0:00 so does that mean would you would you uh have a relationship with someone that was in porn um a serious loving relationship and knowing that they had sex with 2 345 people no no see see that number's a little skewed I don't think it's that many oh it's more like five thousand three hundred [Music] welcome back everybody to another special episode of the careful boys where we today have Mr Jimmy Zhang in the hot seat y'all hello dang good so uh welcome to the hottest seat on the interwebs where we ask the hottest questions okay we're gonna watch out it gets really hot in that chair bro your ass is gonna burn almost hot though sometimes we don't get hot at all but we always definitely start very cold and dry is also a good word to use and we
0:50 start with Bart we're gonna warm up slowly but I think we start really ████ cold bar head on with a cold man okay can you repeat after me let's do it that's not even a cool question that is a whole question he asked him if he could repeat after him that's part of the question can we even put that on probably not we're not trying to say any words that's gonna ████ get us demonetized we'll keep that because it's funny it's even funnier if it's if it's silencer and they don't know what he said hey you didn't take the bait that's good bro you got to make that a real just decide it's embarcos
1:42 clip so uh for the safety of the channel let's start over uh we're gonna take that we're gonna take that bit back to Bart's going to start with a really cool question right let's let's no of another cold question okay here let's say you're swimming okay starfish comes out of nowhere I love it and grabs you on your dick what sound do you make oh [Applause]
2:33 so you said you grew up in a New York yeah why did you decide to come to L.A that's an LA accent by the way what is that one it's a New Yorker saying la oh both with New York no no is that supposed to a New York accent this is going well to Ming Dynasty accent I don't like there was a there was a a YouTuber uh by the name I don't know if you know Elliot Troy but another YouTuber he uh this is during coven he he said like what are you doing during covet I'm like nothing do you want to come to LA live in this house this big giant Creator house with me and like a couple other like YouTubers and I was like ████ yeah I'm not doing anything Elliott Choice sounds dope yeah is he a
3:25 comedian no no no no no no no uh he's uh he's like a college lifestyle YouTuber oh lifestyle YouTuber and then so you guys were making like um like a YouTuber's house and then you guys got together and was it like let's all make videos together yeah yeah yeah it was kind of like that and then everybody in the house uh yeah just made videos together how many people are in the house uh I think six whoa was there any sex scene amongst you guys like mixing nah nah that's what people like to think right right right right that's that no there was like some ships you know people definitely got shipped um what does that mean relationship yeah yeah my ████ boom I'm so sorry man like where people want you today yeah whether you get in a relationship or not people might ship you you know right right people people see you and a girl
4:16 like together with chemistry they're like oh Jimmy that's what they did every single time a female sat next to one of us oh yeah yeah that's true but now they just ship I feel like I feel I feel like JK fans were shipping me and Julia hard for a while dude really ciao yeah no way anyways this is his hot seat did you have sex with a porn star recently yeah that was a year ago it's a good answer that was a year ago well done okay so then you liked LA and you decided to stay in LA and create content in LA and then just like live your life in L.A any other ways you can say I like can you work it in more I think uh around you know the uh after the the house ended I'm just I'm like everything's closed in New York right and it's
5:06 housing is cheaper here so why don't you stay here for a little bit that is a crazy thing to say it's just cheaper in L.A what's the average like like one bat one bed one bath here we go back to Vegas somehow what he's gonna bro he's gonna sell you on Vegas right now look you York you get this this space this space you could probably cost five thousand dollars wow wow but I mean this space is almost it's a little bit of like a thousand square feet yeah it's kind of fancy yeah maybe five thousand pushing six six six seven six seven thousand and then in La what is this space he's asking you the question is a bit guys versus real
5:56 estate prices okay I'm gonna warm up the question so you did uh uh have sex with the porn star what's the the difference between that and a regular non-porn star yeah that you were like oh wow this is different does it really feel like a flashlight that that dances I would I would say I would say certain techniques certain techniques I'm just like whoa this is I've never seen this what were some of your favorites just just like a combination of hand to mouth yeah sex I I like to be in control right I like to I like to do all the work but then when it comes to like the extracurriculars right it was it was a little did you feel it did you want to come faster yeah was it so good did you come too fast and you're like ah I might
6:47 usually like this but the kind of kind of graphessional and oh I came too fast I go fast regardless [Laughter] you are the same team yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah so this was even faster well I think I come really fast just when I'm uh when I have feelings for someone yeah yeah so feelings yeah so it wasn't just a hookup you were you were you were interested you like them I would say so wow so does that mean would you would you uh have a relationship with someone that was in porn um a serious loving relationship and knowing that they had sex with 2 345 people see see that number is a little skew dude I don't think it's that many
7:37 oh it's more like five thousand three hundred more numbers 355 cores of like uh and they have like similar part but regardless be curious but I don't I don't know if it's something I like long term like I could see myself doing I think uh yeah part of me is still like traditional in a sense what is your last relationship oof uh a year ago why'd you guys break up see I tell you he was about to marry a porn star I told you Bart uh just I different life stages I guess
8:27 uh at the time I also wanted to move back to New York and then she she just felt like I wasn't prioritizing her so what where is she from La she's from L.A oh but you ended jokes on her you didn't even move back jokes on her oh if if there's anything you can say to her right now because she's subscribed probably what would you want to say oh no jokes are hard jokes jokes oh man jokes on me actually because I started talking to her uh recently oh really oh because you didn't go to leave L.A but but but then but then but now she's seeing you on YouTube videos with a porn star now yeah I'm traveling I'm I'm yeah
9:18 I I can't be locked down anymore oh not currently also just like for my like life stage I I don't see myself being in another relationship until like I'm really ready for it so he you you wanna you're in the ████ man stage I'm I'm gonna be a ████ man not a ████ boy because ████ boy is like 19 all right so now you're late 20s I'm ████ man I don't even want to ████ everything I just like the freedom of of being single to ████ or not ████ yeah to have the choice right right right to travel to to to not have to worry about somebody else there's couples that still travel and not worry about each other you don't have to be in a relationship jokes on you what's what's uh like a dark fear you have dark fear yeah tell us your
10:09 scariness stuff oh fog like sharks or something that's a suggestion you have no like fear of failure of any type or like nurse sharks or sharks that too yeah like a snapping turtle I don't even I don't even know are you scared of heights you got random phobias snakes snakes snakes snakes sounds like a cop-out answer how's your relationship with their parents death death I'm really scared of dying oh yeah yeah I mean when it's over it's done I know what kind of dying like a sudden death or just all death or the idea of when you're dead emptiness afterwards so like let's say
11:02 you see a doctor and a doctor's like hey you only have six months but that'd be like oh ████ oh I don't want to know wouldn't that be all ████ to everybody no if you're not scared of death they're like some people are like okay cool I get it thank you I don't want to know but if you're if you're dope like death you don't want to hear that yeah but yeah but if you're a psychopath like me I'm like everyone's gonna die at one point so if you oh mine says earlier okay fine whatever I don't want to know well I I don't know but it's not about me what about you you want to die no okay how's your relationship with your parents uh now that now I I'm cool with my mom I could call it my dad's I don't really talk to him I bet you no I can I can help you from a guy that has a turbulent relationship with his father I
11:53 can help you out just call him up and be like yo dad you know I ████ a porn star and he'll be like you my son again I don't even think he guessed that world he understands he doesn't go he just he just goes to work goes back home it's just like a routine what do you think would have to happen for you to ask go back and ask your dad for help I I wouldn't need his help for anything but like let's say like what do you think yeah what would have to happen like let's say YouTube doesn't work anymore you're bankrupt or would you move like when would you or would you or is he like an option that is ruled out if you hit rock bottom like you'd rather rather die than yeah ask him for help uh no I don't know about that like but he's afraid of death but if I was on my last Resort I don't think I would go to I
12:44 might go to my mom yeah but my dad it's hard to like kind of talk to him and get through too oh like that you have a real Asian Dad I have a real age yeah the ones that don't know how to talk to anybody and they just yell at you has he ever said I love you to you ah think so real Asian Dad right Asian Dad dude yeah do you have any brothers and sisters I have a younger brother does he get the same does he have the same treatment as you have the same relationship with his dad uh yes but he had a different childhood than me like he grew up just very with a lot more freedom like my parents are a lot more uh a chill he also just like grew up just the the cool kid right he was varsity basketball team he was very outgoing
13:35 um but he didn't have sex with a porn star am I right yeah he's on the course maybe if he's a if he's a football player he ████ through future porn stars Joe's usually right when he's not though he's not but he's usually right yeah no yeah yeah he has a loving loving girlfriend yeah yeah oh yeah Joe's wrong on that one yeah or he's right he did it when he was in high school there it is he did it when he was in high school and then those girls grew up to become only fans models so what are some of his pet peeves serious question oh man what are your pet peeve
14:25 it's like you're dating him dude he's just trying to save it what's your favorite color you're talking about his ████ Varsity brother having sex with future only fan Stars when he's got a loving girlfriend like what do we do here what's the next jump off point oh ████ well this is the 14 minute Mark where we definitely turn up the heat or at least turn it back on to the guest um Nick go ahead ask him a question dude that's that's a tough spot right I'll have one for you what do you think drives you the most like what's your the thing that makes you want to keep pushing forward because that you know YouTube social media all that stuff it's like when you don't have your own boss I mean when when you are your own boss you don't have to answer to anybody yeah and that for most people is the hardest part because most people aren't self-motivated so the YouTube in a sense is actually very very difficult because you have to keep setting your own goals and push yourself right like what drives
15:16 you forward right I think it's just as seeing the freedom it has allowed allowed me to to have just the money that has come in the yeah I don't even know this internal I I guess just oh I know what I'm scared of of working a nine-to-five job really wow yeah yeah of of being just like a corporate slave have you worked nine to five though I I haven't okay it's not that bad oh it's not yeah security is kind of nice generalizing old jobs bro it ain't that bad man this is easy you should try it but is it because it brings you back to that place of like architect major and I I think I think it's just College of doing the same thing over and over with no purpose or like I'm not really seeing the impact I have on
16:07 people like if I'm working for this big corporate company I I can't see the emotion that I'm I'm like impacting another person maybe it may be my boss I'm just working for a paycheck if I'm working just for a paycheck like what's what's my like what am I doing no fulfillment so you like you like attaching kind of like meaning to what you do and then so it's difficult to do that in a big system right I see so you're you're like more like what do you call like small business mind like if you were even to do business that wasn't YouTube it would always be small business because you like to be like like try to hit for a 100 Mil or or plus just because I feel like just the amount of pressure that takes to to to to manage that many people is it's I don't
16:57 even know if I'm built for it um but like a couple mil maybe like with doing things with my close friends and just optimizing my life around enjoyment I think that's something that I want to do for like the rest of my life yeah that's not a bad way to live at all as part like you mentioned fulfillment right what's probably the most fulfilling part of your job and the things that you do right now um I think just just being able to impact a lot of a lot of people uh just from all around the world you know when people hit me up like yo Jim you you helped me change my life like I used to be a shy little version too and now you know I have a girlfriend all thanks to you right oh you know he he got one of his porn star friends to help a blind kid
17:48 lose his virginity okay hold on it was uh it was two separate videos actually oh one uh yeah he was a the blind guy wasn't a virgin like I said when Joe's right he's right when he's running hey but I thought that was very it was like philanthropic but like cool but the blind guy wasn't a virgin yeah he's saying you're what you're saying is incorrect did you get a virgin guy laid I did see but that one wasn't the blind one all right but you look so much better if the blind guy was a virgin because I had dude I didn't gotta find a blind virgin dude that's what surprises me it was to look better than the blind guy who can't look at things as much I was surprised that the Blanca wasn't a virgin that's what I'm he used to
18:43 you still came blonde he had a game before before yeah okay so well that's that doesn't count I bet if there was a blind committee there's like the hardcore ones right they were like we've been blind since birth for we don't even know what the world looks like and then the got blind committee is like I'm blind and it's like yeah but you ████ know what the world looks like you just can't see it no more yeah and then there's the god-blind version committee what are they saying Jimmy give us a ████ oh wait can you clarify it though I ████ it up for you though but he did the he sorry so he's the Virgin one the Virgin one talk about the Virgin one version one was the first series of videos I did I did with my porn star friends and basically I just set up a a
19:34 flew the guy out got a little Airbnb gave him makeover gave him some pep talk and uh yo just just go in there and and and just you know whatever happens happens right and then uh well actually no that's not how it went I I first spoke to my my porn star friend Violet I was like hey you know would you be open to doing like uh like a ████ a fan all right is that something you want under your belt and then I'm gonna turn this into like a wholesome YouTube video right and she was down so I I uh I just posted to my fan base I was like yo if there's any versions out there send in you know like fill out this uh application right and to see how virgin you are but how did you know how did you know if they were actually a
20:24 virgin or they ████ so they can get ████ right well you could you could tell if if they you know I see a picture of which one's your favorite Yu-Gi-Oh cards like that right second of all what uh what's the closest you got into to lose your virginity right and and some guys were getting ████ I'm like nah you guys you guys aren't that version yeah right I need guys who can't even speak who can't even look at a girl all right but then after we we picked a couple of guys out we had Violet uh me and violet just interview them right to see who was a real version who was who gave off like a good wholesome Vibe who deserves it yeah yeah like who's trying too hard ████ those guys yeah give me a guy that's honest I need ████ please he's begging
21:14 for it yeah and then and then we flew we we picked Kevin and then flew him out and uh yeah just all that that's nice so did he so did she like shake his hand and he come and he's like sorry can I come back tomorrow can we retract I don't know what happened to them I just left them in a room together that's sweet what age were you when you lost to Virginia I was 21. 21 yeah and after that you were just like I'm gonna ████ share this path for other people that's that's the only video I did actually no I did I did two of them but I felt like it was yeah there's a lot of guys out there who uh Buy you know just by life experience they don't uh I guess they're not hanging around with like folks that are are
22:04 getting ████ right so like you know just there's some guys that needs a little bit of like guidance right like a plane ticket and a porn star that's what it takes you know but um yeah I think back then I I just felt like you know I went through like years of like wanting it but like I I didn't have friends or I I just I was scared I was you know so I was the video I try to push this idea of like just trying to get out of your comfort zone yeah what that's what I like about their videos is that like it is fun and entertaining and it's like whoa I can't believe that's like a dream come true like you're you're able to ████ your uh when you're a fan of a porn star right but then at the end you're like oh wait like you know maybe you just got to learn how
22:54 to be a social human being and you can have an authentic relationship just go out there and start talking to people yeah and just try just just just try it as as scary as things are just just try I think when I first started just like YouTube and and just uh put putting myself out there I think I had like a lot of cripply fear of just doing ████ just talking to the hot girl talking to like the growing class you know even asking for their phone number like there was a lot of fear right but I think uh that's why I like I like the the videos that I do now and and uh it's a fact it has in other people to like kind of overcome that so if you saw like your 15 year old self right now what would you say to your 15 year old self uh yeah I'm not like just keep doing you just just keep being a virgin because
23:44 that is ultimately the the reason that I got to where I am today so I don't even think I would really change anything yeah this is part of the evolution I think so yeah if I was 50 I'd be like stop doing drugs dude start studying more yeah right [Laughter] okay
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