0:00 when I hear both you guys both you guys speak Vietnamese right uhuh I don't ever hear you guys go hey what's up you know like when you speak to a Korean guy when you go to a Korean guy oh yeah oh yeah I went to Korean barbecue and the burger G was so good and like like I'm like just keep it this tone they're the most bring it down here and back bring it down here hey how do you feel about how [Music] do welcome back to episode of careful boys uh today I wanted to talk about a we've had a lot of different experiences with lots of different races but in your opinion based on your own experience don't you don't got to like think about stereotypes but just your own life experience which race do you feel like is the snobbiest one the snobbiest yeah uh in my experience which
0:51 ethnicity I should say I think it's a tie with certain whites and certain Asians which whites like high class whites what's a high class white yeah on that the ones that don't have freckles yeah they actually yeah that's a weird way of saying it I never thought of that freckless whites like like you know workingclass whites they're normal I feel like they're just normal Americans you know but like the really Posh ones that like you know send their kids to private ten whites yeah the ones that got a lot of money you know obviously those are the ones that are tend to be the most annoying to deal with from a customer service standpoint oh really what kind of things do they request like out of you as a well LLY serviceman exactly a lowly serviceman well I'll say this like U they're more demanding with certain things they want like uh it's just like how they speak that's what it really is it's like how
1:41 they talk to you sometimes they kind of treat you like the help and ████ you know what I mean you know what I noticed also at working normal jobs is that they white people seemed the most like it's okay why can't you just do that it's fine yeah yeah yeah break the rule for me yeah the rules like even though you have to follow guidelines they're like no one's going to care just do it this way I had a I had a I had something where I had to raise my rates on somebody and raise my rates on my clients and it was like for everyone right all my clients that are normal Working Class People they're like yeah no worries no worries all good but the one that kind of has a little bit more privilege a little bit more scrilla okay they're like well you know you can't bend it for me like you know I'm I'm a loyal client but yeah and I'm like dude what the hell I'm a loyal client to this gym and the way they reacted was so crazy to the point where I was like I
2:31 don't know if I want you as a client anymore I'm willing to let you go completely to not even deal with you because everyone else was so like cool about it not even just yeah like and I'm not exp I'm expecting some people to have like maybe an objection or something but it was the way she did it the way she tried to throw things in my face about I did this I did that and it's like w dude you are you might be mentally ill though so I don't know could be it could just be that they're just uh a weird weird person it could be yeah it's maybe a colorless problem yeah exactly like but then again it's like you could say that you know they they have some extra money that wasn't necessarily earned by themselves oh generational throwaway okay so it's like oh some interesting way to handle this are you making an assumption or do you know this specifically I don't know it
3:21 could be could not be hey you know what what's an interesting person that I chose decided to choose cuz I I've experienced snobby from white people Asian people and like all sorts people even even like Mexican like it just depends on where even Mexican yeah because you know okay you know why cuz in in Whittier there's a lot of Latinos and Latinas and they've but they've been there for Generations so they grew their wealth right so it makes sense for them to have like this sort sort of entitlement but the yeah but the one person I think I've experienced the most snobby from and this is like no hate I love my mom but dude sometimes she could like have some entitlement when we do like go out shopping go eating oh especially eating well we order something and she' be like
4:12 oh change this this is and that and then if they get it wrong she's like no you got to like she's very like not demanding but like she really wants things her way and she feels like supposed to be like she's like in her 60s no so like no meeting in the Middle with people like yeah and she'll definitely I mean I also think it comes from like a mindset of like scarcity too where like she she needs to take what she can get and she wants and by the time that she's got everything she needed she's like okay I need to have more like this is this is how it's got to be but I don't think it's a bad thing I think it's kind of like a good snobby it's like you you want to get what you want you want to speak up when you don't get what you want but how do you feel when your mom's asking the waiter and you're just like sometimes I'm like that I'm like man it actually doesn't matter it's just like this but then you saying are you saying Vietnamese people the SN they can be wow they can be you see from
5:03 anybody outside of your mom um for Vietnamese people yeah sometimes especially um I have some friends that are uh business owners and when they go eat they're very like picky with the way things taste and like are and I get that but to me cuz I'm a person that I just don't care so to me when I see other people care about so many little things that I don't think matters it it it just feels like it's a snob but I don't think that's what it is truly cuz what is what do you how do you guys Define the snob like entitlement or like I think a good example in my head when I think of snob is how you treat somebody that like is supposed to serve you in some way like there's a there's a hierarchy a lot of the times think mainly service I think I think that's one of the easiest ways that's an easy place to see it yeah just to start with like I see it a lot in restaurants for sure or say you hire
5:54 somebody that comes does some work for your house or something like that the way that I thought of it was like for me in my experiences was like when I was in high school I could like I don't know if this is just the the um the year that this was maybe it's still around but in the late 90s I feel like uh Koreans were really hardcore about KP what's KP Kore Korean power late 90s they would not kick it with you and it's like if they're hanging with you it's cuz there there's no other Koreans and then once Koreans show up they're like all right later I think it's the same mindset too cuz cuz isn't it the the whole thing where like they also came from a mindset of scarcity so when they finally got money and like their uh what is it their country is like coming up now there's like a sense of like I got to have everything I I don't know what if it's that because we are all in high school
6:44 we're all kind of in a new environment that we create ourselves and we got like all kinds of different you know Filipino laosan Indonesian whatever that are just down to be cool but it was almost like somebody had told a Korean person in they passed it on that they were the top of the hierarchy oh is it a superiority complex type of thing and not I'm not saying like that's always going to be that way but in high school for some weird reason that was a message that we were getting and it wasn't just me it was like different high schools that were Asian predominantly had that same kind of clickish like oh the Korean people are going to kick it and do the and I didn't see like in Koreans inter meaningly until later on like nowadays you'll see like friend groups like that but before it just all Korean Stu I think that's definit definitely agreed with that like was that did you see that too yeah for sure like cap Korean pride
7:34 is the strongest Prides of all the Asian Prides yeah what's second I think Japanese is second is it maybe I had a Japanese friend to stop talking to me kind but I feel like Japanese is other people are more proud for them probably like dude like Sushi's ████ cool udon's cool ramen's cool I I think Japanese is more polite and humble but going going to like the whole like oh I'm only going to kick it with my Korean homies I've I've had that with Japanese friends before to with I just think that the Korean Pride like um how did you see it yeah at times it could be annoying if you're not Korean so like I understand my personal experience of why I might see it that way but like of all the like I I also understand how it's built off a foundation of Merit I understand like you deserve and need and and you need that like your history is
8:26 like tough It's number one and like the fact that you guys you know uh endured a lot of like people trying to oppress you delete some of your history invade you you know from a lot of these other countries and maybe they deserved it though damn does jk just hates Korean I don't hate Korean I love Kore hey watch your ████ mouth dude watch your ████ mouth if they made it after the war and they came over to America like I understand why they maybe were indoctrinated by their parents into this idea of needing to like support other Koreans Korea is number one they do a very good job with that whereas like with Chinese people it's like we got ████ nearly 2 billion it's not like you need to support other Chinese people it's like no no no you need watch out Chinese people going to steal your ████ so you got you know like I can't but then the Asian ameran experience is unique cuz I remember like I remember like a cre a Korean dude to pop off
9:17 right korean-american dude to pop off all Asians like yeah Asian-American Jeremy Lynn pops off and it's just Chinese people and like Koreans like oh he's not really Korean so I'm not going to he's not really they don't support the other Asians you think but part of me respects the fact that like Koreans will only ████ with Koreans no it reminds you it reminds you of Jewish people would white people ████ with white people is that do you respect that I no I I don't I don't respect it I hardly ever see that I I expect it really you know what I mean I kind of like see it like oh yeah well duh you know like it's not it's it's just like yeah why wouldn't you hang out with people that look just like you but I feel like white people are more like at least through my experience they've been more prone to like pulling people into the circle versus taking their Circle and going somewhere else like cuz it's it's you got a lot of white friends from back in the day for you have a lot of
10:08 them and they still keeping contact I knew I would never see the Koreans ever again and I never did and these are dudes that I won talent shows with that I was close with them like we were cool but then once they had access to all Koreans it was bye-bye bye-bye Bui espe especially when it's like you guys had a lot of uh like experiences together and I don't think they feel that way consciously now I think it was just a whatever the community word was it reached them and the Word was no we got to stick together we got to like pull our res we got to like be strong as a group and then you know you had a mish mash of like Filipino black Indo whatever we're all kicking it you know what I mean and then that was it was a very like clear line and you know what's crazy would be like I uh I'd run into people I went to high school with like let's say go back to SOS or do whatever
10:59 and then I would see like two dudes hanging out like run into them and I'm like you two Koreans would still be friends 20 years later like you like that made sense versus like you know in and our group would be like mixed yeah and then I'm like of course you and that guy didn't make it and then of course you and that guy didn't make it you know it was just it's just what I would that's what I expected in high school and it's crazy to see like 20 years later that's how it played out yeah I think there really is a different some crazy Bond though yes there's an Asian I think there's a unique Asian-American La if that experience with like the different subcultures of like Asian in high school maybe it is because we have hell of Asians too so I don't know if that would be that way in like Houston where they're just like we any Asian is is cool but you know what's funny is like when I when I grew up in middle school there was there was only probably like 10 Asian kids in our class right in a group of like 50 to six no
11:52 like like 80 kids 80 kids yeah and it was pretty mixed throughout but the Korean kids the three Korean kids they stuck together a aside from like all the other rest of the other Asian kids too so it is like oh yeah I remember noticing like oh those are the Koreans like that's how we talked about them like I feel like that makes sense at that age because like maybe like you're not driving yet or maybe your parents are like you're really still in control by your parents cuz they take you everywhere they pay for you you live under the roof they feed you so they're probably like oh like I I'll I'll take you to like I can be friends with your Korean friends parents so the connection is more or we go to the same Korean Christian church but also too like ethnically they were the most Korean out of like the rest of the kids were all like American Asian kids you know like but they would speak Korean they like you know and there were some other Korean kids there but they were way more Americanized L to their Roots yeah they
12:43 were more Americanized so they didn't kick it with the the the trio all I'm saying is if if I was Korean I think I would succumb to the KP hard 100% you can't control 100% you can't and then the other part you know what the ultimate ████ test is nipples no is how much glish you speak huh oh English yeah so when I hear both you guys both you guys speak Vietnamese right I don't ever hear you guys go hey what's up you know like when you speak to a Korean guy when you go to a Korean guy oh yeah oh yeah I went to koream barbecue and the burger G was so good and like like I'm like just keep it this tone they're the most bring it down here and back bring it down here hey how do you feel about how do how do you feel about when people speak Spanglish you feel the same way but they don't
13:33 emphasize it like that they just say the word oh who the ████ no one says I make fun of all time King tacos burritos are so good no one says that even they just go oh yeah the burritos were good oh I like the tacos from tacos from El tacos ELO but there there are there are like Koreans do that though yeah that's true they let you know I'm speaking English right now bgy s is so good you know like you know I don't go like ████ cheating like I don't say compow chicken like [Laughter] that hey you better start you better you want to keep this I go kungpow chicken I keep it chill kungpow that is true do you think do you think that do you think
14:23 it's based on maybe is that a stronger thing like because Koreans technically tend to be connected more to their Roots they speak Korean yeah but then like people like me like I'm Filipino but I know no talog like it's cool like maybe there's like I think that's the Divide that's the Divide bro I we're not the same especially like for instance like when you hang out with like C certain Korean folks and they speak hella Korean near you you're going be like oh this is not for me when I goe okay I'll just exit this conversation yeah that's cool but like but like the thing is you have pride in what is prideful right right so like you think about Korean culture from like K dramas they kick it like way harder than like a lot of Asian dramas uh K-pop music Worldwide phenomenon ████ up a lot of other Asian sounds um Korean skin
15:14 care destroys the ████ market right best everything Korean actually is K barbecue everyone loves K barbecue you're you're ████ loser if you don't like it so it's like because it's so dominant and like a ████ win in almost every sector of what they do ████ Sam sing ████ it's like easy to have pride in that if like 100% if people loved everything Chinese it would be a lot easier for me to like be Chinese prideful if everybody loved everything Vietnamese outside of just like f and their ████ nail salon or some ████ I would have higher Pride I think it's even less than that I think it's more about like at home where you grew up what language is dominant yeah it could be that Chinese okay so then Bart is probably going to be more likely to be speaking depending on the the
16:05 neighborhood you grew up with he not hey would you like b b who wants Boba dude but like for like in in t family like most when they're at home they're speaking Spanish like when I'm over at the house I'm only here speaking Spanish yeah that's sweet so then but when she is like with her friends she gets along better with people who also have similar upbringings like other Latin folks who only speak Spanish at their house they have more to connect on versus then someone who's like five or six Generations removed or whatever where they're like a more more American it's not like the experience is completely different I just feel like they just kind of bond and Vibe different cuz it REM it makes them feel also think about like this you know when you like talk to another homie or something like that and like an easy way to connect with them like quickly and truly is to talk about them just any person any person social ████ right it's
16:55 like if I just hella talk about you we can flow this conversation cuz I'm willing to talk about you right so imagine if we all love Korean things we can easily talk about Korean things that's their ████ they can they could talk about it I have a lot of Korean friends but then if they don't like like Chinese ████ the conversation goes like how how are you doing you know it's so surface level so I think I think a point of Pride still comes from even in the Asian-American chines sucks CH Chinese is the chines talk about me very bad we don't talk about you it's a chines Chinese movie very bad Chinese film very bad Chinese of vcd very bad what are giant points of Pride for you for like Chinese people you think about it that way though I don't think about it that way but what I do know is uh so the only time I lean into
17:45 the Korean realm of my own version would be like let's say with Jason channy cuz he's Taiwanese and I know we're rare so like like but I don't I'm also a like I'm aware where I don't try to exclude the group from our conversation like I'm just saying what in your mind out of like all the other cultures like Chinese number one at this and you believe that ████ I think Chinese is like number 59 at everything they just play a volume game you know what I mean which is why we only go hard on like Kung Fu movies Chinese ████ is like the ████ like is it's like the ████ Dell Taco of the world it's like it's like after first 20 options fine I'll e there that's what I'm saying though like I think that's where the pride comes from it's not just like like it's warranted Pride yeah it's
18:36 warranted and maybe it's exacerbating a little too much when you should be a little considered that other people maybe don't have as much things to be prideful of you're just worried Mike so I'm going to watch this yeah I know just kid I think we're saying the same thing I know he knows it I'm like yo your KB is hella hard like but but Mike's always been mad cool yeah he's the coolest of the Koreans that's I didn't meet Mike songs in high school in high school you know what what it was like it was like I the way I ended was like I'm not offended by it because I think that's an admirable quality that they have but the thing that would suck is that a lot of the time when I'm hanging with Korean guys I'm like a clown and they're like this guy's funny all right let's go do real ████ now and it's like they won't want to kick it when it's like what they really want to do but then it's like I'm entertaining them I didn't have uh Mike songs or Davids or anything like that in high school but I was super close with some Koreans and the how I knew I was
19:30 close with them was I my nickname ended up being the n-word cuz they have cuz you know Koreans so the Korean language actually has nword for every other Asian race you know that W that's how unique their language is there's like there's one for Vietnamese there's one for Chinese there probably one for Filipino they have an nword for every single NEP but I end up being the ████ but I end up being the uh n-word for Chinese and that they would just call me that and I felt so accepted wow so is that a term of endearment or like like very derogatory I thought I earned it because I was the N word that could hang with them so Les last word Joe what do you think Joe what was your experience with Koreans in high school in high school yeah dude I knew one or your whole life he was a he was a bookie for gambling what the ████ stor dude he was cool as
20:22 ████ he was cool as ████ shout outs to Johnny um all right which race do you think is the snobbiest the snobbiest yeah dude all Asians are ████ snobby but for the stupidest reasons cuz I remember I was dating this girl and her parents were like chuch chow and ████ and they were like hella ████ snobby they're like oh he ain't even taller than you Chow hey chuch Chow's my family ████ yeah and I'm all like bro you're judging me but I'm Japanese you know what I mean it's like come on dude like can't have a ████ southe Asian judging me you know you know what's funny though it's the way you slice pie though because if you talk about Chinese the core of Chinese people the rest of the world doesn't even exist to them cuz they have so many provinces so I see where that's coming from cuz for them chucha's competing with shichuan
21:13 competing with fukin competing with t whatever they're like the the that's I mean the the word China like Z go it's like center of the earth right that's how they view it they go everybody else is an accessory to our Empire that's how they view it it's like zong it's like middle of Earth which in the same Korean Pride way is warranted based off their population size and like land density like it it's warranted in a way it's exacerbated but you know what I mean it's built off of some understanding of something I think Korean is like me when I cuz when I started talking about them or talking to them I just can't stop talking about their products and their their things that I enjoy that's what I told you though you're talking about their ████ yeah and they love it how many times are they talking about you're Singapore and your Chinese ass but you know what I I'm okay with it I'm just like so what do you guys use for from Singapore should actually be snobby though cuz they're the super they are
22:03 from Singapore they they're successful they got to play a 2x tff on their cars and ████ yeah but that's like only going to take you so far when your birth rate extinct you yeah or or this big dude you know you know what I do know about Koreans I think out of all the Asians they love their own race the most and that I'm jealous me to no ████ Asians rep like their own the way that Koreans when you meet a Korean you'll know everything about what's manufactured in Korea and their history right cuz they just keep talking about it they can't stop and they know it we got to start talking about our own history hey Mike if you watch this I tried what did you try what are we talking about trying he trying to defend Mike oh
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