0:00 that's Jill's problem now the book kind of sadly it's like gravity you know I mean gravity is a real thing Isaac Isaac Newton was right yeah we went to we went to Sky Zone and she was jumping but nothing else was moving around like what's going on you have to actually earn a white belt I thought you start with it hey welcome back everybody to another awesome episode of the careful boys where we are currently Ryan what are we we're off the Record there it is ladies and gentlemen and we have Jimmy Zhang in the building here we go wow Wow first off the record with you was just getting to know you and I feel like we're going over and we already ran out of time so we kind of wanted just like it's getting good it was getting good we're chopping it up yeah learning how you help get versions laid where do we
0:50 leave off um nobody mentioned anything about the porn star yet so we could definitely bring that one back up um but how about this I was just talking to you about like what is your podcast about you know what I mean yeah uh it's mainly about like relationship sex stating uh some of the big ones I had was um I had I had a couple on um Andy and Michelle that I I uh we that that one did Super well where we just kind of went into uh what makes a couple stay together when they're younger and it's I think it's an interesting time what's interesting about or like what's special about Andy and Michelle they got together young yeah how young like 12. that's pretty young yeah uh 20 20 they were 24 when they got
1:41 married oh that's what you mean got together wow married wow yeah yeah and it just like I don't know I'm also getting up to that age now where I think about this um it was like what what's a ideal time to get get married yeah right and and how do I know if this partner is my partner do you have an ideal time or even a big picture of it I think I have ideal time but I don't know if like how do I know if this person's the one that that's been kind of on my mind isn't it crazy how we all reacted like 24 so young bro and our grandma would have been like you oh ████ no one's gonna watch you anymore I had six children at 24. yeah yeah different Generations do you have an
2:31 idea like like this is I would like my lady to be like this like these are some of the things I'll love my lady to have I think it's it's kind of shifted over the years um like like I I like the the comfort and the peacefulness of like having like I guess a traditional girlfriend who has like a like a similar routine that doesn't involve a lot of um it's like she she she might love just cleaning cooking and staying at the house all that traditional gender roles yeah traditional gender roles right like a homemaker or something right right right I think that's very peaceful peace of mind yeah um bro that's what I want to do [Laughter] hell yeah
3:21 but but then on the flip side it's like it's also cool to see uh maybe something that that you you've had with Geo which is like a more um Power couple type Dynamic where you guys build towards like a like a a a a similar goal and Mission rather than like I'm building for my mission I just have wife wifey you know what's interesting is she wants to go into the traditional Homemaker like role she don't bake ████ biscuits and ████ she's just ████ yeah like that's what she wants to do now and that's like that's that's actually like our New Year's resolution this year wow to pull her off of all like business and work work related stuff so she can be like full-time mom and like I applaud her for this because
4:11 like she never really wanted to get into all of the other social media and business stuff but she just went into it like full force did it for over 15 years and then she really realized that's not where she gets like satisfaction so to me I always like call it damn you took Jiu Jitsu and you got a black belt and then you go I'm there but I'm really never gonna do this again versus most people just dabble in it you know it's like she really knows she wants to be like a homemaker she got really lucky though in the way where um some women they realized too late or they're single they're successful in their careers yeah and they they don't have a kid and they don't have a husband and so like they're like pushing you know early 40s late 30s and then they're like ████ I actually want to be like I want a
5:01 family like I want and then like you know um just you know recently we have like IVF technology and all this stuff where people can actually make that work but then there's so much like it's still new like the the the education out there isn't something that people are taught on it and like you know and I'm learning this ████ because we have so many friends that are going through IVF and because they have fertility um problems and ████ but it's like uh I'm hearing this so much now of like women who chose that like corporate life or that success life or like passion life and then they're going way like I don't want to just ████ chase goals and money like that's not what makes me as a human being and that's like I think Geo got lucky in that sense where she um has a family she's built that alongside
5:53 and then she has the option to go it's not me so I'm giving this portion up and going into being like mother and family life yeah it was definitely tough because she was like pretty much had like three jobs I mean she was sitting here at JK news with taika and then still running barbell so she's like Mommy doing JK and doing Bible School like we were our bandwidth was pretty bursting at the seams so I so now I think after doing all that she's like I really just want to um be at home and take care of taika and do all that stuff but what's cool is like all the tools and skills she learned from all this like the way she sees it she wants to be like the CEO of the home which with all these tools like you can like she's like I'm gonna set up like like field trips I'll manage the home finances as if it's like a has like a balance sheet I'm gonna like like uh we're trying to build
6:43 like rental properties whatever like she's really gonna try to treat the home as if it's a business which is pretty cool because it's like like someone it takes someone with who has done a business to be able to understand and see those things that's true like the zeros and ones of the Matrix to be able to apply it but that's what she wants to do now and you said you're torn between one or the other well see it's the a woman who's even like capable of of doing something like that is it's someone who's like you know have those I I guess traits of being proactive I think that's something I look for um so like as as I'm kind of like just going through the motions of life like I'm I'm I'm kind of learning what I want and what I like too and because when you're younger you probably choose a girl based on how pretty her face is and how round her boobies are yeah and then maybe if
7:33 she has a bouncy butt yeah and then you're just like oh that is wifey material right and then later on you're just kind of like so I probably shouldn't just choose a girl based on looks well the first girl I'm just happy I got a girl she got some titties I'm just happy I'm not getting hand jobs from my best friend anymore and it's a girl's hand would that be you yeah smooth I doubt it trains to hold bars but I think you know as I as I grow older uh like as I level up myself I I also realize I now have the option to pick a partner that is a lot more uh like multi-dimensional right rather than just
8:24 yeah nice bouncy butt right right that's that's good though that's that's still that's it it's a pretty high prerequisite I would say that's Jill's problem now the but kind of sadly it's like gravity you know I mean gravity is a real thing Isaac Isaac Newton was right you didn't know till then yeah I didn't know until like like 39. you see her she's talking about the effects of gravity over a long period of time the theory of gravity that's what yeah we went through we went to ████ Sky Zone and she was jumping but nothing else was moving around like what's going on [Laughter] so make sure this diver goes to jail back to you Jimmy all right all right so you're stuck in
9:15 between traditional gender roles or like someone that's like I got career goals right right I I have my own like YouTube channel I have my own platform I'm like super talented I could be in front of the camera I could do all these things right there with me all right um so it's like I'm kind of curious as to like which one is is sustainable for me oh I got a question for you um if you were to meet a girl that you were interested in you guys started dating and she also had sort of a similar career where she was trying to make it as a YouTuber content creator but her numbers were lower than yours would you feel like there's some kind of angle ex-boyfriends were all content creators oh
10:06 each of them there's a lot of those out there she had a lower subscriber than them but she surpassed each one like yo that's if she actually had a pattern like that I would be I would be suspicious yeah I I might I might you know you know she she could clout Chase off of me for a little bit but I I want to see that as a viable long-term oh okay yeah yeah but you would be open to like helping exchanging like yeah oh collabing collab collaborating covers a lot of angles you know I mean multi-dimensional angles I will say I I don't know if you ever felt this at one point even though you're totally with a dancer um but I remember there was a point uh or there's always conversations that's funny it's like dancers sometimes especially in the industry like you you like date dancers right and then after
10:57 you date a couple dances the older you get eventually like I don't want to be with the dancer you know what I mean and what causes that what makes it I think for us it's maybe more just like the art this grind oftentimes the artist Grand doesn't always come with like uh compliment stability and security right you know what I'm saying so it's like if you're already on your Chase the best balance is actually the opposite yeah but again it's not it's not a ████ hard written rule or anything like that anybody can make it happen but just generally that's the dynamic yeah so like you know I wonder if things even in the same fashion with certain things like entrepreneurialism or or content creation specifically as well I can totally see how it complements each other you can work with your partner and like it's just double the fun and like twice the you know um output or whatever it is but I could also understand you know the industry feeling of like maybe wanting to have
11:48 balance in the household right of like the career and or stability elements is all that's a yin and yang dude yeah for all yeah yeah because you have like a super power couple um like Layla and Alex from Ozzy you guys know know them yeah yeah so they're like super power couple they're running like a nine figure business um and she's the CE uh coo she he's the CEO of their company but you can almost feel that they're probably they don't have kids and they don't ever want to have kids because they're like on that extreme or they are that power couple and they just want to keep crushing it and then so I I do feel like um depending on what kind of relationship you're looking for it it is like difficult especially in this day and age where everyone has like the thing they want to pursue yeah and it almost feels like you either get this or
12:38 you or you get you get this and I think that's a huge Point too because like at the end of the day it's it's still it's still the ladies that gotta bear the children and stuff like that you know what I mean so then like if you ended up wanting somebody that was also very like proactive your go-getter entrepreneur there's concert or whatever that wanted to build her career or her brand she might not be there for the kids yeah or or the second you're like hey I want to have kids maybe she's like oh but I'm at this point in my career and then the conversation changed I actually know a really close friend of mine who same thing his his wife was also a dancer you know and they're they're both in that field and Industry and they had you know when you're young you're like this is what I want for my future but once you actually kind of get to that point in your life suddenly things can change because you're like well ████ I I actually kind of want to do this or do that we even had Ellen Kim on here and talking about before she had her kid too she's like oh I had questions maybe you know or my my
13:29 friends and family are coming to me saying that they were concerned like what about your career XYZ and you know you can still make it and stuff but I do know that again like my close friend there's a situation where it's like suddenly his wife was like I can't do this and I I can't have kids and that changed their entire higher relationship and they got a divorce you know what I'm saying so they want kids yeah but again I you know no matter what you gotta also like kind of sympathize for the woman too because it's not fair yeah it's just a different world you know so well what's more important is what it is like is is this do you want a life with a partner because once you get with them your goals in life and we talked about this earlier but everything changes because now you're you're partner team building your company building you're thinking about a future for your kids your dreams will change so as an individual you might have a you
14:19 know this this idea of like you know I'm gonna be the best boxer in the world or something right but when you become a father it might change because you're like well I don't I don't want to ████ die in the ring with my kids watching and you know like it might just be a different priority and I think that uh that's the beauty of involving people into your life and working together because then now you can have shared goals like you might throw away one thing or not throw it away but you might graduate from wanting that one thing and then now with the partner you get excited about maybe having a family together and moving someplace or like building a business together and I think to me instead of creating criteria like a lot of people believe in like have a whole list of who you want to meet which will help you manifest that
15:09 or help you find that when they're there right but I also believe in like um sometimes you just have chemistry in the moment you don't know why and then you can make reason for it later but if you're a good on the go kind of person and so are they then you can kind of adjust because you're constantly flowing through life like I don't know anyone that has a strict plan of five ten years and this is my method and this is where I'm going and I have to go this way and if they are like that I think they should be with people like that but most people I think are kind of on the fly in general they don't plan they meet people and then they're just like oh I like you there's something about you I don't know yeah it's just Primal I like you you just have nice bouncy butt you know like whatever and then you stop physical you're getting into all this stuff and then you find reasons of like
16:00 well maybe we can stay together a little bit longer because I like your company and then you kind of go through all this like these different stages right but at least for me like when you plan too much ahead you're planning too much ahead by yourself so then when you become a partnership all those plans might not even come into play because you didn't even consult with your new team member so then I don't know I guess that's at my stage the way I see relationships is like I don't plan too much ahead because then that means I'm thinking too much without my partner there uh I mean you can dream of like what you want to do with your life that's I'm not saying don't do that but I'm saying like you know you can imagine your family and all these things and have expectations but then the person that you will meet that will change because and sometimes for the positive because that person you meet will let you see it in a different
16:51 way that you wouldn't have came up with by yourself very wise so um cute face bouncy butt big butt that's where you're still at right now you I don't know I don't have to be big it just perky perky yeah no I'm past the existing part guys no no did you say there was someone that you're sort of talking to right now or you completely open slate like nobody uh right right now I'm just I I just wanna just travel the world but nobody's stealing your attention a little bit well it's kind of that's a good way to put that I think he wants to taste the flavors of the world and you should the buffet is amazing oh you're gonna like what's out there boy it's not so unsexy
17:43 you know what the relationship with the popstar the relationship that you have with their pops with my dad oh yeah like let's say you uh meet someone that's serious um a lot of times people would be like well I want to get my dad's approval like if we're gonna like you know take the next step do you think that's something where you're like I would have to repair it with my dad no you're like this is my chair this is my girl my life yeah that's dope yeah yeah yeah um I don't know it's just it my the relationship I have with my dad it's just it's so hard to even like get through to him I don't know he's just so stuck in his own old ways I mean yeah my mom he she's been just a lot more adaptive to America just you know she's had more American friends
18:33 she's you know learned how to speak I could speak to my mom now does your dad have clothes where his hands are like like this and he rides around in a wooden box that's carried by other people yeah and he puts Saran wrap around his remote controls that's a new era that's new era that's like that's like in the in the 1200s bro that's ████ mean dynasty dad bro would you ever be down to drop some mollies with their pops and just pop holy ████ yo whoa that might be a good video pops ████ take this and he takes it he's like holy water yeah yo I'm not gonna lie he might need that he might need some Molly yeah to like break down the barriers
19:24 500 bucks straight up cash to get my mom to smoke weed and just see if that helps her what is your mom tense he's a ████ not think the way she thinks okay Molly water dude that would be so interesting I invite V down for that that's a kind of a dope concept yeah there's a part of that that's like illegal yeah yeah yeah yeah allegedly not not with family not a family yeah Molly in a ████ you know like a ████ melty Boba or whatever the funky likes to drink grass chili Black Milk Tea [Laughter] strong yeah yeah but damn this one
20:14 sneak it in his Ginseng tea bro oh yeah can't do it it was that feeling yeah wow [Music]
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