0:00 I would love to hear like a lesbian call black guy the n-word and then the >> I don't think that's the equival that's not the equivalent. >> No, it is. It is >> cook. Let him cook. >> That dude's like, "Oh, my n word." >> Okay, now that he's finished his statement, I think he's wrong. >> Welcome back to another episode of Careful Boys. We're going to answer a question that uh is very puzzling one, but maybe one of you guys would know. Why is it that lesbians and straight guys don't hang out the same way that gay dudes and women do? >> It depends if they're hot. >> Cuz guys want the vagina >> and the lesbians won't give it to them. >> Gay guys and women go together so well as friends. >> They do. >> I I've I've seen that combo in Hawaii.
0:51 Say that one more time cuz I'm trying to register what your question is. >> Like like you know how like girls have a gay best friend or whatever, but like guys don't have a lesbian best friend the same way. >> No, say it one more time, but say it from like a third grader's point of view. >> It's a girl's dream come true to have a girlfriend that's a guy. >> Mhm. >> That they could go shopping together and ████ but like he's not trying to ████ her. >> Yep. >> Right. >> They feel very safe. >> Yeah. >> But guys don't have that equivalent. We don't go, "Man, you're dope, Steve, but I wish you were a girl." >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah, >> dude. He nailed it like a third grader. >> That's true. Yeah. That's what you say when you're a kid to your best pal. You're like, "I wish you were a girl." >> Yeah. >> Cuz like, you know, >> so we could ████ >> Yeah. So we could >> cuz then I wouldn't have to worry about it cuz you're my best friend and like you're the best. >> But I feel like girls dream of that. Like cuz I heard that from gay guys
1:42 where they're like, "Man, I'm like a ████ accessory." like they just want I'm like a goal where like hey I have a gay best friend or I have a friend like that they could do their things with but it's not like they want an authentic relationship with the with their friend they just want that in their ensemble. It's the dynamic that I think is the main point. So like when you watch like a show on TV like women at least like when it comes to let's say fashion any fashion competition show for instance gay guys are judging gay guys are like they like exalt gay guys in and to lead them in things that are women driven. >> Yeah. You don't have lesbian referees at a UFC or something >> and you don't you don't like put them at a position of like like yes lesbian. >> You know what I mean? You're not like >> they are going to be the chief firefighter in New York. >> Oh my god,
2:32 >> I saw that. >> Yeah, but then that look at the response to that. You know what I mean? >> I guess this is my guess at it would be >> gay dudes can out feminine chicks. >> Lesbians can't out masculine dudes still. >> Okay. Okay. >> So, I think that's why like cuz there's like gay guys. >> Even the super von Dutch ones can't. >> Yeah, they can't. So, guys are just good at everything. Like guys are even better at being women. >> Yeah. >> Thailand. Yes, >> cuz you've heard you've heard uh guys like ah you ████ ████ and then the girls are cool with it, right? >> I would love to hear like a lesbian call black guy the n word and then the >> I don't think that's the equivalent. >> No, it is. It is >> cook. Let him cook. >> That dude's like, "Oh, my n word." >> Okay, now that he's finished his statement, I think he's wrong. Gay guys.
3:23 Gay guys can feel up chicks as much as they want. They can just about sexually assault chicks as much as they want and get away with it. Scott clean. Lesbians don't like grab guys dicks. >> I just wonder why that dynamic doesn't exist like as a wide thing, you know? >> But then you do have like that butch homie in like a sports buddy group like the one token le lesbian. >> But do you do you have that yourself? But I mean, I have friends who have and it's typically the the butch lesbians that they're friend with, not the not the the girl version. >> Okay. Can I can I be uh like animalistic in like just like we're all animals? >> Cuz I think we're thinking the same thing. >> Okay. So, I think if we're all animals, then like often times a male is kind of more like predator looking at women like
4:14 prey. >> No doubt. >> Right. So if a guy a gay guy who could be predator goes to like prey level and like becomes a lot more like safe and stuff that's totally different to be around versus a prey like a female like going into the predator space cuz then predators are more like alpha like hey like you got like no this is my spot. They're more territorial in that way. So I think it's weirder for like more predators to get into the space and hang out versus all the prey hanging out. Does that make sense? >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> It's cool to have a domesticated tiger. >> Like this is a tiger, but this tiger's cool. >> But if you had a bunch of tigers, you won't be like, "Look at this ████ crazy ass bunny. This bunny's ████ crazy as f███." You're like, "I would rather just hang out with another tiger." >> Yeah. I'm not Yeah, that's a better way to say. So, I'm not saying like women are prey. Look at this crazy ass bunny.
5:06 But you know what I'm saying? Like >> that makes sense. It's like a not It's like a a safe space guy that they can have a platonic relationship with. That's what And the guy's not trying to ████ him. >> Yeah. >> Guy's not trying to ████ him. >> I I think to add to that, I think um >> there's a different way guys and girls make friends in general, even if they're gay. >> No, I mean like in like when females make friends with each other, it goes deep. It's emotional. It can be like >> messy because they're they're they don't like the boundaries that guys have in their friendships, it's not the same. Like they get deep. Like they know everything about each other. It's like a ████ relationship like a couple. >> Like guys don't even know each other's middle names and ████ Yeah, like but it's because we have skill-based Paul and like our friendships are compartmentmentalized like based on hobby or other stuff, right? So it's more like surface and then over time it might get deeper, it might not. It might
5:56 just stick to the topic. But I think women like they have deeper ass connections, right? I also think that women have this level of like I can't trust you because there's competitions and and stuff like that, right? They want a guy friend, but I can't trust you either cuz I don't know if you're like friend zone and you're trying to ████ me, but a gay guy is the perfect combination where you could have a guy that's not trying to ████ you, but you also know that they might not compete with you in the same way and like be a friend of me in the same way and you feel safe around them. Cuz some girl friendships in high school, they're ████ vicious. Like they're like they'll act like your best friend. They get all your secrets and then they they destroy your ass and they do mental games like crazy. So I think there's a level of like I can't trust all women. But also I feel safe with a gay dude. >> Do you think lesbian ████ then are
6:46 like dudes where they don't know ████ about each other? >> I think lesbian ████ are >> lesbian ████ So they could be hanging out all day and they don't know each other's birthdays, middle names. >> What the ████ >> Or you think lesbian chicks are more like girls? You know girls know details about each other. Lesbian chicks are more like girls. >> Lesbian ████ >> Lesbian ████ Well, cuz regular chicks, they know hella details. >> That's so funny. >> Cuz maybe they don't hang out the way dudes do. >> I think it depends on the role. So if it's a stud, cuz this is the funny thing is like I've all these videos of studs coming out going like, I understand men now. Like ████ these ████ Like I'm just trying to chill. And these ████ ████ like asking me what are we doing? Where are we going? And they have to ████ pay for everything and all that. So there's just all these rants coming out from like these studs that are like >> ████ god. >> Stud. >> Stud is like the butch. >> Okay. >> So it's the it's the it's the it's the
7:36 like they they they they I guess the male role. Yeah. Yeah. >> But they're like >> Yeah. >> It could also be like so like in this guy's case like he's with a chick, right? And then he knows the chick has like a guy who she's like, "Oh, he's just my friend." Blah blah. And Nathan's like, "Uh, no. that guy wants to ████ you. Like that guy likes you. >> Like that happens all the time. And these girls are oblivious. >> Like they're not even seeing themselves as prey at all to that guy cuz that guy to them is a unic. >> He has no ████ ████ at all. No shadow. >> Can't wait till the day. >> But he doesn't know. >> She can't he can't wait till the day that she breaks up with them and he's there while she while she's crying and then they can ████ >> her up while she falls. Y >> why in the girl situation having a gay guy friend is very useful >> cuz if the if if the straight friend is
8:27 like no that guy wants you. It's just like oh no no he doesn't. But if the gay friend is like he wants you honey. >> Yeah >> they believe it. They believe it. >> They do. They do. >> It's almost like having a brother that's, you know, not bullying you in the same way. They might bully you but not the same way, you know, and you go shopping with them and all that ████ Mhm. >> Like they I just think they get a better exchange from that because if we became friends I mean we we are friends with some lesbians but we can't >> not really >> but it's not like >> all lesbian every lesbian name 10 lesbians >> you know you know Gucci. >> Yeah but like but it's like the but like we all enjoy our guy friendships more is what I'm saying. It's like it can't it doesn't benefit in a way where I think a gay guy would benefit a female relationship in the same way. I think
9:18 that's why if if if I'm walking with a lesbian, am I supposed to open the door for her? >> No. Yeah. Exactly. >> Cuz I'm trying to understand like Yeah. What is this dynamic? >> Wait, you're still trying to understand what the dynamic is? >> No, cuz No, cuz he he brought up uh Gucci, right? And even though I know she's lesbian and I don't know if she's like just kind of in the middle, not like super um >> butchy >> butchy or super feminine or whatever, but in my mind she's still feminine. So if ████ hits the fan, I still feel like I'm responsible for her >> and you should be, >> right? But like if it's me and Anthony, ████ hits the fan. I'm >> you're responsible for me. >> I'm responsible for my lady, he's responsible for his lady, right? >> No, but if it's just me and you, you're responsible for me. So, I think that there's also that dynamic. >> I feel like with with a gay guy and a
10:09 girl, ████ hits the fan, probably the girl will depend on the gay guy to watch her back. >> So, I think there's like I'm thinking about what's the value added into the dynamic. What's the point of having a homie that you also have to now take care of as a girl? You know what I mean? I feel like the dynamic is kind of weird. >> No, but that's that's Yeah, that's still >> But that's gender roles. I mean, and then uh if if if they still if they identify as a female, I'm guessing it's going to be the same. >> Here's the idea. Like the way that um the way that women are prone to celebrate that a gay guy is the leader of their field. >> There's nothing wrong with that. Like they love it. It's great. That's cool. >> It's my gay. >> Yeah. But transitively, men don't do that when a lesbian is the leader of their thing. >> Is there a lesbian leader? Like the fire department. Like look how much stuff
11:00 that caused when they find out it's >> but that was also like a DEI hire. I mean like a legit meritocracy based. >> But that's what I mean is that c gender role-wise or culturally that it's not it's not a shared thing. >> I don't know if there's been an actual example of a female crushing it merit-based in a guy field yet. So like for example >> and also lesbian >> in a guy dominated space. >> Yeah. So, so like with with the gay folks, right? They have crushed it in fashion, in interior design, in sucking dick and all the things that women are really great at. >> Really good. He's probably better. >> I'm not, by the way, I ran out of interior design, too. So, I don't blame you at all. >> Cooking, which is supposed to be a female, you know, like. So, there and so I think if it's skill-based, there's plenty of examples of people that
11:50 crushed it in that field where it's undeniable. Like it's not like, you know, big women saying you can't do this. >> Yeah. I just worry about the fire chief thing because how is she going to fire fight fires if she's eating box all day? >> True. >> Like that's what I'm concerned about. >> She's too busy. >> She's just going to be eating box the whole time. We know. >> But I I'm wondering if there is a a skill-based thing like I don't know like programming or anything anything where you just crushing it and and it's just like guys are like, "Oh, you know what? Her skills are undeniable. She's crushing it. >> Well, what is crushing it? Because like let's say you you have let's say there's a gay guy who's like a female like a expert of female psychology, he will still be accepted and like they'll want to listen to what he has to say. But if you have a lesbian who's like a expert in male psychology >> do you buy it? You know,
12:40 >> I think it's just tough for him to do that job as a psychologist cuz all he's doing is suck a dick the whole time. I understand the idea of men giving better ████ than women and we've discussed it at length here on JK. >> All right. >> But like, >> yeah, I get what you mean. They don't have to be number one in that way, but guys won't respect in the same way. Yeah. Yeah, you're right. >> Such a clear difference. Yeah. >> Like it's so strong and this gets so strong the opposite
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