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When Messaging The Wrong Person Destroys Your Career

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0:00 [Music] All right. Did you guys ever do that stupid mistake where you like hit reply all and you say something you didn't mean for everyone to see? >> I'm sure I have. >> Or you ever like >> damn. Or did you? >> That's a nightmare. >> Yeah, it sucks. Or did you ever post something that you didn't mean to post on social media? >> Like you ever had an accident? >> Pretty careful about that. I did one which I wrote, you know, sometimes you have like a lot to say in like an email, like a professional email. So, I just typed it out like a stream of consciousness and it was like kind of frustrated, you know what I mean? Like pissed, but like I was just writing it out to get it out. >> Oh, yeah. Yeah. It's like a thing you do. >> Yeah. I just saved it as a draft, right? But multiple people were using that email account. Somebody went in in the meantime >> and I don't know if they did it on

0:50 purpose or what, but they sent the email. Oh, >> that's on purpose, man. >> And then there's no way like I thought there's cuz even admitting that like oh no, that was a draft. It's still saying that you were thinking >> like that. So I just >> have to own it. >> Own it and be like, you know what, >> my bad, >> but it was like kind of mean >> just like rough like that is not, you know, just when you're writing things in a nonprofessional >> way and it's bullet pointed. >> Mhm. Number one, the reason why you a face. Number two, easy to read. >> There's no like interpretation. >> Did you name people? >> No. >> Oh, >> that's not that bad then. >> Kind of, but it was like, >> yeah, I kind of did. But there was no way of me to be like, oh, it wasn't intended in that way cuz it was just like too Yeah. ordered.

1:42 >> Yeah. I had I had I had had one time where I had to uh I was talking about somebody >> good >> and his name I was talk you know what I mean and then I saw his name and while I was texting his name I was texting him. >> You're talking to the guy. >> Yeah. >> You're like you know what the Henry did and it's to Henry. >> Yeah cuz it just it's I was talking about Henry and I saw the contact name it says Henry. So I was like oh yeah yeah. I was like what reminded you to >> Yeah. And then I sent it. >> What did he say? What were you saying? >> He's just like, "Huh? What's going on?" I was like, "Bro, that's other ████ Henry I was talking about." >> Yeah. >> That's how you played it off. >> I played it off like that. It worked. It's all I have to say. >> He's that dumb. >> He's that ████

2:34 >> What an idiot. >> Me, too. >> I did send something to someone when I was talking to Gio. forgot what it was cuz on my on my the way my uh laptop is set up I like to have my the chat on one side but then on the chat the top one that's the most important you put important people >> it's Gio. So if I don't click it I guess correctly the first thing is usually Gio and then I think I had it on someone else but it was like um oh I remember but he he just ignored it. He didn't even like um >> Did you say hey babe? >> No. Let me see. He didn't He didn't even He wrote like uh Let me see. >> I've done a lot of that where I text the wrong person. >> Oh, yeah. We do it a lot when we have like group chats. >> Yeah. And I send it to the wrong chat or

3:24 the wrong person or whatever. Yeah. >> Or we'll say things that are like a little bit too affectionate into a group chat cuz you forget that it's like like nothing too wild, but like >> you ever text the wrong person with the same name? Oh, it's the wrong Melissa. >> I've done that. But >> I sent money to the same name. It was just the wrong name. >> That happened to me recently. >> This one girl I know sent me 200 something bucks. >> What the ████ >> Apple on Apple thing. >> Sick. >> And I was like, "What the hell?" And she was like, "Oh, my bad." >> Did you get it back? >> Yeah. I just sent it back. I sent it back plus a dollar. >> Okay. >> Talking to a guy named Justin. >> Uhhuh. >> And in the middle I write, I ████ love our son. >> But then he just ignored it. He just kept talking. We just kept talking about you didn't even catch it cuz I think it was one of those where like you know your phone memories pop up so I think it was probably something that popped up. >> Yeah.

4:14 >> And then I was like and I probably sent the picture to Gio and I was going to follow up with that but then another text came in so I mixed it up. >> Just told someone I ████ love our son. He's like great. >> We just kept talking. >> That's good that you love your son. >> Tired of your mom finding all your porn sites? Don't let that happen again with vp.net. It's the only VPN that can't spy on you. Every other VPN can technically see what you're browsing, and you just have to trust that they won't leak or sell your data. VP.NET's hardware separates your identity and traffic patterns. >> This makes it physically impossible to monitor you. To have true complete privacy, sign up with vp.net/jk news like this link in the description below. Yeah, be privacies, baby.

5:06 >> That happened to me when uh with my old dance team where like I was talking ████ about like how I think like everyone else sucked or something. >> Oh ████ >> Cuz I really and it was how I felt. I just at the time felt like nobody was pulling weight. So I was just like it was only meant for the people within the email to be like, "Yeah, we're the at least we're the ones that are ████ doing everything and the rest of them are just ████ whack." But then I included everybody. >> Oh ████ when I sent it on accident >> and it was everyone like, "Yeah, >> why are why is no one else doing the job?" And >> I feel like I feel like Steve hit me up cuz he was in the email originally and he hit me up and was like, "I think that went to everybody." And I was like, "No ████ way." And I looked, I was like, "Oh, ████ It did." All right, I guess it's time to have that conversation then. >> So, you brought the Quest crew, everyone together. >> It wasn't Quest Crew. Oh, this is my old team before that.

5:56 >> And then, uh, >> Steve wasn't pulling his weight. No, he was on the good side. But then it my my uh the guy that was the leader of that team was like, "Damn, dude. I didn't know you felt that way." And I was like, >> "Yeah, let's talk about it." >> Yeah. >> Mhm. >> I'm like, cuz that guy got that was a I guess like a messy way for it to come out, but it was the truth. >> That's always hard like bringing everyone together and then being like, "Man, you guys aren't pulling your weight." >> I mean, I didn't bring them together. That wasn't my I was my old team. It was my old team before Quest. I was just a member, but I just felt like we like I joined a team that was not like they just weren't as good later. >> Oh, like they stopped coming to practice, they start falling apart or >> it was just clear that like I just felt like other people worked harder than the others. It wasn't my team like that. So >> I see. But you got recruited. >> Yeah. And I just was like kind of

6:46 annoyed by it. So then I started talking like the few of us had that same idea and those are the guys that we ended up starting Quest together. Mhm. >> But then we just >> the weight carriers. >> Yeah. Because that first team had like 20 something people and like I saw some of them maybe one time in that year. >> Were they called the the fringes >> where everyone could be a part but only a couple people are carrying the weight. >> That's really funny. The fringes. >> But yeah, that was like 2005 or six 2006. And ever since then, I'm like I always never reply all unless it's like incon inconsequential ████ I'm talking about. >> No, I I do it because I want other people to see it cuz someone will say, "Hey Joe, did you see that email?"

7:36 Probably not. Let me look at it. Okay, >> that's true. >> I do get annoyed though when people reply all when it's directed to only reply back to this one person. >> Yeah, it's kind of annoying. Yeah. Yeah. I didn't used to email so dang much till recently. >> I'm like, man, so much email going on. Why are there so many email? >> Only the important ████ goes. >> Mainly like business or like June be stuff mainly. >> Yeah, mainly. >> You never posted with all the times you've taken a photo of your dick, you never accidentally sent that to anybody, >> dude. I had a nightmare that I sent it to my mom. >> Oh, ████ >> But you said she would be cool with it. >> She would, but I Yeah, >> but you still don't want to. I don't want to. >> She would have been like, "It's okay. I seen it all the time." >> Oh, bigger than your childhood. >> Do you guys Do you guys know, are you

8:27 familiar at all with what happened with um so you know, I was on So You Think You Can Dance season 1? The guy that won that, which wasn't me, ended up becoming like a like a a very like famous dancer, ended up teaching on conventions, which are like these like dance camps where they teach kids for long periods of times. And then he got in trouble because he accidentally sent something to his own story that was meant to be a DM to another kid. >> Oh, and I I pick him up. Yep. Wait, so >> he was supposed to send a dickpick to an underage kid, but then it went to a public story. >> So, wasn't that during co so everybody was on their phone? >> Everybody saw that. >> So, everyone on >> Did he get his account cancelled? Cuz you get in trouble for sending nudities on Instagram. >> Took it off pretty quickly. Or was it

9:17 soliciting some? >> He was like jerking it. >> Oh my. >> Hey, who was it? >> Well, he should have followed up with yo. You don't you might not know him cuz he's like that's a different era from you. But he >> Yeah, but he didn't cover it up well cuz he should have said next new dance move. I just came out with the the sensual style, >> right? As he teaches kids at convention. >> Yeah, but he got Yeah, >> it's called the jerk. >> He got booted from that convention >> food. >> But so beforehand he was already with all these kids then. I don't know anything about what he did before that. But I think I've always just been like because I'm ████ weird like that. I don't like the idea of like these convention things >> because it puts these teachers in a weird position with these kids because even when I was teaching on it. >> You don't think you don't like summer camps? You don't >> like the way they do it because I don't

10:07 like the idea that when like when when we were teaching like Quest, the fact that you're all in the same hotel and these kids run around looking for your room because they just want to meet you and ████ >> So like if you're a bad person, >> bad boy, >> it's it's too it's too easy. I see. And I think that's like cuz you've worked on a ton of those. >> Ton of them. I built a few of them. >> Yeah. >> And it's like a really bad formula for a person that's bad. >> Yeah. Agreed. >> Yeah. >> Agreed. >> But if you're good, of course. Nothing wrong with it. >> The solution. Just have the staff stay somewhere else. >> I think that's a great a great start. >> I think that's another hotel close enough to it. >> Actual summer camps like they go to a they they have dormitories, right? They have like a whole >> Yeah. But dance dance camps are usually happening in a hotel. Oh, they use the lobby. Yeah, they use the bar. They use the whole thing. >> But the the problem is that like

10:58 >> But the what about the parents? They don't stay in the hotel. >> Sometimes they do the kids. >> A lot of the parents are at the bar drinking. Mhm. >> They have like a own parents thing and then the kids just run around having fun, but then they always want to, you know, impress you and ████ if you're like one of the faculty or >> and then and even before I was in that world, I just heard so much about it >> from other dancers that were like, "Oh yeah, when I was a kid, I got my first, you know, uh, alcohol from like a teacher at a convention and s███." It's a lot of people's first weird experiences from like teachers like that. So, a bunch of people got in trouble in a room. Do you think the problem is the horny kids or you think the problem is the the the innocent teachers? I think I think it's the kids cuz at that age kids are on something. >> I think the problem is definitely the fact that the that the teacher is a bad person and then the system doesn't

11:49 doesn't allow for like it doesn't compensate for that. It doesn't go, hey, just in case one of these guys is a creep, >> you should probably put them, you know, somewhere else. Like they don't think that. They just go, "Oh, that's the cheapest deal if we get 500 rooms." Like, they just are going for the cheapest solution. >> But that whole thing got taken like at least that convention circuit got in big trouble cuz a lot more stories came out after that happened. >> So there's more than him. >> Way more than still out there right now. >> Well, you're laughing. You must know something. >> I know too much. >> Tell us. That's the juicy ████ No, no. It's all out there. >> It is all out there. It's all like uh if you look up um what's the name of the one that was that they were on? >> Uh >> the big one. >> Epstein Island. >> Which one? Tine or >> No, the big convention that Gil had. >> Oh. Um

12:39 >> break the floor. >> Break the floor. Yes. >> So what are these? Are these like like dance troops or >> dance? Dance convention. So um dancers who want to go pursue their training. um they go and take classes from these choreographers like working choreographers and teachers >> or like the ones that are in the industry. >> The ones that are in the industry. So it's like >> your stepping stones into getting the training that you need in order to be an industry dancer >> and they're usually like teenagers and stuff. >> They're like anywhere from like >> kids kids like from five six to teenagers. It's like putting together a super faculty of all the top people and then traveling around the globe basically. >> Oh, and then so is it like cheer camp and all that like how they have like a special skill that they train but then

13:30 it's like >> so it's like a curriculum like from morning to evening these kids take uh a bunch of variety >> intensive. >> So it's an intensive of like anything from contemporary to jazz to hiphop to whatever it may be, right? Um, >> so it's like a traveling dance school. >> It's a traveling dance school for industry, >> which sometimes has a whole competition side to it as well. So like it's like imagine if you live in a small town in the middle of whatever at least like it's of course you're going to do this cuz all the best top people >> Oh, cuz you can't go to LA or Yeah. >> And it's like a one-stop shop. You can learn everything. >> Yeah. But the formula for how they run like the stuff outside of the class like we were talking about where everyone's in the same hotel >> like obviously you're going to get bad ████ that happens and even after these incidents they don't change it. >> Yeah. Cuz I'll try to suck everybody off

14:20 to get first place. >> He was sure >> the horny kids are the problem. That's what I keep saying. >> It's not even just the kids. It's staff members too. Teachers and >> stuff. They try they probably suck each other off cuz they're bored. Like for instance, right now Anony's at one that's in India and it's literally that's what it is is that that they put together Anony's at home >> just to fight off all the horny kids. >> Yeah, >> but in India you ain't got to worry about none of that. ████ probably stay at home in India.

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