0:00 Can they can they do what you did and be like, I got a double double though on my arm. [laughter] >> They symbolize how much I love this job. >> All right, let it out. Let it out right here. >> And welcome back to another episode of the Careful Boys. Uh, thank you for tuning in. And just a reminder, we got to just shout out all the patrons. >> Yes, >> for your support, everyone. U and they jump into our Discord, they ask different questions and stuff like that. And this one in particular was submitted by one of our patrons. Uh we all know her. Submitted by Giwan. >> Oh, Giwan. >> She asks >> Giuan. >> So, I'm 26 and still live at home with my parents and recently got this arm sleeve tattoo done. They don't know about it. >> Oh ████ How the ████ do you hide that?
0:50 >> She's playing risky. How do they not know? >> She asks, "How would y'all reveal it to your parents? or more general, how did you reveal your first tattoo to your parents? What was their reaction? >> Yeah, >> bro, I was underage. >> I was like 16 or 17 and I just came home with it and my mom's like, "Well, I mean, you got it." [laughter] >> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, there was like worse stuff going on in your life than, right? >> Yeah. His whole garage. [laughter] >> Rest in peace to my homie Eddie. But we both went and got tattoos at the same time. And the place that we got it from did not want to do it because we were underage. But we hung out there every ████ day and begged him. And eventually he was like, you know, I got time. >> Is that this one? >> Yep. And we both got our last names done cuz we're like, maybe if we just show how prideful we are of our family and
1:42 we're down for the family, maybe they'll accept that. And that's the first thing. My mom thought it was lame cuz it was like, why the ████ would you get a name badge? But she also I took her last name. So she was happy that I took her last name. >> Oh. >> So I'm like this is symbolism, mom. I was like I'm doing this because I'm changing my last name to yours. I'm a part of your family. And then so she >> That's a good way to reveal it. >> Damn. That that's awesome. >> Did you also say it was close to your heart? Did you say that as well? >> Yes, I did. Because it's on my left side. >> The missed opportunity if you >> also go but I got dad's name right here on my back [laughter] >> and it's bigger. >> It's huge. >> Yeah. And I and I find out like five laterers that's not five years later that's not even my mom's last name. [laughter] >> Can you get a refund? >> Cuz my grandma divorced my my my grandpa. But she goes, I loved him though. So she goes, I don't care. She I
2:32 love my father. So she was like, we're carrying on the jitsukawa name. So I was like, all right, cool. >> Should you get your mom's other last name right here then? >> What's the what's the real last name? >> So my grandma's last name is Itto. >> Oh. So when my grandma and grandpa divorced, she should have changed it back to Itto, but my mom never changed it to my her mom's maiden name. >> I see. >> Juka is a way cooler name. >> I think so, too. >> Tight, though. You know, I like it. >> Is cool. It's like probably a lot easier to sign and write. Joto, >> you should get a way more famous one says Sony. [laughter] >> Logo or no logo? >> Toshiba. >> Stupid Joseph. Toshiba. >> But I had to get Hitachi. Dude, that's a sick ass Dude, that's probably the best thing you could tell your parents when you get a tattoo. >> Yeah, but I think um back then though, okay, here's my thing about tattoos. I
3:23 feel like it's actually so accepted now. Your family's weird if they don't if they're if they're not cool with it. Like before there used to be real consequences, right? Like do you remember >> the connotation? >> You couldn't get a job. >> Can't get a job. Everyone thinks you went to jail or something. >> Cops pull you over for no ████ reason if they see you have a tattoo. Like if you have a sleeve, they're pulling you over. >> Cops couldn't get it. >> Yeah. No, they couldn't. Military couldn't have it either. >> You couldn't have it. So, I think there used to be like a real badass You're like out of society. >> Yeah. It was a counter culture thing. >> Like you Yeah. When you got a tattoo, that's it, dude. You're not a part of society no more. >> I did learn recently that you can't show tattoos at In-N-Out if you're an employee. >> Dang. They still got traditional rules, huh? That's why that's why that's why people be wearing sleeves sometimes >> cuz the traditional military was like that too. If you're in uniform, you
4:13 shouldn't be able to see tattoos. So if you're if you like roll up the sleeves has to be here and above. But then now it's like >> can they can they do what you did and be like I got a double double though on my arm. [laughter] >> They symbolize how much I love this job. >> All right, let it out. Let it out. Right here. [laughter] >> But I do feel >> I got Dick Cheney on my arm. Can I be in the military? I feel like tattoos should be it should have like an outcast like thing to it. Now it's just art. Now it's just fashion art. Yeah. >> Self identity, right? It's like it's cool. Which I'm not against cuz yeah, the tattoo industry is ████ sick now. It's big. >> But at the same time, I feel like there's a lot of people that want to look badass that don't deserve the badass sticker cuz there's no consequences anymore. >> Like the people that use anesthesia when they get it, >> dude. They get anesthesia. And another
5:04 thing is the anal butt cream. >> The machines don't even hurt no more. >> Yeah. >> Remember when we got him like dude that was like ████ [laughter] ████ AND THEN YOU GET WE got this this one. I was like that's it now? What the ████ >> Yeah. That didn't feel like nothing. >> Yeah. >> I don't know. I just I just think wow you're worrying a lot for something that's maybe like I don't think it's that big of a deal anymore. I'll tell you this. As a guy who got his first tattoo when he was 30 years old [laughter] >> and when my parents >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. What they say? >> They just probably call you dumb. >> No. No. Nothing. There's nothing that you could say to your parents because when they look at you, they're going to be disappointed. And that's it. They're My dad, we were walking out of restaurant. He looked at my shin. [laughter] And then he like opened the car door and
5:54 got in the car. And my mom my mom was just like, "Yo, that's the tattoo. [laughter] >> There's there's nothing you can say." >> I mean, you just got to be ready to deal with their parents' disappointment. That's it. >> If you got the sleeve ready, you know what I mean? Just ████ show it, >> dude. That's so funny. >> I got a tattoo with six other guys. There's nothing, you know? Come on. >> Mega gay, dude. >> That's the one of the gayest things you could do. >> Mine I was 18 or 19 and then me and my buddy that I got the original one with, we were coming back from North Carolina at the airport. Is that your first? >> My first one. And then so my we're both wearing pants and then uh we're both going to keep it a secret and my mom was the one that picked us up from the airport. Coming down the escalator, my best friend, the one who I got this with was like, "Miss who check this out." He rolls goes over and pulls my my pant leg up and my mom goes, "Oh my god."
6:46 [laughter] And then that's it. That's it. >> Yeah, dude. It's crazy to think [laughter] that like that's the origin of the story and we all have it and now you have two. Like I just remembered you have two. Don't you just like, "Oh my god." And then that's it. [laughter] >> Today's video is brought to you by DraftKings. Super Bowl 60 deserves a sports book built for the moment. DraftKings Sportsbook, an official sports betting partner of Super Bowl 60, puts you right in the center of the biggest game of the year. And when anything can happen during the Super Bowl, DraftKings got your back with early exit. If a player goes down in the first half, you still get paid out in cash immediately once your bet settles. No bonus bets, no waiting. So, me and the Careful Boys are thinking about getting together to do a watch party for
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8:27 win or receive bonus bets which expires in 7 days. Minimum odds required. For additional terms and responsible gambling resources, see dkng.co. Limited time offer. >> I got a surprisingly light. >> But but you know but you know what's crazy though? So this is the crazy part. So the next tattoo I got is this like half sleeve, right? >> Yeah. >> This one I got um I was trying to negotiate with my mom. I'm going to get a tattoo. No, you can't get any more tattoos. I'm going to get one. And then so we ended up going to >> get one. >> Agreeing to terms uh that if I got into UCLA I could get it right. >> Oh, cool. >> Along that journey, my mom's like, "What's up with you?" And like, "Why are you so obsessed with tattoos or whatever?" One time she brought me over to one of her ████ time traveler friends >> and we went we went to Diamond Bar to their office and she was like, "Can you
9:20 please explain to me why my son's obsessed with tattoos?" >> And I was like, "F███, how's this going to go?" Cuz in my opinion, this lady is my mom's generation. >> So this is just a chance for the lady to ████ lecture me. Like double lecture me on reinforce the idea are bad, right? >> It was a setup. >> So that that lady's like, "Okay, let me see." She starts like feeling ████ in the air. I'm like, "Oh, ████ Here we go." >> She's like she's [laughter] like all feeling and she's like and she had like my birthday written on a paper. She's all touching the paper. >> I love how she can't just ask you like your response is too ████ So she goes, "Let me ask a fortune teller in front of my son." [laughter] >> And she's paying she's paying for this consultation. >> She's paying for this consultation. >> God, dude. >> And then and then so I'm just sitting there going like, "What the ████ Are we wasting money and time to ████ do this bullshit?" And then the lady, she finally opens her eyes.
10:10 >> He lied. >> Oh, it's because he was a warrior in his last his last life and he just wants to come out and and he and he can't. He feels like he's trapped. And I see my mom going like, "Oh my god, really? Was is that is that the reason why?" Okay. I think I I understand why he has to do it. And as a good mother, I have to accept it then. >> Oh, >> I'm just like, damn, you'll ████ eat anything, huh? >> You're like, "Thank God you're on my side." >> Yeah. I was like, "Thank God." I'm like, "This is but still I'm like sad and happy. Happy that she was on my side, but then sad that my mom will gobble anything up." >> So, you fully deny the past warrior that's trying to escape right now? >> Definitely no past warrior. >> Your son was gay in his past life. You [laughter] let me finish. I I'm surprised you haven't set up your mom and like gotten her to like think like if you want her to do something, just get a fortune teller, pay him off. >> Yeah, pay him off.
11:00 >> Tell him to tell him whatever ████ ████ she needs to hear. >> She's already done that and believed it. He every now and then he could just be like the warrior in me really needs to do this. >> No, but she needs someone else to say it. So, you just need to grease a fortune teller. >> Like, oh, I am the warrior inside Bart. [laughter] >> You could have easily greased that fortune teller. >> Grease any fortune teller, dude. >> That's true. Set aside for your budget so you could grease fortune tellers for your mom. >> That's probably what every time you went to those sessions, the fortune teller was probably looking at you going like this. [laughter] >> Hey buddy, if you change my mind teller to get one over on your mom. Yeah, you're going to hell. >> Come on, dude. But it's positive things. Bart's going to take care of his mom, you know. >> But at least you don't have to worry about some crazy fortune teller lady. It's just your parents. >> Exactly. >> If you >> you could predetermine the outcome. If you're uh born to Asian parents, just say that you're in your past life, you're a warrior and you need to let the warrior out.
11:52 >> Just for like [laughter] just for context, I just want to know cuz I've never asked this. How many times do you think you have gone with your mom to the time traveler in your life? >> Is it the same time traveler? >> Oh, she has all kinds of homies. Sam left the description, huh? >> Yeah. Huh. >> How many times total do you think you've gone if you had to estimate? >> Just me alone. is over 20. >> Okay. >> So, my mom on her own probably hundreds like every month, dude. >> Yeah. Well, she'll text them, too. >> Damn. >> Like, she'll text just random things. >> I just I have such a respect for how if you had to go that many times, like if I went once, I would throw such a fit about how dumb this is and I would never go again. The fact that you kept going, >> it's pretty remarkable. >> Is she happy and is her quality of life like solid? Even if it's a delusion in her mind though,
12:42 >> is her quality of life I think her quality of life is solid because she thinks she has control. So it's like it's like it's like someone that's in slavery but found the silver lining, I guess. >> Oh, okay. >> Because she's entrapped to her mindset, you know? >> Yeah. Damn, dude. >> Well, that's that's just like the freaking Matrix, right? Some people would rather just live in the fake world if that means I could just enjoy the ████ out of whatever. Use my body as a battery. >> She'll see the economy like, "Oh my god, it's going ████ crazy." And then she asks her ████ time traveler, "Oh, don't worry. We're going to get out of it." Okay, we're going to get you out of it. Okay, cool, cool, cool. And I'm like, "What the ████ We're always going to get out of it." >> Did your Did your mom car it by your tattoo? >> And what was your first one? >> My first one was this like tiger on my arm right here. Um, yeah. But like it's the same thing. No matter what, like he
13:33 said, they're always going to have the same version of disappointment. Now, whether I get new ones or not, now it's just like if she's like, "Oh my god, you got another tattoo." I'm like, "No, mine's old." Even though it's like brand new, like it doesn't matter anymore because it's like I already have them. >> I got an old one and a saran wrap. Okay. [laughter] >> Oh, touch-up. Touch up. Okay. She don't know. You know, >> I know how she could show her parents. So, like get on the other arm that doesn't have a tattoo. get like get like draw it out, right? >> Fake sleeves. >> And then show up and then your mom be like, "What the f███?" And be like, "No, here you go. Give her a sponge." And then let her swipe that one down. And he goes, "Now do the other side." And it doesn't wipe off. Be like, "Cuz this one's real." >> Yeah. >> Cuz if it make it worse. >> Yeah. >> Like it's actually not that bad. >> Yeah. >> Cuz you could have had two. >> That's true. >> But you only have one. >> Get your Get your face tattooed.
14:23 [laughter] >> Face. Get the Moury face tattoo. >> Yeah. >> Tattoo. The whole face is tapped to the Mauy Warrior dance. [laughter] >> One important detail specifically about Jiwan is that she talks about how she's 26 and still lives at home with her parents. >> That's tough, too. >> So, I think like, you know, when when you're like younger or whatever and you live at home with your parents, you can't really be like, "Oh, my body as much." Cuz you're also, "Well, your body is in my house." You know, >> and that's different. And plus like girls they get treated like they're 12 even though they're 30 if they still live at home. >> For sure. Yeah. >> Yeah. So you kind of have to um >> she got a whole care that much, you know, then like you kind of got to be like also taking care of yourself. >> That's pretty impressive. She was able to hide multiple sessions cuz if she got a sleeve, >> she probably had to keep going back. >> Like this anymore. You have to tell your
15:13 parents. She's wearing a hoodie the whole time. >> Yeah. It's hot. It's hot right now, dude. >> Yeah. You should probably uh >> just rip the band-aid off. Move out if you can. >> If you want your parents to stop controlling you like you're 12 years old. >> Damn. But how do you >> You are 26 now. >> How do you do the reveal though? >> This is it. >> Oh, it's cool. >> It's not even done yet, dog. >> Oh, cool. That's nice, >> dog. >> That is really cool. >> It's really pretty. >> So, she was a concubine in her past life. Oh, no. She's got a sword. She was a woman warrior. >> Dude, that's really good. >> That's a full sleeve. All right. >> ████ >> crosanathan and ████ or whatever. That was tight. >> PE. >> Do you think Do you think parents will judge the tattoo? Like depending on what it is? >> That'll be hilarious. >> I feel like this looks like a piece of art. So it's like >> it looks nice. >> Yeah. It's a It's a great piece. So it's like >> I think you just got to go one day just
16:04 how during breakfast I got something to tell you. And then bam, bust it out. ████ it. Yeah. Just rip it off. your dad goes. >> I think if I had a teen or like a young adult kid, I would be like to just to make sure they don't try to get some s█████ tattoo and hide it, I'd be like just save it for when you get a good one. >> And not be like, you know, like cuz you might just get a tattoo the first chance you get, >> which would be very bad. >> Get a good artist, a real good piece. But what if it's like really really good, but then what it really is is a girl bent over, her butt, cheeks spread, [laughter] and then this is a it's a very very good >> and then it's on your arm and you flex and it looks like she's shaking her butt. Yeah, that's good. >> Pretty sick if he ends up being a truck driver or something. >> Yeah, cuz guys have those. >> It's true. Yeah, >> it's just spread butt cheek with a ████ and butthole. [laughter]
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