0:05 Welcome back to another episode of Careful Boys. We got Nick the ear with us. We also have Melissa the Bonos. >> Bonos the Bonos. >> Bonos. But do your Trump say Bonoseller? >> Bonos. She's one of the best. [laughter] >> She's one of the best. She supports ICE in every way. Bonos, what um this is a question for everyone, but but you're up first. What What's the uh tell me an example of a person, a type of guy that you were once attracted to that you cannot believe you were ever attracted to that ████ >> Like you cringe when you look back? >> You talking about one person or you talking about the type? >> Type. You could go type. Yeah. If it's a very specific thing, you can like elaborate on that, too. >> Is this a little bit embarrassing? >> It's supposed to be. [laughter] >> Oh, good. I think like if you're not
0:56 embarrassed, then you haven't been completely unattracted yet. [laughter] >> That's true. The likelihood is still up there. >> Oh, I see you. I see you. Um I think like the the party boy. >> The party boy. >> The party boy. The one that always wanted to go out, have a good time, was like the life of the party. The that kind of person. >> Like a like a frat guy style. >> Anthony Lee. She's saying >> Anthony Lee. I did not say that. >> Got a couple get a couple of drinks. Let's get a couple of drinks all all around. Drinks all around. >> That's your example. Party guy. >> Anthony is a life of the party. >> In my circle, he's the closest to party boy in my opinion. >> Really? Yeah. Yeah. I would say he's pretty Yeah, >> I I would agree. I would agree. >> He parties at a high level >> cuz me and this guy are pre-party sleepers.
1:46 >> Yeah, dude. I'm out. >> So, we're already out. >> Prep party sleep. Let's get Let's get early dinner. >> You and Joe are sober sober people. >> That's true. Yeah, we're we're we're a designated drivers. Yeah. >> Okay. >> Anony's a party boy on party right now. [laughter] >> So, you can't believe you've ever been attracted to a guy like Anthony Lee, beer pong champ. [laughter] >> Wow. That is not what I said. >> You know, to be fair though, like in college though, because you went to what? Calton. >> I mean, that's a lot of who you're going to meet throughout your life in college, right? >> I know. That's a typical college. Like what can you really pick out of in that in those days? >> But isn't it weird if no one went partying? >> What do you mean? >> But there are people who like went to participate and then there are people who are like driving the party like who are like a promoter the big ew I was I was never into the promoter
2:36 >> or they want to do it every sing like they didn't want to do it Thursday, they want to do it Friday, they want to do it Saturday and they want to party again next day. >> They're chasing the best. We're talking the guy that gets two beerheads goes [groaning] >> like that. >> Like, don't you have midterms tomorrow? [laughter] >> Beer pong guy, dude. >> Somehow gets an A still and you're like, >> yeah, cuz like back then I would be like, wow. Like so irresponsible and responsible at the same time. That's so cool. >> Duality. Duality of man. >> You could do both. >> That's [laughter] >> Yeah, that's Anthony, dude. >> You work hard, play hard. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> All right. Okay. What about you? I feel like you've been attracted to some girls that maybe got uh A minuses once. [laughter] >> I was What was funny, I was talking to Gio about this. Like one thing I noticed about myself that like um that I thought
3:26 was pretty funny. I think ever since I was little, probably because my parents or my mom specifically has been on my case so much, I've been pretty self-aware starting at such a young age. So, at a young age, I always knew like what I'm supposed to quote unquote do, like what the path was and how far away I'm straying from it. The whole time I know I'm going from like 0, negative 1, -2, -3, -30. Whereas, I think some of my other friends, they just got in in the wrong group and doing the wrong things, but they're just having fun. They're following fun. I'm going this way, me knowing how far away I'm straying. >> Okay? And then so even when I'm straining here and because I'm self-aware a lot, none of my relationships lasted past four months cuz it was kind of like Clayton Bsby where he dumps his wife at the end where he's like because you're a n-word lover.
4:17 >> I would Chappelle show, dude. >> You ever watch Chappelle show? >> He's a black blind KKK member. Okay. >> And he hates his wife because she loved a black man, >> but he didn't know he was black. >> Thanks. [laughter] So, I was like that where I would be dating chicks in high school and then I know that I'm a ████ scumbag. >> Something's got to be really wrong with you. >> You like me? >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Cuz I'm like, >> you're grossed out because you're grossed out about them liking you cuz you're grossed out about you. >> Cuz I knew I knew that. I'm like, why would you like >> classic? >> Why would you like this lowquality being? That means you suck. broke up with a girl because she ditched school with him and she was like, "No, but you should be telling me no." >> What the hell? >> So, none of my relationship lasted very long because
5:07 >> So, you wanted someone who didn't want you. >> Yeah, >> potentially. Yeah, we all did. >> Like, if like [laughter] if I >> This whole couch did >> like if a girl was like looked at me like uh I'd be like she got good morals. [laughter] >> So, did you take that as a challenge? Did you ever go after those women? I would try, but obviously I'm not even on their ████ radar [clears throat] >> cuz they'll be like, "What the hell? This guy's freaking what? This guy's ████ Keeps going. >> Keeps going [laughter] raally delusional. Chronically single man. Keeps throwing his ecstasy. Going for the wrong women. >> He's he's he's built for ABG, but he wants ████ study girl. Why act like study boy?" Did you ever date anybody that you met in the raving scene when you were going to raves all the time back in like n 90s?
5:57 >> There was this one chick I was kind of like seeing only maybe a handful of times. She was from the rave scene. My brain's so fried. I don't even remember how I met her, >> dude. But we started going raving together and we only our only activity was to do ecstasy and like dry hump each other at race. >> Sick, [laughter] dude. >> That's all you need when you're young. >> Was she Korean? >> That's all you need. Half white, half Korean. >> Oh, >> why? Did you know someone like that? Did you know someone like that? >> Kind of. But she wasn't half white. >> But Koreans love raving. Korean dry humper. Yeah, I know. [laughter] >> Oh man, that's funny. Oh, you know, and ironically, her name's Molly. >> No way. >> Four Mollies were a thing. >> Whoa. The girl I know is named MDMA. [laughter]
6:50 >> You're stupid, dude. >> MDMA Kim >> had me for a second. [laughter] >> MDMA Kim. >> Her sister was Esther. [laughter] >> Yeah, >> dude. All right. [snorts] Yeah, I know you've dated some freaks. [laughter] And I and I liked all of them. [laughter] >> Which which one's the one that you're like, "What was I thinking?" >> No, not really. >> That's just all them thinking about it. [laughter] [gasps] >> I do think though, like So, there was one girl who I I was like 19 and then like I was like, I could have sworn we were going to get ████ married. But I feel like at that age, you think that about every girl you were in a long-term relationship with. I swear we were going to get ████ married. And then the next one, I swear I was going to get married. So I cringe at myself thinking
7:43 that that was going to be the end. >> Cringe at your own like way of seeing it. >> Like cuz cuz I'm so in it that like she's the only one that could have ever ████ been best wifey, you know? >> Right. >> And then but we're still growing as people. Like she's going to change. I'm going to change. But I cringe at how I was back then. Like thinking like I missed the love of my life. Oh no, the chat. Oh my god. We were supposed to ████ be a family. >> To be like to be 15 and be like I just ████ my whole life. >> Yeah. >> I'm done. >> That's how you feel though. >> That's how you feel at that age though. >> Who am I going to marry now? >> Who's going to understand me like that? >> So funny to think that it weighs so heavily at those ages where it's like you're meant to make mistakes. >> Yeah. But looking back I'm like we were bad for each other.
8:34 Like, and women kind of like mature way ████ quicker than guys. They think about, oh ████ what are we gonna Yeah. Like, we can't just be ████ driving around like doing drugs all day and like like most girls, right? >> Like they're like, we got to What are you doing? You know, most [laughter] girls >> Yeah. What do we do? Like, guys could literally >> be a basement dweller as long as they're getting some puss and some Uber Eats. I could relive the same day for months >> every day there. [laughter] >> That's heaven. >> I'm playing games, video games. I'm hanging out with my friends. >> I got weed. I got ████ >> Why do I need to retire? I'm already in heaven. [laughter] >> I'm already in heaven. >> Yeah. >> And she's thinking about, I think we should grow up. For what? Get a job. For why? So we could like do this. I'm like,
9:26 >> for [laughter] why? >> For why? Right. Maybe that's why you should be going to school. >> I'm like, but I'm already in freedom. Why do I want to trap myself? >> The internet's not even invented yet. [laughter] I'm in heaven now. I'm in heaven. Yeah. What the ████ It's just going to get better, [laughter] >> right? >> Just so optimistic, >> right? >> I know. Isn't it so? >> But that's how stupid young guys are, right? Where it's like, we got everything we need. And then girls are like, we still live with your ████ mom. And I'm like, "Yeah, free rent. [laughter] >> She's cooking for us every night." >> And it's like, "And plus." And at the time I was like, "And plus I'm selling pounds now, not ounces, >> dude." >> Yeah. So I'm like, "I got I got money." And it's like it's at that it's not serious money. >> At that time, did you think you were
10:16 going to be doing that for the rest of your life or did you think that eventually you're going to grow your business or something? Like did you even think that far or you just like eh this is what works right now? I just thought I was going to expand what I'm already doing. >> Okay. >> So, you thought your enterprise would just grow, >> which was true for a lot of my friends that continue that route. >> That is true. >> They have grow operations and they they held it out to the point where we became super legal and they're legitimate. >> Yeah, >> that's cool. >> And then I would have probably rolled with them if I stayed that way. But my girlfriend had to ████ break up with me and ruin my life >> and I became a YouTube clown >> and here we are. [laughter] I think. >> So, you're saying you're a quitter? >> Yeah. Major loser. >> But I do think that the women that I was with at that time were never good for me
11:07 >> and I was not good for them. >> So, it was always mismatched. >> It's almost like being with a crackhead and you're a crackhead. Well, we didn't do crack, but it's like too like >> Yeah. >> And it and it and it was I think it was so much better that >> like the girl that I was with at the time matured up and she was older than me. I was like 19, she was 23. So I think her mind is like I can't be doing stupid ████ >> you know? Like and plus this ████ 19-year-old can't even go into the club with me. Like what am I doing with a 19-year-old, you know? >> And then Yeah. So, I think it was good for me to wise up like, "Oh, s███." And she's like, "In a couple years after, I think she got married." >> Cuz none of those none of those girls you were with ever was a matchup where you both became better from being together. It was always like, >> "No, we we had so much fun. We were always doing bad ████ and not living
12:00 like not being responsible. >> So, we're too enabling of like, yeah, let's stay up all night and ████ hang out and do nothing. >> It's fun. and it's just not good. Okay. All right. Well, that's a that's actually a nicer answer than I thought you'd have. [laughter]
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