0:00 [Music] welcome back to a highly halfly gorgeous episode of careful boys we got Brett Maverick with us today and we got Gucci over there we uh Brett can you give us some pickup advice on like how to get girls please cuz we suck oh my God put me on the spa right here just go up and say hi that that doesn't work for you hey doesn't work for me not for me not really me some of our some of our audience are always curious about different people's methods on how to achieve this all right what was your secret if you needed one at all that is oh man I it's a numbers game baby like even even even for you even I have had my fair sh of rejections happens so you know don't get too high they blind or
0:51 something no I have a boyfriend they touch the inside of the wrist definitely she goes ooh yeah but no it's it's a numbers game so don't get too high on the UPS or the downs but also I always found it advantageous to if you're going to approach a girl like in real life give like let her know that I'm not going to be here like wasting your time be like hey I got to go in a couple minutes but I just you caught my eye so I want to say hi I'm going to meet some friends but uh just want to say hi real quick you know cuz if you're just like Hi how are you I I thought you're really pretty like she's singing ████ how long is this guy going to be around like you know it's a it's a commitment like so if you if you give her like an out like you know I just want to take 30 seconds so just be like running by a Doppler effect on your while you're
1:43 jogging justs I got to go to the bathroom in a sec but like I want to say what up I'm literally about to ████ my pants right as the elevator do is closed would you CAU my eyes I got a big tummy ache but I just got a that work I have a tummy ache I got tell I probably would like I got a dummy but like I want to get your number first some vulnerability like that's yeah [Laughter] vulnerability I got to go to the bathroom right now but before I take a massive dump I just want to let you know so I can text you when I'm on the toilet in 2 minutes please baby voice too my tummy my T Tomy that's kind of nice right off the bat Bab Baby Bo like oh he's so cute you can bag a
2:34 girl with Baby Bo man you made it I don't know from the GetGo dude that's hard the opener that's wild crazy actually I got to go soon somebody's going to make that YouTube video C your lips yeah dude did you guys used to watch Simple Pickup all remember when they had themes like it had to be like you have to use rap lyrics you have to use like Pokemon nerd stuff or whatever and I thought that was so interesting how they would would like okay you got to do that and they probably would have like a baby voice one or something if we if they were still around today they were so good they were really good we actually went out and did you know some like pickup videos with them and back then people actually did the actual work like it wasn't you didn't pay actors you didn't do oh those were all real people on the street yeah they were real like we when
3:24 we went we went to UCLA we filmed with them for like 4 hours they had cameras rigged every they were literally was like 200 in your in the middle of your hookup you're going to uh the game was to ████ block them and then so like everybody like so while I was like trying to get a girl's number or whatever one of them would come and try to ████ block me oh as then like they would try to destroy the situation be really hard how's that rash doing literally yeah it was tough but it was funny but it made it funnier yeah yeah that's awesome yeah those guys were the best approaching girls like trying to pick up girls without saying anything without saying anything well just like look like for Nick that's different than if you did it they hide their purse like hey what are you doing did
4:16 you ever have anybody teach you anything about talking to girls like personally or did you just kind of like your own trial and error yeah you had a mentor uh i' never had a mentor but like I was I I was religiously watching the videos I I read the game Neil Strauss I think everybody every young guy should read that book oh yeah that's actually like a useful that even not only helping with girls but just helps you like pick up on ████ in the social world you know in all Realms um so that's yeah one of the few things getting into getting into like the pickup content actually was transformative like one of the few transformative things like Fitness you know watching pickup content yeah did you ever do your own content about that like for in on your channel uh I've done a little bit on my Vlog Channel just like you know messing around but not a whole lot never really
5:07 what I liked about that content was what most dudes were insecure about it shatters all of it you know how they'll be like oh man it's cuz I'm 53 blah blah blah blah blah and you see there's like an example for everything that someone's insecure about someone with that like supposed insecurity smashing and getting the number by the end of the conversation and you're like oh ████ yeah when I was dating dudes yeah I was a proponent for the medium ugly short dude that was my favorite kind they were usually the funniest see that it's a better time yeah yeah yeah but then the hard medium ugly medium ugly is great dude I do think like a lot of young guys or guys that don't have experience with women they look at everything from what they know which is just a guy's point of view so they're thinking that women are
5:58 attracted by the same way just by physical looks or all these other things so when they're approaching it they're only they're only approaching from that perspective instead of understanding like the dynamic and then going like okay so they're seeing the situation completely different yeah yeah it's so much more just the vibe that you create right and then but most guys are like not socially Advanced right right so they don't they don't have that self-awareness to kind of even be aware that and also I think um there's a lot of like when you're nervous you're not really there m so you're like really in your head and then you're not paying attention to the Dynamics I can see how it's hard to to not be in your head now because like with every video that some guy is telling you to be confident and it's okay the thing that goes viral is the
6:49 street interview of a girl going you got to be 6'5 or taller for me you know what I mean like that's going to that is discouraging that's in the algorithm than the good advice so it's like a guy looks at that and goes a man six five yeah but the funny thing is like I need another foot yeah but if you go out and touch grass right if you're actually interacting with so many people you know that most people aren't even like that most people are sensible human beings they just want interactions that are good if you have enough good interactions with said person you build attraction or whatever it is yeah but like I don't know I think maybe they're just in their heads cuz they don't leave the house so they don't have enough yeah interactions with people to know that that's not normal right and it's not
7:40 like every girl out there is exactly like a downtown San Antonio 2:30 a.m. interview like that's not your average interaction period right let me say this to the ladies okay you the number one 911 phone call is domestic violence so you don't want to pick a tall big partner you want to pick someone who you can take cuz that's your opponent that's your best SP partner that is your opponent ████ get someone sensible what a take they're like so you can cut a manle a featherweight yeah yeah what what if the cops show up and they're all also very short we're need like six more you guys we're going to send our smallest Squad like oh ████
8:30 what are some what are some pickup advice that you've heard out in the world that you think is bad advice that you've heard people use as like good advice you know what I mean where you're like no dude I think like the typical be confident like that's so much easier said than done oh yeah yeah I think it's okay to have some canned openers that you use over and over again like it's fine but um yeah that's true cuz you don't build the confidence until you go through it so how do you even get people to go through it like that's true it's like it's fine if you yeah it's maybe um cuz then it's like you're it's like you're simulating false confidence right that's why the the rejection thing is really good cuz once you get rejected a bunch you're like H hey that is true what's it two what's another one you know no I still get herur then you become the Predator I'll get stronger and you
9:20 just huh yeah then you become that guy that when you get rejected you're like yeah well you're ugly anyway that's the best guy that's the besty is that a good closing line you think the best closing line and it's a good opener too are there any good like lines for when they walk away yeah like what do you think of neing I'm big on neing I don't really I don't really I haven't really dated much ever but um I'm a big I'm a big proponent on NE what do you think on what do you think oning what's your opinion on neing neing is actually useful it started like a little playful way but oh it's you got to do it right though you can't be straight up mean yeah yeah but if you're like actually doing it to like manipulate I bet you won't put your hand on my pants yeah you're a ████ oh yeah like is that good I don't think we get neing at all I
10:11 don't think that's what that is we been relationships too long I liked it though what's some good examples of neing you guys could think of is neing like I guess it's oh maybe you should explain that neing is like saying something negative disguised as a compliment or something right it's like you know what that that hair would look really good on you if you a few inches taller or something like that like a backhanded compliment I see yeah I love how close together your eyes are person work towards getting your affections yeah cuz it's like like let's say a super high chick that always gets all POS you kind of bring her down yeah and if you give her a little bit of negative attention it's supposed to make the chick go like wait what the ████ this is a weird dynamic I think I'm in love with this guy yeah and they try to yeah they want to marry you right after it's pretty manipul guess what but if you like you got to
11:03 catch the vibe that she knows you're teasing around the report is very importanta okay cuz I thought neing was like a manipulative tactic where you see a hot girl and you call her like a three and you're like I guess you're I mean yeah you would be hotter if this and you keep talking down to her so she thinks she has to win your approval yeah so I got my wife I I got Tiff she's way hotter than me dude but I just called like a two was a rough day you know and then she groped you yeah and I was like groping that's why you're so excited about it was a love yeah it's not love to you guys yeah I guess that is true like if someone's giving you advice and they're just saying be confident that doesn't really mean anything to you right it doesn't help doesn't be be yourself be
11:54 yourself yeah some people need to S sucks cuz your self- awareness has you're looking for help then being themselves probably wasn't working very well right be be the successful version of you that's a better that's a way better piece of advice I think that is yeah cuz some people are just generally creepy and they're like be myself really yeah like they need they need some help you know okay I'll I'll call her every day stand outside her house with the boo you're dating somebody right now right how did that start we actually worked at a steakhouse in college together and so we just became friends back then and oh so it's like a longterm friendship from Colorado that's cool like honestly people say this ████ like you got to be friends first I
12:45 always thought it was kind of ████ but it's actually true I think it is true maybe not for every single person but in my case it's definitely true um before their true colors first yeah without putting on your like your best exactly yeah cuz You' be bullshitting that first what year of dating yeah just and then all of a sudden you're like wait I don't like you actually like you at all yeah yeah but so we worked together we we dated a little bit but then I moved out here and then 2 years later she graduated and then moved out here too and then that's when we kind of reconnected so actually tomorrow is our four years wow out out y wow and what's your secret to a successful relationship if there is a secret I don't know just uh I say just be
13:35 confident just just be confident yeah just be yourself bro no uh like control your emotions you know like before having a girlfriend or a significant other if let's say your homie is pissing you off you can actually like kind of like flip out on them and tell you how you feel but like with you can't do that with a girl you can't you can't just storm off be like I'm not gonna deal with you you know you have to figure it out so you have to have emotional resolve and you know keep it keep it cool you don't think it's manly when you just like storm off slamming doors dude slaming doors is pretty man that's pretty that was pretty Alpha actually punching stuff that's pretty I'm not taking this anymore you're so Alpha bar you know I'm mad at you you're so I want to be like you dude storm off like that cuz where you live storm off uphill looks even funnier
14:26 yeah you just see him getting tired oh Bend forward to get to get Ste he storms off he grabs his like walking stick put on boots takes a lot of energy to storm off yeah dude got to be explosive
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