0:00 so now I base people's guts on their track record so if this person has trusted a gut trust their God trust their gut then I will tell this person you know what I need to trust your gut oh because they have a good gut some someone's like trust or God trust her God [Music] welcome back to another very serious episode of careful boys we have geo with us today wow lucky for us um traditional what a pickup take a second and think about this all right what is the worst advice you ever gave somebody oh did I ever gave someone like something that you try to help with and you said the wrong thing and they did what you said and you went just be yourself just be you how did that backfire no I don't know you know what
0:51 um I don't I don't know the instance uh but um now I don't say this anymore so before I used to go like when people oh should I do I'm like whatever whatever I'm stuck between this yeah ruin this whatever and I'll be like I would just trust your gut that's what I would used to say oh but now I realize some people got stupid guys so now I on their track record so if this person has trusted a gut trust their God trust their gut then I will tell this person you know what I need to trust your gut oh because they have a good gut some someone's like trust their God trust her God I go what does your gut say and they're like this I go dude that other one other thing why don't you just take out why don't you just take out the middle man and be like trust your track record
1:46 do you make the best decision when it comes to dating partners no then don't ████ trust your God this new guy you're talking about I wouldn't don't hate him yeah cause before you you just blindly believe it right and you're like okay cool because I think when people are giving advice they're they're also going this works for me right should work for you and then you start to realize like not everyone's the same or in different places some people might be smarter than you or dumber than you at certain things and then I was like oh actually this blanket this whole blanket rule thing is not a great idea I stopped giving advice for that reason why what did you do because what's in your head they can't execute it so like if you is there a situation that you did a thing no it's like repeated like so you know like as you grow you start changing your
2:39 beliefs right about the world so like for example if you're smart was um resources to get to where they want to be right so all they so maybe some people don't have access to it so then if you have a friend that's like man all I wanted to do was ████ be a gymnast or whatever and you're like well guess what I know a buddy with a gymnastics gym that'll probably let you train for free this and that and just set them all up for ████ success and then the one thing that's missing is self-determination or something there's other things that can't get them there even though you give them all this ████ to ████ succeed and then that's when I realized oh ████ I was so wrong like there's so much independent motivation needed in order for someone to actually
3:29 get to where they want to be and all that and I'm all like everyone just gotta ████ do their own ████ and stop bothering me and asking me questions that's kind of true though no but that's also a thing too where it's like you you you always want to pass on what you wished you had so for you you probably had a determination you're like I just don't have the resources I know what you need but then this person's lacking like 12 other things too yeah like ████ because I thought that that was the route that worked out for me yeah yeah so then I think oh that's what yeah but maybe they needed motivation or something else yeah one of the uh worst advice I gave was uh so like I took note of things that were happening in my life because I when I did so you think you could dance season one I remembered that everybody in our cast of top 16 finalists had almost everybody had like a significant other going into it oh wow the stress of doing
4:19 the show was so high and and the time commitments and everything that uh every almost everybody broke up with whoever they were with because it was so hard you know like things were just crazy I mean how come they're not being supportive and all the other contestants were so fine I think it was a different time where like you know dancers on a TV show like that was very new that was like the first one of that nature where like you were sequestered it was like a reality show type thing so it was different and so season when season three came around uh and this is like so I've I messed up because I said this is D-Trix and he still blames me for this uh we were he got on as you should yeah as he should his he he's on the show he makes it as a finalist we're at like one of the first dinners uh I'm with him and he's like talk to me about advice on the show and stuff and I was like dude just let you know man everybody that was on the show
5:09 with a girlfriend didn't work out everybody broke up and he goes oh okay all right he goes and breaks up with his girl oh that is not your fault that's not advice you're giving him data from your experience they had like no problems and he goes yeah Ryan told me that uh you know it's uh thanks for getting my back dude yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah you didn't do anything wrong he broke up with her and then he hit me up like right after he's all hey I did what you said you know I broke up with her and I was like no way I didn't think he was gonna break I was just telling him like yo you know it's probably better that like if you go in single you can focus on this oh so you did so you did kind of I said that I didn't think he would do it I just I would just say like you're his friend if you tell me right now hey drop bar I'd
5:59 be like oh ████ he's my friend he wants my best interest in mine no but for sure yeah so he like for sure like at like right it is your fault pre-season really good like I mean he was the top 20 I just started like I love how they're in a perfect relationship like gotta shake this ████ off of me this dead weight to this day I can't dance with all this anchor he still tells the story like when he goes down his relationships he still tells Yeah I broke up with her because Ryan told me it was better but he seems like he's in such a happy relationship yeah he's good does that ex-girlfriend know this story I I you know what's crazy I feel like he broke up with her and told her like what I said oh my God I'm not sure I don't know if that's true I don't know if he's just like trying to like stab me further but like when he says it
6:49 I think I think he told her that I gave him that advice or is he trying to protect himself maybe I don't know that's another thing too is like you can give advice and they might twist what was said and they might make a different action out of it and go you told me to ████ do this I mean he directly did the thing I said specifically I mean in your case you're wrong assistance in your case you're wrong but there's there's so many things like that that do go down though that's what I realized too people got their own algorithms you say something right and then if they got a stupid ass like I'll go in like uh you know Alex ramosi he's like this guy is crushing with like business advice everything he he gives is ████ bars I go in the comments thinking everyone's like oh thank you for helping me with my life whatever there's people that are ████ arguing yeah criticizing it yeah and they're like bro do you have nine figures yeah this guy's giving you free
7:39 advice but your own stupid ass algorithm can't see the true content no because he's from his mom's basement going like dude as a business as an economics major you don't know ████ bro yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah that's why it's tough because like that context is everything like I even with my journey on the same thing that Joe said when I got older I was like I stopped saying advice to people because people like oh I want some advice to be like I'm not going to give you advice I'll give you my opinion and I was like okay cool that's my safe way of protecting myself so I don't put somebody in that position but then you still got ████ that you don't know right so like for example we was obviously in crypto last year right and ████ like Luna rest in peace she was killing it right so obviously it's just killing it people just like yo you in crypto so I remember my cousin was like yeah what are you doing what are you doing I was like Yo dude I mean this thing called Luna we've ████ kind of ripping it right but that's the hard thing it was
8:29 something like crypto it's like you could be like like dude this crypto is Bomb but if somebody doesn't do something and they buy it like at the top you know what I mean at the time you told them they waited a month or something yeah but like that that ████ sticks to you it like it makes you feel really really bad right so it wasn't just like him it was like next thing you know a week later he's like Yo dude I told my buddy he just put in 10 grand and I'm sitting there and I'm like uh and then literally everything starts to ████ crash and stuff like that you know what I mean that now you're just sitting in a pool of like this kind of guilt where you're like oh if I would have just not told anyone that's why I told people don't tell anybody you know what I'm saying like you guys want to help all your friends because you told people not to tell anybody because well but yeah all the time when people go up it's all good but when things go down you know what I mean you're like man I I really hope that you know it's not my fault but you you're
9:20 gonna get that guilt no matter what so that's that's why advice or whatever it's so complex but and it's also just dangerous the older you get you just want to just hold on to your own ████ you know you never gave you guys never gave blatantly wrong advice that you regret like in your earlier years of not being careful I'm pretty sure all of us has but we don't remember yeah because you're constantly changing your things of what you believe is right so in the moment when you believe something is right and someone asks you that you genuinely want to help you go oh I got this ████ new thing man that I want to tell you about because I just found out and then you just go yeah yeah and then you forget everyone goes on with their days they forget that they grow grow they don't think that the way that they used to and then you probably affected so many people around you with bad advice well that's like every time we were SDA and trying to power witness to people our witness yeah that was bad
10:11 advice right that's true telling other religions that they were doing it wrong yeah yeah that's a hundred percent true and then we all no one has I don't think people remember their uh faults much or what they've done wrong or who they used to be yeah I think that's we're not capable of doing that because you can't grow and progress if you hold on to your old beliefs of who that's that's the crazy thing is I don't even think I would have remembered saying that to Dietrich unless he told me and then and because like sometimes you don't even know you're giving advice well it's not even like I was just talking because it's not a fault unless someone tells you it's a fault or unless like you see it happening almost like no one tells you yeah right you don't know and then you don't see the effects of like the other way too right sometimes somebody be coming up to you and be like yo I'm glad you told me this because I did this invala and things worked out and you're like I said that yeah yeah
11:01 yeah true true yeah yeah yeah yeah you just like Ryan said sometimes you think you're just having conversation you're not necessarily trying to like ████ see into the future for somebody's ████ soul you know what I mean and making judgment calls and stuff like you're really just talking about stuff from your perspective but once you said that to dietrichs like your intention wasn't to be like oh you should break up with her I mean it wouldn't have mattered to me whether he did or not I was just like saying I was just it's like saying it's like the same outcome but like saying a difference is it's different from being like I think you should break up with her but it's like yo everybody did really well when they like was single and focused yeah and it is true but say certain things you once it leaves
11:51 your mouth it's out of your response like it's not your responsibility algorithm yeah like they perceive it a completely different way based on their own experiences so it's like once it leaves your mouth it's not like one of the most beautiful fall one of the most beautiful things we witnessed here was uh men from what's a mortgage remember like when he went bankrupt like yeah the second time and you could bring the ████ data and go like hey you know usually you're more successful if you're more single focused on your own ████ yeah they have their own talk the the wife is like you know what like the only the only way to get out of this hole is if you don't have husband and you don't have wife duties I'm gonna take our son we're gonna go we're gonna go I'm gonna take care of him you spend 24 hours a ████ day for however long you need to get out of this hole and then so that could that could have been the other D-Trix conversation hey like I this is what this is the day that I got maybe
12:42 for this season um what like I'll talk to you when I can but I'm really gonna try to smash this ████ show and then they could have came out way stronger had he had that algorithm you know yeah but everyone processed things at the ████ just giving advice right now by the way no no never never never trust your God everybody especially like crazy your gut's gonna take you in the right direction you're ████ like crazy it relieves people of personal responsibility when you have someone that gives you like a road map and then you take it and you go I followed your road map and it failed you son of a ████ and it's like they never have to take a uh responsibility for those actions because they took someone else's advice oh yeah it's true yeah Ryan told me to do it or whatever you know it's like whatever happened to you with something when people came back
13:32 and was like yo you told me this and you're like I did Joe I thought you were talking to him well this is why I don't talk too much about investment advice and things like that because I did I did want to share financial advisor I did want to share with like hey I'm doing this I'm doing that like I'm into this like I I do talk about the coins that I was into and whatever and then like I'm like hey I think this is a good buy for whatever reasons but I never say the words you should buy it too because every single person has different levels of what they can stomach their risk tolerance what their situation is like if you're making like you know two grand a month is it wise to put two grand a month into crypto probably not but if you're making oh ████ but if you're making a hundred grand a month and you can stomach throwing away two grand a month on
14:22 crypto maybe that's okay with you right so like two grand so it's like it's ratio it's depending it's every person has the has this like ability to either do or not do and I have to assess that first from every person and for everything being like relationships and whatever if they're asking me a genuine question that they want me to answer like truthfully then I I think what I try to do now is to see if like what stage they are in and what would be appropriate for them instead of me going like this is what will work for me and it should probably work for you yeah there's still only one piece of advice that I still kind of sometimes give to my homies and stuff like that anytime one of my homies is like you know oh I'm dating somebody new I'm the issue a Vietnamese girl and then they're like yes I'm gonna and then I'm just like be careful because that's even what Clinton Jackson
15:12 says Quinn Jackson says he loves Asian chicks but he stays away from the Vietnamese ones I just said be careful it doesn't that's done yeah it's very neutral huh this is my opinion I don't know you don't go be careful I go check the track record man shake the gut health you know on the other side um there I have been blamed for not following advice which is pretty crazy what advice like some of my homies got mad at me so I think like for uh for me like the way that I like to like um formulate like my ideas I'll have like a notion of something and then I'll ask different people that I think have different perspectives on it so that I can get the most well-rounded oh okay right like so when I first got into like the best game or whatever I'm like okay Steve what do you think then he's like
16:02 super into crypto I'll ask people super into real estate people are super into stocks conservative risk like everything right now I go all the way around and then I go okay cool and then of course when when you're speaking to every single one none of those people think you're talking to 90 other people so they just tell you and then they might think you're an ████ like wait I literally told you oh right right right you're not doing that exact thing but then I'm talking to 90 other people to formulate what I think is the best yeah and uh I'm talking about Steve right no no this is Early College in Early College I would have friends that would be like and it ended up being like a consensus in the group Bart never listens to us but then I'm like no no you guys don't understand I'm not an ████ because I don't keep coming back with the same problem because that's what ████ is right like give me advice you give me advice they just want to vent I I am evolving but I'm not evolving in the way you're
16:53 telling me it's I get everything one person and then I go oh okay I think okay I think this way fits me but then so I'm still I'm not staying in the same place I'm actually moving but and people wouldn't get mad at me for not each following every single one but all I'm like all of you guys literally are given contradictory advice though and that's good yeah that's how like a good idea forms a good perspective yeah you get a rough Rock and you're all of us polish it a different way and I have this new thing to take on that's true that's probably the best way to but once you open up the door with advice right like depending on who's giving you that advice they're giving you a piece of themselves so now they're invested into your actions that's true because it's like if you now it's like hey I told you something now you might validate me being wrong or right depending on how you make actions and then it's like oh then they get insecure of like oh maybe
17:43 you think I'm stupid that's why you didn't follow what I said you know and so I think it's also dependent on like can the person giving you this advice also deal with your actions there's just so much annoying it is there's so much ████ people say ████ personal though yeah it is it's really true that's true I've been telling this guy that's like sitting right there gotta move to Vegas gotta move to Vegas gotta move to Vegas got him into Vegas what the ████ you don't care about your wife you don't care about your family you don't care about your future I'm just polishing a rock the right way by getting a bunch of advice hey that's good so he's gonna move to the point in between all the places here I am in beautiful Marsh all right Eddie Bauer fifty percent off every day
18:35 kid just complex Victorville that's amazing I heard that there's really good break dancing schools for kids in Las Vegas oh there is yeah District yeah absolutely all the dishes yeah absolutely yeah but that don't make Vegas that tight yeah it does well I'm just saying if you guys want a job there's break dancing schools that are highly recognized I'm moving that's the biggest because I need work at a break dancing school moving there because you need a house that's good not house lessons house music there is a community called Terra Luna we've seen it there is it's still there and I was so gonna buy a place there you ████ troll just to be funny yeah
19:27 there's one called Solana too there's a bunch of that's a bunch of like crypto named communities I gotta pee we're gonna cut [Laughter] must be bad dude [Music] thank you
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