's just posted tons and tons, years and years and years worth of different food content, but I would like to know from you personally, if you're Drew Belcher, who's this guy? >> OH, NO. >> WOAH. >> NO, ARE THESE PUBLIC? >> Who is that guy? >> These are public? >> Holy ████ >> It sure is, bud. >> Wait, okay, I see the fear. Wait, I see the fear. I see the fear in the middle. What's the tattoo say? >> Dude, are you can't read that? >> Uh-uh. >> Shall fear no evil, dude. >> No way, that's what >> How is that? 18 years old, dude. I was like, you know what? I'm getting >> You're 18 in here? >> No, no, damn. That was uh
0:55 >> I was like, bro. >> Dude. >> I was maybe 23, maybe 23. >> Wow. >> But that that's not even bad. That's not even bad. I I Dude. >> When did you >> I had floaties on your wrists in case you drown? >> Well, you know, I was not the most flamboyant, you know what I mean, being that heavy. >> So, what was this guy like? What were you like at this point in your life? >> guy was a super just in insanely douchebag, for sure. >> Were you like, I'm so tired of ████ >> Wait, dude, look at that. Look at that. Here, just to warn you, I'm not the black guy. >> OH. >> THAT'S LIKE THE >> ████ >> What picture is that? >> Oh, dude. >> I think these are hidden, for sure. >> Are they? >> know why that's not hidden. >> Oh, that's actually on my Instagram. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. >> 20-in arms? >> Dude, massive. >> Python, bro. >> Massive, dude, massive. >> I mean, just big tits and Look at that arm, bro. >> Jackets. Oh, that's Yeah, that's on my page. >> Jeez. Oh my lord. >> So, I worked I worked at Wet Republic
1:46 when I was, you know, >> Is that after you worked at Chris? >> Why do you look like a >> Oh, no, it's before. >> Oh. >> Chris is uh where I met my wife. Yeah, dude. She's Dude, look at that. >> That's insane. >> Yeah. >> It's insane. Did you ever Did you close with them? Did you close? >> No. >> You never competed? >> No, this was before like Instagram was a thing. No. >> just for fun? >> Just for fun. >> Oh, stupid. Cuz like back in college back in college in the day it was like the only way like cuz everyone lived at home with their moms. No one had No one was making any money. The only way to like really ████ ████ was like I got to be like the most jacked dude. >> True. >> You know? >> Yeah. >> You know, just like why not abuse just crazy amounts of anabolic steroids? >> Damn, so you were on roids back then? >> That I was I was coming off. This was like the season after this. >> Oh, okay. >> I wasn't even that big there. No, that's not even that big either. No, that's not crazy at all. >> a nice guy. >> Yeah. That's when we launched the app. >> That looks pretty big. >> No, no, no, no, no. That's
2:37 >> Compared to now? >> Oh, yeah. >> Like you're so lean now. >> Yeah, yeah, shredded for sure. >> So you were just into being a big buff dude? >> Yeah, but again you look healthy, you kind of live like that. You know, I mean you know, like that fake Hollywood lifestyle, but like dude >> Abusing anabolic >> Abusing anabolic steroids. >> Do you have any side effects that carry over to now? >> Uh I mean no. No, I mean I had a really bad inguinal hernia just from like squatting and deadlifting so heavy. And then I had to have surgery obviously on that cuz it was like falling out of my ████ right above my dick, you know? >> Yeah. >> And when you go to have uh surgery, obviously you got to do blood work. And so the doc's like, "Hey, before we have operate, you have to come all this come off all this s███." And I'm like, "What are you talking about? I'm not on anything." >> What ████ >> What ████ are you talking about? >> And your ████ veins pulsating? >> What are you Like I'm all purple and ████ Just looking can't breathe. What are you talking about, dude? Uh let me get a meal in
3:27 real quick. >> Uh >> But yeah, I came off everything and I never got back on. And that was >> Wow. >> 2000 ████ 12? 11? 2011 maybe? 2011, yeah. Never got back on. >> Wow. >> I mean I will one day like some TRT maybe eventually or something, but yeah, never touched any any steroids since. >> Damn, man. That's crazy how big you were. >> That's not big. Those photos where I showed you that are all public >> crazy ass arm >> are yeah. >> Yeah. >> 250 lean is ████ big. >> Yeah, 250. Not as lean as this, but with visible abs. >> Yeah, yeah, that's >> You know, the turtle belly ████ abs, you know? The bloated Ronnie Coleman ████ >> Yeah, that growth hormone ████ >> growth hormone ████ dude. Yeah, I was also on a tiny growth hormone, yeah. >> So, how different were you as a person back then? Like in this guy? >> Uh I mean, so I was working at a nightclub. No, I was working at Wet Republic in that photo and just your your normal run-of-the-mill ████
4:17 24-year-old ████ Vegas douchebag working in the industry. >> Host or like what? >> No, no, busser. Server assistant. >> Oh. >> So, like you have the the waitresses that do all the bottles and presentations and like you have the busser that gets all the ice and the cups and like gets all the things set up and the girls that you work at a tandem as a team. And then you also end up ████ all the waitresses. >> Like it's an unavoidable side effect. >> Yeah, I mean, when you have that many like good-looking people around each other, you know, it's just like >> It's like Olympic Village. >> Dude, you just everyone's just ████ each other. >> Do you guys think you might have crossed paths back in the day when you did a residency in a club? >> Not that year. >> I think it was way before that. >> Oh. >> Yeah, that that's back in the day. I mean, you I even still a little bloated face, but yeah, that's a completely different person. I don't even know that guy anymore. Don't even You don't even want to know that guy. >> And did you meet So, your wife of today, did you meet her looking like this? >> No, no, God no. She would never give me the chance. >> Oh, really? >> No, no. I mean, I
5:07 >> She wouldn't have been into it. >> I was still in good shape, but maybe a little bigger than I am now, but completely natural. But I was working at uh Tryst nightclub back in 2013 uh during like the heyday of XS and Tryst and uh my wife got uh came on as like a a seasonal server. And uh the first day I met her, I remember and she's like very quiet and timid and kind of stand offish. Like if you meet her, you'll know it. >> She's a Vegas local, too? >> Yeah, born and raised as well. And uh we had never crossed paths before that, but the first night I met her, she was training and the first thing I ever said to her, I walked up to her and I said, "Are you going to be my girlfriend or what?" And me at the time, I'm like Mr. Cool Guy, been there forever. >> You're just ████ around. >> That's bold. >> Yeah, like I kind of like, you know, the funny guy, but not super joking, but like kind of like whatever. >> were actually like into her. >> Yeah. Oh, yeah, for sure. Like immediately saw her and I was like, "Oh my god, I'm wildly attracted to her.
5:58 Whatever that is, I'm into it." And uh no train wreck. >> Real girl. I'm I'm into that. >> And then And then so she was like she she was training, so she was like super like flustered and like really busy and like Tristan exists like you really want to like impress on her. >> What did she say to you when you said that? >> say anything. Which was like the thing. I was like, "Oh my god, she ████ hates me." But didn't say no, but didn't say yes. >> Okay. So she just like rolled her eyes and walked out. >> Not even rolled her eyes, but kind of just like kind of looked like a little like get the ████ away from me. And I was like, "Okay, cool. I'm out." And then uh just we uh I think I trained with her like maybe her last day of training and we just clicked and vibed and then uh she's I sent her a DM or some ████ Sent her a DM. And then I just we've been having sex and kids ever since. Yeah. Hell yeah. Yeah, all right, dude. >> Did she actually reject you at all?
6:49 >> No. >> Okay. >> No. No. >> See, we were talking earlier about how like it's usually when you get with somebody and it's going to be long-lasting, it's just easy. For sure. And there's not like a lot of conflict and ████ cuz some guys like they never give up on ████ and >> Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, ████ ████ be ████ crazy, dude. I feel you. >> He had the sign the initial signal of like, "Hey, just a little too much right now." And he's like, "Peace. All right, I'll give you space." And you could you could go back in. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. It's like, "Oh, she doesn't ████ love me forever. No." >> Immediately hitting on her again the next time you saw her. >> Oh, I think I was, yeah. I was. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I was into it. I was into it. I'm still into it. >> But you weren't too much, obviously, somehow. >> Uh no. No. Never like force for anything. Not not the >> He also had the He had the feature of also being really good-looking, which a lot of guys don't have. >> That's true.
7:39 >> Good-looking guy, dude, you know. >> Do you when when you we ask if we were to ask her today like what she was thinking during that moment that you first said that, what does she normally say? >> Oh, she would definitely be on the board of who the ████ is this guy? Why is he talking to me like this? And but she didn't really know my personality. She definitely got to know it like that moment on. But I was like the cool guy. I'd already been there for a couple years, you know. All the girls kind of like liked me and stuff. I was just a likable guy. And never ████ any of them, babe. Love you. >> That's great. >> And yeah, and it's just it's just Dude, I hit the jackpot with Carolyn, you know. I've made some pretty dumb decisions and ████ up a ton in my life. >> What do you think makes her stand out stand out compared to all the other chicks that you've banged? >> I mean, so for one, I I >> Well put, by the way. >> It's not to say like, oh my gosh, she's
8:29 such a good person and she's so good. That's like the most cliche thing to say. Um but she's not like the elegant Another cliche thing to say, oh she's not like your typical waitress. Like she hated being a ████ waitress. Like some girls in Vegas that are good looking with big tits like she is, they're all about it. Like that's what they live for is being a Vegas cocktail waitress cuz like the money's so good, you get treated so well. >> Yeah, they're killing it. >> Um but she just she hated it. Like it's just not her personality at all. And like the whole like climbing the ladder and sucking ████ your way to the top, she just hated every aspect of it. And that's what really made it stand out for me. It's like I was like, oh this girl's definitely different, you know. And I And then I ████ her and I was like, oh she's just like them all. All All the other ones. I'm kidding, babe. She's going to watch this episode. >> Same same. >> She probably has a great sense of humor. Uh she lets me do my thing, for sure. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. >> It seems like it. This is for me from
9:19 the outside moving here like maybe 5 years ago. Are there very stereotypical like Vegas pathways? Like either server, jacked bouncer, real estate agent. Like if you're born and raised, it almost seems like there's like casino dealer. >> Yeah, there's like a >> Put the cones everywhere. >> It's like a it's Yeah. Yeah. But like a it's like choose your character almost. >> guys are from Honduras though. >> Cuz LA has it's own choose your character, but I'm sure like Vegas being a actor. Like what Yeah. Unless you're an actual local. >> Rector's a big one. >> Oh, I like that. >> Graphic designer. >> What are the biggest ones? >> Okay, so you nailed it right on the head. That And the only thing is is because immediately once you turn 21 you go in the industry you can start making six figures cash. At the time it was tax free. So I ended up When you're 21 like when I'm working at Wet Republic in the
10:09 summer which is only eight months and I'm making, you know, $110,000. >> At 21 years old? >> At 21. That's crazy, right? >> Here's where it gets iffy is you're never going to make any more than that. >> Mhm. The caps. >> So >> What cuz your your looks start fading or your >> No, no. You're just there's just no room for improvement as like a busser or a server assistant. >> There's no like promotion or >> Right. Like that's what you're going to make and that's what you're going to make for the next ████ 10, 15 years. >> Oh, so you start at the peak and you just >> stay there. >> Correct. Like you're never going to make any more, you know? So as a server assistant by the time I was 21, yeah, it's great money. I have no bills. I'm living at home with my mom and my dad going to college. I'm just buying all dumb ████ racking up credit card debt, buying ████ sick cars and cool dinners, going out of town. It's like you're not saving any money. You're just living that lifestyle now. And that's like the route a lot of people end up going especially if you're good looking in Vegas cuz like you want that cash
11:00 immediately. >> Yeah. >> Uh especially if you're still in school or doing whatever. And uh there's just no room for growth after that. 100 grand is great when you're 21, it's not when you're 35 with a house and kids. And I mean no, no. It's still good money, but like it's just it's different, you know? But there's still guys that are still at XS and Drai's. >> Same guys that you worked with? >> guys. And they're still making the same money which is fine, you know? But >> Yeah. Good to have a job at all. >> Yeah, that's good you brought that up. We talk about it all the time in Vegas, yeah. It's like this that's just what it is. Same same same with girls. And then when you're done cuz eventually So looks fade as a girl. You can still be a busser if you're a union job like XS whatever and you're like on there forever. Um, but if you're a girl, you know, at some point your looks kind of start trading. You're still hot, don't get me wrong, but like if you're 35, 36, 37, 38 real estate agent, baby. That's where we're That's where we're going, dude. That's where we're going and they should. They ████ absolutely
11:50 >> The ones that make me sad are like the ladies that you could tell they were hot back in the day. They still got the big titties, but then they got the crows feet. So now they have to wear like the bunny outfit like walking around the downtown casinos. >> See, no, that's like where the where the waitresses go to die. They got the furry You know they got they have the furry >> For sure. For sure. What are you doing looking like that? >> You know, the ones that take photos with you? >> Yeah, they got a furry tail. They got the >> ones that the ones that Ryan falls all the time? Hot. I'd still probably ████ them, you know. Whatever, you know, allegedly, you know. If it's there. >> You can't see crows feet from behind, usually. >> That's it. >> Okay. So like that's the track usually after that fades? It becomes straight to real estate, yeah? >> Yeah, for for Vegas I would say for sure. I mean unless you just hit the jackpot and for whatever reason you turn into like an a real entrepreneur and start some sort of business, but you just don't see it a lot in Vegas. Like Orange County in Southern California, like that's just it's a different route.
12:41 Like that's where all the real young entrepreneurs are starting cool clothing brands or food businesses and just crushing driving Lambos and ████ by the time they're 26 here. It's completely the opposite. Like you would just go work in a night club and fill up cranberry juice. You know, there's like there's no real entrepreneur spirit in your early 20s in Vegas. There's just not. >> Have you ever had any run-ins with the culinary union down here? >> Okay, so when I worked at XS, that's part they're part of the culinary union. So it's the best the best insurance, by the way. But >> mean like you become a part of the >> Yeah, yeah, yeah, you become in the culinary union, but I never I don't even think I ever ████ used I don't even think I went to the doctor ever. >> Cuz it's such a thing out here. Like they're they're a massive power >> Oh, it's like they're like a monopoly, dude. It's like the pretty ████ mafia, too, I think. I don't know. I don't ████ know. But uh yeah, the whole goal is like you want to be in a the culinary union cuz it's like the best insurance and you just pop out kids
13:31 for free and ████ do your thing. >> It's weird. Having Having a grown up here and seen like Vegas transform, you know, over the last couple decades, where do you think Vegas is going? Do you think it's like a city that's like hit its plateau? It's still going to grow? Or like where where do you think it's going to go? >> I think Vegas is exploding. It's completely transformed even in the last 5 10 years. I mean like when we got the Golden Knights here everyone was like, "Oh, is hockey really going to ████ work here?" I thought it wouldn't cuz it's in the middle of the desert. Well, yeah, and it's like Vegas isn't a sports town. Vegas is a winning town. You know, like, "Oh, Vegas is a hockey town now." No, Vegas is a winning town. Vegas only accepted the Golden Knights because they did so well that first year and went to the Stanley Cup. The moment the Golden Knights start ████ sucking dick dick for real, like for real, I'm talking like years of heartache, like not even making the playoffs, not even close, you'll see that fan base ████ shrink massively. It'll be the easiest ticket to get in Vegas. The Raiders still suck,
14:23 but again, this is the sports mecca of the world, I think, in the next 10 years. >> more There's more like other fans in the stands than Raiders fans. >> So, that's another big thing, too, is like it's the perfect market and excuse as an out-of-market fan to be like, "Oh, babe, we can go to Take the kids to Vegas this weekend. We can go see a show and I can take you to nice dinners and oh, we can squeeze in a ████ Chiefs game or a Niners game." It's like the perfect excuse to go to Vegas, which is a good thing for the local Vegas economy. It sucks for the local Vegas teams. >> Now, we're getting the A's. We're going to get the A's. >> So, I'm a I'm a I'm a newly A's fan. Uh they also are statistically one of the worst teams in the league, but they're doing great this season with all those dead >> What name do you think the NBA should team? >> Yeah, for the NBA team. >> Oh, there's been a couple good ones, dude. >> I love the funny ones. >> The funny ones are good. Like the traffic cones one and all that. >> The no license plate ones. >> license No license plate ones. The hit-and-runners. Ambulance chasers.
15:14 >> Yeah. >> I don't know. I don't know. It's got to be something sick, but when they announce it, everyone's going to hate it. Just like everyone hated the >> Sure. Sure. >> the Golden Knights. That's ████ dumb. But now it's just like it's just what it is. >> They won enough. >> So when they announce whatever that new team name is for the NBA, everyone will hate it initially but it'll come around. It better not be something gay though like the Jesters or something. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. >> Just the the best name would have been the Aces. >> Yeah, I know. >> It's from San. >> How about the Queens? >> The Queens isn't bad. >> But then if they're against the Kings, everyone's like well they're going to lose. You know what I mean? Cuz the Kings is already a >> Let's rename the WNBA team. We'll be the Aces. >> My god, that would be so funny. I mean they're subsidized by the NBA anyway. >> But the problem is that they won too much. >> Oh yeah, they did do pretty well.
16:05 >> The winners, they could be the winners. >> Yeah, I met with Kelsey Plum, you know, when she was on the Aces and we had a really funny bit and a piece that went super viral with her is, you know, just talking about the players' pay and how they just want a percentage of pay equal to the men. But at the end of the day, the WNBA doesn't make any money. Where do you Where do you want Where do you want this money to come from? So >> They should call them the Vegas Slots. >> I love that one. >> The slotty slots. >> The loose slots. >> Yeah, that'd be tight. >> I ████ like that. >> That'd be nice. >> That'd be a good one, yeah. >> I kind of like the Vegas Mafia. >> I like the Heat Strokers. >> Dude, the Ball Strokers. >> Ball Strokers. >> The Ball Bandits. >> I like that. >> How about just Los Vegas Hookers? >> That's Yeah, I saw that one too. >> I like that one.
16:55 >> You know what would have been pretty decent too is the Las Vegas Heat. Cuz we got we it's hot here, dude, but
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