0:01 I'll say it. My wife over. Come on, dude. You almost had it. You welcome back to Careful Boys. Today we're talk It feels like I'm teaching a seminar. Thank you, teacher. Teacher Steve. Mr. Green. Teacher Green. Mr. Green. Can I go to the bathroom? No. Today we're talking about are our wives overrated or underrated? What? Are our wives underrated? Overrated. Underrated. underrated everything. I say underrated for me. Underrated. Yeah. I always tell her that. I always say I always tell her you're a steal. That's always on. You're slept on. You're slept on. I always say that. Man, this is a wholeing simp ass channel. But I like it cuz everyone's true about it. Yeah, true. Yeah, I am a s. I'm a s at heart. The way you guys love the your wives, man. It makes me sick. You love
0:51 your wife. Yeah, I do. Like crazy. You want to admit it, though? Huh? You want ad? I just admitted it. Did you say she's underrated, though? Would you say Look at the camera. Look in the camera. Say, "I love you, Hannah." Say it. I love a Hannah so much. Oh, dude. You You hid behind the accent. I know. I'm scared. It's not for you, Anthony. That private. I said, "Look at the camera." Yeah. You better. I don't do that ████ You do it. Do it in your real voice. I love you. You can't do it either. Trying to tell me to do something you can't do. They'll never see this video. That's the thing. Yeah. They They don't subscribe. These videos aren't for them. They don't support. They're overrated. I I did see like some comments though that the few women viewers that we do have, they're like, "It is so refreshing to see a channel full of guys talking about like the their wives the way you guys do cuz nobody does that." And I was like
1:42 thinking like really like no other podcast or whatever does that. Maybe cuz they're not as ████ lame as us. Yeah, we're all we're this is a sim channel. Say you love Tiff in your voice. Your real Yeah. In your real I love going I love you Tiff. Tiffany, I love you with all my heart. Oh my god, that is so funny, man. You just gave me stomach. You might as well be like, "Nice lady with the hair and the dress. I love you, beautiful." No, dude. Now, once again, she'll never watch this. I I'll ask you guys this. So, um, a lot of people, a lot of people they talk ████ like about their partner, right? We do. We do. We do. We for sure do. That's half this channel. No, not us, brother. Like to the point where like, no, real talk. Like when you're just meeting strangers and they're trauma dumping on you and
2:33 then or like and then you're just like Oh, yeah. That's true. Why the ████ do you have to say that about your wife? You're weird. Or like the way they connect is by ████ on their partner. I usually egg them on. That's what I do. That's very sad to hear. But what I realized is um don't ever say positive ████ that you're doing well in front of these people. M why? Because these people are dangerous. Like they live a miserable ████ life and they don't want to see you happy. And then I caught on as like um Well, most people just think you're lying anyway. If they're unhappy, they just go they're lying, right? I see that all the time about us. It's like they're lying. No, I like I like how dark this is getting though. Yeah, these guys aren't happy or whatever. I'm like, dude, I guess you got it all figured out there. Good for you. And by the way, I do the same ████ when I'm watching reality TV, so I don't blame them one bit. It's like when it's like You can't possibly be that in love. There's no way. It's
3:25 just a reflex of when people don't know you well enough, too. That's a fact. I think I mean, me and Nikki just did we just celebrated 12 years together like last week. Bragging. Bragging. Bragging. There's no way you're ████ happy, dude. What the ████ What the ████ If you have to tell people, that means you're not happy. If you have to talk about all the time, that means you're happy. You're not happy. But that's ████ odd. Like, you meet Do you just meet this person and she's already ████ telling you how horrible her husband is? Bro, you know what's So, does Hannah say that the same thing as Smack? Because Max said most girls that she meets are doing that too. Well, Hannah says like I just don't talk about our relationship. Um especially positive things because that's how they want to get together and bond. And when you're not doing that, they go, "Oh, so you're better than us." And I'm like, "Wow, there's some ████ dumbass ████ out there." Well, they think like, "Oh, you don't want to share. You just want to
4:15 like make us look bad." Yeah. So, she's like, "There's a lot of girls like that." And she goes, "It usually comes from women who aren't accomplished." Like straight up. I'm like, "What the f███?" I I do reverse psychology on myself and I uh I just talk bad on Nina everywhere, so I feel really guilty. So when I go home, I have to do great things for her. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like yesterday, this guy's making notes all day. Remember that? Can you take that out? Can you take that out? He's like, "I'm going to apologize for that." Anthony 7030 Lee. 7030 7030. I was like, man, I really need to work on the projection of my image. You you dress you dress like a bad boy though. 7030 7030. Dude, I dress like I'm I'm coming out of Bed Bath and Beyond. The best part is yesterday when you start you said uh what was it? We were like you were said no man it's it's 8020 now because Steve said Yeah. I took away I I added 10% to it and you were so
5:07 you were so bratty about it. He's the only one who said that to you and you're like no it's 8020. Steve said blaming on Steve is good. I was dying. Dude, that's so funny that it's Remind the audience what what the what what that was. I'm not going to do that. That's self-deprecating. You're what is it? 70% bad. He was a bad boy. No, she originally said, okay, so she was looking around Melissa Bonos and then she was looking at who's a who's actually a bad boy and who actually Oh, bad boy. Nice guy. Okay. Right, right, right. Talk, oh, you want to be a bad boy or you a nice guy? She looks at him, she's like, he's he's a nice guy. Dead on. Exactly. Correct. She looks at Steve and she's like, "You like you're loyal." And like, "Oh, he's loyal to a ████ Steve." Oh, right. That's what rhymes. That was really good. It was a great read. Yeah. Great read. Then she looks
5:57 at me. She goes, "Good round." Huh. You're confusing. Yeah. And then she's like, "I think you're" And then somebody You might have said it. You said it first. Yeah. You're 6040. She's like, "Yeah, yeah, yeah. 60 bad 40 nice guy." Yeah. Yeah. And then meanwhile, random comments get thrown out and then Steve's over here. It's like, "Oh, now 7030. Now 7030." And then like 10 minutes later, 8020. That's 8020. When you let this guy talk about relation relationships long enough, you realize that this guy's kind of an alpha male, brother. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like the way he talks. Look at his face. No, dude. Like Yeah. I think you lead with sweetness, but reality, you're a you're you're a stone cold man. By the way, what makes me think you're an alpha male and and I'm not kidding. Stop trying to stop laughing. No. No. Earlier earlier he's like he's like I tell Nina.
6:47 I'm like you put the controller back on the thing. It needs to charge. And when I'm thinking about like would I ever tell Nikki that I'm like ████ no I wouldn't. I would just put it on there. I just put it on there and my head scape and in my head I'd be a little mad. Throw a smoke ball. No. But see I don't say it but I'd be like I didn't I didn't do it. I'm such a knucklehead. I told you. I told you when she's like eating her chips and stuff and she's playing Switch. In my mind, I'm like, "Oh my god, dude. You're going to be crazy." While Nah's eating her chips, playing games, you just hear Anthony in the kitchen just sighing a bunch like, "So, you okay over there?" Yeah, I'm fine. It's fine. Yeah, it's fine. I'm not like mad or anything. It's totally I picture you being like, "Hey, what are you the ████ are you doing? Get put your gloves on." You know what I mean? Assertive alpha male. He slaps it over. Hey, I'm a I'm a day walker. I'm Blade.
7:37 All right. That's what I'm saying. We're bettas, though. We don't know. We can't talk to our ladies. If I if id met you like this year or even last year, I would have thought that you're like, "Oh, that's bad boy Anthony Lee." Yeah. But because I know you from when you were so so squeaky clean, good boy, that's who I still see today. So 6040. No, you're 100%. You are like a nice You just You just were you were just cursed with good looks. Yeah. Yeah. I would have thought you had a class C license before I knew you. I do have a class C license. There it is. But I had a Ruckus. It was for a Honda Ruckus. Motorcycle guys are cool and they're alpha as hell. But we knew him as Anthony Beta Lee. That's what we I just know him as such a nice like like nice friend. Yeah. This isn't about me guys. It's about over and underrating our lives. I don't know. I don't know.
8:27 I'm kind of feeling the chance shifting the wind. I think we're going to overrate or underrate you instead. I think I think Anthony's underrated. Yeah, I think he's super underrated. underrated. Lee slept on. Is Anthony underrated? How are you getting under my skin by saying I'm underrated? 8020. Dude, you're about to go to 9010. You better chill out. Fair. Yeah. Yeah. He's underrated on what a player he is. He's unrecognizable. Okay. I Okay. I I need to work on myself. I understand. I get it. I get the energy. I need to be a nicer guy. No, that's not what we're saying. I think you're a very nice guy. You're a nice guy in the inside. It's her perception of you. She's like, I think you're probably a bad boy. Which is cool. Yeah. She's like, "Look at this ████ nerd right there. 100% good guy. Look at this ████ loyal guy. 100% nerd." Weren't you a little disappointed? Yeah, of course I was. Women's mystery. Women love 6040s. And when she when she was picking me, I was trying my when when she was like looking
9:18 assessing me. I was trying my hardest to look hard, too. You're stupid. How? Like this. Actually, that does look kind of hard. I think I was taking a ████ during this time cuz I'm trying to remember. That's kind of hard, actually. I think you're Yeah, you're gone. That's kind of hard. Ah, my neck. Dude, I was scared of you when I was I didn't know you. Same thing. I was scared of him, too. Yeah, but once you hear me talk one time, you're like, I'm not scared of you. You look like you're But we didn't hear you talk one time for 3 years. That's true. It was three years. You know why? Because in in pictures, I want to keep that that uh It's cuz in photos you always look like you have a headache. I do. Tiff, we'll take a picture together and she goes like, "Can you look like you want to be here?" And I'm like, "Ah, sorry. That was my default face." How many takes the Christmas card photo? Like how many times you have a couple. We have that one on our fridge, dude. I look like a third grader smiling for the school picture, dude. In every single
10:08 picture. You and me both. You and me both. Still never learn how to smile. No, you just I just thought like I did that thing obviously where Oh, that guy has got ears. He fights. He's going to be mean to me. Yeah, that's all. And I wanted him so bad. What up, guys? Come join our Patreon because there's hundreds of videos dating all the way back to 2019. That's right. If you click on the link down below, you can join our Patreon, join us on the Discord, come chat with us directly, have a fun conversation, [Music] and this will help support the channel's growth and new ideas. [Music] And also tap into our closer community by joining our Discord and get the opportunity to suggest video ideas like the ones you've seen.
10:58 Thank you guys. Join our Patreon. Help us out. Thanks. See you guys there. Say hi to me. I want to be Has anyone ever been mean to you? I feel like that's Yeah, that's impossible. See, Ryan Ryan looks like a bad boy. If you didn't know anything about Ryan, you just saw Ryan looks like a bad boy. He actually has a classy and motorcycle. No, but that's not like He drove a Delorean. Okay. Yeah, the baddest guys drive Delorean. Dirty ████ dude. And he nerdy ████ You have to know about cars to drive a Delorean. He has facial hair. Yeah, I know. That's the cool successful facial hair. That may be the only thing that probably No, but it's also what you wear though, too. You also kind of have a hipster vibe to you, which I traditionally which is not a bad boy. I think 10 years ago, 15 years ago, I would have immediately been like, "Nah, it's cuz a hipster. ████ this guy." That's very sad. I know. I know. I was very very defensive. That's just how we are, you know. No, but like you've known me most of my life. I looked more like a like like a gay guy.
11:49 Well, back then you look like hella gay guy. Yeah. Most of my life I look like a straightup gay anime character. You look like a young Karen. This dude when you posted you posted some picture of you recently and I was like I was like Ryan's a pretty boy bro. He's a pretty boy. He's real per underneath all this lumberjack. There's some gay ass wood. Dude, like Young Ryan could pull dudes left and right. Come on. That's not a compliment. I bet they were barking up the wrong tree all the time. They'd be like trucker dudes, too. Like be like sea bass guys. Yeah. So you became the guys that you were attracting. Yeah. Guys guys doing chew and tobacco. My my genetics saved me. It started to go, let me help you there. Like Young Ryan, if we're all in jail and like he's the new fresh meat comes in, like everybody's calling. We're whistling. Everybody I was very supple. I tried. Supple's a crazy word. Your beard is pretty supple. I think it's pretty full. Oh, no. So, is
12:42 your uh wife overrated or underrated? I said she's underrated. I always tell the story. Nah's underrated. I think I think she's underrated, too. Who the ████ is has the guts to say overrated? All right. No high mentality. No high mentality. Neither need is overrated. Anthony, god damn it, dude. That's not Oh ████ Yeah, that's my that's my 30% coming out. I'm a day walker. Let me say it again. I'm a I'm a real man. My wife's over. Overrated. How? Overrated. How? Tell say. No. No. Try it from the top. Try it from the top. One more time. Put the glasses back on. It's emotion. It's emotion. Come on. I'll say it. My wife over. Come on, dude. You almost had it. In what way would Nina even be overrated? The way she uses the controllers
13:32 probably to him. Eating Cheetos on the controllers. I don't even know what this means. I think she in her mind she I think she underrates herself. That's what I think. You know what I mean? I think she can do more, but she like maybe it's because like I was like overly ambitious and you know like you have to kind of be crazy to do crazy things and you're going to fall short like a thousand times, but like you got to be ambitious to even like want to have a chance to like push yourself harder. I think she like I was talking to her about this the other day because she got her doctorate as an occupational therapist which means that she doesn't just have to be like an OT for the rest of her life. She can actually run a clinic of occupational therapists. So, right now she is driving all over Vegas going to inclient uh home type of care for for for kids. And there's like kind of like a a head OT in
14:22 her kind of field. And then there's like the company owner type ████ right? She can go all the way if she wanted to. But for her, she's just like, "Dude, like I'm I'm here. This is like this is what I do. I got to get good at this. I want to like get good at this." And I'm like, "I totally get that. I just want to let you know you're the one who told me suddenly that you were the u they told you you were the fastest to like uh fill out your client sheet and like work with all these people and then also you very quickly um had shadows because people wanted uh you to be the person that they were like paying attention like new OT's coming in to see how to do the stuff and I'm like getting a reputation suddenly told me that stuff but like you're you're good just want I I want to throw those things her with that you know in her ear because you know for her I'm I'm kind of like Hey, like it's it's almost been a year since you working here. Is there a conversation for like a raise? Like how does that work? I'm curious. I
15:12 don't know. I'm not saying it's regular corporate world, but I'm just like I'm asking these questions that I feel like is important to ask. Does that equate to but I feel like she's just like I just want to be really good at what I do and she got blinders on for her task kind of thing, which is great, but I'm you know for me I'm like hey you you're telling me things where I'm like you're really good at this so maybe you should ask a question you know. Yeah. Because sometimes those things don't happen on their own ever. You got to like actually bring something up. Yeah. For me, I feel like like with with Nikki, I've I've, you know, been with her for 12 years. We've been married for eight. She's always been like my like the funniest person that I know, but she never could crack it with matching her sense of humor to her content until she got in the poker scene. And now I feel like those two things kind of came together. And she's finally getting like her her
16:02 flowers because of that combination. Oh, that's really cool, man. And I'm really proud of her. She's awesome. Yeah. The last poker video she made, I was like, "Dude, this is really funny." She's the best, man. She's so creative at it. I think I think her and Smack do the same thing where there's just just like, "I have the idea. I'm doing it." You know? That's a very special thing. That's the game right there. And she'll maybe like if she has like doubts about it, it lasts for hours, not days. You know what I mean? Like it doesn't drag into the night, you know, where she's just constantly on the fence, not going to do it. That's why our job really is to do not ████ that up with anything. No, legit. I'm just like, I don't listen to me at all. And and I I just I just try to make sure that like, you know, in whatever whatever she's doing like like whatever she needs for it, she doesn't have to think about it. It's like, yeah, she can just do it, right? Yeah. I'm really proud of her. So, she's
16:53 overrated. She's overrated. I sent it to you. Overrated. I think Smack's underrated in the way that like there's a lot of people in the dance sphere that write her off as like, "Oh, you only do social media dancing." And they don't know her actual ability because she does what she enjoys. And she's done a lot of like actual professional work in every kind of way that you can think about it. But there are people that are even close to her that are saying that about her and she knows they're saying it and she doesn't say anything to them. Wow. And I'm just looking you dead in the eye that she knows you're saying it and she's killing you with kindness because she's not willing to speak up because she's just a nice person. Ocron. Yeah. So like the dude has a microphone in my house. Dude,
17:44 the people that are around her that are people that are my friends too are saying that ████ Just look over at Stephen say heard me say that. She knows what you're saying, brother. She knows what all like word got to her, but she just keeps the piece. Of course, word gets to her, but then she's not like I can't believe she knows I said that. You see smack a real Tik Tok dancer. That's what I told. Yeah, because her like Yeah, because like she blew up on Tik Tok, but then you know she's It just so happens that's that's where the where the road took her. It's like doing forums in Taekwond do. It's not real. But that's my most underrated thing about her, I think, is that she It's not that she's like so talented but only shows this the iceberg. It's not It's not that she's underrated in the way that she's not even willing to engage people that she knows are saying that and are being friendly to her face. That's because she doesn't. Again, it's that thing of not overthinking. She's like, "Oh, they said that, but what does
18:34 that have to do with whether or not I can keep going?" Oh, dude. It's so ████ simple. And I'm like, I worship that part of her. And I'm like, you are all so lucky that's not my fight and that's hers and that's her choice. Now bring her down a little bit. You're probably more angry than she is. I am more angry than she is because I know these people that as a guilty Catholic boy, as soon as you said that, I'm like, "Did I say that?" You know what I mean? I'm like, "A ████ Am I Am I saying that?" I was like, "Did I say that?" I always do that. I do that, dude. Whenever um like I'm walking through the door, gaslight yourself. I think I said that yesterday. When I'm walking out with groceries and the the buzzer thing goes off, I'm always like I always walk right back in and I'm like, I'm check. You guys want to check? Nobody cares. Nobody gives a ████ It's It's the same people that will ask her for favors or ask to collab or ask her to do something for their thing. It's all these people that want something
19:25 from her and can't even give her the credit of being like just good at something. Damn, dude. They all have like some extra thing to say about, oh, Bo, but it's not this. Friends like these, huh? Friends like these. Yeah, good friends. That's why dancers suck, right? Yeah. She's probably making more in commercial residuals than I made in the last three years. Oh, she's crushing, right? Yeah. She's like in She's in every commercial. That's so sick. Is she really? She doesn't say anything to anybody, but super humble. She is. She's really in like a lot of commercial and it hurts me because I see these people and I can't like, you know what I mean? And I'm like, I understand. And it's like I I let her navigate her own like relationships however she wants. But it's like the disrespect like because if she doesn't hear about it then I hear about it from my side of the circle because in dance like you just you know you'll hear about it. You know you would tell me to my face if she knew that I
20:15 was disrespecting her, right? Yeah. on JK News.
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