0:00 Here we go. We're back at the careful boy meter again. We're doing this activity, but now for your own kid. So, for your own future kids, all right? You got 10 points total. They're either going to be popular and or smart on one end. So, super popular >> or super unpopular and smart as ████ >> Yeah, but like you know what it means to be like the worst type of unpopular? >> Boring answer cuz I'm mayor right now. I would go 4 6. >> Which one Which one's six? >> Four popularity, six smart. >> Really? I would edge it just a slight bit here. >> And how's that being >> like a Elon Musk. >> Cuz it's like a safe answer. It's not extreme on one side or the other. I guess this might be more of an Asian thing, but I think most Asian people are 9 1 smart popular one growing up for me. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> And I think like that's a harder thing
0:50 to alleviate if you want to be popular. But if you would just want to be smarter, there's ways you can, you know, you can achieve that. But you're just If you're just not popular, it's like >> a mood. >> But remember when we did this with the other video when we're talking about hot or personality, right? Looks or personality cuz obviously we don't care about hot kids right now. We said that five is like your average. You just exist, but the second you start going up you start getting ugly. Then we're at zero and now you're at more than ████ machine from Cybertron. We're like, you know, really bad like you You create problems by going outside. >> It's popular to hate it. >> Yeah. >> That's the extreme. >> Oh, so it's like like that? >> Well, cuz the reason why you're popular >> I just imagined it was like you're invisible. >> Oh, no, it's got to be consequential. >> That's still popular. That's like Logan Paul. Like that's >> But I mean smart so >> Or Andrew Tate. That's like good.
1:40 >> The way I saw it it was more like you're ████ highly intelligent autistic, but then you have You're not popular because everyone hates your ass. So, would it be zero? >> Oh, so it's loved and hated not popular unpopular. >> I don't That's how I see because when popular Well, famous is different from popular, right? Like when you're popular, people like you. That's why you're popular at school, but famous is different. But I mean, even they got people that like them, so I guess it depends. >> We're talking about our kids. That means if they're hated, they're also getting jumped every day. >> Okay, then if it's that if that's the case, if it's loved if it's loved and hated, I'd probably go >> [laughter] >> I'd probably go >> That's way harder. >> I'd probably go 8 2. So, eight loved? Oh, yeah, you don't got to be that smart, but I think your life is pretty smooth if a lot of people just
2:30 love you. >> But you're like too dumb, so you basically you came out with like Down syndrome basically. >> Hell yeah. Everybody loves you and takes care of you. >> Zero's Down syndrome. >> know what the drawback you know what the drawback is though? >> What? >> So, it's it's easier I think if you have a son. >> Yeah. >> But if you have a daughter who's really popular and not smart, that's a problem. >> That's only fans. >> Cuz she's going to make bad choices in the hypeness of being popular. >> We got different meters on right now. >> But boys, that's tight. >> [laughter] >> You're popular and you're dumb? You're ████ sick, dude. >> If I have a daughter you're a body builder, man. If I >> [laughter] >> If I have a daughter the other way around, I think they're like 3 7. >> I need you to be hated. I need you to be hated. >> Hated a little bit, but really smart. Oh, you know what? You're like one of those Asian girls in the engineering department. [laughter] You're really smart. >> Asian? >> Yeah, no one really likes you, but it's cool because you are going to find that one guy that one white guy that likes
3:22 you probably and then you'll have a decent life. >> You can have your pick of mediocre white guys. >> But I think you go longer in life being liked and popular than being smart because because people that like you like think about the personality higher, right? Like just because people like you, smart people will support you. So, like >> That's true. You're right. That's true. All right, anybody got anybody got that person maybe in their family or their friend group or something like that. It's that older, you know, woman who's just she wants to get married, but she's like in her 40s now. She's been She's basically you already accept it, she accepts it. She's just going to be like, "I'm just going to be single the rest of my life." And half the time you're like you're too smart for your own good. You like you're too smart. You just know too much ████ You know too much of your own personal value, what the world should be like.
4:12 >> Yeah, my grandma was a ████ ████ Cuz she was so smart. She was one of the first women in Japan to go to college. And she was a autistic ████ that every like she didn't know how to drive I saw her old picture. She goes, "Yeah, like guys didn't fancy me." I was like, "Cuz you look like a ████ lesbian tomboy." And then so like she's like, "My sister was always the popular." I'm like, "She was ████ hot." Like >> [laughter] >> she she ████ did herself up. >> She was fine. >> She was getting suitors. Yeah, maybe cuz she did her hair. You look like ████ Albert Einstein. >> NO, YEAH. >> [laughter] >> NO SELF-AWARENESS. She would fight with everybody because she would debate the ████ out of them all the time and win. >> That's where I think that's not smart. In my opinion, I think like you're just not you have your social IQ is so low that it dips your intelligence generally
5:02 like to remedial point. I'm like cuz you cuz you want these things, you're standing in your own way. So I would be like uh probably be easier to just be popular. >> Yeah. [laughter] Cuz I do think once you get smart though, it's that autistic smart. So you're too smart at that craft where you're not life smart at all. >> That's why I feel like I'm skipping seven and eight. I can't do like seven three or like eight two. I feel like you either go the whole thing like nine one or you go to like six four. Or you go to like six four because if you're going to lose >> I think six four I would do I would do that for sure. >> Autistic and hated? If you're going to lose something anyway, cuz if you're seven eight smart, if you're seven eight smart as well, then sometimes you're too smart for people out there. And then you're also not like you're three you're three or two in terms of your popularity. You're already disliked as well. So, I'm like, if you're going to go disliked, then just be hated at one and then just be brilliant so you
5:53 have guaranteed something. But, if you're going to be like kind of liked, but like not enough to be loved, but you're too smart and you're in your own way, it's like, what is that? Just be 6'4. >> Yeah, cuz I think I think you're right because like it's I think like if you've dated girls like that, I've I've dated girls that were like really really smart and they're it's harder for them to like live in the moment and just kind of like enjoy the now. They're always analytical about everything. >> don't even get wet. >> [laughter] >> They get strategically hydrated. >> they're so ████ analytical. >> Yeah, it's like and they're so they're also so critical of you and that's not fun. >> Yeah. Like everything you do one little thing, why do you sip like that? You don't have to do that. That's not efficient. Like, shut the ████ up. >> [laughter] >> Smart chicks got dry ████ >> You know what I mean? It's like that kind of thing. It's like, why are you looking at everything microscopically? Dumb yourself down and enjoy life, you
6:44 know what I mean? I think >> That's what I would want for my daughter to be able to at least just like appreciate where she is instead of like nitpicking everything cuz smart people do that. >> Yeah, I'd rather go full Downs, but everyone loves it. >> Full Downs? What number is Downs? >> Zero. >> Negative one, maybe. >> [laughter] >> 10 love personality. Dude, think about it. >> Oh, yeah. Can you do negatives? Negative one and 11 on the other? >> 10 love >> We're going love versus personality now. We're not even [laughter] at the original. >> Well, like popular, right? Like love and Downs. >> Popularity and popularity or smart? You're going love and personality. >> Well, cuz what is the down of smart? The dumb? What's the down? >> What would be [laughter] the DOWN OF SMART? >> DOWN OF SMART. >> It's IQ beneath ████ 50. >> Okay, like golden retriever IQ.
7:34 >> Is there beneath 50? >> Yeah, it's got to be like a golden retriever. >> Oh, ████ But, think about love on a spectrum. Everyone ████ loves them so much. I've Like I ████ met like a couple of the members >> You can't be categorically in a different class. You have to be in like the average, but you're just the bottom of the barrel. So, you can be judged like >> You can't be a celebrity downs. >> Yeah, yeah, cuz otherwise >> Forrest Gump is too down? >> You can't >> [laughter] >> You can't officially be like, "Yeah, but you know what? They're ████." >> Okay, okay, fine. Okay, we won't go negative then. >> It's like the person who's like, "You just really don't like them because they're not supposed to be ████." >> I can't do that. I can't have a daughter that everybody hates. It's just too hard. >> Cuz that's different. Like downs, we're talking about down syndrome now? Everybody's going to love that. >> Hey, real talk though. Okay, Jordan Peterson was saying like the best way you could set up your kids is make sure that they have
8:24 traits that are likable. And then I was like, "Why is that?" And he goes like, "That ████ goes way Like when people want to protect you, you're popular, they love you, they want to do ████ for you. Like that's That's just so much more like a better way to live and it makes a happier kid or like a a happier person, you know? Like when Like imagine if you get your way because you're a Karen and you're ████ obnoxious, but you like you're squeaky wheel, right? So, you get greased. But like imagine how miserable they live. >> Yeah. >> Yeah, yeah. But then like if you're liked because people like, "I love doing favors for this person." Or like you're the personality hire, you might be a ████ doof, but like, "Dude, I like I like having them around, you know?" >> Funny thing, this is going to sound preachy because my pastor is the one who told me this, but when I was a kid he had this like parable or like the story he would tell about this baby that was
9:15 born and the parents were given one wish from Jesus on what this baby would live like and they just said, "Oh, Jesus, we just want everyone to love our baby, to love our daughter." And then Jesus is like, "Okay." And so the girl grows up and everyone loves her her whole life, but she has a a miserable existence because they should have wished for her to love others instead of everyone love her. So because of the inability to love other people, she didn't love herself. >> Oh. >> AND I WAS LIKE, "WOW, COOL." >> THAT SOUNDS LIKE the script of obsession. ████ deep, dude. >> Yeah, it's pretty deep and I was like, "Oh, that is" cuz like as a kid you're like, "I just want everyone to be to love me. I'm so popular." >> I thought when you said like, "I want my kid to be loved by everyone." Then God just gave her big titties. >> [laughter]
10:05 >> Dude, that his pastor said that to him? That's where you thought his pastor was going? >> Well, if [laughter] you if you're going to be loved by everyone >> His pastor was like, "Little Ryan, I have a parable to share with you." >> Oh my god. And that was the lesson? [laughter] >> The parents are like, "I want everyone to laugh at all her jokes." Okay. Don't give her good jokes, give her big tits. >> Big tits, dude. That's the easiest path. >> Yeah. But then I was like, "Oh, that's an interesting thing." So I think when you're when you're judging this thing I think being too popular might go into that realm, right? >> Yeah, if you're not if you don't have the inside all worked out. >> Yeah, that's like being a major celebrity where like they go through some crazy turmoil. >> Look at all the how many divorces they have. >> Yeah, dude. 6 4. 6 4 to be more >> 6 4 I like 6 4, yeah. >> It's a good mirror thing. But we we girl dads, we're girl dads. It's different. >> So six popular, four intelligence. So they're a little bit under average
10:55 intelligence. >> I think it's a blessing to not be smart. I really do. >> bit above >> I think in the world in the world we live in, it's a blessing to not be too ████ smart. >> I got one employee that's borderline like probably a golden retriever levels intelligence. >> Happy all the time. >> ████ happy. >> Well, she doesn't work for us anymore, but when she was around man, that girl >> For being dumb cuz then that's different. Cuz that's crazy. >> She kept getting her schedule wrong cuz she can't read a calendar. >> Is that the is that the girl who kept putting one teaspoon of scoop at a time? >> [laughter] >> That's a whole different person. >> But she probably got picked up by ████ Tesla or something. >> She works at a different coffee shop. And yeah, I think >> Everybody likes her so they'll always hire her. They'll just always hire her. >> Do you remember? >> [laughter] >> It's not that. >> have that field in your application? >> [laughter] >> Yeah. How much coffee can you fill? Is
11:45 it a venti or is it a grande? >> [laughter]
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