0:05 Welcome back to another episode of Careful Boys. Today we have Mr. Nicholas Leon. Woohoo. And we have Mr. Jason Chennet. Chennet. >> Chenn. >> All right. If if um this is impossible obviously, but like let's say that uh God could put the data on the screen of like how many fights you've had with your wife and he's able to determine whose fault it was >> Oh ████ >> On each of those, right? For the final score, do you think it would be more times your fault or more times her fault? >> More times her fault. Million%. [laughter] >> So much confidence. Damn. >> You know why? >> Why? >> Cuz God is a man, right? So, shout outs
0:56 to God. Fist bump. Because we're both men. So, we both. [laughter] >> So, he's going to already see value logic over emotion. >> Oh. >> So, he's like, "Oh, yeah. You had sound arguments." The parts that I ████ up in in arguments is usually I'm not assessing the emotional part. But I don't think God gives a ████ >> Yeah, >> cuz he's a man. >> So probably something in the Bible about probably most of the origin is probably like she she ████ up and then maybe I made it worse with my logic and not assessing the emotion, >> but Eve bit the apple. [laughter] >> She started. >> It's true. >> That's a really good answer. Damn. They were born in sin.
1:46 >> Adam's chilling, right? Adam's chilling. Eve bites the apple and then he's like, "Why would you do that?" She probably has some emotional outburst or whatever. >> She was hungry. That's what it was. She was so hungry. >> She makes [laughter] bad decision. >> Message will be added. >> Yeah. Cuz honestly, when Tiff is hungry, she won't ████ talk to me. And it's like I hate to say all these >> hungry, >> dude. I hate to say all these like cliches about ladies and stuff, but she won't talk to me. Like if we're we have say we're getting breakfast and she hasn't eaten, >> she will be like, "I'm hangry." >> Yeah. She's like hangry. She'll be silent. >> Does she make it that it's your fault you guys have an H yet? >> Kind of. She'll get mad at me about like, oh, I'm late or SOMETHING OR WHATEVER. [laughter] >> And then and then as soon as she eats something, she's a different person. And I look at her and I go, are you happy now? [laughter] >> Are you happy now? And she goes, "Yeah, thank you."
2:37 >> Cuz she's embarrassed. [laughter] She knew. She knows she was being a kid with a >> t. Some of the times that you guys fight, it's just because of her mood. >> That's all of it. What are you talking about? [laughter] Aren't you Aren't you dating a girl, too? >> Isn't that all of it? >> Aren't you with a lady, too? Isn't that 100% of [laughter] what happens? >> Bro, you ever made a like an actual mistake? An oopsie of some sort? >> Mistakes. I ████ up all the time. But I think the odds are definitely in my favor. I think >> cuz I feel like I try I try to not ████ make people upset. I try to make everyone's My goal in my life is I try to make everyone's life around me a little bit easier. I want I don't want people to know I'm around. I want to be a little quiet little mouse, dude. >> Yeah, I try to at least whether I do that or not. That's who knows. >> Bringing down the house with your sense of humor. >> Shut the ████ [laughter]
3:27 >> Honestly, dude, next video, dude. Next video. Ask Jason Chenny, dude. [laughter] >> What about you, Joe? >> Where I consistently lose [laughter] is >> That's a good preface. my reaction to the problem in the fight overrides even if it was it was her fault. >> Oh, so you make the new problem basically >> because of how I don't manage my emotions. >> It's like it's like I'm not meeting her at her level of fight. And do you think God is still too much of a dude to like he'll still let you win the point or >> if the guy if God was repled, he would have been like, "My man, put her in her place." [laughter] >> My man algo God's on, huh?
4:17 >> God's a black dude. My man, [laughter] >> you think God watches the whatever podcast. >> God was a traditional conservative. >> Like, yeah, dude, put her in her place, bro. Place. If God is the God that I know in the Old Testament, [laughter] put her in her place. >> Damn. >> Your wife must follow, submit, right? >> Oh, >> if God was a modern man of equality or just a sensible ████ >> he'd be like, "Joe, come on, dude. You're right, but like your execution was so bad that you're wrong." >> What if it's Obama that's judging your score? >> Oh, Obama gay. So he would probably be like [laughter] he'd be like Joe as a husband [laughter] >> in a wife >> I didn't know you had that in the bag, bro. >> A wife that's being accused as a man,
5:07 you have to let your woman lead. And I'm like, you're not a good example. Michelle Obama goes on podcast and roast your gay ass. [laughter] I have no And he's like, we got to bomb the Middle East as much as we can. No ████ I I I think it's like um sometimes I'm just like, you know, when um most of our fights is because both of us communicate ████ weird. >> Yeah. >> So she'll be like, "I ████ told you this and that." Well, she doesn't even yell like that, right? >> I've never heard. [laughter] >> No, no, no. She'll that's the that's the energy of like I told you I I told you you know [laughter] and I'm like when I say I say it I say on the text message right and then I look at the text and I'm all like >> what this is a fragmented sentence with
5:57 three words. >> Okay. But I I do that ████ where like I I thought I told somebody something, so I'll continue explaining something to them >> like where I missed one through five. I'm going through from five to 10. She does the same ████ right? So she's getting mad cuz she's like, I I already told you this. And then I'm all like, nah, you got to start from one. You got to start from one and then lead me to the whole thing and then bring me up to speed. But she'll race through it and I'm like, I don't even know what you're saying. So, I can't listen. And I'm not trying to not listen. I can't follow. You're doing it too fast. [laughter] And so, she's getting mad at me cuz she's like, "I told you this s███." And then sometimes I'll do that to her. I'm like, "I ████ told you this s███." >> And then she goes, "When?" And I'm like, "I swear three days ago." And then I'll
6:47 like look back at my text and I was like, "Oh, ████ dude. I said like three words. I did what she did. [laughter] We're both just not great communicators." So, we get mad at each other for not communicating. Yeah. But then you have the bigger reaction to being mad. >> I have a bigger reaction to her um arguing with me. >> Oh, okay. So, like technically does she usually just stays the same level. >> It's like a misunder like No, she she gets upset too, but her energy even at aggression level is soft. >> Oh. >> So, she she never gets to a point where it feels like I don't think at her angriest it will threaten anyone. >> Her like verbal assault level, but when I'm getting more intense, my voice gets louder and more intense, right? So then
7:38 like she's like, "That's too much." >> And I'm just like, she's like, "If we have kids, you going to be yelling at them that way?" And I'm like, "No, I'm just trying to get my point across." But then like I think my my 0 to 100 needs to be like 0 to 50 >> cuz my voice is just big and I'm expressive and like >> I'm not that mad but I look like I'm really mad and I I didn't realize that. >> Ah that makes sense. >> So it's scary >> when I get scared when you yell sometimes too. >> Yeah. But in my heart I'm not that mad. >> No, I know. But it is scary. It's like oh Joe's mad. Oh no. >> Oh no. Joe's mad. >> I realized Well, yeah. I am communicating like very angry cuz I'm cussing. I'm like loud >> doing all the things guys do. [laughter] Okay. Yeah. Whatever the >> sharpening sharpening a blade.
8:28 [laughter] >> I'm I'm throwing things. I'm breaking things. I'm like that's pretty stupid, bro. That's not normal. Cuz in my mind, normal 100 is violence and out of control. I'm crashing my car into people and then like I'm ████ >> Yeah, that's violent. It's like, I'll grab you. I'll throw you out of the ████ balcony. That's 100 to me, right? So then my my 50 is like just screaming and verbally abusing people. >> So that's it's still not good. It's still not good. It's still not >> Wait, what where are you at though? Like when you guys >> When we're mad, >> I could never be a 100 cuz I love her. >> But she's like, "Yo, you got to ████ control that s███." And then I look back and I'm like, "Yeah, you're right. Like this is not normal. Like this not this is like in a normal world where like if
9:20 your girl's not a gangster ████ that went to jail, she's not going to tolerate this ████ >> And I realized like [snorts] oh yeah, like a hood rap ████ like you could punch her in the face and she'll still like be with you cuz like that's that's like an argument. Like that's normal. I never ████ a girl up. But I had a girl like one of my exes, she was all sleeved up. She was a gangster ████ right? Uh she got mad at me. She got the flower pot and cracked it over my head. So that's the kind of fights we had, right? It's like a Home Alone type fight, >> right? [laughter] >> That's a Marv move. >> The pipe on the rope. [laughter] >> Where'd you get the pain? >> I didn't know what verbal abuse was. I thought like I thought, okay, violence was like that's abuse, physical abuse, right? So that's going 100. Next is like, okay, well, what's out of bounds? Let's crossing the line is hitting each
10:10 other. So, if you're not going to hit each other, you could ████ punch a wall. You could do all this ████ >> and it's fine. >> I thought that's that that was okay. And then I'm like, "Oh, no." Like, these are bad ████ habits. Now, mind you, I was way worse in my like earlier years. This one is more like my tone is intense. >> Like, I don't I don't ████ ████ up no more. I don't do any of that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> I like to scream in a pillow sometimes. >> Yeah. If you put in YOUR FACE, YOU GO, [screaming] >> "YOU DO THAT?" NO, I don't do that. Jason, what the ████ [laughter] He screams into his ghee bald up. [screaming] >> So yeah, I think I don't we don't fight, but if I do get uh mad or frustrated, I want to be able to have >> get mad British style. >> Yeah, cuz you know British people are like, >> "What do they do? How do they get mad? They don't yell." Huh? >> They're they're subtle communicators,
11:00 but they're ghetto ████ are all the same. They're just like us. And then they they they scream and they act stupid. >> They stab. >> Yeah, >> they stab. And then they hit over each other with the with the alcohol. >> Dude, the pot on the head. [laughter] >> Crazy. >> Like Tom and Jerry. >> Yeah. Scar. Do you have a scar from that or just the >> It was a weak. >> How long till you stop seeing the Tweety Birds? [laughter] >> It was my mom's favorite flower pot, too. >> Oh my man. How sad. It was at [laughter] your house for sure. >> I know. ████ ████ do the gold thing to like put it back together. [laughter] >> ████ hilarious. >> Damn, dude. You guys aren't Japanese. >> I know. >> Yeah. [snorts] >> But yeah, I think my reaction overrides whatever fight we had because >> it shouldn't have got to that level.
11:51 >> Yeah. >> What about you, Jason? How What's the score between you and your wife? Are you losing? I think I'm I think I'm I don't think mo I think most of the time that it's not like uh she's wrong or I'm wrong. I think it's just like um miscommunicating. >> Oh, okay. >> Communicated though, >> huh? >> Who miscommunicated? >> Usually the girl. >> Yeah. If you have to pick >> cuz someone miscommunicated and then that's the reason. >> God God's saying there's no ties. I will always pick one. >> Okay. >> The way the way that I see it, it's always it's like baseball, right? You got a pitcher and a catcher. >> [clears throat] >> a really good catcher, the pitcher can go like this and still caught it. Still caught it, right? But if you have a stupid ass ████ catcher, perfect pitch. Still hits him in the face. That's how I
12:41 see it. >> This example [laughter] is really good. >> So I'm like, is she a good catcher? I don't know. [laughter] >> That [snorts] is good. Great analogy. But yeah, I I think it's just same. Um, I would say I probably I I really do my best to try to communicate as well as possible, but I make mistakes also, but sometimes I do the wrong thing, which sometimes cuz I want sometimes I argue about the system, then the actual problem. >> The [laughter] system >> like the communication like the communication problem then the actual problem cuz I'm like, "Oh, if we fix the communication part, >> yeah, yeah, I get it." And then I'm like, "Oh, if we always argue about that, argue two things." But uh that's true. Actually, >> getting your I think your significant other on a system of like, "Hey, we
13:33 don't ████ yell each other. We don't curse each other." Like like minimum do >> like I think that does help like just to settle the playing field a little bit >> like the rules. >> Yeah. Right. Cuz I think that does help. We got in a fight because I was mad at myself and I was getting mad and cussing myself out and then Hannah wanted me to stop doing that and I was like, "You can't control what I say to me." [laughter] >> Yeah, but if you saw a if you saw Hannah ████ being like stupid, STUPID [laughter] LIKE, "HEY, NO ONE NO ONE TALKS TO MY WIFE THAT WAY, B████." >> HEY, stop ████ doing that, bro. Like, relax. Like, chill out. It's not that serious. ████ dunder head. [laughter] YOU'RE A NIMROD. >> You income poop. >> Sorry, Hannah. We love you. I'm just a joke. We love you. We can't. Your access
14:24 is too fire. We just can't help [laughter] ourselves. >> YOU BLOODY IDIOT.
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