0:00 Is putting racial preferences on dating pro profiles racist? >> No. >> Yes. >> No. >> Why? You got to be secret about your racism. >> Agree with Jason. I think no. But why you say yes? >> Yeah. Why you say >> why you guys say it's not racist? >> Because that's just that's how you come out and then >> Yeah, he's guilty until proven innocent. He goes first. >> How am I guilty? What? Innocent. >> Okay, you go first. Right. >> Not in America. Not >> not in this room. >> Not B America. >> Okay. First of all, United States of Bard America. >> First of all, we have to understand the fact that it is first and foremost foundationally racial. >> It's racial. I'm not saying I'm not coming to the point where it's race yet. We'll get there. >> Very racial. >> It is racial, right? >> To to put that in there denominating a preference. What you do is you believe and you understand and you know that,
0:50 but you don't write that. you a dating profile on a profile where you can swipe and stuff means you already have the ability to deny that without needing to write it and perpetuate that feeling in a community of space. >> What if you don't want Mexicans in your DM? >> Then you just you that's like saying, "Hey, well like uh you know what? I don't want Mexicans around me in my city. Therefore, like I'd rather them be." No, you just don't pay attention to them. But you coexist. >> But you're only thinking about Twitter. But what about like other dating apps where I mean not Twitter, ████ Tinder, but like what if you can't do the swipe thing and all that stuff and then you want to show pre cuz it's like it's like saying this jocks only nerds stay away, right? So it's like don't even bother ████ point Dexter. >> I want to hear what Jason has to say. So why is it no for you? >> But but last conclusion though because I'm guilty until proven innocent. I'm
1:41 not saying you're not allowed to do it. I'm just saying if you do it, it is racist >> to do it. >> What do you think? >> What do you think is not racist? I thought, okay, first of all, I thought is uh the person who says I'm a Hispanic or I'm Taiwanese. I thought you were putting But no, you're you're talking about the person asking this race >> like I like chocolate. >> Okay. If >> they're they're looking to match with the or not match with these people. >> Okay. But if you if you one race, then that's racist. But if you go, okay, you know, Hispanic and and um black >> it's not I don't want this race. >> I want this hat. Okay. You could do two. You could do two. >> Okay. >> If you only do one, that's >> Yeah, but what if you're like, I'm looking for Irish and English. >> Huh? >> I'm looking for whities. >> Yeah. Okay. >> Looking for Irish and I'm looking for English. >> That's okay. >> Not racist.
2:31 >> No, I don't. No, because it's like >> they don't want any brownies. >> Hold on. But the thing is they didn't say, "Hey, you you Irish and English, but you can't be dark." >> They No, they unchecked your box. >> I think that's huge. >> They unchecked your box. >> If you say I'm Irish, you could still be like black or brown and Irish. So if you if I say like I want to be I I want to date somebody Vietnamese. I don't think that's racist and I and I can understand and empathize more because that's maybe more cultural convenience or things. You know what I'm saying? Like it's com and that person who's Vietnamese could be any fair skin pigmentation. Whatever. >> Okay. But I work at the company. I'm like we didn't intend for that. Oh ████ >> Okay. >> You know what I mean? >> Well, why did you agree when he originally thought saying no was racist? >> So you you change your answer? >> No, I didn't change. I think >> he's flexible in the middle. >> He contextualized. >> Cuz to me, I'm like, your preference is your preference. Just like if you like a
3:22 big booty Latina, right? That's what turns you on. Then you just put out big booty Latinas only. What's wrong with saying you don't like big booty Asian chicks? Like >> cuz it's your is your favorite. >> It's your thing. It's like I like pepperoni pizza. So you I'm just trying to >> You can't have a favorite. >> I'm just Yeah, I'm just You can't have a favorite and I can't cut to the chase and try to connect with people more. >> Okay. I would like to I would like to compromise my my answer when he explained it so articulately >> that kind of way >> a little bit because I do think tact is important. I think if somebody goes out right and goes like I only date Mexicans I'm like that's racist. >> If somebody goes I only want big booty Latinos there's something about that that I relate to. I understand I understand >> but only but is only ████ up. I'm just saying on a global scale >> because I because I feel like I feel like the world understands globally big
4:12 booty Latina is like oh okay I get that >> he he combined two categories that guys like big booty and lat cuz it's just a preference. >> Maybe it's all about being niche cuz I'm like only >> Yeah yeah yeah yeah >> and everyone's like that's cool >> but what if it was like scorching hot blondes only. >> That's okay too but just because >> it's vague. It's vague. >> Scorching hot blonde though. Blonde. >> Blonde can be anybody. >> Can be anything nowadays. But that's just your preference. >> ABGs. >> It could be ABG. It could be ABG. >> Yeah. So that's not as racist. That's niche. >> Okay. But you could also you could be like this. Only white American, blue-eyed, blonde. >> That's what I wrote. >> Then then I think then I think I like he's allowed to. That's just racist. >> That's it. >> No, but you can have a favorite. It's like food. It's like what's your
5:02 favorite food? And then you go, "Oh, sushi." But that doesn't mean I hate other food. It's just this one's my favorite. >> You don't think that is the best point? >> You don't think you don't think you could be racial but not be racist? >> Cuz I think it's just all preference. It's like >> racism is hate. Yes. I don't hate >> Yeah. You don't hate other ones. >> It's like this, right? Are we ████ homophobic by saying women only? >> Yeah. >> They're like, "What? You don't want to consider men?" No, cuz I'm straight. I only want girls black and white concept. I can agree with you guys. I just think that in the particular sensitivity of race in this country that >> Yes. Okay. >> race. >> I think that there's nuance. >> There's nuance >> that like we should just understand is more sensiting my time sliding in a DM of a girl who
5:53 don't even want me in anyway. Like David was like, I I'm going to get a Korean cuz I want to ████ keep the culture. racist. >> Hella racist. But he was telling us openly, "Corean only." >> Who said this? >> David. Korean only. He He's so ████ racist. He wants his wife to be able to communicate with his mom. >> Yep. And I was like, "But what about what about a Vietnamese that could speak Korean?" And he goes, "Nope. Korea only. Korean number one racist." >> That's why I was like, you know what? What's the difference between that and someone that's like I was born and raised Muslim and I want a Islamic family because the culture, the religion, everything and then they go Islam only. >> That doesn't mean they they hate anything wrong with that. >> That doesn't mean they hate. It's just they like less than. But if you ask him to eliminate if there's a context where
6:45 they they they're like if you choose one and then you can't have another, then yeah, this is the one they choose. >> Let me let me ask this. Let me let me also I'm trying to I'm trying to meet in in a place of actual understanding. Let me ask this first and foremost. Do you think that the person that you're trying to attract with reading that info is attracted to that? Because if they are, then I'm like, damn, ████ I'm I'll swallow my words. >> I'll tell you what I think >> because if if you're like, "No, if like the girl you're trying to track, if you're like Japanese only and Japanese girls read that and they're like, wow, this guy's kind of racist." and it doesn't work for you then I'm like then I think it's just wrong anyway. >> He's like you believe in racial purity too. Let's >> So that's what that's neo number one bonsai ████ >> So so if if if you believed in racial purity which is why you wrote that then sure ████ it. Right. >> Well listen to Bart.
7:35 >> So what I'm saying is if we're talking black and white I don't think it's racist. Right. Okay. But is it socially acceptable, responsible, or necessary? No. So, I'm going to hide my autism and pretend like I'm not that. >> No. >> But once we get to know each other >> after 90 minutes, >> then I'm going to be like, you know, I talk to you, right? Cuz you're a big booty latina. >> Positive racism. >> He's saying he he can't let go of the truth. >> I can't let go of it. truth will come to the surface quickly. >> So, for example, instead of >> beachball under a pool water, right? It's just going to come up. >> Like a true autistic guy has to wear the >> ████ Joe Biden t-shirt, >> right? He has to. It's like why did you have to wear that outside of the house?
8:26 It can feel that way, right? >> But for me, I'd rather be the kind where like you wear the shirt that after you spray it with water, then you see the ████ Joe Biden. >> That makes sense. >> Okay. So in this in this water spraying >> Yeah. then it slowly comes out >> in this revealing slow nipple ████ Joe Biden kind of typography analogy of yours. >> Who are the people involved in this scenario? Is it just you and the person who who now swiped or is dating you or are we talking about the society that you're talking about? People >> whatever app we're on. Whatever app we're on. >> He doesn't think about it. He it's what he does. >> Yeah. We're on the app. So, I think that's >> and I want my app to be as accurate to me as possible, authentic to me. >> I understand. But that's the thing. I think when we operate in a a community, even a bunch of people are exposed to that, it's its own community. Even
9:16 though you're not talking to everybody, it's a community of people within that app. >> All right, Anthony, can I can I hook you up? >> When everybody's exposed to to something that might, you know, then and the possibility, the sensitivity is is there. >> Your nuances are so b███████. >> Let me hook it up. Let me hook it up as Steve Green. What teach? I haven't been chilling in privilege for a while. >> Single boy. Let's say I don't have a hot ass ████ beautiful wife and I'm a single boy and I put my dating profile. I only want whites. Are you telling me people aren't going to say I'm racist? Cuz they will. They ████ will. >> They'll say it. >> So like that's an example that I think gets you to the what I'm saying is like people it is racist to say that's literally what I'm saying. >> No, no. What I'm saying is other people are going to say I'm racist, >> but I'm like, but I'm not racist. You're
10:07 an idiot. >> He's saying I don't care. This is what I like. >> Oh, no, no, no. I I understand that. I'm not saying it's a matter of like allowance or whatever. Like whether he believes it right or wrong, blah, doesn't matter. I'm just saying it's objectively in today's standards racist. >> I'm like, well, if I'm white, why can't I say whites only? >> In today's standard is is in today's standard is racist. But uh the definition of racism is with hate. So if you >> it's then it's racial. If you guys if if it's that if it's that sensitive then it's racial cuz I know there's positive racism in that sense, right? Cuz like if he's a if he's this Chinese guy and he goes on there and he's like looking for big booty Latinos only. It's like >> is that race is that hurtful to other Asians? Because I think that that's very prideful to big booty Latinos. So it's like positive racism. >> But what if he wants to hate on that ass a little bit?
10:59 That's where I draw the line. >> Wants to hate. ████ >> you know what I mean? I draw the line. Okay. >> I resend. It's racial. If race If racist is only hate, then then fine. It's racial preference. >> Yeah. But I would assume more people than more than 50% are sensitive enough to understand it's racist. >> But are they right though when they say this is racist? >> Well, that's the whole point though, right? What is right? It's feelings. >> Yeah. But then but then the feelings but the definition of racist >> but I already acknowledge they're sensitive. >> Oh, okay. I see. No, you but I'm saying >> yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like s more sensitive people are going to be like that's racist. >> It's dependent on who's perceiving the situation, right? So if they believe that it's racist, it's because they believe that the white guy that says white only has power and they feel less than and that's a that's a that's kind
11:50 of like a trigger. they go, "Oh, segregation, whatever it is." I actually think they're pathetic and they're missing out. So, I don't look I don't think of it as like, "Oh, they're ████ being um what do you call it? Like they're they're held they're whole they're limiting my life cuz I'm like these guys are the ones that only want to date a small group of girls more for me." >> So, I don't see it I don't see it as like oh you're perpetuating certain things. But also, I would agree though that it's if it does happen, it's only gonna be for white people. Like, if other people say like only Latinos or whatever, no one's gonna give a ████ >> If you go for a certain amount of time and you got laid a bunch, I think that the cats who are really upset about it are the cats who don't get laid a bunch and they just blame all this other >> Yeah. Like if a white girl goes like, I only want 6 foot, six earr,
12:44 right? And then like there's a guy that's like, oh, you ████ racist ████ Why won't you suck me off? >> Yeah, but if you're if you've been like, say you're a whitey who's alone for a long time and you see these girls doing, oh, I don't I don't date white guys. Like, what the ████ ████ you. >> Yeah, it does happen. You mud shark. >> Yeah, you ████ ████ >> Those are so ████ up. >> Mud shark. >> Yeah, they call them mud sharks. >> That's crazy. I never heard that. >> Oh, well, you should listen to my uh phone when I'm talking into it. Cuz when you see the Asian girls and then they'll be like, they'll literally be like, "No, Asian guys, >> you know, >> they'll date everybody else but Asian guys." >> Very upset about it. We're very >> Well, some people aren't. >> I don't give a ████ I don't even hear that. >> They're weeding themselves out. >> There's So, in in college, I had this one class. It was like one of those like
13:34 social sociology type classes. There's a chick I had a crazy crush on. She was maybe an inch or two taller than me. We were uh >> You have a type. And then we were we were going around the room and the the the topic of discussion was like um I think whether or not like girls like guys that are taller than them or shorter than and then like like usual traditional standards 80% of the chicks like guys that are taller than them. >> When I found out that she only likes guys that are taller than them, I don't give a ████ I still I chose trying. So to me like I like that's why like if you put like this is my preference who gives a ████ because the one that actually breaks through is going to win. >> But I think Anthony was trying to say like well what what about other people's feelings like the people who >> But I'm with Joe. That's your problem.
14:25 >> Yeah. Okay. >> Yeah. Cuz we're ignorant. >> No. No. I'm not saying I give a huge ████ I'm just saying it is racial. And and I will say this. Let's say hypothetically Bart was single and then he set up a profile and he said like I only want thick Latinos. I would as a friend be like, "Hey, just double checking." You could just keep it at thick like ladies and I feel like 90% is going to be Latina anyway. Do you need to write Latina? And if he's like, I want Latina. >> He doesn't wear it. >> It's It's your life. But I would double check with a homie. >> I would have two Latina butt cheeks in my profile pick like this, too, >> just so they get the picture. >> How do you know it's Latina? >> Does it have a little sombrero on that ████ >> That point is very accepting. Then you feel the authentic culture. You know, when somebody you you believe somebody's from the culture, at that point I'd be like, "You got it, brother." Like, you know, >> but even if it was racist, it's racism that I support.
15:16 >> We love racism. You'll never get a clip of me saying that.
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