0:00 thanks for sharing man that's honestly like that's that's really inspiring and and really shows your character I think your DMs are going to go through the roof oh that's that's going to make so many Asian chicks wet these chicks are soaking through their computer chairs Jerry's out there I'm going to be like oh my God he tastes his family oh my God it's funny cuz based on how he turned out he's like the most Asian one here [Music] welcome back everybody to another episode of Jared's Rich AF on the careful boys three part series part series talk about all my income sources we were talking though this this was amazing thing so we want to talk about it um you're obviously doing very very well for yourself but you were just telling me of like the humble beginnings that your family had come from and also
0:50 now that you're doing well for yourself how you're like helping your family out and I just kind of wanted to dive deeper into that yeah why not let's do it he tells Jared's a humble dude and he actually does a lot lot of good work and he's a normal dude so he's not like one of those social media clout Chasers but puts all the good stuff out there so we have to help him get the good stuff out so people can be inspired yeah I understand the inspiration thing I get it he's not just a bag of muscles all right like similar that you know cuz he's not one of those ████ that's like hey take a picture I'm going to give my mom like five bucks right now oh give my [Laughter] mom so how did this how did this conversation happen like I I kind of overheard you guys off camera I was just like can I have some money cuz I'm like not doing so well and I gave him I gave him $300 out my wallet and we were just
1:40 talking about I showed my Platinum ax and I was like take it it's fine I don't need it I was asking him I was asking him where some of the business stuff was going uh and then he was like oh we had to sign some NDA so he couldn't really tell me but then so we just kind of dived into some like other like how how's like how are you doing type stuff and then he told me exactly the amount that's in his bank account and my jaw dropped and talk about that and he's like no I don't waste my money on Lambos like Mike does you know he's always buying Lambos and butlers I invest and save my money strategy he got three Lambos now for Ballers your crew is actually very intelligent and Frugal very intelligent I'm like an honorary Jew you know cuz yeah Mike Mike jokes around like he has Lambo and B doesn't have any of that ████ but I know how much you guys make and it's like you guys are awesome thank you very smart
2:31 yeah so so where did it all like come from like like how how like white trash was your family in the beginning I'll just say like so we talked about the a little bit in a previous episode go back and watch those um but I will say this I think that I had a lot of uh what I like to call reverse influences so like more of what not to do like my reverse Role Models is what I'll say uh I just saw a lot of stupid ████ growing up and I just kind of was in this I will call it fortunate circumstance where I had to protect my younger siblings from seeing a lot of ████ up ████ and because I was constantly taking care of them I knew it's like ████ up ████ like like domestic abuse drug use you name it dude yeah you name it are you the oldest no I'm actually like middle and it really depends oh this is some ████ up ████ you guys you want some real white trash ████ yeah my mom was married my dad was married they cheated on their spouses
3:21 mom got pregnant my mom divorced her husband my Dad ran off with his mom didn't meet him until I was 13 my stepdad who's not my stepdad anymore it's kayin Travis's dad the two I moved in with me he started dating my mom while she was pregnant with me so he was present for like the birth but his name's not on my birth certificate don't have a DAT on my birth certificate so his dick was like poking your like it must have been right that's probably what happened cuz everybody else in my family is ████ up ████ I just got a little jarring like you're going woke you up you better make something with your life some love Tapas and then he did it when I was alive too so um sh just to reinforce it h yeah yeah of course it worked um no so uh so far you still have white privilege I don't give a ████ yeah you're white car you're white that's how I all bro I grew most my friends are
4:12 like black growing up and ████ so um and then she they had the other two kids so that's the two that I moved in with me but uh that's kind of like how white trash was pretty and then mix in drugs mix in domestic all my mom siblings were like drug drug addicts alcoholics ████ like that what was her beer Choice uh good question wiser yeah the white trash yeah the white trash Bush did all the all the dads like beat on the moms and stuff too or there was a lot of that with like my Aunts Uncles you name it like one of them on a meth lab one of them you know I mean like SCI a few of them are dead uh like suicides and ████ and uh saw a lot of ████ growing up cousins killing themselves and people getting their ass whoop you know you name it I've seen it I've been through
5:03 it you know ████ molestation you name it like everything everything on the spectrum of that's ████ up I've seen it or I've or I've been involved in it did you live in a trailer too uh if we could afford it at the time cuz I heard that likeed a lot if you had the trailers with the wheels you were the Broke trailer guys but then if you had like a like one of those stationary ones then you're like the Rich trailer yeah a double wi trailer would have been expensive yeah uh we lived in like mostly uh single or two bedroom apartments that were like kind of considered the uh for poor people like the mot projects so we live in the two projects mostly and they we get evicted or something and you know it is what it is but basically I had all these like reverse Role Models taking care of my siblings and stuff so I just made sure that I kind of like stayed on a good
5:53 path what I thought I would do is just get out of high school because nobody else really graduated high school either like my siblings a lot most my siblings did uh but I don't really know how many of like my mom siblings ever did or any of my Grandpa Grandma things like that and uh I graduated I just thought I would like work at a factory and continue to make money for my family cuz ever since I was like 12 years old like when I was 12 I was stealing from grocery stores for food so that my family had food when I was like 13 14 like at one point I did some really stupid ████ uh for money let's dive into that for a second so do you do you when you see all the uh people looting for their PlayStations you're like I I know that feeling man I was once hungry too no not at all actually that pisses me the ████ off cuz like what are you doing it for you want a PlayStation for real PlayStation 5 is pretty SI my family needs the surfboard I have to I have to no your family needs
6:44 food if they're like like food I get like I get it I get it um you know I got I got jobs and then I was helping to pay for things and then ended up instead of doing the factory stuff went to college and got some good mentors and stuff like obviously but yeah it's been cool man like I like we talked about I think I made more last month than I saw probably my family had in the 10 years of my childhood so in one month you made more than your whole family made in 10 years which wasn't a lot of money just and do you do you flash it do you cuz what I would have done is I would have cash it all out and then I would have ████ waved it in their faces and been like bro put it on your arm like you know how many ████ Wonderbread we can buy with this ████ Wonder Bread was expensive dude Jesus Christ come on man value homie
7:35 that's pretty good P you back then dude that was a top notch we had IG you guys remember IG exactly I there's always someone in the family that's like when you have like super Reckless parents right there's always someone in the siblings that steps up and becomes the parent and every single family right you got to break the cycle right some but why is that like I don't know it's just it's it's almost as if like someone goes oh I better do something about I mean if you play Russian Roulette you know at some point you shoot yourself in the face so if you have white trash people having 15 ████ children like that's how many siblings I have wow so one of them's going to step up you got 15 siblings yeah like uh no 14 eight on my dad's side seven on my mom's side are you the only one or do you have any other siblings that are like all right we'll partner up yeah I mean the two that are moved in with me are like really good I
8:26 have an older sister that's you know she lives still in as well but they're they're like doing great for themselves but did they contribute too like as in like we yeah when we were growing up I two of my older siblings the one of them was just in drugs and partying and uh two of them were like good but one of them moved out pretty early on so she wasn't around too much and then uh yeah it was basically like me and my sister Candace who were kind of like taking care of ████ and then you had you took care of you're younger or you're older too I mean I've you know gotten my sister out of jail quite a few times nice like paid bail type stuff yeah only because uh my mom's in this situation where she will have stress seizures due to like getting operated on from class atomas for her whole life and I was just always worried that something bad would happen to my mom if I didn't take care
9:16 of the problem child cuz that's what moms do they attach themselves to the problem child so like it always stressed me out I'd be at College the night before my Master's Degree finals I drove home four and a half hours bailed my sister out of jail kind of lectured my mom about like look she's going to keep doing this you got to stop I can't do do this every time drove four and a half hours back no sleep took my exams and you Knowle I I was okay but that's gangster as ████ what's a clota it's kind of like a the benign tumor behind but like it eats into your skull so like if you just keep it there it just keeps eating and eating and eating and obviously you're going to ████ it's going to reach your brain and it can like protrude through the uh ear as well so like she has a false tanic membrane and because of that and the medicine she was on she would always have these like stress seizures when I was growing up so at certain points would' like think she was just going to die and you know so I had to like take care of a lot of ████ damn that's some crazy ████ dude that's
10:06 why you're so strong not just physically emotionally so you were talking about um and if if you can dive into any aspect of this you were talking about how like you're taking a majority of like your earnings now uh in your greatness and humbleness and putting it into like a trust for like your siblings and stuff like that yeah I got like all kinds of fun Financial uh cuz you know I realized I was making probably five or six years ago when I first like hit that six figure Mark you you start making this type of money like holy ████ like that was like unheard of I like somebody tell me I would make six figures somebody told me that when I was like 15 like shut the ████ up stop like get out of my face I know I'm not going to but uh you're like I got to do something with this I'm I'm an idiot I'm I I had no role models for this ████ what made you not want to like Splurge cuz a lot of people the first gut instinct is like I'm going buy everything I that's a really good question man cuz I actually
10:57 thought about this a lot lately I again with the siblings I think that I just was in the fortunate that's why I call it fortunate circumstance where I had to take care of people so I just kept the mindset of like half of everything I make is always going to go to that I don't care where the ████ my money goes half my money is going to go either to my mom or to my siblings or to just like friends that need help so like I will always take the bill I'll always like I don't I don't want anybody to have to wor about money with anything I'll get like if I go to shows and friends are competing in shows I'll get the Airbnb I don't ask for ████ like I just want to it's just ████ cool man like just focus on the goal focus on your life and like ████ like money shouldn't be the the thing that's like cuz my whole life it was this thing that like stresses everyone we're getting a check in the mail cuz like I got disability but then it doesn't come and like you're a kid and you're ████ starving and you're like well so like I just hate that
11:50 anybody has to feel that way and if I'm like if I can bring people up with me like I'm going to ████ do it we should get all you can eat sushi right after yeah let's go let's go for lunch let's go my just come and I want to focus on my let's do it let's let's get it happening we should get all you can eat mortgage especially with friends especially with friends I'm sure you guys are the same way it's like you'll help them with lessons though like you'll help them but it's like you got to like I'm doing this for you but I got to I got to see something yeah I got to see something from you I believe in you you got to believe in yourself yeah I mean we took care a lot of people that we probably shouldn't have yeah no honestly I get it trust yeah I get that it's a hit or miss some people will react positively to it but the fact that you guys aren't ████ uh cold because of that is cool ████ so you're like I don't think he should ever change you man like I think that's the that's the danger of it is
12:42 like when you are giving or that's that's how you you you probably see the best in people yeah exactly but then you can get jaded and we we've yeah exactly and you guys clearly haven't either and it's like it sucks if that changes people I think we've probably got smarter who we it's a give and take right so it's not everybody it's like you probably yeah yeah yeah cuz some people you're like nah there's no hope which is still tough for me man like even my my one sister like I just did it again I told myself I never would but she currently is in a situation where she also has the colota issue and they when they put you in jail so genetic they yeah is it's a genetic thing they take away all the medication and stuff ████ and hers is literally coming out of her ear right now and I was like okay if she's going to go to jail she's going to die for sure like there's no way she would survive it so I
13:34 I paid it and then um I just and she's in the circumstance where she's like only going to get better if she wants to and I know that and the best thing I can do because it's not a f███████ of effort although it is like it dips into your energy everything you do does if I can just she'll send me text and I know when she's high and I know when she's not and it's just like you know what I mean discour of thought patterns just saying I love you like yeah if I can just respond like look I love you you're going to be okay that's all that's what they need so I still try to do that it's hard to it's hard to like you said people can be ████ people can ████ you over yeah for me I I know empathy is stupid like empathy is kind of dumb cuz empathy is where you feel it too and it dips into your ████ life you can sympathize with people and understand where they're coming from but I think empathy is kind of dumb no cuz then you get tied you're
14:26 collateral damage basically yeah cuz you keep them around you and then you know they're going to ████ up you can feel sorry for people without having to feel it yourself like why would you why should you feel what they're feeling if you can be so in tune with your emotions that like I can sympathize with you I know what you're going through that sucks let me let me either help you or let me give you some advice but if that same thing is like empathy and you're like oh God that's how they oh ████ my heart's broken just like theirs like that just ████ with your life so if you can just sympathize and do the best you can to kind of help him in that situation like that's kind of what I just try to do with her it's just all I can can yeah I mean it's still an honorable thing though cuz there's so many people that have similar upbringings to you and then once they get it they go peace ████ you guys and a lot of people have to do that a lot of people they haven't done the work
15:16 themselves and they reached this Mone of success too early and and for a while they kind of have to like okay I have my I have my family now and I have my relatives I chose my family and my relatives exist and like my relatives are really ████ to me they haven't done like the whole introspection meditation work on themselves thing so like sometimes you do got to step away for a while I've stepped away from my sister for a little bit Yeah and then I just kind of like look how hard is it to send that text like if it's going to keep her on Earth and she like you know might she lives my mom now and ████ so like we'll see where it goes but it's not too much of an investment it's like all right I care about this woman hopefully she gets better if she doesn't have accepted it but it is what it is well there must be something that's worth it in the relationship ship for you to where you feel like you get something out of it too I don't know man really uh maybe
16:06 just the love that I feel for her like she was my older sister growing up and yeah so the memory or whatever or like a sense of Duty maybe yeah no it is it's a it's a huge like I mean ████ you guys are all Asian so oh you're going to have your grandma and grandpa liveing you I don't want to I've been bracing myself I don't want to no matter how much you don't want to it's just is that guilt yeah yeah no it is it is like that man uh it's an investment so that when you have children they have to take care of you yeah but yeah no like you guys said I I I've been trying to kind of speak about those types of things more because it is it is there are a lot of people who are from those I'm sure a lot of you guys have the rough upbringing and ████ too or whatever you I mean I know you guys you had some ████ I know who my parents are though yeah yeah 100% yeah yeah yeah I did that's why the ████ do like when
16:57 Mike says he's my dad and ████ I'm like ████ you bro ████ you dude people believe that ████ ████ idiot I hate dud you guys do hey my task rabbit that I showed he knows Dr Mike he's like oh it's Dr Mike and his son I swear to God and I was like I what and I didn't put the two of two together yeah they actually believe it and was 8 years older than me and I was like dude that's not his kid cuz when he says it he's straight yeah well no it's good ████ to talk about and like you know you guys don't even look alike but it's the fact that both of you guys are jacked that they think that you guys are Rel Jack white guys with blue eyes what are the chances what are the chances those don't exist thanks for sharing man that's honestly like that's that's really inspiring and and really shows your
17:48 character I think your DMs are going to go through the roof dud oh that's that's going to make so many Asian chicks wet these chicks are soaking through their all the Jerry's out there are going to be like oh my God he takes care of his ████ family oh my God it's funny cuz based on how he turned out he's like the most Asian one here and the funny thing is like we're like your best wingmen ████ yeah that's why I keep coming back baby fourth time it's a farm baby it's a farm so now that now that you have a sick pad and you got family with you how do you sneak Jerry's into the house yeah I don't I don't want to around my my ████ yeah I don't want I don't I don't want to bring any drama yeah get a hotel sneaker that's what he says he gets airbnbs and he just pays for them sneaking chairs around that was look so funny like I
18:39 said actually I think I said that last time I just I haven't been ████ with it I'm good what the ████ that's making them more wet right now no I know yeah it's the rejection I'm doing it's strategic night I'm not talking to anybody oh my God hey next time you come back bring your dad though oh ████ you h
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