0:00 observations is not s███-talking. It's a matter of fact. Yeah, >> you're fat. >> They're like doing their feet, whatever, right? And then and whatever, right? And then they're like, "Hey, what' you say?" Oh, he say that he wonder how how your shoe handle all that weight when you step on it. [Music] >> Welcome back to another episode of the Careful Boys. Question for you. If you could delete this stereotype about your your peoples, what would it be? >> Wait, are we deleting the action that caused the stereotype or deleting the awareness of the stereotype itself? >> Or >> cuz it could come back, >> you know what I mean? >> Feel free to define which stereotype you're thinking about and then we'll decipher which one makes more sense. >> Or the truth becomes the other thing. >> What do you mean? >> So like let's say if I go uh Chinese
0:51 people are short. I delete that. Boom. All Chinese people are all magically 6 feet tall. Why you change the pro? Or do people just not know that they're >> Yeah. What is is that >> I think I get it cuz I would change the stereotype that white people and it's pretty true. Like feel the need to speak for other races like in a preachy way. >> Are you speaking for our prompt right now? We're trying to figure it out. >> No, I'm speaking for the prompt. >> That's pretty That's pretty good. >> I think that's what you meant, right? >> That's pretty good. Yeah. So, it's just a stereo, not like the thing about it and then and then truth. If that's the first thing that comes your mind, we can at least discuss it as a group. >> Okay. >> And then and then see if >> So, name the stereotype first and then we'll work backwards. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> I think the the um the Filipino dudes leaving their freaking kids is I'd like to get rid of that somehow. >> So, they could still leave them, but now
1:41 they don't know. I would like to get rid of all of it. >> I would like to get rid of that as a whole, but >> Okay. Okay. So, it stops the stereotype >> only because I didn't we didn't see that ████ growing up because we were we're from se like seventh adventist uh households didn't get divorced. >> How my dad's Filipino then. >> So, like I was foreign to that up until I was in college and then people were like bringing that up and I'm like what are you talking about? >> Yeah, that's true. There were a lot of like no like like the whole Filipino dads have like other families and stuff. >> Yeah. Catholic communities that were Filipino experienced that way more than seventh annude. Imagine everybody who never met their dad growing up is like I'm guessing he's Filipino. >> Yeah, I would like that stereotype to be out of here because it I think that doesn't apply as much as um I think I
2:31 think the stereotype took took more uh >> what is it called? It got more momentum than the actual thing itself. >> I mean every stereotype comes from something. No, I agree. It comes from something, but I don't think per capita is as bad as it sounds. >> Yeah. >> I think I like all the Chinese stereotypes. >> I think you do, too. >> I was thinking about it and I was like, which one would I get rid of? Like, I like that Chinese people are stingy. >> He likes it. >> That's pretty cool. I like >> You don't care about the small pee pee one. >> That's not just Chinese. >> That's all Asians. I guess that one. >> But that but then people think China is all Asia. >> You know what I'm saying? Oh yeah. Part So the other part that I don't like that I don't mind it is because >> then it becomes a mystery and you got to find out. >> Stupid and they get surprised cuz they expect they expect small. So if you have
3:22 a normal dick, they're like it's big. >> He's a glass half full guy. You know, it's cool. >> What about the driving? >> Set the standards low. >> The driving one I think is cool too cuz now you're like, "Oh ████ I better watch out for this ████ He might crash into me." He might crash both. You know what's funny about that stereotype? >> The insurance is higher when you live in a Chinese neighborhood, >> dude. Same with Glendel. Same with Glendale in and Armenians. >> 100%. >> It's just statistical incidents. >> What about like, oh, that guy's Chinese probably beats his kids. >> That's not a stereotype, is it? >> Good. You should >> I don't think that that that doesn't negatively affect >> You got to beat your kids, man. You got to beat them. It's fair. >> But it's like they torture them for good grades. It's It's a little bit different cuz it's not like they get alcohol and beat their kids. >> Yeah. Yeah. It's like a responsible beating. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It comes from a good place almost. >> They're like, you know why their kids are doctors and lawyers? Cuz they get
4:13 beat. >> That's different. >> It's formative. >> Can you think of a a negative Chinese stereotype potentially? >> Oh, just the ones Bart tells me about. Like, uh, pretty much all those. >> Yeah. And I kind of like all of them. >> Oh, that's fair. And I actually just like stereotypes in general cuz they're pretty >> cool answers, Steve. >> Yeah. Uh yeah, let me let me let me um let me jump off a cliff for you guys. >> We're trying to get him to name ones that we we didn't say. >> Chilling, dude. >> Let me jump off a cliff for you guys. >> I'm not Anthony Lee walking into rakes in here. Okay. >> I thought you were going to be like, "Yeah, the one about Chinese people being doing it for views, bro. >> I'm a rider." >> Just make one up. >> Yeah, make one. >> Yeah, just be like one. Make one will make it catch on. a Chinese stereotype. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like they they have really good lawns or something. Like it's just make one up. Like they're
5:05 really good. >> Like they come in here, they scoop up real estate from everybody. >> Oh, you know. Okay. That's actually true. >> Here's one I'll get rid of for you that I think is useful to get rid of. >> That Chinese people are easy to rob and they keep cash inside their house. >> Mhm. >> Because that negatively affected the crime rate against Chinese people. >> That's a good one. >> They they do they do keep inside their Well, like the the Chinese elderly always always have red envelopes with money around this time of year in their purses, so you can attack those ones. >> Yeah, >> I I think a good stereotype to get rid of for Chinese people is organ harvesting. I think that's a pretty good one. One stereotype I would like to get rid of in a moment of time and not even because uh the stereotype is bad, but it's because the people that perceived it
5:55 this way stupid as ████ >> Oh, okay. was when all the Chinese grandparents getting their asses beat because of CO. >> I wish that was taken out where they understood like it's not the ████ Chinese senior citizens bringing CO here and then now they're getting jumped in the middle of streets. >> True. >> That but that was just people were just ████ you know. >> Yeah, that's just their ████ >> That made me realize that not all Asian people know karate, which I used to think. >> It's very true. That's a stereotype that they should have kept because I think people avoided fighting Asians cuz they're like >> in the 80s. >> Yeah. They're like they know kung fu dude >> and '90s >> that's why they weren't beating Asian seniors in the 80s, >> you know? >> Cuz Bruce Lee set that stereotype. >> Like I used to see like an old Asian person with a staff or anything like that or like a walking stick and I'd be
6:46 like do not ████ with those with that guy cuz I watch Three Ninjas and that guy will ████ you up. >> Yep. And he probably has a sword in his cane. Hey, what? Hey, give him some of the Viet stereotypes he should get rid of. >> Or which ones do you want to get rid of? Do you have any you want to get rid of? >> Yeah. >> Vietnamese people. >> Yeah. >> Or do you like them all? >> Vietnamese stereotype. >> They have mud in your houses. >> Yeah. >> I mean, obviously I do think like I do think and and you know, I'm I'm at fault for this. I'm at fault for this too in terms of I I always go around saying like you >> Asian >> you got to stay away from ████ Vietnamese girls. >> Oh. >> But it's true. I >> I perpetuate that one too. >> I perpetuate cuz it's it's just true. It's it is wild, dude. >> That's cuckoo city, dude. Cuckoo. >> So I can imagine them wanting that
7:37 stereotype to, you know, be eradicated. >> But my buddy's wife is Vietnamese. They are riders, dude. Like they ride so hard for their dudes. It's You wouldn't believe it. >> Imagine what happens when they don't like how you're conducting. >> Fair, fair, fair. Yeah, >> that same energy is >> Yeah, it's intense. It's so terrifying, dude. >> Yeah, it's a tough one. Um I don't I mean there's the whole gambling thing, but I don't think that's like a huge problem to be honest. >> Gambo. >> Yeah. Like let let your people go gamble, you know? Uh on your tip though, like with even like the you know during the Asia hate and stuff like that, I think just even at that time there was this uh idea um stereotype might be too loose of a word but just like you know like oh like
8:27 Asians are just like white adjacent in America and they they used that as like a negative kind of thing. Uh, and then that was just like a whole concept of like minority Olympics, you know, where it's like which one's the the more minority of the minorities. And it's like yo, like everybody got their own version of their minority experience, you know? So like instead of thinking like like as if like being white was also like just such an evil thing, you know, people are just born the way they are. And it's like I I understand that people hurt people hurt people type stuff, but like that was that was a weird thing to be an Asian at that time and then be classified as like this other thing as if like we didn't have our own minority experience. >> I think also a a big part of that was that it was a talking point for conservatives to shut down liberals that were saying that uh that they had it hard because they would always point to
9:17 Asians. Charlie Kirk would do it all the time. He'd be like, "Well, then how did Asians in one generation become some of the richest people in your community?" You know what I mean? And it's like a thing where like we're being used as like a because we did decently >> in one gen >> cuz we're teachers pet. >> Yeah. >> And all Asians want to do is like shut up you guys ████ talk too much. We just want to make money. >> But then Asians being successful in one generation wasn't to be used as they didn't do it to be used as a look look and see how bad you're doing. >> You know what I mean? >> We did it so we could buy Lexuses. >> Yeah. But then I think people looked at it with animosity after hearing it delivered that way. >> And to be fair, the people that are doing well came with education and ████ Like >> it wasn't like the same. Like we we you know they they didn't have money, but like we're talking about people who got like businesses stolen from communists,
10:08 but they're all entrepreneurs. They did it before. Like they were millionaires in their country. They could come here and they could restart, get it get it done. It ain't the same for other cultures. You It's not apples to apples. But I think like us being used for that is like all we want to do is make a little money and go to the casino and not be involved in all this ████ ████ >> Everybody else in America wastes so much time talking and ████ feeling right. And Asians are like, "Y'all stupid, dude. Just make money. ████ feed your kids. That's it." >> Yeah. >> I got one more stereotype that I think it would be like fun for Vietnamese people to delete, even if it's true. Uh, it's that everybody who goes to like nail salons think that the ladies are just talking ████ on you the whole time. >> They are. >> And some of them will talk some ████
10:58 but most but like like Asian people talking ████ or like what people perceive as talking ████ is sometimes they're just being like >> matterof fact descriptive the way they understand it. Sure, if you like word for word translate it the way that we as a society, especially Asian-Americans, like we're like, "Oh, like that's very rude to say that to a person." True. which is why they're not saying it to that person. They're saying it to the friend. A descriptive thing, you know, and and it's perceived as s███-talking. >> Observations is not s███-talking. It's a matter of fact. >> You're fat. >> Exactly. >> Exhibit A, you are bigger than I saw you last year in Thanksgiving. >> I actually like that. >> That's But like the stereotype is like, oh, like you know, you go to the nail salon, all of them are talking ████ on you. >> But isn't it talking ████ if you're not saying it directly to them? >> They'll say it to you too, >> right? But I think they also enjoy gossiping and just speaking their
11:48 >> That's what I'm saying. So that is >> that's all you're doing. You're also talking ████ What are you talking about? >> You're also Well, that's the thing though. That's I'm not saying it's not true. >> That's actually talking ████ >> I'm not saying it's not true. I'm saying I'm like deleting the stereotype so people don't delete the action. Delete the stereotype. So what what will happen? It'll be like they're like doing their feet whatever, right? And then and whatever. Right. And then hey, what' you say? Oh, he say that he wonder how how your shoe handle all that weight when you step on it. [Applause] They'll just tell you straight up. >> Yeah. So, it's not like talking ████ They're just don't like English isn't their first language. >> Yeah, that makes sense. >> And then they're also Maybe they're being considerate. Maybe they don't think you want to hear that. >> Yeah. Why this guy calling so big? >> Plus, they're also like cleaning the ████ out of your feet and your toes and stuff. It's like I think it's kind of a trade-off. You know what I mean? >> That's that's a a stereotype I want to
12:38 remove. This ain't a Filipino one, just like Chinese, Korean or whatever in general that um just because they have a business that they own in the hood that they're like robbing the community, they're not a part of it. >> I don't like that one. >> That one's dumb to me. >> Yeah. Like they feel like they're superior and they're like just like a leech or something. >> Yeah. Because you know Spike Lee always has movies where that ████ is like pointed out but then he does like he does also make the point that that's also part of your community like >> and you also have like every right to open a business that competes with it or whatever. But if they're like mad that like oh the people that are selling uh extensions are Korean and that's like our money is going to them. It's like I I don't think that that that type of uh
13:28 opinion helps anything >> and it just like makes them get hated on and I'm like all right, you know, like David >> complaining is hell. >> I I just want the Japanese pervert one gone so I can enjoy my porn without people looking at me funny. >> Yeah, that's that's a good one. >> The Japanese pervert one is an interesting one because they tried really hard to like keep that one down. >> I think Joe single-handedly boosted it probably 1%. I I love the Japanese pervert stereotype cuz it lets all the other Asians be perverts just as long as you don't pass the Japanese pervert. >> Yeah, that's the threshold for like maximum perverse. >> Now the rest of Asians just look sexless and a and all of Japan took the horny energy of the rest of Asia when they colonized it and then they kept it in Japan. That's >> But K-pop guys, ████ >> Yeah, but they're not known to be they're not like grabbing panties and going >> Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Japanese ones is like
14:19 weird ████ like >> and I like those. >> They're they're like only fans supporters and and Yeah. >> And it's weird to have like high perversion, low birth rate combo. >> Yeah. So horny but can't come. >> Can't come. >> I didn't know that was part of the stereotype. You know those Japanese guys that gum?
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