0:05 Welcome back to another episode of Careful Boys. Today we are going to analyze the responses of Akash's wife who uh was on a episode of Flagrant where they kind of addressed everything that's been going on. >> Yeah. >> Can you give me a little of the lore? I I know a little bit. Yeah. Just a quick recap. >> Recap. So >> she used to like ████ around or something. >> No, no, no. Okay. So, >> they thought she was a ████ >> No, no, no, no, no. So, do you know who uh Myin is from Fresh and Fit? >> I do. >> Okay. So, he showed this video of I don't know if he his team did or someone did, but it was a sideby-side clip of um you know, Akos was kind of like lecturing them and saying like, "My wife's a version this and that. She's great." And then um right after that, she's like, "I was popping my ████ with
0:56 these ████ white boys. I miss my college days. And then she would be like on a on a podcast talking about wanting to do an origgy and then just kind of some degenerate like ho ████ right? And then so it was a huge contrast between Akos telling people that hey like my wife is innocent, she's pure, we have a great relationship and then there's other things where like I think he proposed and she didn't kiss him. So people were like does she even love him? Is she just a gold digger? And all these things kind of went down and I think like every time on camera when he he would go in for a kiss, she would turn away. >> Is she popular on her own? >> No. >> So her TikTok only gets love. >> She is now now because of the relationship. >> But she's not No, it wasn't like two celebrities that got together. >> They just got together and then um >> story got big. You know, >> they were they were together before he was even famous. Like he was he was
1:46 nobody when they got together. Yeah. Then he obviously grew through comedy and podcast and she got some light >> and then so she just start I think she started to make content do a podcast but then yeah so then >> yeah let's just get into it so we can go through each thing one at a time. Uh so starting with the pop my ████ thing this is the explanation behind that. >> Yeah let's just get some definition any terms that you might need to know the actual meaning of Alex is here to break it down. I thought it was just like dancing, getting dressed up. And maybe that was my mistake. >> I look at this big one. >> Yeah. The act of getting dressed up, looking fly as hell, wearing a minimum of 3 in heels, preferably higher, and dancing your ass off hours of the morning. That >> So popping my ████ did not mean anything sexual to her. So was there
2:37 video of that or that's just her like telling her story? >> Yeah, I wouldn't look too deep into that personally then. Well, then to me it shows I'm like, "Oh, then you're ████." >> No, but you know what they said on this? They >> That's cuz that'd be me going like, "Oh, you know what? I miss my college days where I was ████ sucking ████ all ████ day." And you're like, "I was just licking like chickens." Like hens. I really like [laughter] licking hands. And you're like, "Are you ████ ████?" >> What about me and Joe went to the strip and we were just slanging dick? >> Doesn't mean we were ████ It just means we were doing that ████ >> Yeah. Yeah. But that's A THE TERM SLANG DICK. >> WE'RE SLANGING DICK. >> AND GUYS USE that very differently, right? Yeah, >> they use that very differently. >> I've never heard that term pop and ████ being huge used in this context of partying. >> I think dancing. I do think dancing in the in the rap songs. >> I think dancing. >> You thought dancing. >> I think dancing. >> Okay. I thought actually getting ████
3:29 >> I think I think popping that ████ could be dancing. It could be both. It could be both. That's to me that's what I think. And I but that's what they were saying is like that's the difference between the white version of saying popping my ████ and then the black version. >> But then also what what woman and I know the internet's crazy >> or what virgin even pops their ████ at the club. >> No, but what woman goes on TikTok or tells any story even podcast comedy style and talks about ████ it. >> Everyone does that now. >> Maybe like Call Me Daddy or Call me Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's like the thing. >> They really did ruin women, huh? >> Yeah. I think that's the model now. It's like if you want if especially for podcast and when I found out that she had exactly when she started her own podcast and it's something that she wasn't in media before and then now she gets these mics and now she's trying to be like her husband kind of who says all this outlandish like yo crazy jokes this and that's what it seems like it seemed
4:19 like it's not really her sense of humor but she's trying. >> I do hate that. That seems like the trend to like rag on your ex dude. Like guys don't even we are pigs. Men are obviously pigs but we don't even really do that. We'll joke runchy, but it's not like we come on here and just like rip our exes, but I feel like that's literally chick content. >> Some podcast spaces do that ████ right? >> Or like rip on the date you had last night. Like that's weird. All right, here's the explan. There's a lot of these to get through. Here's the explanation. Oh, good. Here's the explanation of she had said that she rotated through a roster of guys at a frat house. Okay, that's that's the quote. >> Here's here's here's her explanation of what that meant. >> When I got to college, I'm like, "Oh my god, I can dress however I want. I can whatever I want. >> You can have a roster of crap. [laughter] >> What does a roster mean? >> So, it didn't actually translate to a roster. It just meant like two guys I was talking to and flirting with at the
5:09 same time. That's it. >> That's all. When you say, >> okay, people talk about game, right? >> If I have a scoreboard, [laughter] if I have a scoreboard, right, and I'm trying to be objective, there's virgin. Is she really a virgin? Is she a hoe or is she really a hoe or is she ████ She just got two points in the ████ category. >> Yeah. [laughter] cuz I really want I was like, "Okay, I'll give you that." >> Who uses that word roster as anything else but a list of people to ████ >> What's the What's the rap song? Chicken pasta. [laughter] >> I never heard of that, man. >> Who is that? Is sexy red or somebody be like >> I've never heard anybody use That's what it sounds like. She's How old is she? >> She's like 25. >> She's young. She's young, though. I was going to say that sounds like a >> Have you Have you seen Have you seen or have you heard of anybody use that word
5:59 roster other than I have a list of people on my ████ buddy list? >> Yeah, I agree. >> Popping ████ dancing. >> If you're trying to sound cool, if you're trying to sound like you got like you're hot ████ and you got all these dudes lining up. >> Actually, it was just two dudes I was just texting with. >> Yeah. [laughter] >> All right. So this one is on the gold the her talking about being a gold digger and making jokes about being a gold digger and those accusations around it. >> Um also like in terms of the gold digging >> Yeah. >> like serious. >> Do you do you uh do you consider yourself a good gold digger? [laughter] >> Because I invested low and waited for it to go high. >> You're a gold prospect. Yeah. That's not a gold digger. >> Exactly. You're like a um what is that? You're like a hedge fund manager.
6:49 >> Yeah. Yeah. You're like a bit Bitcoin. >> Exactly. >> She bought much lower than that. >> So her joke about being a gold digger obviously like PE a lot of people didn't understand this that when they first got together she was actually the one that was making more of the money. All of the money really when they were >> You said he made $4,000 in one year >> and she was already working at like what Goldman Sachs and and uh whatever. So then she can't be a ████ right? But I never took her as a gold digger. I think those accusations were just people not understanding Asian culture. >> And we said it too like when she was making all those videos we were like, "Oh, she's being she's doing a bit like when she's doing Tik Toks and ████ like it just sounds like she's just trying to get people pissed." >> Was it the closet video where she was talking about how her closet it's her space and then that to me looked like an act like it was a joke where and then people were like calling him s you can't even use your own closet. And I'm all
7:39 like, "No, dude. That's a >> Well, there's the one that was She was like, "It's his money is my money. My money is my money." >> Yeah. It's that kind of stuff. Yeah. So, people just kind of looked at those things. And >> well, that's technically kind of true in Asian culture though if you think about it. So, it's like >> the internet is so common to like flex money but not really be rich, right? Like that's like the the the 100% norm. I wonder if we're moving into I want to be cool but I'm not actually cool for social media. >> Yeah. I want to get clicks. someone to get abused. >> That is honestly what she says is that like she's just trying to be have an absurdest humor and people don't know her so then they're taking it. >> I just think of like junior high, right? Like either you show up with the new Jordans and you're the rich cool kid or you're like the class clown and you're funny. >> So like maybe it's just now the evolution of online social dynamics. >> You know what it you know what it feels
8:29 like? What it really feels like to me is like uh like in high school like you know like the wannabe thugs, they act hard. Hey, where you from? Right? And you go, "Hey, what'd you say for?" And you're like, "Oh, I was just I want to know where your location was actually." [laughter] >> And you're like, that's what it feels like. Someone getting caught like in the middle of it. That's >> remember how So this one is about the ducking the kisses. Remember how there's so many videos of him like like trying to kiss her and she always like turns or what's the line everyone draws, you know, like to see who's in the power of the dynamic. Like if the chick's on the guy like this, then like he's the wears the pants. >> They do that with like uh the diagram. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They do that with Potato. They do that with everybody. Here's here's her explanation as to why she's like turning when he kisses her. [laughter] >> Explain yourself. >> I didn't know that I did that. So, I really sat and thought about it. So, I
9:19 think it's a few things. I think it's like [laughter] >> you really sat and thought about it. >> I was like, okay, maybe it's like the repressed Indian girl thing where it's like I get a little bashful, but I do get a little shy despite what the internet thinks. >> Most Indians do. Yeah. I think I also get over stimulated because Akash does it a lot. Like every 30 seconds. >> That's what [laughter] Yeah. ████ yeah, dude. Oh, yeah. You kiss every 30 seconds. >> She didn't know that he that she did does that. >> I I could I could I could >> I know. But then like >> I know girls like this, bro. You know, like >> I know Indians, too. So, it's like it's not the same in the way, right? But like I I to me I just the way I see it is like she's an innocent girl that didn't understand the things she was communicating and that's like the the at the end of the day they they're taking
10:09 clips of all these things and putting meaning into >> clip culture does ruin reputations. I don't know Akos that well. Like I obviously know who he is but I don't like listen to his ████ Just based on this and talking to y'all it does seem like she's a gold digger. I know you said that. >> Why? Why? Why? Well, I know you guys say like, "Oh, they've been together the whole time." So, I I know I'm wrong, but like just based on these clips. >> Also, just for for context, too. For context, too, like nobody believes this. >> Yeah. Yeah. See, I don't know. >> But it's also like in my head too, I think about the comments, right? When you look at the comments, the people saying all this stuff, how many of those people like cuz you could all their dirty laundry is out for everyone to see >> and all the people talking ████ about like, "Oh, he's a s he's" Like, I think people just want to ████ on Akos in >> Yeah. I think I think people just don't like him and they want to find something. >> Yeah. I never thought he was that funny. And then like
10:59 >> out of that whole panel, I think he gets the hate the most, I think. >> Well, then if you go just by pure looks, right, which is always first impression, you're like, well, yeah, >> want to make fun of that guy. >> Well, like why is she there? Like she's obviously very pretty. All right, so this one is about her absurdest humor that she tries to have and which kind of led to the whole thing. >> My humor from Aash, not to like justify it, but just to explain like, oh, if I say these absurd things, it's so funny because it's not who I actually am. But I kind of forgot that like the internet doesn't know all these multi-dimensions of my personality. So they're just seeing this one thing. So the orgy jokes started with like Akash being like, "Oh, Nav's really hot." Like Nav would, >> for context, she made jokes about having an orgy with like one of their friends and another couple >> show Nav's picture to his trainer or whatever cuz he's like really like >> Yeah. Ripped or whatever. I I will say
11:49 also if she had a body count I would have been like hey because she doesn't and I know how like innocent she actually is. >> Oh you are a virgin that's real. >> I was a virgin in telling about him. Yes. >> Really? >> Yeah. >> Oh okay. >> Mhm. >> All right. Good to know. >> Yeah. >> And if she wasn't that body count thing I'd have been like what are we doing >> because I would have been insecure about it. But I I be not that I'm so secure but with that joke I'm like so secure. >> I absolutely would feel. So she does confirm she was a virgin before they >> she has to set it up as a as an innocent like virgin that's into orgies. Well, the the thing is she the re according this is like as per her explanation she says those things because coming from a person that was a virgin it's so absurd and so outside of who she is that's why she thinks it's funny to say this just
12:40 reminds me of like our generation versus that if she is like 25 that and I'm very anti-cancel culture but it kind of serves a purpose because it shows you it's the talk online and get punched in real life. Yeah. like she doesn't know the line and she even just admitted like no ████ like what you say especially in podcast stream form like if you don't have a wig on and you're playing a character you're acting as you >> and that should matter in real life consequences so I kind of like none of us she has she has to get dunked on this >> none of us saw the whole podcast right so that's a that's another thing about clipping and so she might have set it up with this whole spiel of being innocent and then as a button or whatever at the end boom she does the orgy thing I don't ████ No, the thing is there was a compilation of all those clips put together that made her seem like a ████ hoe. >> When you watch them in a row, I don't
13:31 care what it is, bro. You're going to hate her. >> Akos looks miserable in all those clips, too. [laughter] >> That's where I really am biased to live streaming. Obviously, it's the world I'm in. But so clips get clipped out of there all the time, out of context. But you can go back to the >> You have a threehour live stream. >> Yeah. But you can go back to the V and say, "No, bro. Check my check the context." where this they get to edit it and so they either make it funny or make themselves look away like >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Oh, you're talking about in a podcast form. >> Yeah. Any form. Any form, you know, where like stream you literally all the streamers keep their VODs up because it makes money and you can literally scroll through and see what he said before after and see what he said before. >> They have to pull those receipts a lot. >> Yeah. >> And you can >> I do believe that she could be a virgin and then it's just her like absurdest humor, but then it just conveyed the wrong message. >> Yeah. And it made him look like a dumbass. Yeah, that's believable. >> But she then makes her look dumb, too. >> One thing that I was um curious about, I
14:22 want to get your guys' take on is when you see all of their comments, right, their own fan base isn't buying it. And usually when there's controversy, Wait, but wait, but but usually, but wait, when there's usually controversy like this, right, you see arguments, you see opposing people, you see a good balance of the two. But when you go on all of it, there's no balance. There's like I haven't seen the opposition. I've I mean I haven't seen anyone protect them. >> No. Yeah. >> But because there's so much crosspollination with all these other channels, especially like the Red Pill guys, the Fresh and Fit dudes, they have a huge fan base. >> So, you think it's outside people? >> I think so. I I think a good percentage of it is probably outside, too. >> It's not even about about whether or not it's true. I think some dudes just get mad when they imagine their girl saying this ████ whether it happened or not. You know what I mean? Like, >> I was watching this ████ getting mad for him. I was like, "Bro, if my wife ever was saying this kind of ████
15:12 >> that's what it's more about." Yeah. It's not about whether or not it's true. It's about her saying it. I think a lot of guys put themselves in the the position of like being disrespected like that and they just pissed. Yeah. >> So, do you think true or not? >> I made Tiff watch the clips and I was like, "Isn't that ████ up?" Right. She shouldn't BE SAYING THAT. WOULD YOU EVER DO THAT? AND SHE'S LIKE, "NO, I WOULD NEVER." And I'm like, "Yeah, that's ████ right." ████ right, dude. >> So, you guys do you guys think they played this well? Like, because >> I think they did the best with >> I think they did their best. Yeah. So, here's here's the last thing. It's about whether or not this whole thing's a PR stunt. >> Yeah, that was probably the best. >> What do you guys say? Some people say this is a whole PR stunt for you to sell tickets and for you to >> Who is that? >> I would rather Yeah. >> Oh, that
16:02 couple videos saying it's like a very strategic PR stunt. I don't know how >> I wish I cared that little my wife. [laughter] >> I wish. >> Lean in. Lean in. They're going to kiss at Radio City. >> Oh, yeah. If >> we sell at Radio City, we will make out. >> Yeah. So, him saying like, "I wish I cared that little about my wife's reputation is pretty funny." >> I actually um asked some people how they could have done this better, right? Like if people were like pissed at it or what they're pissed about. And at the end of the day, it all boiled down to her recognizing that doing these things can hurt a caution. >> And that wasn't addressed at all. >> Yeah. >> It was more like, oh, that's not what I meant. I meant this. It's like, okay, cool. We get your point. You didn't get
16:52 it. You use the wrong words. >> But then acknowledging that that also hurt Akasha's image, reputation, our marriage, all these things >> because people can take it a certain way. I used the wrong words that I didn't understand that roster meant this in this community and people would uh go straight to that. And that was the accountability part that I think a lot of people were like dude I wish they recognized that and then we could move past it versus like a lot of people before it came out they're like watch they're going to dodge it they're going to make fun of it. They already predicted that they're going to brush it under the rug >> which I don't think they did. I mean, I think they try to play it the best way possible. But I think that was the that was the main thing I think that when people that are their fans were like, I wish they were a little bit more like >> cuz I the part I think that makes it
17:42 where it makes it seem ████ and superficial is it was like, oh, I don't mean this, I mean, versus like if you just threw that whole act out, >> hey, I ████ up. I was I didn't mean this. I meant this and I didn't know that this actually. And then you you start to show actual depth of yourself. >> Yeah, that's true. >> But she's playing so super. >> I'm just silly. I'm just silly. Yeah, I'm just silly. >> Yeah. >> So dumb. >> And then we can see how the how their the couple actually dynamic is and how they love each other and then it's really that's I think that would have been such a great way to be like in your ████ face you ████ hating ass ████ >> They're going to divorce in two years. >> You think so? I I think I think this is going to make them stronger. I think >> is that your secret dream? >> Yeah. And then I'll take the virgin. [laughter] I think it's also an interesting thing where there's there's like some kind of the combination is is perfect here because I don't know if there's something some kind of a smuggness about
18:33 him that people want him to fail so bad like people want him to have a bad life. >> It's What did he do? [laughter] >> I don't really like him. I've never really liked this ████ He rubs me a little wrong. >> I don't understand what he act Did he actually >> Schultz will go half and half with me. His like political clips in co I thought were genius, but then when I see him talk long term, he kind of rubs me wrong too. It is maybe like a smug entitlement that they kind of carry. >> It's like they wanted a weaponizer against him so bad. Like, oh, we finally got this guy. >> I think the biggest uh what do you call it? Satisfaction for people hating is because of him lecturing people about how great his relationship is and he kind of looks down on other people that can't achieve what he does. Because I think at some of his shows he'll he'll like ask people about marriage stuff and then like that's a big part of his crowd work and it becomes like from a lens of like oh he's the marriage expert type of thing. So I think people clip that and
19:23 then you know they just were like dude this guy shouldn't be out here preaching you know and I think nobody really likes preachers like that right. >> Yeah that's true. I don't think what she's saying is crazy compared to what a lot of women on podcast say now, right? And then their husbands don't get called simp and judged for it. It's just that when you represent yourself and say we have a pure marriage, this is who she is and then she does the exact opposite. You got to be single to have that type of podcast. >> Cuz I I have I have seen that trend where like YouTubers now have a podcast or streamer women in particular have a podcast and they talk about that stuff like worst date ever, biggest dick ever, smallest dick ever, whatever. >> But they're all like single when they're doing it. >> Only fans girls. >> Yeah. The Only Fans girls do it everywhere. Like biggest celebrity I ████ or whatever. >> Yeah. But like Yeah. >> And then they're all ████ sitting
20:13 like this and ████ >> But then like dude, like who's going to date you after that content? The reputation is crazy after talking about the biggest celebrity you ████ or something like. So ver verdictwise verdict do you >> you guys all are you guys all buying it? >> I think yeah I really do think she kind of made a lot of >> put her foot in her mouth. That's what I think. >> I don't think she was a massive ████ I don't think you know I think she just like spoke impulsively without thinking of the repercussions. >> Yeah. Trying to be >> because she's sheltered. Ah >> okay. I I I'm I'm with y'all on that one. I think it's like a case of yeah shelter or being very like uh quoteunquote innocent and then now >> and then now you have this giant platform that kind of was built on the back of your husband >> only because I know so many like of these types >> where they're naive and they're like
21:04 >> a real ████ popper. >> No, she's faking, dude. She's faking. >> She could have thrown in a circle, dude. >> 40-year-old virgin making jokes kind of thing. Dude, honestly, cuz I relate to that when you when you grab a boo and it feels like a bag of sand. You know what I mean? >> I mean, I [laughter] >> I could be wrong, but I'm only imagining people that >> I'm g I'm giving the benefit of the doubt. I Yeah, I hope they, you know, I don't I don't wish any couple to ████ get divorced over ████ like this cuz you know, bro, you know what kind of turmoil Akos is dealing with. >> That ████ look like >> Does most of the world think she's a ████ >> Yeah. Well, I don't know. I think like at least like when I comb through it, it's overwhelmingly they just don't believe her. They just think she's lying. >> And I just I'm just like, dude, that's kind of extreme. I think to think she's just straight up lying is a lot. >> Half the internet's just like rage bait ████ anyway. So who >> that's why I think people are taking
21:55 their anger at imagining their wife saying these things and just applying it to like no, I don't want her to win now. It's not about like right or wrong. >> And it's I think it's exacerbated by people not liking a cautious >> Exactly. And I think for a lot of guys, >> there's a lot of guys that think go out there and say, "What's the point of dating?" Because there's women like this out there and this is just more evidence to be like, "Yeah, see this guy, she's a virgin." And it could all be taken away from you, right? And it's like that could be the case for anything, but I feel like specifically with men and women's relationships like this, this is when it gets really heated. But poor Akos, dude. I feel bad for him.
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