0:00 [Music] welcome back to just get news out the closet today we have Anthony back and fully out we're going to close the the the loop with his five most uh eventful things in his life with the fifth one now uh Anthony and we look like we're part of a window cleaning company or something no actually look at this this side is you guys for sure for sure yeah we're just the Blues Clues over here yeah yeah yeah um so when Bart forced us to uh submit five things I'm not gonna lie this this moment had come to mind in my life but you know I think the natural thing especially when you're trying to have a conversation via social media is something that's like more of like this was a positive effect even if it was a tough moment this was like a positive
0:50 effect and I'll was scratching my head because I didn't it was it's too complicated to really understand what the positive effect of this was outside of my young ignorant naive like getting mature really fast in situations that I couldn't comprehend okay so that's my disclaimer so when I was like 20 years old um I've really never spoken about this before I'm trying to find the right words with I'm going go right into it so I got a girl pregnant one time um and uh the thing is I was uh I was very very very young and dumb uh and I was super into this one other chick who uh would eventually become my girlfriend right and she wasn't into me at the time or the Sparks hadn't sparked right so I was just dating around and whatnot and then
1:40 I got with this other chick and she was very like um she was chinese vietnamese like me like things just clicked super fast I never met a girl that immediately was like dude I could introduce you to my mom lots of chemistry real fast really fast she was older though um but it was just like The Vibes were fast right and so we just hit it off fast and we we got busy fast and stuff like that but things got so fast that for whatever reason again in my young Navy and stuff like that she was like kind of taking care of me cuz she was older she was like buying me stuff and but there was something about my ego maybe that was like ah this is like a lot really fast and it kind of like threw me off uh and I was still kind of into this other chick that but we just never wait Broken Ground you got the cougar pregnant or the other chick the cougar CG Mama the
2:31 sugar mama okay her mommy like I said I thought you got this one girl pregnant you're like ████ you this Cougar's better and then you ran okay nothing but older ladies the thing is the thing is the way that it got happened the way that it happened was like we had gotten busy whatever uh I didn't know she's pregnant and then like I I broke it off with her right uh we was just dating it was just you know I was like oh maybe it's not going to work out she went to a different School honestly I think I did it over ████ T-Mobile Sidekick at the time dude that's that's so sick that's how you flicked it out first yeah smile face is this after she's pregnant you're like I didn't know oh wa and then like it's like maybe a couple days later or something something like that and this is it gets really weird um that's why this you know gets into a dark place in my space um she like apparently she's trying to message her friend like a
3:22 couple days later and says something like he's supposed to be with me or something like that but like I get it when I wake up and I'm like what and I'm like in my mind I'm like this wasn't for me 30 seconds later my phone rings and start I'm like so I pick it up um and then uh also in the timeline here's the crazy part after I broke it off with her like maybe like that next day finally me and the other chick like we kicked it off and it was like I've been I've been chasing her for like two years type ████ you know what I mean you know and um we ended up like I was like on a different version of Cloud9 I was just like oh my God like I can't believe this is like this isn't like I'm just trying to like hit it and quit this is like man I want to I really like this person she's my close friend I want to be in a
4:12 relationship with her this was like a not a hidden quitt but like that just didn't work out the way I thought I was going to and then she hits me with that text and I'm like what the heck I get a phone call and then we're talking it through and then she reveals on this phone call why like like the reason why she's dramatic about it is because she's pregnant and my heart just sinks again I'm 20 and dumb and I'm like that's crazy that's a wild one yeah like I'm I'm in the middle of like college you know what I mean the early phases of college I don't know what your what the right answer is if I was 20 I'd like come over right now and then when she comes I'm a soccer in the stomach smart 20y I say we're going to the airport we're going to the airport you're going through TSA like 17 times go to that machine do the ████ wait did um go go a few rounds did it cross your mind that she was trying to trap you cuz I
5:02 knew a lot of girls back then that would fake it it's a good move yeah that's why you got to do the stomach a dude and be like oh no like like so it didn't cross my mind until that comes later in the story okay okay okay okay um but I I just thought that the most appropriate answer based off of whatever ████ TV shows i' had seen or whatever is to put the ball in her Court respect the call and then see what happens you know what I mean I didn't have no pro-choice pro-life like flag that I had like clearly understood in life I just thought like damn it's what do you want to do I'll stand by yeah way crazy for you chice and I I I I put that out there it didn't necessarily mean I was going to like get back into a relationship with or anything I was just more like you figure out you make a call and then you know what I mean I'm like I'm I'm here to support it or whatever some days
5:55 Choice that's what I said yeah about a t-shirt after said Mommy's choice on I just see Steve like down so afterwards I'm still like just starting this blossoming relationship with my what would be long long-term girlfriend for a while um but of course I'm not going to be like hey I got this situation that's happening cuz I don't know what's happening with the situation I really don't the only person I end up telling at that time is like Mike um and uh with Mike yeah I I just cuz I was like ████ who the ████ do I talk about this with you can't talk about it with your sister I wasn't there at that point oh I see I see no about your mommy one not not my regular mommy not the m m i the m o mm y one I
6:45 could distin distinguish yeah we got to make it clear you um so then we try to progress to this thing and eventually she gives me these updates so like suddenly I'm like I'm like in butterfly texting with uh this other girl and then with Mommy apparently um I'm in like sink my stomach sinking texting sweats always dripping on the side with this conversation so any time I get a text from that name I'm like I don't know what's going to happen sometimes it's just going to be like hey like um can you talk for a second I have to like step out of class cuz obviously can't ████ focus on class or anything call you during class she like text me and stuff like that but of course like I'm not thinking of anything else I'm not ████ focusing on this lecture right now when like uh have you why don't you go horseback riding for like 10 miles I'll talk talk to you later on you walk through TSA for time while yeah um and then uh So eventually she
7:37 makes a decision she's like she's like she's like I'm going to uh I'm going to go take it's too early for like a regular abortion clinic type thing she's but she made the choice she's going to go to the doctor and she's going to take some sort of pill again I don't know how this stuff works she wanted to take some sort of pill and of course like you know inside I'm kind of like relieved sad I don't know a weird mix of emotions and stuff like that but I ████ run with it all the above yeah so I'm like okay cool like lowkey again in my young mind I think that's going to make things less complicated with this other potential relationship that I'm working on you know so I'm like okay I'm more relieved than anything whatever it is you need still any support you need like let me know if you need me to go with you like whatever she's like no honestly I think I need to do this stuff on myself cool she goes she does it she takes the pillar whatever I think things
8:28 are starting to get in the clear and then maybe like a week later what happens is she calls again and she's like hey I need to see you I'm like ████ okay so we meet up obviously not very close to campus I'm not trying to get caught for whatever reason I don't know I'm still young and dumb this whole time did it ever cross your mind or have you ever even asked her how do you know it's mine or is are you sure it's mine it's kind of disrespect no no I just wasn't there yet I mean if you guys are 20 and you guys are like aren't you like being like a s███████ of dudes AR you sleeping around town D you know it's mine aren't you a woman about town the way that when we first started dating like it was very like it wasn't like hidden quitt dating she she was like she's like oh like this is my mom on her phone and stuff like that she like shopping for me like things were
9:18 moving really fast how much older was she then two years oh okay but back then that's like a couger yeah older woman in your 20s she was very intimidated too she's college she wasn't in college she was maybe like a senior she was ████ fine she was a senior in college they could get non- col guys she was like buying clothes for me and ████ I was like whoa this is crazy but anyways she had a job at Wet Seal probably what a throwback dude dude hell yeah seal and then and then she she eventually tells me that um you know after she had taken the pillow whatever was a point where she woke up in the middle of the night and there was just like blood all over the bed and stuff like that right so it like really ████ her up and stuff like that and then she
10:09 like ended up going to go see like a therapist and the therapist went like through her counseling and stuff like that and she was trying to like handle it without me type stuff and the therapist like maybe you just need to like you know talk with him or like you know have him walk you through this as well and just be a part of it so she told me that and I was like ████ I guess that sounds reasonable again I'm not I'm not at like like suspicion at all yet I'm just at like not like this yet not yet not yet I'm trying to be like I don't know what the right version of supportive is you know what I mean um so then I'm like okay so then it turns into somehow weirdly it evolves into like sometimes she'll get nightmares and this goes on for like a couple weeks she would get like a nightmare or something like that and she's like I really need to like you can I like just like stay over at your place or something a tight
11:00 move so then that's when things started getting a little bit but again I'm still in the like sure like sure you know what I mean you're in the thanks for the abortion phase like I think so thank you and so there would be there might have been like there were like a couple times where like she would come over to like my apartment and then I would tell the girl that I was like trying to like truly start dating and get together that like oh like I might not be available or whatever it's because for me I I thought I was consoling somebody who like was going through something that I put her through type stuff so I had my guilt too and so like she would like did she come over horny though or no no it was it never got there oh okay which cuz that would be suspicious cuz Vietnamese ████ is crazy they'll be like I'm here anyway so let me suck your dick and you're like well I'm horny and 20 something
11:50 happened it's a slippery R so like there'll just be moments where it just be she want to be comforted and be next to me and then that's how she would fall asleep okay and then she wake she actually wake up in the middle of the night like kind of like a nightmare type thing so I I'll be like whoo so you know I was just riding whatever this thing was and then it turned out the pill didn't work successfully so she actually still had to go to an actual abortion clinic what the ████ that's crazy what dude this kept on going dude and then and then uh she she had to go to an actual clinic and same thing I was like do you want me to go with you she was like no I think I really I just think I need to try and do this myself she does it she ends up going tells me the craziness of the experience certain details that are very like I'm like oh
12:40 my I'm sorry you went through that type stuff and then just like there's still a little bit of this phase of like trying to be like there comforting her and I'm just torn also still like trying to navigate like this is somebody I'm like eventually would be for sure in love with I was chasing for like 2 years but like trying not to tell her and not try to be like a lying son of a ████ type thing does she know you're not romantically involved in the relationship anymore like you're not in anymore that you're kind of half out with Mommy yeah with Mommy yeah I'm definitely not in it and she knows that she knows I'm not she doesn't know I'm like talking to somebody else but she knows you're consoling her as a friend yeah got it oh you told her about the whole situation uh told no he she doesn't know about the two-year ████ she knows mommy knows about that he's not into it yeah Mommy knows that she's been friendzone yeah see yeah like our relation ain't going to work I'm just trying to be
13:30 supportive but then the girl that you love yeah you didn't tell her that this is going on you're like a R&B singer dude yeah dude dude honestly it was a crazy time that's crazy that's a Juggle man the weirdest psychological thing that I got out of it like for maybe lasted I don't know the better part of a year this would trip me out I would go to like the university like Town Center where like regular families go cuz this is in Irvine and stuff like that and like uh you know I might be sitting there a chop for tea drinking like a boba or some ████ and then if like a baby just like cries I would like I would trip trip you know what I mean I was just mentally just going to some weird place that I didn't explain to a lot of people cuz I had just gone through all this weird stuff and I'm still going through it and I'm just like in my head like thinking about babies or whatever
14:21 it is I had just gone through at 20 years old you're still taking classes at the same time yeah and like being on a dance team and stuff like that and I was everything was just really weird and it wasn't until I uh I met for cuz again I was ████ up at the time and I I met one of my my teammates and then I just had to like just let him know what's going on cuz I was like yo man s███'s crazy like blah explain some stuff and then he was the first guy was like I don't believe her whoa there's so many red flags in this story he's like I believer right and I was like what that's crazy wait what what are you saying he's trying to be like I don't know man like what if she just wasn't pregnant I don't think it's complicated I'm just like what if she wasn't and I was like just sound like Lawrence talking it
15:12 wasn't um and then so detective lawen it did open my eye or my mind to just like again from that ignorant naive and then suddenly getting like thrown into this thing and then suddenly getting thrown into like a totally different realm of thought and possibility no I didn't I don't think I wanted to like entertain it cuz I don't think any of that's beneficial either a part of me just wanted to get through it and get past it so I was just like I feel like I'm at like the tail end of whatever it is that I'm capable of being a part of and like supportive and like having not done any decision that in my opinion was selfish you know what I mean in my opinion at the time again I'm not trying to get into arguments with anybody who's gone through some ████ that I don't understand but I was just like let me just see this through in the way that I feel like is the most right way to do something considering all the decisions are hers at the end of the day and I'm
16:03 just being available and like participating in the ways that she's asking me to you know I was like let me just finish this out it's not turning into anything I'm not getting like secret sick ass ████ in the middle of the night I'm not like you know what I mean um so I'm like I think I think regardless I'm not going to dive too deep into it I'm just going to write it out and eventually eventually we got past it and again I still look at that girl uh or not today I've never seen her uh I haven't seen her in like 20 years now but um I have no animosity or weird feelings I'm just more like dude I hope she's good cuz like if I really did regardless of who it was regardless of the red flags like if if she went through that because of me at that time I'm like damn I'm you know I hope you're good I I think I eventually I think I eventually found out that she got like married and has like kids and stuff so like as long as you're good what about that period did you find out if it was a
16:54 the real truth questioned it bro you were just leaving it in like that bro you were you were just cream P yeah dude that's dangerous brother what are you doing I do raw sex but I don't ever come inside it maybe I'm a ████ I'm just too scared coming inside is kind of like trying to make a baby dude did she lock her legs and then let you get out is that what happen I love when they do that that's what you did you know what honestly if if I like the only thing that I could process at that time is you know when you like like pull out and like hold on to it so you can switch position so you keep going oh I believe it was more like a like I'm getting close and then like you squeeze to pull out and then something probably just went in squeze the wrong way yeah you just got to start yelling at him he pulled out the wrong way but that's when it to gets hairy
17:44 where it's in dry if you don't even remember busting a nut and then you're like oh but you're still pregnant I had another red flag I counted four red flags in the story that could happen I had a buddy that had the same exact story because he was like in transition he was about to get close and then he pulled out yeah some people got strong pre-com to that's what I'm saying it's it's risky that's a h fer guy for a guy like that very young at the time 20 yeah but that happened and uh yeah it was just something that like I had to I actually held that as kind of like a skeleton in my closet for a long time too because it's life changing how did it change your life well I think it really kind of put me into a place where I was faced with like so even like the concept of like pro-choice pro- lifee
18:35 type stuff right anytime somebody brings that like you know polarizing conversation up it put me definitely more on the fence of like it's notop my vote yeah like it just G it just gave me that feeling it put me on the other fence of like I was definitely wearing condoms for like many many years afterwards uh it sucks though kind of hot they're whack awful I would tell a kid that and I think I'm not saying that this is the most like I'm not saying this is like a righteous and virtuous lesson that I got from it but it also uh made me understand that sometimes like people live with certain things and don't share yeah you know what I mean you just live with them people live with a bunch of ████ dude yeah but you know when if you don't collect T skeleton in your closet you just think like like
19:25 what's everything's like truth like why aren't you just telling people the truth why don't you you know what I mean and then less respect for other people's skeletons yeah suddenly you go through some crazy ████ and you're like man I ain't going to judge you sure young people are the worst ████ judges on the world like all these woke ass college students that haven't lived life they're the worst they know everything cuz like if you if you went into like aous cuz they never done anything or they even forgot they even forgot about their own skeletons you know you suppress it so long like oh yeah I was a ████ ████ back second grade third grade fourth grade fifth grade sixth GR cuz they're impulsive yeah yeah so it's like you know when you would see somebody or like a friend or a friend of a friend who like maybe Oh that girl got pregnant when she was blah blah and like there might be a quick moment of judgment yeah it's like I feel like moving forward from that time like I was so like cool and everything
20:17 changed for me because I got just thrown into my own weird situation and mine's I don't know if it like people normally go through that but at that time I was like is this what it's like this is crazy right now I'm like being part of therapeutic sessions to in order to like you know handle and suppress these nightmares because I was like this is crazy it sounded like she was trying to win your heart back by by having you sympathetic stressed about her yeah that's what I was asking if you guys had horny horny times we didn't we did was there any Mutual was she playing ████ ████ games ████ games if she was I wasn't reading them well yeah were there any mutual friends you had that could tell you if she was liar or not um not m Mutual like friends like maybe there was like a mutual acquaintance but like no but again I don't take it as she was lying that like had come up at a point where I was like
21:08 should I entertain this and I was like it doesn't it's not the more right thing to do anyway bit just can be crazy though one time I was dating this chick and she broke up with me and then I started dating this other chick and this other chick was more attractive than the other chick and then the other chick got pissed that I was dating this other chick and then she started to call me while I was at work like every ████ day and she was like oh she like cut herself with glass and I was like holy ████ that's crazy so I came over with a medical kit and then she sucked my dick in the hallway to try to keep to trap you yeah dude and she and she probably once you like her back she probably throw you away yeah dude she was working me bro it was working and he goes wait there's no cut on your hand yeah I had posted on C I was like I don't see any glass anymore this standing there with a first St Ki getting his dick sucked like oh but I came to help you dude I literally came with like you know like a
22:00 plastic bag with a receipt in it with a ████ you know birth a kit for no reason yeah went the CVS and bought you I'm a fing idiot it was an idiot I don't think you're an idiot I don't think you're an idiot dude well it worked out kind of okay but but then I was like this is kind of ████ up cuz I'm seeing this chick but then I'm getting my dicks up by my eggs quite a bit quite a bit thank you for letting dude new chick wasn't dick so she was out she was she was on the way out
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