0:00 oh I remember she was like on the the counter the sink counter and it was like that the sink oh demonstrate with Joe real quick [Music] no welcome back to another episode of careful boys if you do not know this uh members of our patreon are able to communicate with us on the Discord server where they can suggest anything they can ask us questions and we may or may not make videos of them but some times we do in cases like this cheeky one of our uh friends in the Discord asked us this question if you are not comfortable sharing is okay uh but and some of us may have partially shared this in the past but maybe cheeky wasn't there for that so we're going to share what it was like when we lost our virginity well oh yeah I did I did none
0:52 of youring business it's okay if you're still virgin CLE you to say that dude I lost my virginity in a club at a club a I'm you AER the Burger King kids club no like a nightclub in a in like a bathroom what was the age I was 20 damn I think I was 20 and how old was the other guy what other guy what what other guy are you stop you were 20 at a club was this already porotic yeah this was like after ABDC for you right after like fresh fresh after dang ABDC changed your life changed bro he became a rock I kind of just was like young and dumb and I didn't really know like you know was she also virgin bro I don't even know who it was it was like a random hookup dude yeah
1:44 random you met her at the club yep and tell walk us through how it went from the club it went from dancing to making out to hey let's go somewhere like oh I know where we can go boys bathroom no it was like a p private like area Bo bathroom yeah and so yeah but I still had like I had a condom and everything I knew you had a condom well I always have them when I travel just in case as a virgin in case the other guy does that raw dog but cuz I knew I Ain sucking raw dick I think it's because I was like dude come on man that's the best reaction dude come on wait so K I'm listening don't worry about them it basically happen and then I was like who I can't believe this just happened wait what position
2:35 was it dude I it was probably oh I remember she was like on the the counter the sink counter and it was like that the sink oh demonstrate with Joe real quick that's no no that's like hardcore though that's like you went straight from like innocent virgin to all of a sudden you're having a one night St will say dude I I will say though because of that time I was like not really like uh aware of what I was doing wait were you high or was nonc consensual no no it was that's not what I'm saying what I'm saying is like it was a time where I kind of just like lived in the moment where I wasn't like so you're impulsive young kid I wasn't really thinking about
3:25 like what's going to happen after or anything I was just like oh this is fun let's just do this you have Catholic guilt like I didn't think about it and then he's Catholic and then later on like when I when I stopped uh I guess I guess when I stopped partying as much because everything started to die down I I look back and I go damn dude I I was really Reckless but in this moment so like let's walk through the details she how did she talk you in was there any verbal like hey are you sure you want to do this was there any discussion at all honestly I don't remember it that well she like oh you want ABDC no I don't no definitely not but yeah it was like one of those moments where we were just like let's just go with the FL do you remember what she looked like no you remember what ethnicity she was it was dark it was
4:15 dark God Dam it was dark D don't talk to black people like that don't say anymore you're digging yourself a hole actually dark like in the club what was she was she Asian at least I think so yeah you don't even know which Asian dude uh I don't know which Asian holy ████ K you never saw her get after literally a stranger to me like a complete stranger do she have short hair and a deep voice no she might have been in your crew no wait so after name Charles after you guys did the deed you just parted ways and you never saw her again after it was funny cuz everybody came upstairs to where we were at and and then they were knocking on the bathroom door and then I was like oh ████ we should probably stop and then everything like went back to normal we left and then it was me and the guy guys and then I don't know wherever the other girl went and then I told the guys I was like I was like guys
5:05 I think I just lost my virginity and then they were like yeah and I was like oh man I I don't know it kind of feels funny because like I didn't expect it to happen huh did you bust uh no no definitely not because it wasn't like because it was my first time no I mean I didn't know like wouldn't you just want to finish somewhere no because it got interrupted oh you got scared it got interrupted because it was your first time where you ████ hyped or were you ████ hyped I don't know what that means but like were you limping cuz you were scared or were you ████ hyped excited that you couldn't get hard it was definitely hard but it wasn't like it was summerest it was kind of like those moments where it was like I kind of like what's going on but I also don't I'm not really sure of how I feel yet because it's so new yeah and so but then
5:55 I was also buzzed too so I was like oh ████ like is this really happening like okay so somewhere out there there's a girl that doesn't know that she took your virginity she has no idea yeah oh my God that's very unique she probably just thought H I did it with a rock star and then she didn't real realize she just took virginity cuz to me we're just like wow we're having so much fun we're vibing we're just doing stuff so I was like yeah this is this feels right but then when I look back I'm like damn I was just being really Reckless that's nothing wrong with that you're having fun not really cuz you used a condom that's pretty I think we were like aware of was going to happen so we're like okay very responsible you used you when I went on tour with these guys they were like Justin Bieber oh man everybody was like parotic remember that when we went to the tour like they were even when we did
6:47 shows and they were there that was how it work it didn't happen as much as you thought it it would it was like yeah they liked us but then it wasn't like anything happened all the time you know what I mean it was very rare I feel like for stuff like that to happen cuz for me once it happened that one time I'm like oh ████ like is it going to happen again and then like eventually some shows that were super hype and we had a lot of people just like hanging with us all the time of course it like it would happen here and there but then after a while I it was just like I feel like maybe we should like slow down on this or something cuz I started to feel I started to feel like this is not really who I want to be you know what I mean just sleeping with like just random hookups hey too much he goes I can't guys too much I'm running out of condoms yeah condom
7:37 is pretty that's very responsible all right we have I don't think we ever heard from subin on how he lost his yeah we I feel like we talked about that oh wait yeah we did I think we did what was his name her name was uh can't say it just in case but yeah in case what we we did talk about it didn't we do right yeah what what did you but what about the time that you lost it to a guy like you lost it to a girl but you lesson to a guy but what about that time the back let me let me double check your hearing hold on go again the ████ is that it's not a seashell dude it's ████ CH man Wireless did you ever see her again either was she like your actual girlfriend she was my girlfriend at that time okay and you guys were both virgins we're both virgins you like had talked about doing it and you finally did and it was great that was it I was like dude there was like only five strokes and I
8:28 was about to bust I was like oh dude better chill out you opposite can good I was like I was like dude and then you know what I mean I was about to I was about to bust but then you hear the the garage door and she goes my daddy and I'm like so it got inter it got interrupted yeah see the dude yeah yeah first time is sloppy like that yeah but ever since then just been raw dogging my way up and you have a baby so I had this one time we went to a part in Orange County ████ lit ass day 2016 I think 2017 uh we were at a party and this girl was like yo I'm a lesbian and that day I told my homie like I'm going to change that tonight they're like no you can't do that ████ and I was like we'll see you know when you get the liquor CS you open the I open the bathroom door
9:18 and she was there and I was like hello is that how it happened I swear to God it happened and then she was like ████ w we were in the bathroom she had a jersey on and took it off and then her took off her cornrows and then laid down took them off no hey we were in the we were we were in the bathroom getting was about 6 feet you know she picked him up yeah said getting Boogie we're getting Boogie and next thing you know you hear a and I was like we're done we're done we'll continue never I can't remember but did you ever get get Boogie at the parties at our house like at the oh your I bro I don't know I kept blacking out today's video is brought to you by rocket money have you guys ever heard of the phrase it's not how much money you
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11:48 you would have just loved people watching yeah I like people they're funny all right remember the girl I brought we're in the hot tub you ever remember that she was just getting ████ butt naked what the girl you brought brought too all I remember is that some girl was doing fire dancing and she dropped there was like a hoop and she lit it on fire and everyone was like whoa and then she dropped it and it rolled and every like she was she was drinking too much but in the when you're in a Jacuzzi you're you're hot and your blood boils more and you get drunk faster so what happened was she ended up like slowly taking off her clothes in in front of everyone she couldn't figure out how to close it and I was like damn it I got to take you to the B bathro yeah kind of no not that one no no no that was weird good times what about you Anthony I feel like it was was it in
12:40 UCI yes or was it pre colge you a college boy yeah I was I was when your flower got taken away yeah when my flower was deflowered when it got when my when I bled on the inside yeah oh W she bling the inside when the bird and the bee came inside your flower to get the pollen so I was very actually uh this is going to sound very loser uh what I was sad about mine afterwards oh no why you were like I didn't want to give it to her no it's because uh I always wanted to give it to her we were both virgins and she was like my closest friend outside of like my school in high school so we knew each other in high school I went to like her homecoming she she went to my prom well you guys weren't
13:30 but we just never like crossed that line and then there was one summer where like everything started cck she she ended up going to like a school in Chicago and stuff like that for University and I was at ECI but she' be back uh and she lived in Irvine in the summer so so we got to like connect again hang out and whatnot and then there was one time I invited her over to another party in Irvine and then we were just hanging out and then we got drunk and then that was the night that we like finally like made out and stuff like that and I like took her home and all this stuff like at 6:00 a.m. in the morning and I didn't know if that was just like a fluke drunkness but then that week we ended up just like talking every day and I was like oh my God like this might go somewhere cuz I was I always had a crush on her basically but timing was never right and like you know all that stuff this was you're 18 19
14:21 just turned 19 she Korean yeah I knew it oh that's it that's a rap bro yeah and then Korean and then there was another party that was actually at our house in uh uh you've been to our apartment um in our SEC our first apartment ever when I was living with Mike in that summer we were only living there for like 2 weeks so we threw a party a housewarming type thing and then uh I was like Hey we're throwing a party and she's like I'm down and but again we were already talking all week and like the the vibe was different wow she comes over we get drunk oh and then she she pulls me into my room I can't take no more I'm so horny but then she was really drunk too oh ████ so I thought it was like I was really drunk too so like you know you're just kind of like ████ it yeah you go and then we went and we like went and I didn't know what I was doing
15:13 but we did a lot of it and then but then the next morning this is when it gets really really sad um we both wake up just butt naked right but then she's like like not like aware of what had happened and she's like did we have sex and that's when my like heart shattered cuz I was like one of your most beautiful moments you ever had was was a did we cuz in your memory you're like we ████ so good I feel like that's a very common story and you thought she was going to wake up and go hey babe yeah and you're like are we together now so I so you know I was just answering honestly I was like yeah blah blah blah and then we talked about and then she was just like okay um she pulled back yeah she pulled
16:04 back she's like I got to get going God it's the shame dude I think it's the shame cuz she lost her virginity too so then she puts her clothes on bounces and then it's not until like another day like a day passes and finally I get on the phone with her cuz I'm just like yo you good you know what I mean finally we talk on the phone and then just on the phone we just had like a very short but a very serious like mini heart's heart and she was just like hey I just I think I just need some time okay and then she had to go back to school in Chicago and then that like that was it dude do you think it was cuz she was like seeing someone over there and then she came over damn I don't know because would you just feel bad right why would you why would you just randomly feel bad after like because maybe that's not how she wanted to lose it like making out and then you guys were getting closer and closer and closer it was almost a relationship but do you ever find out
16:55 what happened it wasn't until like maybe a year plus later when she like came back again and then we're like hey like let's link up but like we're like significantly more mature now mhm that we like get together we're like hey yeah we should meet up because you know we haven't really we were very close at one point and then it just kind of like dissipated and then uh I remember it being so awkward for the first like 10 minutes of just you know like oh so awkward but she was such a cool person so she's finally like do you want to grab a beer I was like yeah we grab a beer here we sit down and finally we're able to talk about him we like you know we were young blah blah blah and uh we were just able to like be cool that's cool okay I'll tell you mine shut the ████ up really mine's like pretty simple except for like the the aftermath what my mom did oh ████ yeah
17:46 what a setup so um I lost mine to my high school boyfriend um we were both virgins wow yeah so pretty simple pretty straightforward um but I had always felt this like kind of like guilt cuz I was just like oh no like now I lost it but we're not married and like I remember my mom always had this like open communication with me like hey you can always tell me anything um you know if if if it gets to that like kind of like you know we'll have a conversation about it I remember the night after it happened I went home and I was just like laying in my bed staring at my ceiling and I couldn't go to sleep cuz it was just like do I do I tell her do I not tell her I thought you were thinking about how good a dick was right exactly um and so I wake up my I wake up my mom at like 3: in the morning and she does
18:37 that like pan she does that like Panic way cuz I exactly why do they do that it's like Steve's parents the fu what is this Ste what what's wrong that's a white thing for sure always and uh why three I knew that if I didn't tell her like right in this second it was just I was never going to say it right it was just it was like I have to do it now I don't give a ████ it's 3: a.m. exactly and so I remember telling her and um I don't remember specifically what she said but I remember what she did after was like she contacted his mom oh and contacted him and like made him get tested we met at a ████ made him get tested yeah well both of like to like you know and then met at like a park and we was just like okay so like
19:28 obviously this is going to keep happening right this is exactly obviously this is going to keep happening um like you know be safe blah blah blah like I just you know it was like very kind of like the serious most awkward talk oh my God and it was just so awkward and like we went to like dinner after with like his mom him my mom me and we're just sitting there like so you guys ████ huh so ████ awkward and I was just like all right cool and then I remember my mom was just being like I never told your dad like I don't think he probably maybe have had an idea but like that conversation never happened with my father that's cool and yeah good job Mom I mean wow but I just remember like seeing his face like with the papers of like the test like walking to the park giving it to my mom and me just
20:18 being like what the ████ but he's all happy I aced it yeah yeah yeah more sex where did your mom learn that technique like I got cosign you know I never asked mom tell tell everybody in the comments that's like insanely white it's like a thing that you would you would see from like a church video about I feel like what Asians would do is they'll call the Mom and said they're getting married yeah they're getting married all right when's the engagement all right your son ████ my son I bet Asian parents would never ask you about that no they don't want the communication so bad they want to know yeah dude they don't even they like stop joking go to sleep I had never felt more awkward and intense in a moment than that that was just always ingrained in me so like when I think about like my first time it's like yeah I'm not going to share details of my first time of the
21:08 actual experience but I just think about the aftermath I'm just like yeah that's like way heavier that's more unique of an experience like nobody's did it ruin the the sex after that where you could no longer do it or did it relieve you of like oh we're tested we're clean and they know well yeah that's an upside yeah it is so was it smart that she did that for you guys so that you can just have relief I guess so I guess it was like a weight off our shoulders but DN have you ever met anyone else that went through that ████ no I don't think you will I don't think that's the smart thing that's the smart thing to do though it's almost too mature if you have a daughter and you find out at 16 she wakes you up at 3:00 a.m. are you going to do that I don't know but like it's kind of funny though right like I just repeat the pattern it's like gets pass down Generations I don't know that was just it was a lot damn oh my god I've never
22:01 heard of it yeah that's some American ████ yeah Vibe you know what I'm saying responsible inv that's what a responsible involved mom looks like I don't hate it but like for me I would ████ melt in the chair instantly like the embarrassment of just like but also good on him for doing it and like coming and meeting my mom and like knowing that this is going to be like playing along just being being part of it being a part of it and just knowing well if he wants some more if he wants some more that punani play he's like I can't believe I'm getting permission to ████ is that what that is though never thought about it in that way but like I guess so like from a parents perspective it's more of like a oh I guess we can't stop them now that it's happen so at least try exactly
22:51 that's tell your dad that's kind of sick yeah and not tell your dad that's pretty cool that's the crazy part that's very my dad never knew when I lost my virginity he still thinks you're virgin yeah well now now there's no hope for him knowing anyways yeah Anthony my dad's dead Anthony yeah but he's dead with peace of mind yeah that's true yeah true true yeah yeah yeah he's not a ghost or anything he's he went to the light yeah that's to the light his daughter was a virgin onward and upward yeah
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