0:00 [Music] there's a really Hey Joe can you give me a water yeah thank you leave all by the way so we got a uh we got a a viewer named Judith and she's asking the million-dollar question why are you gay that is that would be the million dollar question why are you gay I watch it really opens up the mind are gay why are you Gad do you believe that um once a cheater always a cheater oo I do but it's such a generic thing though because like when like were they you were in marriage yet or like were you in high school or cuz for me if you're like a mature person and you're in a marriage
0:50 and you cheat then yeah once cheater always cheat but if it's like you cheated at a when you were 15 with your like high school it's not the same is it cheting if you're just jacking off and watching porn definitely if the rules of your relationship are that you you can't do that then wouldn't it be I don't cuz isn't cheating just breaching the rules of your own relationship I agree whatever the parameters are par are I think for me it's um so I learned I guess about a healthy relationship backwards oh so my parents are divorced right so I think I don't think they were like a good role model to me um cuz I got divorced when I was six so you know how they say like you model your relationship based off of like I don't know whatever is the healthiest one around you yeah the one that I saw that was the healthiest were my grandparents
1:41 and ever since I was a kid my grandparents they would like after dinner they'd go to the park down the street they go for a walk and they're like arm in- arm they're like looking at flowers and stuff and just as a kid I'm like wow it's so beautiful to see like how they're so like in each other's lives they're extremely involved like um uh like my grandma like to smoke cigarettes before she takes a nap so my Grandpa would be like like his rounds around the house would be like oh has two cigarettes left and then so when he goes to the supermarket he'll like get that stuff ready like he he's very attentive to like her needs you know and or like oh oh her blood pressure medicine is low so I like I'll take a note of that and then I'll see her do the same thing for him where it's like she's like okay like he likes to eat this or we go down to the supermarket oh cool this meat is on sale this is what your Grandpa loves to eat so they're
2:32 very very like in tune and they they always just try to make each other's life better and I so that was my idea of like a good relationship and then it wasn't until later when my Grandma had Alzheimer's and she would start screaming crazy ████ it'll be like in the middle of dinner but you cheated on me oh ████ yeah that's when it came out what the ████ and I would ask my mom like did that happen he goes like yeah so Grandpa used to work on a ship and then you know he had a affair cuz it' be like out into whatever so it was confirmed Grandpa needed ████ he's been out in the sea for 6 months but I think as a kid it gets molded where like something beautiful can still be created out of like like a crazy ████ up you know yeah if people two people are still willing to work at it and I was like did it ever
3:22 happen again like no he felt so bad that you know like all these things do you think does that mean that when they when you weren't around let's say that it was just them two that they probably were fighting about it still no this is like uh when my mom was a kid oh so it's like a buried thing that they don't even bring I mean clearly she still thought about it which is kind of what I'm saying is like once a cheater always a cheater because you always in in that Rel in in the context of that relationship right you there's always that layer that was mistrust and you bro you violated that trust and so it seems like she even remembered it like obviously when she had Dimension ship yeah and I just think that that's a hugely damaging thing to happen to a relationship like I'm not saying you can't continue and all that kind of stuff but they always have that memory it doesn't go away you can't lobotomize the memory so it ████ with the trust that's all that's my thoughts yeah I think any violation within friendships
4:13 relationships or anything it does make it you you create another element by tainting it yeah but then coming back from it there are cases of mhm great times you know it's like yeah that ████ sucks but you know we're we're we're we learned and if two mature adults and just go like let's move on from this I'm not going to hate on that go for it that's how it should be it should be forgiveness and and it's like well let's you know keep going forward but I think the the point I'm hearing from you is that no matter what it does taint it and it becomes like a kind of a stain on on something pure that you had yeah and and you can build on bad land you just have to put more concrete down and all this other stuff but like you you always you always remember though what you had to do to get your house that way and I just don't think that goes away oh it doesn't go away but I feel like for those that
5:03 can overcome it it'll probably be like look at how strong our love is because we were able to be tested sure and overcame it yep yeah but I don't know it's it's tough like because when you're younger it's more like you think in absolutes like I would never ████ cheat I would never do this you know yeah yeah yeah and then you're actually presented with the with the with the position like young guys right like if you're virgin and also like you've never been in the situation where you're like damn there's a hot ass 10 right in front of me and she's just down to give me a if you've never even yeah you know how they say like the more successful the more um powerful all these things high value men it technically it actually
5:53 becomes harder cuz you have more temptation but if you're like an incel ████ basement dweller you're like like abstinence and it's like know like yeah cuz no one wants to ████ no one wants to ████ that's why you're like I'm a champion for abstinence and it's like yeah but it's you're you're not by choice versus The Rock or Jason Mamoa goes you know what guys I'm abstinent and everyone's like what the ████ seriously so I think that's I think that's the difference is like can you be asent after me oh God or like those those guys out there that are like you know like violence is not the answer it's like but you look like a ████ you can't even fight what the ████ of course not so you're it's like you got to be capable of it the answer then yeah it's like I think violence is the answer always and I still can't fight it's like a capable guy it's a capable
6:45 guy that chooses not to do it it's like a guy that's like you know what man I'm not ████ any girls and it's like but none of the girls want you so of course you're never going to cheat cuz you never are presented with the opportunity yeah but in in uh you know how you were saying what was interesting is that like let's say you cheated when you were 15 and then you're like married to someone totally different at like 35 it's probably not going to bleed over to like your reputation is not going to be like oh I don't know if I can trust you as a wife you know but if you were giving advice to a 15-year-old let's say like a a 15-year-old girl who's dating and she's dating a 15-year-old guy who just cheated get the ████ away from that idiot yeah so you'd be like oh he might be in a phase right unless you're the girl he cheated for like you the mistress yeah but like is once a cheater always a cheater within the window of like 14 to 18 you know
7:36 like in that you're so young you don't know who the hell you are any anyway like until you're until you're like you know you're established somewhat and you've you've you know like Nicks had one relationship he sucks he says all the time if TI cheated it's murder suicide murder suicide homicide yep so but if you've been mulally cheated on and he's not like a virgin s ████ or whatever I I kind of am but he's just a s ████ yeah cuz they' had not virgin anymore but I was a one oh ████ I didn't know that I was a virgin for a little bit that's sick dude I was born virgin too you me really that's pretty cool but yeah you know the cuz I distinctly remember being in high school and like if anybody had ever cheated on anybody it was like totally damaging My First Girlfriend nobody would date that person I think that's what Joe is saying where like when you're when you're young you're extremely idealistic everything's
8:28 a big deal like and then when you get older you kind of see more of the world like I remember um what is it called I had a friend his dad owned a business and he was telling me this story where his dad's right-hand man they found out that he was been embezzling from that company for 10 years wow and it was his best friend too holy ████ I was like what the ████ that's ████ crazy I was like what did your dad do and then he was like he obviously he was pissed and his first instinct was to fire him but I think the the I don't know empathy or whatever side took over and I was like dude what compelled you to do that so he actually gave him a second chance and then he helped the company perform better than it ever has for the next 10 years he's like thank you for forgiving me and then he's like I'm never going to steal and then and he made the company better yeah
9:18 and so when you're younger you're like man if any of the homies stole from me or whatever it's just I'm King that ████ black and white you know but then as you get older and you see different parts of like how people operate you're like w that's interesting that's crazy I never thought of like but finding out what people's motivations were that's really important too I guess I also just think there's no like blanket statements though you know what I mean cuz it's also like absolutes yeah absolutes just you could you could be like forgiving and then it could be like you know 10x like in return or he jacks you again yeah you know what's interesting though is I imagine that like as we go through life you get older you get rid of the absolutes but for some reason I imagine that when once I have a daughter my absolutes are going to come back in the form of like do you think you're going to love your daughter more than your son like no you're not going to date that ████ guy he cheated on you yeah like all your absolutes come back when you're thinking of but that's those are formative years where like you
10:09 should respect yourself you should you should know to create a boundary and say no ████ way I'm not going to take this actually if it was your daughter if my daughter was 45 years old okay and she's always single getting into divorces like five times MH I'm going to be like maybe you should reconsider St that's really good you've been cheating they've been cheating you guys how many times have you cheated she goes like 15 yeah exactly scarios come on you know hey dude like no one's a saint here I think it depends that's true though H what if she's what you've done what your partner's done the history I think like depending on that person it's like if you live throughout life virgin never did anything virgin
11:01 then I would tell my daughter dude how the ████ that's horrible don't give this ████ a second chance yeah cuz you know what you know what happened my first girlfriend she left she lost her virginity to another guy cheating on me well I was a virgin God I'm not going to it's a dagger it was it was crazy it was crazy but I was like after that like I was like how can I that's I'm not going to lose my virginity to her now yeah yeah dudee she's two she'll be 2 and 0 she's tained taking everyone's vcards dude yeah bro but then you know that you know that like that sentence that just makes I don't know that's a imaginary dad it makes my hard drop the sentence of dad he cheated on me oh what's the advice like how what's the consolation you're thinking about a you'll survive you're thinking about a cute ████
11:52 18-year-old I'm thinking about a 45-year-old ████ that's like why dude keep ████ up what's your advice to your 17-year-old daughter grandparents cheated that's what I say who's Bart and all is okay it does depend on the kid cuz then like Tao was like me and Robin aren't friends anymore I'm like what did you do okay yeah yeah you know I think it depends on the kid I think I would ask her um I I know it sucks but do you imagine yourself marrying this guy oh cuz they don't think that far and she's like not anymore yeah yeah yeah that's her then go then why you wasting time why you ████ wasting time with this guy the problem is they do think that far at that age bro I remember being that age and they think they're going to marry him first person you're with you're like oh we're going to get married and all this and i' say that's why it hurts so
12:43 bad already doubl down already your ████ composition notebook you're like writing their name 600 times then you go you don't have this perspective the magical perspective of Jo talking about here I go are you going to marry this person and like no of course not well then it's time to move on of course they don't think that this was going to be my ████ husband dude Squire she goes you're going to have six kids so she goes daddy love of my life oh no you don't know how much I want to marry this guy I was like all right yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah put him on the phone uhhuh tell him come over what's up Mr jitsuwa all right you 40-year-old ████ I know my sweet ass 18-year-old girl can he I like where I'm 38 why is everyone 40 she's the same age you need to stay away from 40y old they're the same class I we're going to take a walk all right my daughter wants to marry you yeah yeah
13:34 going to be very happy I was like honey go to your room I'll be like you ████ ████ all right you see what this knife he's like hurry up I got to go to work in 5 minutes fing knife you ████ ████ exactly I'll ████ cut your dick off with this dull plastic knife oh o that's actually you're going to propose to her and make her ████ happy and if you ever cheat on her or anything again I'm going to cut your dad's dick off and stuff it down your throat dad dick is good my dad's dead I'll I'll dig your dad up I'll cut his dick off and I'll shove it down your throat how about that how's that for a boner boom wow say welcome to the family shake his hand I'm dating another 18-year-old I'm done you're going to force them to be together I'm yeah so I you know what it is I am a very like big
14:24 proponent of you made your ████ bed sleep in it right so if she goes want to marry this guy and I'm all like all right if you think that's a great idea and hopefully by this time she knows how my mind operates and I let her dig her own grave until she learns her own lesson wow then I go you think that's a great idea all right then you should marry him so this is the like I got caught smoking cigarettes and now I got to smoke cigarettes y now she has to ████ be with this guy and if he becomes a nuisance to the family and he's like causing all these issues then he's got more family advents he's got to be eliminated you catch your sweet 17-year-old daughter in like a giant orgy oh then I say honey get out of here and I took off my clothes and start ████ all of them they're 17 oh never mind oh God I didn't think they were young then you send her then you send her to to a bigger or I
15:16 thought they were all my age oh my goodness he's all send them where send her to a bigger orgy cuz then she'll really learn yeah I mean with her having my genetics she probably would be Kazumi 2.0 okay not that I'm going to raise her this way well I mean Hannah will probably have some say just a little bit but mhm okay I don't know man it's difficult because I think everyone's initial reaction is like get the ████ out of there what are you doing this guy's an idiot yeah but it does tell me that they have a weak character if they if they go back to a cheater no the cheater oh yeah they lack discipline yeah yeah I like I mean that's like being a druggie or whatever like you're addicted to something and then you just you just fail for a little bit couldn't control yourself yeah lack
16:06 of self-control as a Dad what's your feelings let's say daughter I would say differently if they were married oh yeah yeah of course it's a different it's a different thing daughter 17 she got a boyfriend he cheated on her she's crying to you Dad should I stay with him I love him he probably wouldn't do it again right translator that exists that can translate dog language that's why you can hear oh my God so much wait your pug 17 the Pug's about to pass away in dog years or human years dog years guacamole everywh yeah they dating is past them you know um if I had a daughter I would say you have an absolute in this situation or are you very open to like I think chances are I think look yeah of course you know they could work it out and be fine together but at that age I'd probably be like cut your losses and move on let me ask you
16:56 something what if you like really ████ like this kid more than your daughter ooh that'd be hard that' be hard star player at the same know that can happen but at the same time though like if you like you said he's a star player I'd be like oh dude you're ████ this is going to be your life this is what you're going to be doing like like what if he was like your Jiu-Jitsu prot you love this dude ████ amazing it would hurt even more but not only does he cheat on your daughter but beats her up oh my God what the cuz sometimes and you taught him how to beat her up you like it more you like it more then I'm a piece of then I adopt him no then then it's I think it's more on me right cuz I think it's like oh I ████ up if you adopt him then it's your son and
17:46 daughter having sex yeah never mind I'm not going to adopt anybody that was a throwaway okay be a throw away um that would really make me very sad that would be I I feel like I I'm a bad parent or something so who do you beat your daughter or him that's true who do I beat up yeah do you beat up your daughter or you beat up him no I don't think I beat up my beat up no but I in the story he likes the son more than the daughter the guy beat her up just look Anthony people are getting a lot out of this prompt right now and we just need you to calm down I would have to ████ try to fight this dude yeah I would have to try to fight him I like that I like that he's the one giving you these elements but you're answering me oh I would have to try to find this this by the way started with are is is once a cheater always a cheater and then it turned into is it okay if your daughter's boyfriend cheats and then
18:37 beats your daughter kicks your kid's ass but you really like this guy and you taught him his moves you're Jiu-Jitsu Pro your daughter's 45 and she can't get married no one wants them really well it's so boring to go with the same question we already answered yes no now move on evolve it yes Steve this is giv everybody a lot right now I need you to calm down dude you don't like content what's wrong yo all the homies I know that like would cheat on their girls all the time like uh damn you got a lot of friends that are cheater the color of their belts well well well a lot of them like they are I don't want to say they're slaves to women in a lot of ways but like that's like their main ████ like your Vice like they just can't do anything but like oh I just got to ████ talk to these ████ all the time so it's like
19:28 I don't say once always once a cheater is always a cheater but like the chances are that is the case it's like women addiction yeah like if if they don't have something that stops them from doing it like sometimes it is the the repercussions of okay this guy cheated on his girl his girl wants to leave he loves that girl that is the only thing that'll stop him from wanting to cheat but if that but I've had friends too where they had the girl of their life the love of their life they started cheating she he wanted to dip but they stayed together but he still continue to cheat so it's like yeah that's that's something he needs to heal first exactly number one for me dude and by you already stepping out of your relationship like that cuz I feel like once you it's once you open the floodgates bro it's really hard to stop yeah yeah like that's the thing so it's like once you open Pandora's Box I think
20:19 it's a lot of times it's it's over for a lot of people I mean the word in itself is called cheating I thought you say Pandora yeah is a great music app that I use it's called cheating it's not called ████ fairness and and playing honorable true called cheating you're ████ you're cheat yeah ta Chi so why why do they have the question is cheating ever okay what kind of ████ prompt is that that's I mean that's the question it's it's contact y the the fact that he's like what if he's are jiujitsu pro to J tell me about it dud he beats your daughter so Ryan is cheating okay what kind of stupid ass question is that but
21:09 you really like him what if he fixes cars and yours you got a real bad one it first and then I beat his ass hope that um Judith I hope you found some form of answer and all these variations just make sure you know one tool and this ████ boxer drawer that you can probably pull out of maybe yeah it's a junk drawer though yeah the junk dra every Tools in here yep we'll revisit the prompt in a couple weeks work though let me mature a little bit more and I'll give you a different answer
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