0:00 How do you tell the difference between a woman who is flirtatiously dodging your advances >> and one who actually doesn't want to be bothered? >> That's pretty obvious. >> One puts a restraining order on you. One is running away. [laughter] >> Then how do you avoid being creepy if she's playing hard to get? Let's say she is playing hard to get. How do you avoid >> my uncle? I don't want to sound creepy. >> Oh, that's all you got to do? >> Oh, I don't want to sound creepy, but >> Yeah. No, my uncle always said, you know, be persistent. >> Yeah. So, I just going to never stop and then she'll know how much I love her. >> Yes. >> Oh, okay. >> She knows I'm a go-getter. >> So, you never stop. What if she says stop? >> In the name of love. >> See, that's why he's lost his virginity
0:52 so early. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. To >> his uncle. [laughter] >> His uncle never stops. Man, I was got I GOT TO LEARN SOMEHOW. [laughter] >> WHAT? You're telling me you didn't ████ practice with goats first? [laughter] >> Goats? Come on. >> How do you do that? Cuz you're you're you're kind of like uh I You're still dating? You got a girlfriend? >> Um I don't really It's just like I'll ask them out and if they don't really show me, then I was like, "Okay, I'm good." >> Wow. Really? So if a girl you don't, you know, like in romance movies and stuff like that, the girl always can't stand the guy in the first act, right? And then he turns her like opinion somehow. You don't ever think like that when it comes to like a girl, you're I feel like if if a girl is like they're they're like no, it's different than like no. Uh >> that's true.
1:42 >> It's like if they give me like a no and okay, I'm wait and then I'm probably ask you again. But if it's like like they don't even respond is nothing, I'm like what the ████ am I doing? You have to like get the ████ away from me. You Oh, okay. Sorry. [laughter] >> Yeah, they >> you don't go I think I can change it. >> My bad. Yeah. Yeah. >> All these old movies like like with Kagy and like like and they're they always kiss a woman >> and they passionately grab her and they kiss her and she's like, "No, no, no." I think that taught a lot of guys to just rape chicks. >> Yeah. Because that ████ doesn't make sense. We were just watching The Pajama Game, which is like a musical from like way back in the day. And it and it did that same thing. The main girl, couldn't stand the guy, gave no indication she liked this guy. And once he got her alone where she couldn't run away, he just forcefully makes out with her. And
2:32 then she just goes, "Well, I guess this is it, huh?" And like falls in love with him. And I'm like, "What did he do?" Kind of lessens that qualities that she was like, "I actually like him now." Like nothing. Nothing changed. He just got her lips on his lips. Do you think there's something subtle that we missed as men? But girls were like, "That's dope." >> I think we shouldn't be teaching that one. [clears throat] [laughter] >> Why'd you laugh out of that? >> Yeah. >> But that but here's the thing that is funny is that, you know, like if you were to have a room full of 10 women, some of them are going to be like, "That's what I want." But it's still not the same thing you're doing. You know what [laughter] I mean? Like >> you need to be attracted to them for the confident move, right? >> Yeah. Be Yeah. Exactly. That that's what it is. is that it's that that guy was attractive and she So, the part that we're missing is that culturally the way that women preserve their dignity is they didn't give the love back.
3:24 >> They didn't make it too easy. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> But then they secretly did. >> Well, because it's character building and if that's a movie being sold to people, they're selling it to the current culture of the time. So, that current culture was like, "Oh, she's a more likable character if she won't give in." >> And and then and then for her, it's like if he likes it, he'll work for it. >> Yeah. Exactly. >> Or it was like ████ everyone fantasized about the the grape scene with Jason Mamoa and uh Daenerius and then they're like, "Oh my god, Drago ████ ████ I wish he would ████ me too." But I was like, that was forced, but it's because he's so hot. They're like, "I wish I would just be taken like that." >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's kind of like right now they have those romance novels where it's like a woman and then instead of a man, it's like a werewolf guy. >> Yeah. >> Like so that kind of excuses how
4:14 forceful he is because he's not >> he's an animal. [laughter] >> And then so they're like, "No, that's not the same thing. That guy is a different instinct." >> But they want an attractive man that they already find that they already want and then they're like, "Oh, he's picking me." >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Because I think that is the best scenario. if this is a guy you already want. >> They're not looking at a homeless man at a bus stop and oh my god, he's so aggressive and he wants me so bad. And it's like, no, it doesn't work like that. >> He doesn't have to talk to me. He can talk to himself. He He does that. But he wants to talk to me. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But that's the part that's weird is that like how do you teach I guess like men of today >> don't be a graer. Well, yeah, but there's got to be like some Now, I'm not saying there's like a a room for like a a wiggle room there. But that is whatever that quality is is something that women do like, but what's the timing for that?
5:04 >> I think it's just teaching them to be emotionally intelligent and reading body language and stuff, right? >> Yeah, I guess so. And like, >> but when you say that, you know, they're going to go to like a ████ body language expert YouTube channel and then they're going to review [laughter] movies and they're going to like, you see how her eye goes a little bit to the left like this and then this. This is what it really means and it's still ████ analytical and logical and it's wrong. Right. Right. Right. >> I I just I think um because I saw Will's glow up, you know. Oh, >> you know, but I think that seeing his glow up is like uh cuz it's like attributes. I think if you're like have to do the whole ████ YouTube thing, like what's going on with your life? >> Yeah. Uh deeper. Go deeper on that, please expand. >> Um like if you're in a basement and
5:54 you're doing pogo sticks >> and then like your mom is making you breakfast. >> Yeah. >> And then you're not you're like delaying the breakfast. You're not eating it. >> Yeah. >> Okay. And then you're ████ going crazy on uh like toast and butter at night time at 3:00 a.m. >> Mhm. >> And then you're waking up at 2:00 p.m. >> Mhm. >> And then you don't have a job and you're 37. >> So you're straight ████ loser. >> Got it. >> You're like, wait, how do I ████ get ████ It's like that's crazy. But maybe >> that's crazy. And then you watch this and you go, I just got to be more aggressive. >> Oh, right. Then it'll lead you down the wrong road. >> That guy's just straight skipping steps. >> You're skipping. Yeah. >> Yeah. You're just trying to go here. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> But then do first step. >> The first step is take a shower. >> Take a ████ shower. >> Can you give us insight on his glow up? >> Is that [laughter] >> Go for it.
6:44 >> Wait. Is it okay? >> Yeah. Go for it. >> Oh, >> he's complimenting you, by the way. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. It's really nice. >> What's his glow up? >> Yeah. What's the glow up? What do you mean? Like what was it before? [clears throat] >> I think before Okay. When when I met him, [laughter] he he was he's trying to disassociate. He He was really like a No, no, no. He He had uh he has several girlfriends before already. >> But I think because he's a ████ at heart, >> ████ at heart. >> ████ at heart, but he restrains himself to not be a ████ >> But um he lets me um >> Yeah, but he has a girlfriend now. But >> but is it I don't know how long the thing is, but um but the but yeah, before he was like uh he he wore a like a blazer thing. He wore a blazer with t-shirt and like like a seven color
7:34 shoes thing >> and then like a jean thing. >> Oh. >> And to go to like >> dressed like a middle-aged black man. [laughter] >> Black man. Yeah. He had a cane. >> Middle-aged black >> and then a chain with a clock on it. >> Nice. >> So flavor. >> I was like this is not >> He's just like a like a purple >> like an R&B cover artist. [laughter] [gasps] >> So that's how you use dress. He's Well, I just think that he was like so committed to stand up and like he got and then >> he always tried his best in standup and then >> um >> it was bad. It was bad. >> I asked Jason, I was like, "So, do you think I should hire a dating coach?" >> A dating coach? >> Sound bad. That sound bad. >> It got to that. >> And I was wearing shorts and a trench coat and stuff. >> Shorts and a trench coat. >> He did have a trench coat. I'm like, "This looks crazy." >> Shorts and a trench coat of a girl like me or what to say or
8:24 >> I like the utility. It's It's not too hot. [laughter] >> Thank you. >> Yes. ████ >> Thank Thank you. I needed that >> shorts in a train. >> But Oh. Oh, this is also another thing. He would have like crazy hair growing out of his face. >> And then he's like, >> "Oh, so you never like never keep it organized. >> He never kept his face or No, he looks red here." >> What? >> So, did he look like a testicle? >> He look like a crazy one of these. Which one of these is the one you're >> Maybe he didn't even take pictures. >> No, he didn't have he didn't took pictures. It >> Oh, you don't even have photos during your >> Yeah, this is his glow up. >> Other people taking pictures. That's not fair. >> And then um >> Yeah. And then he never >> You just You just look good. All of these then. >> I looked at his inside his ear. He had ear wax build up like crazy. [laughter] >> ████ >> You looked inside his ear. >> Step one is always shower.
9:15 >> Shower first. That's a big one. >> But they got to know how to shower. Like guys don't know basic sh I don't I'm like so surprised. But you do you know how to shower, Jill? >> I know how to shower [laughter] a lot. >> Aren't you famous for like I put the soap in my hair and then I let it drip all the way down? >> But yeah, now I'm better. >> Do you feel better as well? >> Or like are you talking about results? >> I'm like I can't like before I was like really nervous talking to a random person or girl especially. >> A girl is hot especially didn't know what to say but now I'm like not nervous. >> Yeah, >> most of the time. >> What's tight? most of the time. >> Sometimes they're like, "Oh my god." >> But that's good. It's good to have some nerves. I think >> the source of like that that keeps you not nervous. Like what do you tell yourself in your head? Like this doesn't really matter. It's not a big deal. >> No, it's like stand up. It's like the first time I I did it, I was nervous,
10:05 but I've done it enough where I'm like, >> "Oh, okay. >> Not as a bomb is a bomb." >> Confidence now. >> More I'm more confident. >> Yeah. >> That's awesome. >> So I look the same [laughter] >> even though I look the same. more so like being more confident or now you just know how to navigate through the nervousness. >> I think it's knowing knowing how to navigate through the nervousness is what gives me the confidence. >> Oh, I see. >> It's like okay, I've been through this down this road before, right? >> The situation before it feels familiar. >> So, I can it's like a more chill like okay. >> Yeah. >> But you had girlfriends before, right? Like your dating coach dilemma. >> Yeah, I feel. But I never liked any of them. >> What made you like hit rock? >> You had girlfriends that you never liked? >> I was like I guess that's fine. Like a please thing. >> Oh, but you you didn't feel like you hit
10:55 the thing. >> Were you like Jenny, I might need a dating coach? Like what was that about? Was there a particular story? >> No, cuz I wasn't talking to I wasn't even like most guys have like oh I'm talking to this girl >> or I like this girl. I had like it was nothing. >> Got it. I see. Okay. Yeah. >> Were you putting hooks out and you're just not reeling anything in? like >> um I thought it was but obviously it's not cuz I would go on date and and then the girls be like this is a date. >> Oh jeez. >> Oh cuz you were like friend-zoned and you thought like hanging out. >> Oh yeah. Okay. Like a Bobby Lee thing, >> right? Got it. >> Well, you know what it is too is that you know the whole idea of being overly assertive like from old movies. It truly is. I guess the modern translation of that is just to be very upfront with your intention. >> You know it's more about that and not about like trying to turn her opinion. so hard. It's more like don't be
11:45 wishy-washy about what we're doing here, right? >> So, don't slap a girl and kiss her when she's acting hysterical. [laughter] >> Hey, [clears throat] you can if you figure out that's what she likes. >> Some girls are definitely into that, >> but still going to be uh playing some scary odds. >> So, if it's black and white, the movies are black and white, don't it's too old >> to watch it and and take inspo. Yeah. >> Don't use that as >> When girls say, "I want a traditional guy," they're not talking about that, >> right? Yeah. Uh, physical abuse isn't passion anymore.
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