0:00 her circle of friends will do a formal dance like they'll do like a waltz so it's like 12 of her like friends in her group sometimes it's like 20 like 12 dudes actually it's more like 20 so it's like 10 guys 10 girls so then they all like dud I thought they like a Walt's train on [Music] her H make cookies delicious when Bart said it tastes like moon cakes I was like yeah but I was thinking about the FL outside cuz it's flaky and then soft in the middle the white flaky ones Good Cookies Helen yeah you made them racist even though didn't even know have you ever been in the position where um the person that you like you had to act like you didn't like them yeah is that all of them what yeah why would you
0:51 do that cuz you're scared cuz you're shy yeah you don't want to come out 2 thst like wait for a prolonged period of time I guess like in any any period yeah I guess it can be different for different people but what was your experience with that well there's different reasons why right like one would be like you want to play it cool cuz you don't want to be too excited around her and also what if she's off limits like there's people that you find attract like you start liking or whatever but they're in a relationship or like you're in a relationship and you got to hold back but your heart says oh I want to oh so much pain yeah it's like your brother's girlfriend or something oh like that I mean you haven't seen that in movies I guess yeah yeah but it happens though right and he just was like oh I I just want it to go away but
1:42 then you get more and more attracted to her and you're like oh I got to just not hang out with you for a minute yeah I guess it depends too like let's say if it's like a professional relationship that's another oh like got the oh I'm breaking those dude or something professional relationships don't matter to me dated so many co-workers oh really yeah because I think to me like there's off limits of like yeah me I don't care about career that much as you guys can see wait did you date anyone when you were a server all the like dude we I mean well we hooked up with the whole restaurant or like everyone was hooking up and then even I feel like that's after at volcano oh gosh it's like part of your work schedule like who you're paired up with this week the restaurants are notorious for like
2:32 everyone sleeps with everyone it's like a disaster she she to serve at we at Cheesecake Factory yeah yeah that's I mean that's I think in your all like your mid 20s or whatever if you're not going to college who like how are you mean people outside your circle cuz back remember like everyone wasn't online dating and just like hooking up on Tinder and stuff like you really had to go out and meet right you me and if you're working all the time that's who you're around yeah so like yeah a lot of co-workers would hook up yeah I remember so you'd finally find someone you like and then you'd pretend not to like them no I mean that's work it's I feel like you're thinking through a real experience at work at work it's different so at work is if I like them I like them and then it's on I don't care like I don't care we're getting fired or
3:23 whatever I never got fired but yeah there was just but I would say that uh uh friend groups uhuh or like let's say um in college or whatever you're friends with someone they start dating this girl and you're like oh she's cute but then you're like okay but that's off limits yeah okay that's yeah that's a good example and I think when you initially like if if you initially met this person as a couple he's not your like boy then it's more like maybe but I don't know I don't know but if you known this guy for a long time it's kind of like I'm not even at her that way there was a a time that like came to mind where uh I was like 18 and do you guys know what it's like when Filipino people uh have catian a de Debo yeah so like I was like I do
4:14 know do any of you guys know I wish I had one so when a when a Filipino girl has her like 18th birthday she'll have like her debut and then it's basically like a ceremony it's almost she's ready for the taking some people like from the outside it straight up looks like a wedding but it's more closer to like what a k would be like uh and then you have her circle of friends will do a uh like a formal dance like they'll do like a waltz so it's like 12 of her like friends in her in her um group sometimes it's like 20 like 12 dudes uh it's like actually it's more like 20 so it's like 10 guys 10 girls Okay okay so then they all like dud I thought they like a Walt train on her by the she's like she's so tired she's part of the dance too but then uh there was this one friend that had that was having her uh her catian and then when you do the catian you got to like meet up for U
5:05 several weeks like once a week to like learn this dance with this teacher until it's finally time for the ceremony so there was like a bunch of guys we all kind of knew each other and then there's this one girl we're all we all have girlfriends by the way and they're all there and then there's this one girl who's like we didn't know her cuz she's like someone's cousin but like you could see guys like have that non-verbal communication that there's a hot girl in the room but he can't say anything so like everyone when we're dancing were just like you're dancing with a friend but you're like wait do you guys switch Partners yeah it like switches around you guys are all like yes it's my turn to dancer it switch and you got her you looked at the other guys and you were like yeah but like we managed every dude was making this like stupid face at each other that we managed to hide it the
5:55 whole like to this day like none of our girlfriends at the time knew that that was happening and in our minds but then it's I'm still friends with that girl today that exact girl and i' I've been waiting to tell her about that cuz she has no idea she doesn't know that anyone even nobody talked to her at all cuz we didn't want they we didn't want to make it weird we were just like cuz we all had our girlfriends were in the catian court so we're just talking to our girl but the whole time every guy's like like the whole time you know what's funny I love that Universal guy like hot girl has ENT room look it doesn't matter where you're at you could be at the DMV whatever you could be have like a Mexican Gardener look you guys everyone looks old old Asian Chef man doesn't matter it could be a ████ broccoli
6:45 haired like ████ boy like doesn't matter if a hot girl walks in all the dudes are like yeah everyone getes each other and then you look around to see who else no we give each other the look we all yeah we give each other the look like did you just see that what if you accidentally give a look to like the girl's dad or something oh even the dad's like oh yeah no I think the dad knows and he goes come on guys come on the dad's like ████ God damn it my ████ hot ass daughter ████ that's so funny that's why a lot of guys are just like please don't let it be a daughter yes that's why I think most dudes are like cuz they don't know how to handle like how to cuz they know that guys are going to want you know and they're going to like I have to protect her and all this stuff so like when he enters room it's like the eye contact it's like don't ████ around like yeah he's like well usually
7:37 ready if there's a man typically guys resist looking hard or you look after they walk past you so you look at the back yeah they go oh wow you guys think you're slick no we're not sck I'm not so I've trained over the years to just not even care like I I just know that that's there I just you do care I I acknowledge that it's in my quadrant but I just don't I'm just like you gotta use Reflections you're like checking your phone buffing the freaking ner you're just Windex everything come on come on have you had to do that have you had to act like you didn't like somebody you like I mean for like my generation is like if you show too much interest in a girl too soon you come off as a creep so you have to kind of like play it down a little bit sorry your generation like
8:28 how much younger are you I'm 29 you're in your own gen yeah is that true would a guy have to do that in order to keep you from getting scared away if they're too interested I think there's two different types of too interested like one's definitely the creepy like leave me alone but that's probably like they're not getting take emergency Kitt room just in case she gets in trouble you're like what the ████ what if she's like yeah thank you okay what's yeah what's the other C can you leave your window open just a little bit so I could always see you make sure you're safe that's that's kind of hot right no well I I think it also depends on the girl cuz like some girls love to get showered and like pampered on where I'm like I can open my own door like you know I
9:19 need space so it can get annoying if they keep like calling texting like what are you doing and can stop by and drop I'd be like yeah that would would overwhelm me and then I would find someone else no for sure that would overwhelm me and that it would be a turn off at that point I feel like I've told that to guys that were asking me about you in the past cuz I've I've known her so long that like so many different dudes have been like what's up what's what's hell in situation just don't bother her don't SM her you know what she loves nothing don't even talk to her and you'll marry her try to say hi but don't actually do one of mine that comes to mind that I'm like ████ I think I ████ it up was was um and I think this is when you're too young and you get in your own head yeah I think I was 15 so I was either I think I was a freshman or maybe yeah freshman for sure
10:10 um wait 15 or a freshman in high school or 14 there's a correct answer I think freshman's like 1314 yeah yeah technically yeah 13 14 maybe 13 14 okay and then um I was in Boy Scouts and our troop merged with another troop yeah and when we merged um our new scout master he was super friendly and uh he would always have us come over to his house I end up becoming really close friends with his son and the son had a daughter I mean not the son me Gigi no he had a sister I was like he had a sister let me change your diaper and then me and her friendship became um
11:02 became very very what's the word like easy you know you you just click with some people so we click we started chatting on AIM all the time and then um because I know where she lived she knew where I live in the middle of the night we made it this thing where we'd always meet up and we just tee people's houses how romantic and we that's actually very we weren't even we weren't even like uh what is it called um we weren't trying to be romantic but it just ended up being this nice like midnight 1:00 a.m. 2 a.m. thing and then we started teing people's houses making fun of people's houses together as these like two teens and then there was a moment of like wait what are we cuz this is we're doing this like all the time we talk to each other on the phone all the time and uh then every time I went to his house instead of going straight upstairs they had a a
11:53 pool table upstairs so all the dudes would go there yeah uh we would all go and hang out there I would stop by her room first to talk to her one of my older like my young like my older brother dudes they like yo why you in Nicole's room and then I was like oh like you don't like her do you I'm like no dude what the ████ wait was it the brother no no no the brother didn't even care the brother was so cool like he was such a cool dude but it was like my older brothers that I thought I was trying to impress or try to be like this Mach I don't like girls I was like I don't like especially Nicole she's like a she's like a tomboy what the ████ you know and then so I think that kind of ruined it and it jeopardized what it could have been but then it was such an easy relationship that if I didn't get in my own head and if I didn't pretend that I I uh didn't like her it probably
12:44 could have been something dude imagine if she was on the other side of the door listening to that conversation oh like a movie so from that point did you stop hanging with her cuz you were so embarrassed but now I Mak sense why she jumped off the balcony I'm just k run ran stor would be like that yeah someone always dies God no but I was like yeah I think that was the reason why I couldn't like but were you still friends with her after that well then I had my own troubles I end up getting kicked out of school so that was just like that just kind of closed the chapter on the seros life this happened all in SOS so that was like like everything in the SOS life closed and then and then you went to 66 66 that's like a new chapter so all that stuff kind of just like damn closed but you know when you go into the new chapter you're still thinking like what could have been and then and that's one of those things where I'm like dude if I like some I'm just going to like them like this is
13:34 this is so stupid well that's how you learned that which is very valuable yeah it's really cool
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