0:00 But I like that he was just himself. So another example of I think all of you guys in this room are are pretty much yourselves, right? >> You told me not to be myself earlier. >> You just told me not to be myself. >> Like you have confidence enough to wear that ████ in public. [Music] >> Gio is going to give us the things that guys have to stop doing right now in order to get chicks. >> Oh, like the the stuff. Yep. Yep. In order to get chicks. >> In order to get chicks, I would say >> stop doing these things. >> Yeah. So, stop being too nice when like stop trying to be our friend when you don't want to be our friend. >> So, beat them up. No, he disagrees with that one. >> I don't agree with that. Yeah. >> Also, she's she's kind of bad at this cuz she was my friend and I was trying
0:50 to holler at chicks and she'd be like, "Do this, do this." And none of the chicks liked me >> cuz she was sabotaging a relationship so she could you could pee with her. >> You did that. No, I didn't like >> I just thought like >> she had the crushies. >> ████ no. Not at all. >> She's trying to ruin all your chances. >> Never. >> He should be mine. >> Maybe I'm just ████ out of the box. I don't know. Maybe I'm just not normal. Obviously. >> Yeah. >> I'm with you, ████ >> We're not ████ >> Like, you know, when you're in your early 20s, you're like, "Oh, you got the the three-day rule. Uh, you don't want to be too thirsty." >> What do you think? If guys get their number, can they just call and text right away? Hey, what are you doing? What are you going to do? Can I show up in the living room? >> Well, that's ████ weird. But like just being up front and just being and I'm also old now, so the game is different. >> But you know, but you know though, >> ████ you. >> Um, >> but I just think I just think the guy
1:41 should just be upfront, you know, but that also takes a confident person. So like there's so many layers to even getting to that. >> Yeah, Nick wouldn't know, but like >> what the I'm actually so confident. >> Hey, he's one for one. Once I know the girl likes me, then I'll be >> then you go. Got it. >> You know what the young say? >> Be my confidence. >> Don't be cringe. Don't try too hard. >> Yeah. Don't be ick. I mean, there's a lot of icks. For sure. >> But I've always been like, just be upfront. >> But that does take a confident person. >> Do you like the thing where dudes, they'll be like, so they talk to the chick, hey, what's up? And they're not even giving eye contact. I feel like the young kids are like this. Our age people, you talk like this, blah blah blah blah blah. Do you like edetomame? I love edetamame. Whatever. Right. >> Let's go get some. >> Yeah, let's go get some. The kids these days are like, "Oh, so you like Adam or like what?" Like, >> "Yeah, >> that guy's sick, though. That guy is cool." I hang out with the guy. >> Like in high school, you want to hang
2:31 out with the cool guy, right? Like you want to be with a bad boy >> that doesn't look at you in your eyes. >> Yeah. In high school, you want to be like mistreated a little bit because you just don't know any better, you know? >> Oh, he doesn't want me. I'm so horny for him. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> But then in college, I feel like it changes. >> But I feel like our fan base now is probably late 20s to mid30s. So, we're not talking to college high school or college kids no more. So, it's like dating at this age. What is probably better? >> Yeah. >> At Gio's age, >> that's unheard of. >> Not that ancient shocked I was. >> Get them, dude. Get them. Get them. >> Aren't they in a wheelchair? >> I've always been. >> Yeah. How do they do it at the senior home? >> Yeah. >> I've always been Just be upfront, right? Like, yes, you can get embarrassed and it's a huge price you pay, but then at least you know where you stand, right?
3:21 Don't do the Nick route where you try to be their homie and you try to >> Don't do the Nick. >> I didn't try to be their homie. I was their homie. Okay. >> It's scummy. Are you saying scummy? >> You don't know how dumb guys are. If you tell them, >> but but so so if you know that, if you know that, then why would you tell them to be to just be straight up? Because this is what they're going to do. Gio told me to be straight up. Hey girl, I'm horny. >> Yeah. Yeah. Okay, that is stupid. >> See? >> Yes. Okay, don't say that. Thank you. Thank you for reminding me. I just forgot how dumb you guys are. >> Exactly. >> Um, thank you for checking me. I appreciate it. >> What's the playbook for a guy that is socially dumb? >> Don't hit it like that. Be like, "My dick is doing that thing where it's super hard." >> That's how you do it. >> Be kind of cryptic. >> It's too It's too hard. Yeah. Yeah. It's too much. >> That's why I think I keep hitting on the confidence thing, but you you worded it way better. Um, I don't know, man. you I
4:13 think you should give the advice here cuz I know what I would like as a girl, but that's what they want to hear. That's what they want to hear. They think we're all We all cucks too. We don't know. Yeah. We don't know ████ >> And they go, "Oh, you guys are famous. That's why you easily get women." >> They they they don't even listen to us. >> So I can So I've I've only dated ugly guys, right? >> Fire. >> Everyone's catching strays. Everyone's catching strays. I've only I've only dated broke ugly guys. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Hi. >> Yeah. Yeah. She's done. >> I think you need >> All right. So, there's the door. You can walk. >> They're They're shorter than me. Like, like they're not really slightly, you know, they have zero gain. >> Um, but what I've always liked about all of them. >> We're not playing mafia anymore. >> We're on the same team. >> Stop being a cop. >> Well, you've liked about all of them. >> All of them. Like all
5:03 >> So ugly. So ugly. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. all the ugly guys out there like, "Well, I never had a chance." >> Uh, seriously though, I can only speak on what like I had with Bart. And what I liked about him is because he really had no game >> and and I don't >> look at him now. >> All right. >> I don't I don't like game. No girl really likes game or like obvious game, right? Because we're all playing a game obviously, right? >> Oh, have good game. >> Oh, ████ >> Have mediocre game. >> Yeah. >> Damn. Um, but I like that he was just himself. So, another example of I think all of you guys in this room are are pretty much yourselves, right? >> You told me not to be myself earlier. >> You just told me not to be myself. >> Like, you have confidence enough to wear that ████ in public. >> It's not for style. It's not for style. It's function actually. It's actually
5:53 quite functional. >> She's like, "I'm so I'm so proud of you. You could dress like s███." And he's like, "This is my best." Like, what the ████ >> Like, I tried today. >> Yeah. Like, what the ████ >> This is a built tea. It's the brand new. Yeah, these are like >> Yeah, >> Nick woke up this morning and he looked himself in the mirror and he's like about to get wrecked today. >> Gio's coming in today. Make sure she makes fun of my fanny pack. >> Put your mouth guard on, buddy. >> About to get absolutely wrecked. >> I like how you still have it on. Like, I actually have one. >> I got to match you, man. >> No, no, no. Don't bring it back. Leave it. Leave it where it is. >> Um, >> that's rude. But continue. >> But I don't know. And and I keep touching on the confidence thing, but it's like you have to be secure with who you are and be okay with who you are and what your flaws are. Um, and then the right person is going to find that cool or whatever. >> Do you remember like the coolest thing somebody did to like pick you up and you're like, "That's pretty good." >> The coolest thing. So, okay, there was
6:45 this guy that was really trying to He ended up being my boyfriend eventually, but he was really chasing me for a long time. He would come to my work all the time, try to get my attention, uh, try to make me thirsty. >> Yeah. Tried to make me laugh. Um I was clearly just being like, "I'm not interested. Not interested." But obviously, I wasn't giving him the ████ you, but it was enough for him to feel like, "Okay, this this ████ wants a little bit." >> So, he kept he kept doing it. Um kept trying to make me laugh, making jokes, just um one time he showed up with and this is so stupid, but like he showed up with a picture of um my face on his shirt to be like, >> "Let's beat his ████ ass, honestly." >> But to be super funny. To be super funny. to be like, I'm your number one fan. And I was like, damn, this guy is like really persistent and he's like funny and he's smart or whatever. And I'm like, all right, that's actually kind of cool. >> So, how do you teach a guy that between
7:38 that and sweet and not being a stalker >> cuz that's I think guys think they're doing that. >> It's dangerous. Don't lead with that. >> It's dangerous. Don't lead with the face of >> For sure. It's hard because >> maybe a dad hat first. >> Yeah. You have to be charming. like you have to understand what charm is and you have to understand like like reading clues in context and I think that's just what's really hard for a lot of people. I don't even think it's just guys, right? Um I I really I ████ have no idea. I just know what I like. My bad. >> No, you're good. This is I think this is like it's like guess what guys? It's real complicated out there. >> It ████ is. And I I feel so bad for guys but it's like I don't know. I I I'm I'm more like just work on yourself. Work on your confidence. work on what you can provide and then know what kind of girl you want and then pursue that. But with it's hard, right? Because it's like how are you not going to be creepy
8:28 or how are you going to be able to like read when she's going like I'm not interested. >> So what happened with t-shirt guy? >> We were together. >> Oh, really? >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Oh, wow. So that actually like worked. >> Yeah, it did. >> For how long? How long were you together? >> About three years. >> Best years of your life? >> No. >> Oh, best years of your life. >> Way better. >> Yeah. Not even close. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> Damn. >> Yeah. But it's hard. I think it's really hard for guys because girls too, like we do tend to send a lot of mixed signals. Like some some girls will be like extra nice just because they feel bad, >> you know? And like I think chicks need to be fair and like upfront too to be like, "Hey, you know what? Like I like you as a friend and I just want to leave it as a friend." But I think a lot of us a lot of the times are just way too kind and we don't want to hurt feelings, but we're like, "Oh yeah, uh" and we just try to like sweep a lot of ████ under the rug. So I think it goes both ways for sure. >> So do you would you categorize it as he warmed his way out of the friend zone in a way? like he warmed you up enough.
9:19 >> I don't ever think he was in the friend zone because he was pretty upfront. >> Got it. >> From the beginning. Like he was just like, I want to take you on a date. And for me, I was like, I'm not even in that headsp space. >> Mhm. >> So, I just knew what the intentions were right away, but I I've never dated anyone that I put in a friend zone. >> Got it. So, persistence >> other than I guess this guy. >> So, should you should >> So, friend zones you can climb out of, >> but it's really hard and it's really rare, >> but you have to rig the car to break down during a snowboarding trip. Oh, >> you got to plan it out ahead. You got to be a planner. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> And you're like, "Oops, I guess we're having an intimate conversation in >> a snowy adventure place." Snowy. >> Yeah. Yeah. It's hard. I don't know. >> And Toyotas do break down every once in a while. Who would have thought? >> How did all of these wheels defip suddenly? >> Yeah. It It is kind of weird. I never really questioned that. Yeah.
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