0:00 the day we live over and over again so a couple years ago it was like during Co right and it was kind of ████ cuz everything's going to hell right and I remember um Anthony's dance studio closed [Laughter] down that's the day I live [Music] over welcome back to care for boys today we are going to pick a day in our lives that we would relive over and over and over again Groundhog Day style wow if you could jeez that's a Gooding question oh man there are so many dope ass moments and um I kind of so for me it was like moving to Hawaii right every single time I just had this feeling of
0:51 like oh wouldn't it be good if we could stay a little longer or like oh I love being with my family here but I just thought it was like me and Maui with my family and Everyone likes being in that like reunion feeling and you like oh I want to recreate this but I was like well I'm actually getting the same feelings without my family so I was like and I'm having it with my other friends and then it's just the environment and I'm like how can I recreate this over and over and over and I was thinking about this the other day that I didn't know that I was trying to recreate that Groundhog Day like you mentioned but then when I was in the water I was like oh this is what I just want to do every single day and it feels like the first time like it's the first drug how often do you get in the water over there like a couple times a week do you yeah like so every time you're in there you're trying to recreate like this thing you're chasing almost when I was sitting
1:42 in the water the other day so we would like we barbecue at the beach now so we just eat and then I jump in the water and I'm like it still feels like the first time that I went there and I'm swimming and nothing in my life has felt that that's awesome where like you over time everything loses it's thing right so like you get your first like joint and you're you're trying to chase the last high and then I'm like the last high I would say like snorkeling and things like that might the novelty might go out but the feeling of being in the water and swimming it still feels good like the feeling of like you go in and you had a rough day and then you get out and you feel refreshed again and it's these small little simple things of like just taking a shower just just like that it's
2:32 like so ████ good yeah but that I like that I like always being in the water and if I could be in the water like twice a day I'm super ████ happy that's the Hawaii effect baby I don't know what it is about the water there that's different from here it's the wind too it's the air it's it's everything everything yeah it's the aura it's it's the slow pace and the peace you receive from it my life is pretty high paced over there but then um it's the I get to unwind really quick as far as like stress relief right there's probably nothing else that really matches that like mindfulness that you get when you're just in the water and you're by yourself and you're just you're just present you're not thinking about anything else you're probably not thinking about too much work stuff and it's pretty quiet when you're in the water we lost like a over a mill in crypto right a couple weeks later I'm in the water in Hawaii looking like this
3:23 and I'm like I should be really ████ sad right now can you have like drinks on the beach in white or they I mean people brown bag and then people smoke brown bag in the water cuz I was just in Miami people are rocking the ████ trues and ████ and I'm like this is the goddamn life that's hard to beat though something about beach beach everything Beach man you have naked ass people that are hot as ████ and just sitting there yep spying on the highs with their sunglasses on baby can't see well that's what lot know doing my eyes are like this that guy's smiling a lot over there with the sungasses locals locals don't mind just having a regular job that pays the bills cuz they're already in Paradise they're in Paradise already they don't care about becoming a millionaire cuz now they're just like it
4:13 doesn't matter bills are paid they just go to the beach It's the funniest thing right it's like Be A Millionaire why so you could retire why so I could retire and be in Hawaii it's like I'm already in retirement mode bro so quit jby s everything dude let's see what you do don't be a ████ see what happens dude I just love business yeah yeah that's his hobby you can enjy from that too right well I think the the thing that I've always wanted is like the balance of um having access to a vacation space really quick mhm so it's like you do your work you do what you got to do but less than a 10-minute walk I could just jump in the water right or like I could call up my friends and then because of that lifestyle everybody's just available to have a barbecue or like do normal people ████ I can't do that here everybody's hustling
5:03 everybody's working you got to schedule someone's time like 3 weeks in advance like you can't live that normal like bro life how hard is it to get to the beach for you not hard at all like how many minutes we talk dude okay so from jie my store it's like 20 steps oh yeah yeah if you're looking at jie in front of you you just take a right look for the surf and there's the water there's the water like behind Okay like behind the water there's a hotel and then the beach so if I wanted to there's been days where before work I would just swim real quick take a shower go into my office change and I'm just like in sweet I have a surf board in myice yeah that we just pull up brownie calls me up we're like hey let's go surf I just pull up walk across the street go surf come right back sounds like a dream yeah sick from my apartment about a 15-minute walk damn that's
5:53 awesome yeah yeah cuz minutes la la weirdos they're like oh yeah know la has the beach and I'm like ████ you got to it's 2 hours to the beach it's not even the same Beach Park you got to hope there's a parking spot like you can get you can't even see what's in the water and every day of the week right every day of the week you know alamana park or all over the island right you don't matter if you're in the middle of a work day there's tents with families just chilling and barbecuing wow all day s mic everything right all kinds and I was like wa people have time to do that then I became that group I was like me and Hannah what we do is like okay hey what are we doing for dinner oh you know what let's just go grab some meat now I have a kit I just set up real quick less than
6:43 10 minutes we just set everything up we just start grilling and we're having dinner like barbecuing that's cool and we're looking over there's tents families and I'm like this is why this is like it's you you have access to this ████ quick that's what it is and I'm like for for La I got to plan that ████ you you can't just go in barbecue at the beach you could probably do with your friends in the backyard but like it's does David complain he's like dude what are you doing supposed to be running the store you doing barbec on the beach dude I'm here and you're not I'm here and you're not there I got more ideas to give you but you're just on the beach the best part is driving there and just parking walking out there is no extra n back up go pay 20 put the ticket back in the Wind it's just it's just you walk Park I have my cart in less than 15
7:35 minutes I have all my ████ already set up and I'm grilling and then so from there you have a big full stomach you jump in the water real quick wash out all the ████ grease and then in about an hour you're done so it's like it's like you can still do these things and it's not like a whole like like in LA you got to ████ drive 40 minutes to the beach you get there you're paying for the thing you're doing all this stuff and then like you you know it takes a while it sounds like you are living this in Groundhog Day yeah no yeah he is you are doing it dope JK Hawaii trip yes come down guys yes I'm telling you what's up what's up bar up Joe dude Hawai Hawaii is my final destination I would love to get there okay that' be that' be awesome that's the goal dude do you remember when we lived in Downtown LA Califoria yeah soon in Downtown LA
8:28 remember when we lived there and then just by doing that it cut out like a about an hour and a half traffic driving uh when we had our office in downtown when we lived in downtown it was it was so much more convenient and I was like when you live in LA you spend about 2 hours every day of just driving yep and I was like when you when you gain those two hours back there's just so much more ████ that you can do when I started dating Nikki she was some of the times I'd be so pissed by the time I saw her cuz I was in the car for two hours for real just going one way yeah and it would take me like I would say probably a half hour just to settle down she's like you're so pissed right now I'm like I know but it's not got nothing to do with you ████ driving for two hours you know what's a a groundhog day I I would relive over and over is um first day at Camp of uh fifth grade this is like the
9:20 early 90s but the first day at Astro Camp it was like a space camp and uh the cool thing is that cuz I'd been like sheltered for so many years I didn't meet a lot of kids and then on this first day at Camp there were like hundreds of kids and that first day was like a get acquainted day so whoever you picked to talk to was going to be your friend but you couldn't talk to everybody so it would be pretty sick to be able to do that day over and just meet different kids and just like have lifelong friends from like you know different pockets of these different schools from all around the country that's cool cuz you just never knew and I I didn't I didn't even like know that many people people but to be able to walk to another kid and be like hey what's up man my name's Ryan like I go to school here and then instantly you're like friends is crazy it's not like today where you have to like have a rapport you have to have some kind of
10:11 and you got to watch out if they're like ████ up or something's wrong with them you know like what if you pick a wrong kid you're like a ████ I picked the wrong this kid a weirdo but that's pretty sick grasshoppers in his pocket what what up guys thank you for watching us for so long if you like what we do please support our patreon Jo tell them what we have to offer so every week you get two videos one never released director's cut and another one two hot for YouTube patreon only every freaking week you get that and you get access to our Discord where you can come chat with us and ask us questions that become episodes here cuz we're going to answer them and we're going to take it seriously and we want to give you the responses that you want so come stay connected with us join our patreon click the description below for full details de Gra for me the day i' relive over the
11:01 day i' relive over and over again so a couple years ago it was like during Co right and it was kind of ████ cuz everything's going to hell right and I remember um Anthony's dance studio closed [Laughter] down so that's the day you live over over and over what was it like for Anthony at that time it wasn't good did you talk to him that day yeah of course what did he say uh I don't know he's crying you couldn't wait there to be by a side so he could be witness his crying witness him witness his failures he was watching the kenas studio get closed over and over and over all over the world all three in China the one here are you talking about when they closed the big one or when they closed the small one yeah that yeah all of them the
11:52 China the domino effect he loved like one after another closing down that's the day that's the day from down town from monre Park China all How would how would you live the day differently like if it was groundhogging or would you just do the exact same I would just do the same exact thing yeah just gravel in it yeah I had a great time B brutal I'm thinking you could do wedding day it's probably mine wedding day yeah probably but I'm afraid I'm also yeah second secondary no but I'm also afraid cuz like I in my memory of it so good what if I relive it over and over again and I get sick of it and I hate it dude that's that's the problem with the groundhog thing that's why it's it's only fun if you can change the possibilities of the day that's why like I want to go back to Camp because I couldn't meet every kid you know like go back to a day where like you chose a but
12:42 there was a to z i see you know interesting that's a really good way to look at it this guyy smart 20 2019 for me the year 2019 all the parties ra parties yeah I actually that would be a fun day to relive when the first time you came to foo's house for what drink did I do I could switch up the drink that day you you could change what girls what girls you met yeah was still with Sasha but yeah but yeah I'll switch that up again if I had to it but dude cuz Okay I keep thinking I keep hearing voices I keep hearing Steve's voice on my head from yesterday when we were like dude we're just a bunch of simple men and I feel like we're not that deep I'm not that deep at
13:32 all you know what's crazy about memory is last time you like like let's say you remember a moment like your wedding right yeah you're actually remembering the last time you thought about your wedding it's not the yeah so it's like it's like this effect of like let's say you had your me memory of the wedding right you had the wedding and then the and then you you remember it like a year later and then two years later you're thinking about it from the time you remember to here so it's this ████ weird chain you're like playing telephone with yourself a little bit and that's why they say 50% of your memory is a ████ lie yeah I believe that I remember it being 49% yeah so we all gasl ourselves okay that's different that's a little different and also the state of how you feel today can affect that memory of the past like if you're
14:23 on your period yep that'll really affect it way to suck all the fun out of a memory dude Jesus Christ way ████ is prompt if I ever need to Li to lift myself up with a memory just remember was a ████ lie lie ████ you're fabricating it the the day after why you living in the past bro the day after me and Tiff got married was a pretty ████ sweet day yeah yeah cuz we we we had a place right on the beach in Malibu and we had it was like private beach or whatever access which I've learned is that like that's not really private why what why cuz it's like they say it's a private beach entrance but like anyone can go in there like you can't you can't restrict anybody from going down there but so anyway so we woke up we went paddle boarding we took a little mushrooms wow that's a pretty fun time but it's
15:14 just you know but once what I think about those like my perfect ideal day is kind of in a way of like what we usually do in the summer where like usually on a Saturday I wake up and I I teach and train a bunch like really hard training and then the rest of the day I do like getting training in you know what I mean like I feel like for me to do it over and over again I need like I have a really hard productive morning for me to be able to enjoy myself cuz if I if I if I don't have that I feel like such a piece of trash that I won't settle and be happy and usually what we do is we go to like my mother-in-law's house we go sit by the pool we have like a whole family car assada thing which is pretty ████ sweet it's really hard to be you know but once again I'm a simple simple man yeah we're not deep we're not deep at all we had a great conversation yesterday at lunch we're we were laying over there and we're just like we were looking at each other we're just not the
16:04 that deep yeah I was like I can't I can't put sentences together like Anthony's still up here he's still up here blabbering about his ████ dreams and and me and Nick are back there laughing cuz we're like I'm I'm not that deep when Anthony Lee starts talking about the duality of man I'm like I don't know what that means dude I was like there's only one it means there's only one guy he was doing that he was like telling you guys some ████ about like whatever the ████ you know was I there yeah it was yesterday I think I think you're always there it was at lunch and he was talking about the beauty of like if you think about like life and ████ me and Nick are back there I'm like I'm just thinking about like what am I going to have for dinner he was talking about how he saw like a beautiful view oh oh the ████ waves crashing the ████ yeah how small you feel and I was like this would be a cool wallpaper for my phone snap that's
16:54 what I think it's like oh can I get this on both of my screens if it was a screen saer he just bought a house he's having a good day man Steve was like wow nice poem he's ring hi cus and ████ what I when I see waves crashing into a mountain I'm like Anthony's face after we said that whole thing was just like god dude you just killed his we're simplon man I I was just like I you know I wonder if the Celtics are going to close it out tonight the duality of man he literally said that ████ he said something like it dude he like when no he said he was the waves made him feel like he's small meanwhile I'm looking at the waves being like if I were to get caught out there do you think I can make it back on those rocks that's what I'm thinking dude can I swim against the tide I'm thinking if I Dragon punched it would it split which Jiu-Jitsu technique can I
17:45 use I think I think Anthony just has Acid Trip thoughts while he's sober yeah n for real though which is nice and I'm and I realized I'm like I don't think I'm that thoughtful man I'm jealous too man I think Anthony would stand he'd stand there there's a Cliffs side there's a waterfall going dude he dreams incursive and I'd be like I wonder if there's a ████ pipe up there like what chin I bet there's a ████ pipe up there you know what there's a ████ pipe up there bet there is there's a ████ p over there China did that ████ China did that ████ people are trying to enjoy it yeah my favorite thing is when he has like a very profound concept that he he thinks he invented and then I kind of break it down and turn it into something that he probably doesn't want it to mean but I it sounds similar enough to where I could turn it into
18:36 that he had an idea for a utopian society where everyone's sharing and whatever and I'm like oh like a communist yeah like a communist had an idea for a utopian society well he wanted I mean you know he's sounds so weird he's very um what do you call it like he thinks about like like everybody loving each other and and he has this like he's a sweet sweet boy that's like like he thinks about like how people should strive to be morally yeah he's very idealistic right so when he's constructing this beautiful world my favorite thing to do is to make it to give him a similar situation that is not the same but it's exactly the same because he described it that way I would describe it as I like to take his Legos and I like to break them destroy it all but I think that's
19:26 the thing we all love to do yeah I love that he's just answering a prompt well no this was at lunchtime we're back here he's talking about we were it was during non news I only do it on camera you do it all day I was thinking Christ I was back there and me and Nick are just like know Steve was he was you do it all day cuz I looked at Steve and I was like Steve do you think I'm a deep person and then he goes nah dude we're not deep at all we're just not deep we're very surface level if anything it doesn't mean we're not like oh I love my wife and I have good memories and I can talk about her in a nice way cuz she's like it's like I have a deep relationship with her but like my active brain is not deep at all like my active brain is like extremely like just whatever I'm like no yeah cuz I think I'm the same way where like I
20:18 could be completely content happy doing the same ████ thing for like 12 straight hours like and I don't feel bored I don't feel like I'm a simple simple man yeah I ain't got beautiful brush Strokes breast Strokes in my ████ thinking I was like what breast Strokes I was like oh like this but I ████ go in I just don't explain ████ like a ████ guy with riding curses yeah but you're still happy being completely silent right oh I could do both yeah I deep dive like a ████ mhm yeah your research goes pretty deep but when it comes to um poetically describing a cabinet like I don't do that ████ cabinet that's that's my ████ I'm like to think that's Anthony is funny that sh every Maya Angelo poem I gave up on in like three ████ words you got to hear Anthony described his cabinet bro it's
21:08 pretty tight that have ████ he'll develop like spoken word poetry in his mind about a bottle cap or something you know like bottle cap what makes you a man he honestly good yeah he's good at that did you think of your memory that fool I think I think mine is simple too it's just um like pretty much what I did every single day last week was I like waking up and training and then I like getting just I like being productive get some work done and then get gains bro and then just swimming around the pool with taica and then get and then take him to go what of his activities and then have family dinner watch a movie together that's the best I think BR it took Bart a hard like difficult time to say cuz his life is Groundhog Day he's so routine he probably don't know ████ Monday through Sunday cuz he does the same
21:59 thing every day legit if you want to change up BART schedule he needs like a month and a half you know what the coolest thing too is that you get to you kind of have our groundhogging date with Tao because like every day you can show him a movie he's never seen and see his reaction that's so sick I love that like to show your son the movies you love and the first time he sees it like Back to Future like that's going to be what's cool is he likes watching movies the way I like watching it so he'll watch a movie like 40 times in a row because he's keep picking up new things so I'm watching it with him and we'll keep picking up new things constantly together and it's it's pretty cool is there something that you like that he's like not as whacked as suck ████ cheese cheese he only likes cheese on pizza he hates cheese and burgers he doesn't really like yeah oh he doesn't like accents yeah he doesn't like it so we
22:50 started we pray every night as a family and not even like um like a certain denomination or anything let's just be spiritual and so as we're praying sometimes like I'll just start saying it random accents like dear heavenly father and like stop stop stop stop that I'm like what what what happened what happened I don't know you're talking funny I'm like okay okay I'm sorry I won't do it again de dear heavenly father he just and he gets so ████ pissed what about like movies or like a hobby that you have has he ever been like this ████ oh Hobbies um no but right now he is in the phase of like he he likes to compete yeah yeah hey isn't he into basketball cards right now oh he's into basketball cards like crazy right now so he'll always like he looks at my collection looks at his and he'll like look at him
23:40 and he's like and I'm teaching him what like assists mean points per game and he'll be like oh what does that mean he only makes three points I'm like that means he can get fired next season why do you have this part rip I got a buddy who's got a kid right and he's looking so forward to like like like making her into a little f Fisher like he wants to go fishing with her and ████ and I can't wait for the day where she's like I ████ hate fishing bral man you can't want it that bad what so what I've been trying to do I don't I just don't want him to be a little ████ so when we go on Hikes and stuff like if I catch a lizard I'll have him like petted and stuff and so he's getting used to that so the other day he found a beetle in the backyard like this and then I was like go inside show them mom he okay you go inside but I just hear ah get that thing out of here
24:30 you just set him up you got a little terrorist dude he does whatever you want yes little Menace boy so sick
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