0:00 Well, she injured her back like three years ago. Like, did you feel bad? No, actually I did. That's my dog. That's our boy right there. Yeah. Laying it down. Welcome back to Careful Boys. Today we're talking about how important is it for your partner to share your hobbies or interests? Oo, I don't think it's that important. Yeah, me too. I used to think it was important. Me, too. I think when I was in I thought that you have to have some shared things though. Yes. I think it's important for my happiness. I think it's more important to start a new hobby that you both are new at. That's pretty cool. That's way cooler. Like what? Um anything. Woodwork. Uh tiling anal stuff that you can work on a house with. Analyzing
0:52 analyzing. Anal as a hobby. That's pretty funny. If you're both new to it. Yeah. Yeah, if you're new to it, you guys could bond together on it, you know. Go ahead. You guys could both take a turn. Well, what did it say? What it say? Huh? It's stupid. Does that mean you done? Yeah. Can you tell us the details or like I think I think when you see Do you give or receive? Have you ever seen like couples that you can just tell that one of them's pulling the other into their hobby and it just hurts to see? Yes. Like clearly you can. A million times. Yeah. You can tell that she doesn't give a but she has to. It's that's harsh. Yeah. Don't do that. Buddy of mine just bought a boat and uh his wife couldn't give a ████ And it's hilarious cuz she's so on it about it. She's just like, I don't give a Oh, she really she doesn't like No, he's like, "Hey, what do you think? I just got the boat all decaled out." And she's like, "I don't give
1:42 a It's great though." They have a good report. But it's so hilarious to watch him like try to like, "What do you The boat's kind of It floats pretty good." And she's like, "I give a it floats." Hope it sinks. Really? Yeah. It's It's awesome. That's awesome. I've heard of couples where like one of them got so into like becoming smarter like this is not a joke. Like was just like I think we should start expanding our like minds. I know who you're talking about already. Whoa. That what do they do? Start taking IQ ████ apps. Is it like those IQ apps that help you get smarter if you download and you do those games every day? Maybe. Maybe that's it. But but then like it's the Tik Tok for smart people. Yeah. It's just like that. That's kind I would I would be very sad if I was in that kind of relationship. That's all. Talking about Zigzag Jim or some ████ Zigzag. What's that? Yeah. I
2:32 don't know. You guys always saying ████ names all the time. Zigzag Jim. Guy named Fang. You're like, "Oh yeah, Fang." Like just cuz we said Fang, it's offensive. Zigzag Jim. This guy's for real just thinking like Fang. Yeah. Yeah. Of course I am. Fang isn't a good thing. This is something else where it's like like you have to start doing brain exercises. Like that sucks. I think it's a balance cuz I've seen couples where like they have zero things they do together. Oh ████ It happened. I was wondering if it was going to happen today. You have this backup one you can use. It's okay. This I look fine. Yeah, this looks great on camera. Oh, I got you deserve a pita time. Oh, sorry. What are you saying, Joe? Oh, uh, so on the deep end of things, when they
3:23 have zero common things that they do, it's almost as if like they don't even go out together or do anything together. Like I've seen that ████ too. And I'm all like, "What do you guys ever interact? Like, what do you do?" Mhm. And they don't even like the same shows, nothing. Nothing. And I'm like I was like, "Damn, that sounds ████ weird." But if you're a hobbies person and your like partner is a hobbies person, I think it's you're just going to have a lot of ████ to do and then you'll be interested in each other's ████ but then you'll also have your own things that you just don't That's why I'm stoked for this guy cuz he's going to get into garbage reality TV cuz his his chick likes that. I'll for sure do it, dude. It's going to be so fun. You're going to love it. Watching it in the right context with the right garbage people. It ████ We should all watch the bash together. Group group stuff is different though. A way easier sell on it. And uh the fact that we get to do it together. I know. That'd be No, it would be sick. Why is it more fun to watch a
4:14 garbage show with more people cuz it's more people talking ████ on the same people cuz you're you're like collectively hating on stuff. Yeah. It's like watching like Open M comedy and be like, "You ████ suck. Go ████ yourself. Quit on life. You suck." Yeah. I would be like, "Sh, I'm trying to watch." Yeah. See, well, you're a garbage guy, you know? But then like the garbage shows are almost edited to make space for you to stop. That's exactly weirdly right. Uh yeah, they know. They encourage that cuz if it went too fast, you don't get to stop and say stuff. Yeah. It's so fun. And there's just so much crying that there's, you know, cuz people you can just talk ████ during that. Yeah. And then they'll then they'll do like a quick montage between every punchline. Like every like button of the scene, they'll just do like a song montage so that you get to talk ████ It's completely well made for that. Yeah. I currently enjoy the fact that uh
5:05 Nina and I over the years have picked up like seasonal hobbies. Okay. Oh, that's cool. So that cuz cuz it's impossible to like be down to do something all year like snowboarding. Yeah. But the fact that now we all just got like snowboard gear and stuff and she went like five times this season. That's crazy for the season, baby. Did she take courses or whatever? No. No. We both suck ass. Like we're eating ████ all day. No, you're both at the same time together. You suck ass, too. We'll join you up there. Oh, that's perfect. Yeah. So, like I could just throw Hannah with you guys, too. Then I'll go. She likes snowboarding. I'll go just watch you guys face. That would be perfect cuz all of us would be struggling. It'd be fun. Do I suck, too? No. No, no, no. You stay here. You stay in Pasadena. I guess I'll just go to Big Bear then. Yeah, go to Big Bear. But just the idea that like when the season finally comes around, you can get excited about it and then when the season ends, the fact that it's
5:55 like temporal like that, it's like you don't have to commit to this like Exactly. And Lee Canyon is so much cheaper than here. So easy. Oh, is it cheaper? It's like 30 bucks. 30 bucks? It's like 300 bucks at freaking Big Bear now. But then we also like fishing, which is not a all year round thing. And now that got a bow. I love fishing, too, bro. Yeah, baby. You got to go catch turtles. Listen, dude. No offense. So, you guys want me to hang, but then now I want to hang. You guys don't want to hang. Well, we don't want have to wait 4 and 1/2 hours for you. Just text check text. I'll leave early. I'll leave at 4:00. I swear. Yeah, let's see it. But where you guys fish at? You guys catching turtles, though, right? They got big ass fish in there now, too. Listen, a lot of the time, yes, that' be my biggest. But sometimes we catch trout. If we're lucky, surprising. Hey, but the water at your lake looks kind of suspect. What are you talking about? Without it. It's great. It's It's a It's a catch and release anyway. Smells great
6:45 after. Yeah, it's great. The color looks turquoise and blue. It's cosmetic. It's cosmetic lake. Yeah. It looks like someone put food dye in the lake. There's food dye in the lake. Yeah, there's food dye in the lake. But then we have our like not so much a hobby, but it feels like a hobby. Like I finally got her into like uh strength training and weightlifting. Wo. So now she's like she's like if I'm like about to she's like hey can you wait until I get home so we can work out together. She's not like why you try to say what's wrong with my body. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No. You're not like smacking bagels out of her hands in the kitchen. I said no carbs. What I say? Slapping bagels. It's not there. I'm not Barn Gio. Okay. Yeah. Hey, but that's deeper cut than that's been a fun one I've been doing with Tiff, too, is where we actually go train together and cuz she wasn't really into it before, but then like because I go all the time, she's like, I want to come too. And I was like, all right, let's go. Let me go work out. But that's like that's like our year round thing. So,
7:35 it's like you have your like supplemental hobbies. Oh, I want to get tip in a box. What are the hobbies that you enjoy that they are just for you? Golfing. I've actually played golf. Well, that's the thing. I know. I'm I'm dragging her ass on. I'm ████ dragging. She's miserable. I'm like, "You better wear this cuz it looks so cute." Yeah. Wear the little skirt. You better not score better than me. Trying to make her your golf thought. There's so many golf thoughts now. Best case scenario, she's just wearing some ████ ████ Just driving the car for me, serving me ████ coffee. Do you make the homie stand in front of her while she's while she's so that they don't catch they catch a little glimpse? Oh, absolutely. Yeah, that's I'm ████ chivalous. That's tight. That's tight. That's a gentleman right there, boy. I'm also having the homies just like lie down just like up the Yeah, look at the sky. Look at the sky. Hide in the hole. No, but she she when she's a trooper and
8:25 she's willing to golf for me, I'm having the best. What about dance? Doesn't that that sounds I don't dance together. She's done dancing. But like Yeah. So, you get to have that by yourself, right? Yeah. Yeah. That's for sure. 100. Video games is predominantly by myself. I really enjoy having video games for me. I have to. When she was into zombies, that ████ was fun. But she was yelling at me cuz I didn't like know. Like she would be YouTubing videos like this is how you do the Easter egg. And I'm like I'm just killing zombies, ████ I like I like playing Mario Party and like uh Monopoly with Smack video game wise. But she beats me Mario Party and I hate her for it. But I still like to I have to have it to myself because like when I play games, I like to ████ actually imagine I'm the guy. Dude, Nikki destroys me in Mario Party. She destroys my whole family in Mario. I
9:15 hate losing in Mario Party. That's why I don't know. It's bad with Nikki, too, cuz she talks so much ████ ████ This ████ she doesn't stop talking ████ And then she just talks ████ for 5 days after. Will she will she play with us on stream? Yeah. Yeah, she'll play with us on stream. That's tight. Is Nick invited? Yeah, I would love to play. I I love those games. I love Mario Party. Which Nick? I don't know about that. There's multiple Nicks. I don't know if we have time to wait. Nicholas Holt. Who the ████ is that, man? I'm good at Mario Party. I'm not, but I'll play with you guys. No, that would be really fun. We would I would love a ringer to play Mario Kart. So, I could take all that. Hey, dude. I'd love to tell you I'd love to tell you to push B when they ask if you want to buy the start. Hey, Nick, by the I know. I'm not a fool. I'm not an idiot. Hey, Nick, by the pipe if you're gay. That's what I'd say. We're nerding out too much. We're nerding out. Joe's like this.
10:06 He's slowly melting into the chair. He was like, "F███ this, dude. So good." I know. I did JK with a bunch of nerds. Ready? Joe's like, "Maybe I will put the old gang back together and break your ████ legs. See how many video games you play after I break your legs." Look at what JK turned into. How's Hannah with surfing? Not into it. But she wants to do snowboarding. She wants to do surfing, but surfing is like you got to be really good at swimming and comfortable first. So, she's doing that part first. Oh, yeah. Because she she didn't remember how to swim. A smart. So now she's uh she can snorkel, she could stick her head under water. We go like that's what we do. We we swim every Sunday. That's cool. Or like multiple times a week, but that's our day at the beach. We run and swim multiple times a week. That's great. The
10:56 spontaneous week one is um it's unplanned. So it'll just be like, you want to go swim today? Let's do it. But then this every Sunday we go in the Northshore, we run and then we go snorkeling and we look at little fish. That's cool. Look at little fish. So cute. I would love to look at little fish, dude. And then she gets to practice. You're in Pasadena, dude. Go go go to an aquarium store then, ████ Always go to Petsmart, you ████ idiot. ████ little sex. And then you're turning your turn into Tiffy. Like, isn't this the dream? Look, we we can look at fishing. We don't have to get wet. Let's make the aquarium visit spontaneous. Look, we only had to drive 35 minutes to get here. Like, isn't this cool? 20 minutes of traffic. It was great. But we get into everything, though. But I think our ████ is um because we get into everything, it's easy to like get into
11:46 the next shiny new object. So our rule is like when you get into something, just thrift it or get like the cheapest version of it and commit to it and then like buy the better ████ if you stick with it. Have you Have you got into something that she was into previously and then she like spread it to you? Kind of sewing. Yeah. Like sewing or? No, I mean a little bit of drawing, but I've I've always been into drawing. Yeah. So, it's always been things that we just got into together. Yeah. So, like one would be bouldering. It was one down. Yeah. I didn't know that. I didn't know that either, but we looked inside and we're like, that looks fun. And then I didn't even know. She was like, I want to try rock climbing. And I'm like, what the ████ you? All right, let's go. Yeah. I thought she wanted to sell clothes all day and ████ and then out of nowhere she's like I
12:36 want to do a marathon and I'm like what? She wants to do a marathon? Yeah. So then we got shoes and so she's training for it now. Well, she injured her back like 3 years ago like really bad. No, actually I did. That's my dog. That's our boy right there. Yeah. Laying it down. I took her to the gym and I made her do squats and then she she injured her back. So like that. Well, you didn't you squatted on your In a way, in a way that was you. We know what that means. Was she like, "How come every time you come around my London London?" Shut the ████ up. I hate you. I hate you. I hate you. I swear that Joawa that Jo so hard on my back. I love you. I love that. I guess I'm real sweet on it. At that angle, it
13:26 looks like Ryan's just reclining in this chair, but if he turns forward, he's just slanted in it. Dude, it it looks like a giant's nut sack is on his face. It looks like that chair is going to break down any second now. [Laughter] Scrotum, you may. What about you, Ryan? What? No, the best the the best thing we did was like I think when we started the studios together, it made us learn so many different like um we had to learn a lot of different construction stuff. It was great and it it brought us together because if we didn't do that, we would just forever be doing separate stuff. Realize you had a pee on your face. Yeah. So, we would learn like woodworking. We we learned how to do carpeting together. Like we learned how to actually like we put our own carpet in the last apartment. And are you guys going to remodel your own house with your bare hands? Yeah, but yeah, we we
14:16 have to. Daddy wants to catch a bullet with his bare hands. We know we know how to do drywall now. We know how to Hey, can you do the drywall here? I would like not to, but I can. Real quick. Real quick. So honest. New Ryan. Wood. What? Put a hole in that pa. Oh yeah, dude. You're gross. That pea would crumble. perverts. Microwave it first so it's soft and warm. Can you see my beard still? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You look sick, dude. It's Steve Green. Hey, you tell her it wasn't Steve Green. Okay. It's kind of like the old Mighty Ducks mask thing. You look a goalie. The Jason one. You look like the If you were wearing a trench girl right now, you look like the invisible man. Yeah. Or or the blank from Dick Tracy. Yeah.
15:09 Dude, you guys got it like Have Have they ever convinced you though to get into one of their hobbies? No, cuz I feel like it's always guys like trying to bring their I got into roller skating for smack, but that's just so we could remember that together. Yeah, it's cool. I got into trash TV. Nikki got me into poker for sure. Well, but I like sports already, so I just find poker to be a great sport. Actually, I think one of the most underrated things about poker is the flop. Like the flop is one of the more more like dramatic things in sports to me. And so I I just like sports in general. So that was easy. So you like watching rather than playing. Yeah. I'm a big cook. Is that what you want to say? Yeah. I'm a cook. Yeah. I'm a cuck. I'm a big cook. Cuz I like playing rather than watching. I like watching. So I tried to get into farmers markets for Nina. You don't like him? Oh, that's cute. That's really cute. How do you get
15:59 into that? That's like going to Ralphs. You don't like always. It's just that willingness to like wake up early on the weekend when you're trying not to wake when when really in my mind as a kid waking up on weekends was like video games. Let's go. You know me time. Saturday morning cartoons. Smack got me into uh Oh, no. I got smack into going to morning car meets which are like the Oh, that's those are fun. That sounds way cooler. You got her into cars? Yeah, I got her into cars. She's She's really good at like knowing which cars are which now. Some farmers markets aren't totally gay like where you can like actually see cool stuff. Like some guys do like metal working and ████ like that and I buy some of that. That's cool. Like the Summerland one. The downtown Summerland one's kind of cool. Arty. I bought some ████ there. Really? Downtown Summerland? E. I like to visit the jam lady. Jam lady's cool. Jam lady's cool. And the honey one. Yep. Honey is ████ I like
16:49 to talk to the solar guys about getting panels at my house and then never doing it. That's the worst. I've always get so excited, dude. When I'm at Sam Club, those guys to me are like transients. I'm just like, don't make a contact. Yeah. I don't look at I like Costco on the weekdays with Nina. Yeah. Don't go weekends. No, no, no. Ever. Never. Some Asian guy is going to ████ t-bone you, dude. Asian guy. Knock your card over. He doesn't even know you exist. Yeah. He steps over you. Crushes you into a ████ an embankment. He's like, "Why is my cart stuck?" It's cuz you're under it. You know, I rarely go with her, but when she goes thrifting, that's tight. What What's thrifting for her, though? Barrel. CB2 CB2 $500 to create barrel restoration hardware like she'll go to Goodwill. Yeah. Yeah. Like thrift shops and she'd be thrifting vintage ones and
17:40 things at Goodwill and stuff like that. So Nina's really into thrifting. Dude, half of her wardrobe is thrifted. Dude, Tiff is mad into thrifting. It's It's either her wardrobe is or like expensive ████ I got her. Yeah, we know. So maybe you should move out here so they could be friends. I don't know, dude. It seems like a little fast. I don't know. Hannah's a big thrifter. Take that next step. We go to thrift shops like probably a couple times a month, several times a month. A lot of energy to have to like sift through all of it. Some people love the hunt though. Nikki's a big thrifter. Also, they like they like to hunt. She'll pretend to be one around around your chicks for two. She'll pretend to be and then she'll be exhausted. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's how Tiff is too. But then um we don't stay long. Like you just go in and she's like she's quick. All right, we're done. Tiff will find a house, an estate sale to go to. I'll drop her off. I'll take the dogs and be just walking on the
18:30 neighborhood and I just pick her ass up and like, "All right, let's go." ████ out of here. We wanted to do that. It's nice. It's fun. But we just never synced up time. But I want to do that. I want to be like I want I want to go like ask this person that's crying because they had to get rid of their mom's dead ████ And then I'm like, "Yo, can I get this for a discount?" How much for the earn? What's What's in it? What's in it? How much for the earn? Give me the earn. I want to use it. I want to use it for my plants. I'll give you 500 bucks for it, dude. Aris, I can't even see it. Thinking about butts the whole
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