0:00 [Music] welcome back to another amazing episode of the careful boys where we fear everyone we we do fear everyone I am scared fear everyone get these shirts in October you got to follow our Instagram to know when we're launching them it means fear everyone right or it doesn't mean I am afraid of everybody you said it a couple times it's actually wrong the grammar is wrong the way it's written is wrong so it's like if this was a it's like all right if this was a sentence right this is supposed to be up here this is supposed to be down here everywhere here there's supposed to be two more there's supposed to be two more characters yeah okay so what's it say it says um o but it's supposed to be n o n is not
0:52 afraid of n is like the anti it just sounds so cool though it sounds cool even when it's wrong yeah I like that so what's the should say though everyone uh I know I'm I'm afraid everyone got OS everyone so it is yod to speak everyone I'm afraid afraid of everyone put yeah oh that's so great fear fear yeah I'm afraid I'm afraid it just doesn't actually make real sense no and it's wrong that's why it's like yeah well hey we got here because we ████ hit some goals and so today's conversation topic is uh what personal goals do you guys currently have right now personal goals personal goals we
1:42 know you just ████ dominated your two swords wielding bodybuilding competition sir but now I'm guessing you're already immediately on to your next goal what's a personal goal that we all have moving forward right now I'm working on um buying existing businesses so like up until now all of my experience has been startups like creating something from scratch you know JK like the food groups all these different projects maybe like one-offs like creating a product um and a lot of these things it takes a lot of time money and sometimes you don't get anything paid like from doing it right and then I got into thinking about there's a lot of businesses out there especially with Boomers retiring there's business cuz in my mind I thought all businesses that
2:32 were going for sale were broken and it sucks that's why they're going for sale cuz why would anybody in their right mind let go of something good but then I realized there's a lot of people that want to retire there's nothing wrong with the business but they want to retire uh but they their kids don't want the business you know and then there's there's like as time progressed my I realized there was so much more to it than just like if a business is for sale doesn't mean that it's it's a piece of ████ there's solid businesses out there and then the plus part is it's already bringing in income so you don't have to start from scratch where you dump all this money and get a bunch of investors and just hope that it makes money right it's already a viable business and what you got to do is go in and you can make improvements with the income that's
3:22 already coming in so um yeah me and my buddy were already in talks of looking at different companies and yeah it's kind of a fun next level I guess like taking on everything that I learned building YouTube all this stuff J be and then putting it all together and it's really exciting yeah yeah can you disclose any uh not yet not yet no but I'm I I'll tell you guys after this deal is solid but it takes a long time bro like the whole deal making process it's like at least 6 months and I was just like wow I why can't I do this in like a week I mean Buy in like a day you know like ████ yeah nice yep hey good luck man thank
4:12 you thank you the real reason is I'm just trying to find ways to sponsor this channel so I'll probably like get all my other businesses to just sponsor it so we'll be doing ad reads for our own comp that's SM don't give yourself discounts right yeah this video is brought to you by me chubby personal goals huh Steven we got two months to make it baby this is it we're going into the run right now the uh the crypto bull Run's about to start go it's going to start why why only two months well it's really just about taking this dip seriously and most people and most people aren't people are sleeping right now on the market there like volumes have been have been dried up for a while now you just got the most bullish news like ever about how every single huge firm wants to open a a
5:03 Bitcoin ETF now all these huge firms are saying they wanted uh an ethereum ETF crypto is about to explode nobody's even really talking about it everyone's sore sleeping in fact people in my fantasy football group who I've known for a decade or like you're St that crypto thing is so dead I'm like dude you guys don't even know $1.5 trillion market cap you think it's dead it's just going to keep growing keep sleep walking bro but you're going to be a fomo in ████ and not a a badass ████ who was who was buying up the bottom and I've been hoovering the bottom for ████ what how long have I hoovering how long I've been doing it for like 20 months what 20 months right now yeah and I've been taking it seriously that's that bottom exactly but that's how you do it you have to take it seriously and so you know taking this dip seriously for the next two months is really what I'm I'm the most focused on I also you know want to do um well I had a couple of goals
5:53 from the last one right that I'm going to take into this run which is like start spin up an ethereum node right so that I'm I have my own validator that like like I can I can host and then you know people put their ethereum on my validator and then we can split up the fees and ████ like that so that'll be really fun um and then I want to um basically crush the run and then as as I'm going through the Run cash out way more into Bitcoin and ethereum as I beat them in the ratio so that's what I do every run and so it's all about making sure that the next 2 months I really land I nail this end of the year and then I can kind of chill lot next year as the Run starts so yeah I'm excited about it also work on something I can't really talk about CU I don't like to do that but I'm excited about it
6:43 um but I don't like to do I don't like to be YouTube I'm doing a secret project and ████ I'm just yeah I'm working on I'm working on something that I that I I find very fun so is in the creative realm yeah in the Creative Real on on the side yeah yeah is it something you've done before I've talked to you guys about it off camera got you oh okay yeah so we'll see what happens waet very cool ████ yeah baby dip make sure you're taking the next two months really seriously honestly I'm buy lunting Bitcoin nice and woo of course every month every month love it love it taking it seriously here is everything I'm about to get into position right now dude I already got a usdc ready to go oh yeah we set you up last time good lunchtime purchase colen got in I know yeah and I need to hop on board too I've
7:34 been dcing dcing what little stuff here and there Disney California Adventure talk about it butt biomes butt biom a ████ joke is that is this what are your goals dude uh I'm kind of in a place now where I'm trying to figure out if I want to do more inperson stuff or more online stuff online cuz I'm realizing that like so like the past two weeks my clients were all like out of town I guess and I guess it's like the most the last couple weeks of August is like the most requested uh PTO time like across the board so like all my clients were out of town so I kind of had like two weeks to chill out a little bit and it was kind of cool and being home was really cool and spending time and you know I really like that aspect but I also really like working with people in the gym all day
8:25 too so I think I need to figure out where I'm going to spend more of my time too and I think it is more on the online side but um I think I need to just commit more a one cuz I think I try to serve two masters and then I'm like you know something gives you know it was something and I want to have more time at home so I think the online stuff is looks a little bit more appetizing so just learning how to do more of that stuff learning how to do like advertisements online and all that stuff learning how to do online business a little bit more so that's the fun part for me that's a personal what online kind of what online kind of stuff just online coaching online fitness coaching you know well you could open up your service to everybody that's watching now when it's online and people that actually like you they'll be like maybe
9:15 you can make me laugh while I work out no no I I have I have like a a client roster online but it's just more of like all right am I going to go a lot more of those in person or a lot more of those like online so that's like I think the place that I'm in right now so I I just have to make a decision I think and I think it's online am I right yep I got balance I got 5050 or like a 752 maybe like a 7030 type of deal more online and then because the onl online stuff takes a lot of time to do too like I thought I could do both at the same time but I'm learning that if I really want to make the income that I want online or just in general I have to spend a lot more time and it'll take me out of the gym what about like less personalized and more like programmatic online stuff where it's not it's like pre-recorded like
10:05 programs you yeah no definit I think that is an Avenue for sure but yeah I think you should do online only fans and personal training can you think oh you do personal training only fans where they come and then they can buy a service and you're just naked showing them how to do all the moves like this and I have a new I have a sweet new tattoo so it's like it's even more kind of hard yeah I'm pretty hardc oh yeah I'm probably going to take this tattoo in the wild too and get a video of Asian people reacting to it you should go Little Tokyo yeah what do you think of my what do you think of my my tattoo that's going to be fun is that the passion project no that's just an idea that I had that I got to do but I'm going to treat it like hard yeah yeah yeah like how do you think my tough ass tattoo it's hard as ████ isn't it or a bandana hard as ████ or no jean
10:55 jacket no sleeves come on so yeah that's that's the personal goal for me right now is get more time for my family and my kids you know cuz they're growing up so fast so fast dude you know cuz your kids age by seven years every year so I'm I'm on borrowed time with these little pups dude even even seeing you do uh more of the online uh just those those fight videos and stuff like that you're doing that we talked about last time and then seeing people Us Media and then seeing people in the comments being like yo you're like a real influencer now yeah I don't like that I don't know but but that like feeds into the idea of like online tutorial program no for sure yeah it does so well it's just weird when you're yeah I don't know it's just a different different lens I guess that it's weird cuz you hate yourself so much yeah that's what it really is but then you're
11:46 the kind of guy but you're the kind of guy who likes it you dislike something he just said that outside by the way about his tattoo because I know that like my ████ ass brain is saying this is stupid this is dumb like you want to poo poo everything and I know that's not the correct thing to do so I know that at least if I poo poo this then I'm on the right track does that make sense nope what the hell trying to say I don't know what the hell you're trying to say no because I know this is this is nonsense I don't want to be here you know that I know that oh I need to go against my programming and do more of that oh like doing more of the things that you said you're not supposed to be doing because that's where the growth happens well my mind says poo poo against male anal sex should I do that more for me yes that see that made sense yeah yeah yeah take notes from be more uncomfortable
12:42 yeah what about you Ryan what kind of personal goals do you sometimes after Nick talks I think I know him less is that a weird phenomenon it's stunning well I'll tell you right now what do you want to know at least he's not deflecting that much anymore yeah he's just boring us today I just know that when I talk I put myself I bore myself and I know that everyone else is here bored so I'm like all right dude let's hurry this up is this good content not really before I used to want to grab his ears and pull it apart and say say something already cuz you're saying words but nothing I'm just going to start sending you uncut clips of yourself back at you oh that's don't do that that's the next good Ryan bit against you want to assist my Suicide do that dude my actual uh goal that's been on my mind honestly is to uh basically to
13:35 propose can you say that doesn't she watch the show she doesn't watch the show she doesn't no none of our wi start going on her page it's not going to be that I mean it so she finds out something that's pretty obvious I mean it's it's a but but the thing is that uh one thing she doesn't know is that like and this will come out probably when we're married for six years true that's a good point one thing she doesn't know is like uh like I haven't done it yet because I'm trying to get in the right position for it which means like I want to ask both of her parents individually and then um to go to Australia to do it yeah yeah but but I'll be there in a few months and then that's where I'm when I'm going to ask her mom are you going there without her no I'm not so how you going to pull him to the side I'll figure it out you're you're not going to be like here's a note I'm I going to slip a note why do you have to ask your
14:27 mom I think I I just want to do it that yeah is that even traditional heard never owns her I already asked her I already asked her dad wow what did he say and he said no so he's got to ask the mom when he was here he was visiting like a couple months back and then um it was funny because like obviously we were all together most of the time and then we went to go get coffee real quick and then smack went to the bathroom and was like all right we only got like a minute here so I started talking to was he like what the ████ yeah I was like and I I basically like asked him right there and then he like started crying and stuff it was like dope and then smack he started crying yeah and then smack got gets out the bathroom he's like oh all right well funny man it was a good moment yeah it was it was a dope ass moment share this with smack if this comes out chill maybe don't but yeah you
15:19 ████ be chill you ass Buy the T-shirt she'll find out obviously naturally I guess but then I want to individually have that same uh moment with their mom we see her share this video with her mom and once that's like squared off then then that's when that today's video is brought to you by Lumi have you ever said to yourself maybe I should start wearing deodorant if you're out there and you're a normal person and you do wear deodorant have you ever told yourself maybe I should stop wearing things that have harmful metals and chemicals that can destroy me like aluminum parabens all those things well good thing Lumi is here to give you some beautiful alternatives for your body yeah it's invented by OBGYN lady so she treats the labias and she made
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17:04 what free shipping that's so cool free man as a special offer for our listeners new customers get $5 off our Lumi starter pack with code OTR at lumipod docomo to lumipod docomo thank you very much ding dong you know what's going to suck when you propose and just blow everyone out of the ████ water and guys just don't even want to propose anymore you good thing you guys are all married already I I agree yeah I don't want to do nothing like super you have the the place in mind of where you're going to do the actual proposal I have a I have an idea of part of what I want to do but I also don't want to make it so heady like I don't I want it to be as like I guess like natural and yes you want to
17:55 make too like orchestrated and logical TR I don't want to make it seem like I'm doing it for me you know what I mean I just wanted to be like hey this is the real ████ that's smart I want to go through the he's the groom that just has the camera on him the whole time the whole time you don't even know the b████'s name you don't barely see the ████ it's all about the to his life cuz I think when like when when I was like asking to be her like boyfriend that was different because it was like I wanted to like show her how much I care but it's like we already know that now so now it's like I just want to go through the proper uh channels and just like due diligence that's it that's it I don't want to like I don't want to be all ████ a cake with nothing but frosting you know what I mean if you think about it though that's kind of The Proposal is like when you guys got together and then you cuz like we do things so differently now cuz like people didn't move in before they got
18:45 married yeah and then they weren't ████ and like enjoying each other for years like a married couple before getting married so you got to actually live a practice marriage without the paperwork yeah yeah yeah and now you're just kind of like it's been working how many years has it been it's been almost 8 years wow so you're practically married have built a business together we're just like super secure with each other and it's like we both have the same like view about like you know we're not trying to rush we're also you know so why did you wait 8 years for good taxes we didn't really mean to wait 8 years it was just so like Breezy that it never was like a a thing that we ever felt like we had to do and uh and if it's it's one of those things like if we never did it it would also probably be okay but I think we both want that life
19:38 you know you want that tax break I mean we don't even give a ████ about that really that's really really I want the tax breaks for you guys all right I'll get the tax break I want JK to move to Nevada how about that I want Nevada he's making an exodus that's what I'm saying I know he's like that's like another long-term plan that we we have is to at least like set ourselves up to where Nevada is a place that we can go yeah I'll be there but never there watch out for the mosquitoes watch out for the mosquitoes and the flashs watch out for the lake river the lak river yeah that's my that's my sh that's that's sweet wow dude that's a big one a big Life Update that's ████ crazy did everybody go Bart did you go not really needs to go again let me just
20:30 think about this let me write it out first did you figure out if you want to go online or offline had me gripped there's no B I was on the edge of my seat he's like I think I'm going 7030 maybe 65 25 yeah yeah I just like being boring I think I just like being I wish that was my life update it's my life dude it's boring but it's my life Bart um my personal goal he just finished a big one yeah dude what's next well I guess there's like there's still like simultaneous cuz there's like stuff that you personally want to do things that are like in the relationship or financial or whatever I think now like my next big goal is probably like building like our home home so you know like the last couple of years we've been
21:20 moving quite a bit cuz it's your forever home for the fourth time yeah so now it's like really making sure this one's a forever home so that we can get the next forever no it's I think we really like where we live um and we have a really good routine um taica is doing really good in school and he loves all his friends like he just had his uh uh sixth year birthday and it was cool to see like like the little you know like when you live in a new place you kind of don't really have a community just yet and then as parents I feel like you just kind of work and it's you're kind of community your community is either the immediate physical neighbors or uh the community that your kids are involved in so now we we booked like a little like trampoline park thing for his birthday and it was cool to see like kids from Jiu-Jitsu there kids from his uh school
22:11 there kids from even his some of like the ones he kept in contact from his last school and just to kind of see all of that be together and some of his neighbors that go to different schools and then like me envisioning oh these kids are all going to grow up together like six seven eight nine and just kind of seeing like um what that's going to be like in the next five 10 years and that makes me feel like really good because like growing up I moved a lot too actually because I got I kept getting kicked out of a lot of schools so I never felt like I had Roots anywhere so like I would meet people like like my friend silent Mike who's like oh yeah this is my friend my best friend since second grade I'm like dude I wish I had that I never really like Joe's the longest friend I've ever had but I made friends with him in my adult life and I just wish I had that stability as a kid so being able to put ourselves in a position to give him that kind of stability where once he gets a
23:01 little bit older he can invite his friends to come over and swim at my pool or like you want to have a sleepover just kind of like that kind of like childhood that I've always wanted I never had is like our main goal so you're like a stage pageant mom but like pageant dad for your son pageant Dad how's so like you're making him do it like he doesn't want to do it you're leaving by KY through your son oh I see I see I see I was like yeah I'm like what am I signing a he's like I don't have friends yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah so that's that's that's kind of the goal and so like even us uh building our house out to be that way yeah like we're we're trying to plan like a little jungle gym in the side and then you know like having the dogs run around and swim and stuff like just trying to make the the home feel as homey and comfortable as possible for friends family whoever to come and stay over is like is like the goal yeah dude you're a real ████ dad I know dude
23:52 you're the dest man planet espe with those two tattoos bro dude I I like I I really enjoy being a dad and I enjoy seeing like um him grow up and then also like I can it's like and you feel your personal growth too cuz then like he's uh an extension of you right so there's personality traits that you don't like about yourself but they have it and they do it and then you have the first initial urge what is what my dad did and then you're like but that didn't work you know so like so as you raise them you have the most craziest growth too and then like there's times I'm just like this with ta like man you're ████ cool dude you know that he's like yep and then I'm like just like really cool moments that you get to create that you felt like since you didn't get were out of bounds but you
24:43 make your bounds yeah I feel the same way about my dogs bro yeah swear to God cuz like I want to yell at them but I know it's it's not their fault it's my fault I'm the one that dropped the ball so I have to blame myself so you know what I mean and it's you know they're what about the bite your shoes I shouldn't have put the shoes there I put them in a situation to fail right cuz they go like this with the shoe yeah it's on me and I feel like I got to I want to hit them but I can't did they say if they want you to go online or offline more they want me they want me online so I can stop them from eating their own ████ Ryan we're out we're out we need Anthony n dude we're out of time ████ you what it's just all you then we got to clap because n just hijacked moment okay I'm py back it's
25:34 not hijack a beautiful moment too it was like one of the sweetest things I've heard and also the saddest things I've heard cuz he's like I didn't get that from my dad but I have to make this with my son and ████ I'm like damn that's really sad and then Nick's ████ ripping him about the dog and he calls him a pageant Dad yeah dude but I guess pageant dad's a great line we're going have to start using that it's just I relate that's all let's see that ████ smile ████ Anthony Lee Anthony Lee oh okay um I would like to become a dad oh let's go online or offline dude are you cre you going to start cream ping dude Joe's H Jesus have you started or not yet not yet woo wow but I am I am going on a honeymoon in October you know where we to we too Maui we got Bali oh
26:25 and are you leaving the condoms at home hell yeah baby I'm not bringing any oh damn and I heard Balan condoms tend to rip pant condoms in Indonesia that's word on the street word on the street is lot of pregnancies happening B that that her mom definitely watches our show so I'm going to keep that at a more romantic level okay dude it's too late for like being careful with that careful boys okay uh hi Mom and then uh d we're becoming adults huh kind of bunch of dads we're adulting in here aren't we we all got this ████ tattoo yeah three dads keep young man dude we're going to be like 40y olds like soon you look like so you guys like you guys have talked about it like like hey I'm going ████
27:16 in you like start ████ your box I think he said we definitely talked about it okay I think I think a lot of conversations help with the mental preparation you know like you just need to constant it's been like even since like last year you know what I mean just like constantly talking about it just to remind ourselves that are we serious even for myself like jokingly being confident hey D I'm going to ████ have like 12 kids I want an army but even though obviously I don't why that's a lot that's what I'm saying obviously oh that's cool I idea of like you know like almost speaking sarcastically past a threshold to like kind of like fall back to understand where you really are be comfortable with it you know um seeing where both people are at and how you guys even react to each other is like crazy IDE you ever talk about names uh we do but it's like less than
28:08 the amount that we talk about being uh almost grounded and realistic at the idea of always saying like I would like to try never being like I want kids being like I would like to try to have kids just like having seen so many other friends go through cuz you keep yourself one in your front pocket dude I think about that ████ too kills the sperm yeah there it is but just a of like how many people have gone through like miscarriages or like have tried and like failed and stuff and just being like I don't want to Psy myself out to think it's a guarantee just because you like ████ cream pie you know what I mean it's like you got to get some people don't have kids for like seven years and then all of a sudden four of them fly out it's crazy fly out they look like pugs you know um but yeah just like just having conversations around the whole realm but at the same time trying to ground yourself to like the practicalities like of life so it's it's
28:59 it's a trip but it's a personal goal if that's a goal if it's weird call it a goal the practicalities of Life are more practical in Nevada though I was just about to say that right out of my mouth ████ having a kid in Nevada has a certain ring to it yeah it does but none of my none of our parents are there so and there's less of people's peees getting chopped off that's exactly it is pretty interesting I I think I would like to check the studies on that actually you don't have to have Gavin Newsome as Governor while you're giving birth that's huge it's a big du um I think you guys know I uh getting to a place of personal fitness is a personal goal of mine yeah dude look how sex you are dude look how ████ hot you are not yet not yet but the thing that ████ really stuck to me still like months ago when I was talking to you about it and like not having certain like goals whether it be like physicality or Aesthetics but like making it a lifestyle you know what I
29:51 mean like a part of your identity where you it's so ingrained in your lifestyle this is what you do that it's Clockwork you don't think about it as like you're trying to do it cuz you're trying to hit a certain goal or whatnot you know and even for like the last 3 months since I started you know it's just been about I have no idea how I'm supposed to look you know what I mean but just like learning about it and just being like stay consistent let this be a part of your life and your identity and it's helped out a lot versus trying to just you know my younger versions of myself being like I want to lose this much weight or I want to gain this much mass or I want to blah blah blah like that's totally different from just like I want to stay consistent you know it's just what you do yeah so it's been it's been helpful it's been exciting it's been fun obviously there's like you know really inspiring guys in this room that keep me motivated you got it exactly any day um but that that's that's a fun thing but I think that's also in line with the idea
30:41 of wanting to be healthier for myself cuz I'm consistently ████ sick for some random reason uh and then also also trying to have like a kid too right Catch Co 74 times yeah a record so the idea of like wanting to like create life but needing to be healthy first he's probably woring a mask more than any was guaranteed
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