0:00 you gotta do the sandwich technique you gotta go compliment neg compliment and then it's I think you go up and you're like hi I like bigger girls but if it's kind of your jam and you're being honest yeah don't say it and don't say it [Music] welcome back to careful boys we are very careful boys and today we are talking indeed about who in this room has the most RIS oh Riz rizz Factor are we going on a scale from one to ten or is that unrizzly like a to z like Anthony to Z it's like one you're like you know it is at all and ten you're the rizzler the rizzler can I can I start with uh 10 I think Anthony Lee is like a 9.5 dude
0:51 yeah on a scale of 100 yeah no no dude you're very I think you're you're reaching the rizzler status and I think Ryan is probably like not far behind you know I'm too short to be the reason can we just comment on the the the Riz fit right here I'm pretty that is pretty very so I might say this is insecurity yeah but I disagree with that all right yeah I disagree that's like over security Colleen you think you got the ribs bro no I think I mean like look look at Steve no no stop don't deflect dude it's you or Steve I did bring it up I am fishing for compromise I just set it up for yourself can you imagine I mean either one of you can sell me mushrooms so that's true I think me though no no Steve's got the hard stuff I the way I'm dressed today I got the light stuff I got this little
1:41 sideburns baby yeah he's the candidate I got the edible shiitake stuff it's not that Rizzy yeah you're like more of a farmer yeah but you're not dressed like it nah but that's what contrasts the farm life so then it's like Rizzy that's true it's very rich did you guys know what rizz was until like a Week Ago by the way because I still don't really know at the gym there's this kid who's seven he's 16 and he's always uh talking all this slang the new slang so he keeps us young and he keeps us on he's like bet yeah he calls it facts he drives a ranger over his dad his dad's car right and he calls it the RIS Rover and I go oh pretty good did you punch him in the face every day we punch him so RIS means range apparently so rizz is like that cringe word swag yeah it's like a word for when
2:33 um like you can turn the tide in your favor so where someone wouldn't be default attracted to you you can do something to change that I think that's a cool word so like you could be like ugly but you could have rizz yeah exactly so you could be rizz list and then develop Riz with work Yeah Yeah by ringing the game well we know we know some people who could probably use a little bit of wrists first and last name go ahead uh I don't remember the name but there's there's a couple people who are like hey I really need to like learn how to date people and Walter is that his name yeah Walter Walter there you go yeah Walter that's not offensive that I said his name right and we talked about it here right you guys are looking at me like I mean who's gonna turn down more risks he's
3:24 developing the rich he's literally going on his risk page out in Korea he does say that quite a bit right he's always talking about how he wants to get with somebody yeah he specifically is like going so what's some advice that you would give somebody I would say don't talk about it like I do I don't really yeah don't ever give advice on rizz either you have it or you don't is that what you is that what you mean is that I think no you gotta watch pickup Artistry don't talk about how to just watch if you had a zero RIS right you watch the pickup Artistry you can get at least a 10. would you say but you have to have a big hat your hat would you say it as peacocking it's a piece of flair I don't know if the Hat's the peacock on it I know you need a fuzzy Jamiroquai one if you're gonna enter that conversation Big Frame glasses I would call my hat sarcasm and I would call my outfit sarcasm yeah if I could call them anything but do you do
4:16 you feel like you give off unintended rizz from your outfit I mean chicks boys are like hey I want to ████ you real bad so I'm like I'm married man so that's the opposite yeah they're just soaking yeah yeah this is tequil it by Slade dictionary Riz r-i-z-z all right it's Charisma is a slang term for skill in Charming or seducing a potential romantic partner especially through verbal communication it is most commonly applied in the context of men pursuing women but not always sex appeal appeal yeah basically I think that Joe has an understated amount of risk because I've seen you well especially when we were hooking up with chicks back in the Disney look at that smile dude look at that smile Joe has a very casual and like cool yeah there's no desperation there will never be desperation yeah he's just very like I
5:06 don't know take me or leave me like we'll see what happens Joe's like we should hang out and maybe you could come sit on my face sometime or something like that yeah and he's not even excited about it he's like yeah is that a Joe line might be like do you like cream pies no one talks to me so straight up you must be just an honest person how refreshing that's literally like what it is I think guys are trying so hard to be like oh yeah oh we're gonna get married and then it's like she's like you're lying for stop let's stop ████ trying that's not right you're just a genuinely likable Guy rizz is when you're a scumbag and you're like putting on them it's an intent it rizz is all intent I thought it rizz is like you just like are mad you just have all this ████
5:56 energy and the chicks just want to ████ up Maybe not maybe not scumbag but like it doesn't count as rizz unless you're calling it it's like a side pocket shot it's like you got to be like all right check this out and then you have to do the thing but if you're just a cool guy that's just good for you if you're just a cool guy you might still have some I don't have rizz then that's just being genuine that's actually cool like you I wouldn't call it rizz but he was just that Coachella that's kind of that's a Risley Bear right there traveling and all you had was rizz because they don't give a ████ about who you are or what you do it's like all you can do is like put your best don't reminisce like that dude shot forward it's like that especially when you travel overseas and you're like hola
6:46 the way you look at me makes me inspired I feel like real rizz is capturing or is it captivating someone that has does not want to even pay attention to at all I didn't know that it was Guy specific and it was it was with dating it's I think it's just a new slang term for game I think we don't know what it is I heard hey look I'm pretty sure I just read the definition from the 16 year old kid that I know he says it's short for Charisma oh okay that kind of makes sense now we say isma for that but Chris was not intentional though right prison is like exactly rizz is like manufactured Charisma I think some people can't manufacture Charisma it's like he got game like I'm saying I'm guessing if somebody's spitting game like literally spinning game on somebody but Apple's risen out has a guy used a line on you and it worked what kind of rizz has the guy use the line on you
7:38 Anthony did it to me I'm the authority here um no we're asking you Colleen no I I kind of wanted to hear your answer no no one's ever no one's ever no one's ever shot a shot at me except Jocko Jacko will Nick at my dreams honestly he could have had more race dude I could have talked me into it in my dream but he was too he was too heavy-handed the funny the funny thing is some guys are so dumb that they really think like so many women already like you before you've even said something and then you just credit your own verbal communication to that's why she likes me but she ████ made a decision prior to you open your damn mouth yeah sometimes it's like it's like a thing where they go oh I really said all the right things it's like bro she liked you because you were 5 11. yeah so
8:28 be five eleven you have all the Rings the coolest thing I ever did and I had a 100 success rate with it but I only did it twice was I was at a bar and there's a chick across the way and I see her her look at me twice and then I I was like and she gets up and you ████ walks over and sits down next is that sick all you did was get up and leave because then you knew she had trauma you're like whoa what kind of chair were you sitting in stool and I think in a stool you look like you're five eleven enough that could be what it is it could be just not the fact that yeah what if it was a pair of a pair of Sharper Image massage chairs that makes a little more
9:19 sense I'm hey I'm rushing over there dude okay I got this one primed for you more incentive you got it you got the heat it's already hot yeah second time I did it the chick comes over right and she sits down next to me and then she's like Oh I thought you were getting up and leaving him I have my friend over there and I was like yo like come over here so when that when that lady came over and sat next to you what was the first thing that you guys said to each other I went in your head where you're like I can't I can't I can't believe this is working I can't believe this is working I was like so what's your name what do you do what do you do for a living your beers and she's like I want to sit here those
10:09 rings that are already easy to spill like a martini you know what coinbase doesn't have good liquidity thank you do you guys think do you guys believe that Riz actually like for what it means actually leads to Quality relationships with people I don't even know what the ████ it is still you read the definition I read the definition he wasn't listening to you it's almost like intent I know but like manipulation intent right is that what is I don't I don't think it's that manipulate I honestly just think it's a new age word for like spitting game yeah okay I'm calling this to careful let's try to figure out what is it I believe confused because like even game is like most women kind of know they're being gamed and it doesn't I don't know if
11:01 that leads to like the right thing like if you're just trying to hook up yeah like be cool but then like most meaningful relationships kind of didn't start that way right I think there's innocent game spitting did you spit game at Nina when you were like yeah I definitely acted way different for example I was just nice the whole time um I like it's uh she was in Irvine at the times and I was in LA so even just the the choice for me to drive to Irvine to spend even a small amount of time I feel like it was already like whoa you know what I'm saying like I'm supposed to be busy like doing my work or whatever and then I'm still visiting her while she's like in between like classes or some ████ like that but the reality is Anthony's just getting ready and he's waiting four hours it's like finally let's go and then there's also like uh not uh proves not the right word but like not
11:52 being like uh you know sexual or ████ for quite some time like taking things slow even though I was making the effort to be present or be around or like even if things would get close or things would be like intimate still not making moves like that and just giving it space you know what I mean therefore like because you're not getting physical of course you have to be like just talking in a very charismatic way so I feel like that was like part of the game to like not give it up quickly because I was also just trying to figure it out for myself too you know but she was like a Target you had in your stuff he's not easy you were like I needed to get closer I think when I made the decision to try yeah that was it like that's that's the call because it was such an effort this guy's ████ Top Gun dude you sound like Michael Jordan right now in game seven you're like I decided I'm gonna win this game I had the flu you know no just kidding that's sick though yeah but what's the difference between game and just flirting
12:43 you know what I think I think at the end of the day it's really important to just be yourself I feel like uh everybody can flirt but not everybody has game oh 100 you gotta find your style though I think some people yeah they need to use next line but you need to it needs to sound like it's you you got to be self-aware a little bit right you gotta know where your strengths are I want to use this hate sounding like this hate sounding like this guy but he's right yeah dude but it's alive I think whatever you got to do to find your comfort zone when you're speaking to someone you do have to be comfortable with yourself sure yeah that's cute okay you guys don't believe the pickup artist stuff you just gotta I actually don't believe you just gotta break them down so they feel like there are three so
13:33 then yeah I don't I don't they'll get with you I find it hilarious I don't believe it leads to Quality relationships I think you might get that day done but again I think half the game is is uh to the credit of the girl she already wanted you and you're just a lot of dudes miscredit themselves can I say I think negging is a short-term strategy you imply that you that you use for a little bit of time you don't you don't do it all the time so the guy with one relationship like yeah that's how I got him now that's how I got him come on oh man that me up nagging leaves to picking because weirdo dude yeah but you're just gonna get some ████ negging leads to jeggings like you're getting pegged jagging is not good do you do you negative just for playfulness sometimes early on yeah a little bit but like in a in a very over-the-top like jokey way
14:24 you're busting balls right you're busting balls dude busting balls is like my love language I ████ love but you know what that's I think busting balls is a harder art than just being like a good person I think that's like way like you that's a finer line I think most dudes miss the mark like pretty bad that's black belt ████ yeah because also a lot of women are like uh they don't want to be uncomfortable either and they'll just kind of laugh it off but they really don't like it you know what I mean like some dudes are just really laying it in wrong and they're just trying to get through the conversation straight up crying yeah I see that I see that a lot where they're just like they just want to be a pleasant person so they're just going with it's like oh I didn't like that you gotta do the sandwich technique you gotta go compliment neg compliment and then it's a nice face not a lot of medium sandwiches hate your arms great legs great Jegs yeah
15:17 well when you say it like that I it makes me question my own Theory I think you go up and you're like hi I like bigger girls yeah don't say it don't say it no but then it's like and it's like oh hold on a second I was trying to nag you my intention was to Nay but now I just sound like an ass to be fair like nagging is a freaking that is a key tactic for getting traumatized girls I hate to say it but if you're damaged goods that is you flock to that yeah dude daddy issues is my thing too daddy issues daddy issues is the baddest hack that's the baddest it really is my thing it's I think you should go to jail for exploiting daddy issues I know are we feeling awesome at least there's no law but when they but when they actually get
16:09 it that's a handful for them like when they actually get it's a handful for them it's like they're only choosing based on looks Colleen can I ask you a question can you just help us out a little bit bro like can you just give us some insight because I feel like you have the secrets to the book but you're not sharing it with them she's not gonna sell out her entire you kind of have to bro I mean going back to what you said so beautifully I think if you're just authentic get into the ████ point no I mean to be honest it really helps if if she's already attracted to you first I mean that's just kind of what it is damn so it's all about looks it gets your foot in the door yeah for sure for sure it makes a lot easier but
17:00 you get when your foot's on the door you could still give a woman another uh phrase that I've heard the ick yeah absolutely that's what I push your foot out the door yeah and that's even harder right because and then deadbolt it and then deadbolt it yeah has you ever had a friend what what that what that was your friend but then he became something more yeah have you turned a friend zone into a man man Zone man Zone what is a man Zone you've never been to the man song yeah it's a man Zone you've never been in the man Zone oh my God he's never been to the man are you actually being serious the man zone is the place that men take you when they're courting you yeah yeah it does yeah step into the man it's usually in the back of Discovery Zone now it's called the RIS zone so
17:50 yeah that's happened to you to the band Zone yeah because in one and you know friend zone they're the friend they're not they're not a mate they're not your partner right but a man's own is ooh that's a man yeah yeah oh yeah oh I could I could make my life with this man yep and then when you get with them that's the danger zone you know do you believe that opposite sex uh hetero best friends can be best friends to them exactly yep and if they're gay that's very honest answer I just said hetero yeah you called it gay they're gay that's true too it's true if you're not attracted to them and nobody has risk negative rizz relationship yeah I think that helps right if the other person
18:41 just has no game at all how do you um how does someone find attracted to you then like it's like yeah yeah it's like most guys are invisible has you ever had has he ever known anybody because you know I'll tell you what I'll tell you what I feel like guys become attractive to some women like it's like it's not the same where it's not it's like guys don't like they'll do a yoga thing and she goes I'm marrying her yeah we're like I don't hear the same love at first sight I'm marrying him thing from women so how do you capture that you gotta do stuff around the house you gotta like um but you gotta get in the house
19:33 [Laughter] he's already telling us what Tim wants in the marriage I don't know dude and it's like you gotta get married first it's not that's not where my examples are it's not it's not carrier into the house you gotta make sure you close all the cabinets when you're done you got to go hey your Amazon packages arrived yeah you gotta pick it up so how do you get noticed in the first place by women for them to even find you attractive it's like you're not just married to them yeah dude I don't know like maybe like take care of yourself a little bit good hygiene you know 5 11.00 yeah yeah damn it I don't have anything we got five eleven seated we got a circus
20:23 freaked how important is height I feel like height is like constantly throwed in there and um it's a preference it's a preference so like so that's like a foot in the door thing because that has nothing to do with somebody's like character you're just like I I can see the diff why come you guys get all hung up on that one there are unicorns that really don't care but we already know that it's the ████ first thing Hannah's taller than me I I'm dated shorter guys before so how'd you feel about it where are they now dead did you hear the way she talked about it she threw it away they were in a ditch she rolled her eyes they got no Blues they got no ribs the skulls got no skin on it but how short though like an inch shorter uh like could you wear heels okay
21:25 very good [Music]
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