0:00 Cuz if you do something that's age-appropriate, I feel like she would actually enjoy it more. Instead of like taking her to like some ████ Michelin star restaurant or whatever, she probably just wants to go to like >> She'll have the foie gras. >> Go to Legoland. >> Yeah, she just wants to go watch a movie and get >> the foie gras. >> Get a ████ slushy or some ████ >> Wait, Tommy Hurdz? >> Yeah, it's like dude, that's ████ crazy. >> Been on YouTube a long time. I've never been tagged in uh in in a clip unless it's it was about like Filipino food more than this particular clip. So, I can't play the audio because it's set to the Righteous Brothers Unchained Melody. The song from Ghost with the clay, you know? >> Yeah, yeah. >> It's like, you know, very romantic song. And uh so, this is this is a dad who surprises his daughter every year
0:51 uh with a date. >> What What do you mean? Like Wait, what does that say on the paper? >> It says go on a date with dad. Dad takes you on a date. So, either way she picks it. >> So, either way she's ████ She's like, "Damn it." >> Unchained Melody's playing right now, but you can't hear it. Dad takes you on a date. Yay! >> Oh my god, it's the same one. >> every year he does it. >> Oh my god, he So, he simulates the actual like >> He takes her to a dance. >> He's doing it like a real date date though. What the ████ >> I can see why everyone tagged you. >> You know what I mean? >> Yeah. >> Giving her flowers. Never stop dating your daughter. >> Bro, why? >> This is your hell in one video. >> It's funny too cuz Anthony over the
1:41 years has heard me gripe about never the date your daughter thing, daddy-daughter dates. And he was like, "I really didn't understand how extreme it was until I actually saw this clip." And I was like, "That's what I was talking about." Like I wasn't talking about like just innocent >> You're talking about simulating romantic date style, but with your daughter. >> Exactly. And how creepy it is and weird. >> I'm not a part of that culture, so I had no reference that it was that crazy. >> Well, I've shown videos though of like dads taking their daughters to proms and ████ And I just think it's all in the same whacked area. >> like that though. Even the ones that aren't like creepy and cringey or whatever, it's still like the dad opening the door for the daughter as if it's his wife. They go and they have like a candlelit dinner like it's like his wife. >> even know that ████ existed. >> It's like all that. And then there's a
2:31 whole side of the internet that's like, "Oh my god, look how sweet it is. That's how this girl is going to learn what a good man is from a bad man or whatever." >> You think it takes that to learn? >> No, because >> No. >> No, cuz psychologists have basically there there's it's been studied. The way that your children learn how to be treated and loved and share love is the example that they see with their parents, not how they get treated. >> Exactly. >> It's It's how much you love your wife. >> But these guys don't date their wives, they date their daughters. >> So then they just learn how to be spoiled. But it doesn't teach them how to be a partner in a romantic relationship. All they know how to be is a spoiled daughter. >> It's also corny as ████ Like imagine like on a first date So if a guy if a guy if a guy shows up on a first date
3:23 and he doesn't come with flowers, this ████ is really like when she's older, she's really going to be like, "Really? My dad would get me flowers and wears a ████ three-piece suit." You know what I mean? Like what are you talking about? What is this world? >> I think it's definitely ████ performative when you're making social media out of it. >> Well, that's all it is in my opinion. It's all about the dad. It's all about his own narcissism. >> Look what I'm doing. Like look how great of a dad I am. >> Look at how great I treat my daughter. >> I would Okay, so like I would only do this ████ if my daughter was the one that wanted to do it. So, like if she's like, "I want to play princess and prince." Or whatever. And then she's like, "You And I I'd even do it if she's like, "You be the ████ carpet. And then we're going to play Aladdin." You know, and then like whatever. So, I'll play a role in a fun game. But, I would never come up with
4:14 I would never be the one to be like, "Let's go on a date, honey." >> You're going to have your daughter be carpet? >> No, she wants me to be carpet. >> Oh, okay. >> I dude, I immediately had thoughts as well about that. But, yeah. No, this is what I've been talking about over the years where it's just the their own narcissism of the guy. Let me film myself being great in front of everybody in the world so that you can see that I'm a great dad and I'm the best husband. I'm the best whatever. >> So, maybe maybe it's like if if there's a correlation here, maybe daddy-daughter dates as a concept is more often used only when it's performative. >> But, there's people that do it without social media. >> Before social media, were guys doing this ████ >> Yeah. That's the thing. Like, not social media-wise. But, I mean, performative to other peers. >> That's what I think that, too. >> I mean, cuz like why would you know that? >> If I ever run into a guy that that does this ████ I'd be like, "You're gay and you're not allowed to be around my my wife or my friends or none of that ████
5:05 Like, ████ that s███." >> I'm not gay. I just love my daughter. I just want to my daughter. I'm not gay. >> Why why is he not allowed to be around your family if he's gay? >> I don't trust men like this. >> Gay guys? >> No, like gay guys are awesome. Like, homosexuals, I ████ love them, right? >> with them. >> Like, I want a gay uncle like hanging out. Yeah. I ████ them hard. They're ████ dope. To me, this is like this gives off serial killer vibes. This gives off like, "I'm manipulating the whole town and I'm going to start a cult." Like, kind of weird It's just to me, it's just ████ weird behavior. >> What if they do it balanced though? And then so, if there's like father-daughter date, there's also mommy-son date. And the mommies like to teach you what a good woman is. We're going to go out and I'm going to wear lingerie so you know what a good woman's supposed to do. >> ████ dude.
5:55 >> to make you all this food and then we're going to end up in a hotel room. >> I'll show you how to put a condom on a banana. >> Oh god, dude. >> But why isn't there a mommy son thing? >> Exactly. >> There isn't. >> It's not a thing. >> Cuz that'd be ████ weird as ████ >> as ████ dude. >> That's why this is the same thing. It's already it's weird as ████ >> I don't see any even a narcissist woman isn't even going out there to be like, I show my son how to be a man and how he should be treated by a woman. Like I don't ever see that ████ >> You don't see that? Like women saying that? >> No. >> I thought that's like hell of like single mom ████ ████ is like that. >> By default. >> Like they're showing them the son the titties or what good titties look like. >> No, but then they're like that's like a ████ normal thing that like >> Have you seen a single mom take her son to Denny's or some ████ and go like, we're on a date? >> On a date? >> No, but like that's like a isn't this
6:47 not an epidemic with most families that have only moms that they they think they can teach their son everything about >> Oh, sure. Yeah, but I don't see him taking him on dates and stuff. >> I don't I'm >> Teaching's different from role playing. >> I'm sure that if you're a single mom and there's no ████ dad in the picture, you have to do all of it, everything. >> But why isn't this like a thing with like, you know, internet people making son mommy son dates? >> Yeah, I don't know. >> Cuz to me it's not the action. Like if you want to just go grab food with your kid, just go grab food with your kid. >> You don't have to title it. >> Yeah, but when you have title in and you put all this ████ dressing around it, like, what the ████ >> I thought I think it's just because like it's like dads There's like Okay, so there's like a stereotype that when dads do anything it's so ████ praised and when moms do anything, it's just ████ automatic. >> It's like you're supposed >> So like so men think like, oh, I if I do this post and it's me being a dad, like I'm going to get all this love.
7:37 >> guy.com. >> And if women ████ take their son to wherever the ████ it's like redundant to post about it. Because it's like, yeah, you're his mom. You know what I mean? That's like the global, or at least in America. >> When you showed Anthony this, cuz you know what Anthony was like, he was like, I could see myself doing Was he like, nah, no more? >> He actually, we were in his Tesla on the way to on the way to Joe's birthday, and he was like, I was disgusted by this. So, I was like, hell, that's what I was talking about over the years. He thought it was sick. >> So, he didn't get the reference, cuz I didn't. I I have friends that are like, yeah, we're on a daddy-daughter date, like they joke about it, right? But, they're just at the carnival or something together. >> It's They still just They still better watch their mouth. >> The simulation, I think, is weird. It's like, let's play roles, is ████ >> don't This is hardcore. Like, I didn't know it was like that. No. >> Outside, I'm going to ding-dong, you're going to answer in a nice dress
8:29 for me. >> Oh, man. Yeah, that's ████ weird. >> I'm out. >> No. No, like daddy daddy-daughter day, just going somewhere. I thought it was like that, like, hey, let's go get some ice cream. >> It's normally supposed to be. >> Yeah, but the other siblings don't come because like it's a daddy-daughter day, right? So, that Or like he'll have like alone time with the other siblings before like different things, but I thought when it was just the daughter and the dad, then that was a daddy-daughter day. I didn't know it was like this. >> Also, too, this guy, he So, he is wearing the the suit here, right? But, then he also runs into the bathroom and changes into his dad clothes, and then he he goes on the other side of the door, and he's like, um I'm going to have to have a word with you for a second. And then he goes back to the bathroom, and he changes back in the tuxedo, and he's like he's like, what do you mean? What what's going on? I'll have her back by 8:30. He is >> Shut the ████ up, dude.
9:19 >> Well, no, he he goes back into the bathroom and changes his clothes. ████ loser. >> He really did all that? No, he does not do that. >> Cuz I could see it. I could see it. >> He had to have a talk with himself? >> He really did. >> I could see it. He simulates the talk with himself? >> I could see him doing ████ like that, man. Cuz that'd be the next level. >> had to con her into it. >> All right, so what are the comments saying? I want to know. >> Every peep So, there's like a low IQ >> Oh, so sweet. I wish my dad did that and my choice of men would be so much better. >> And then there's certain people who are like, uh what is this? Like >> Look at how many ████ likes there are. There's like 800,000 likes. >> But the real question is, do you think that this girl, like when she grows up, that she'll look back and feel like it had some kind of negative effect on her? >> Yeah. >> It's what Joe said. He She's learning how to get spoiled, not learning how to get treated well. >> but like will she know? You know what I mean? Like is her own opinion of this going to be like that was weird when dad
10:10 did that? Or is she just going to be like normal about it? You know what I mean? >> That I don't know. >> Well, look, I know there's a person in my family who will not be named, but they go on dates with their dad and she's like 30-something. >> What do they do that? >> She gets dressed up and they >> But she likes it, right? >> Yeah, she calls him daddy, too. It's very ████ weird. >> Really? >> Yeah. It's one of It's a cousin. >> Okay. >> Is there tension building up between the two? >> Dude, it it's just very odd cuz she gets all excited about it and she's like, "Daddy daughter date tonight." And she And then she's like takes selfies of herself like in cocktail dresses and ████ And then like he wears a suit. It's very strange. >> This is why there's so much incest with white people cuz they play with fire, dude. You get I'd be I'd be >> By the way, not a white person. Not a white person. >> That guy? >> No, the person I'm talking about. It's what Nikki said. >> They're adjacent, man.
11:02 >> But I just want to I want to hear from someone who had this growing up. And they look back and go, "What the ████ was that?" You know, like I want to know if it actually has a weirdness element to it. >> As a kid though, like having attention from your parents, no matter what it is, is probably fun, right? So, she's not going to know until like later on and then maybe if she got made fun of or whatever, but the thing that makes me feel really ████ weird about it though is the performative man thing and you know, like he's doing it for him. He's doing it so he gets praised. It's not really about her upbringing and all that. >> Probably disguising it under like I know I'm only do it so other guys see it and they get inspired to do the same for their daughters cuz it's very good to >> I also think too like you could look at something like this and like in in 20 years this girl could be like like or somebody like her could be like how did nobody know this guy was ████
11:52 me all the time? >> Shut up. >> Dude, like the the signs were all there. Like the guy used to take me on dates. What the hell you guys think was going on? >> Shut up, Steve. >> There's some dark ████ huh? >> That's what I'm saying. It It dude, it only takes 15 minutes after this to get even darker. >> Cuz like let's say you go out with your daughter and you want it to just be normal. What would you call it? Oh, just daddy-daughter time. Just call it something normal, right? You don't have to call it a day. You don't have to get all crazy. >> That's it. Daddy-daughter >> This ruined the whole daddy-daughter date thought for me though. >> Cuz if you were to do something that's age-appropriate, I feel like she would actually enjoy it more. Instead of like taking her to this some ████ Michelin star restaurant or whatever. She probably just wants to go to like >> She'll have the foie gras. >> Go to Legoland. >> Yeah, she just wants to go watch a movie and get get a ████ slushy or some ████ >> Wait till me hurts.
12:42 >> Yeah, it's like dude, that's ████ crazy. >> So good. Like you're telling me you're not going to go down on me after I gave you the foie gras. ████ sick, dude. >> That's gross. >> This is sick as ████ >> It's just weird to show like romantic affection to your children. That's just ████ weird. >> Or and even role-playing it. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Simulated romance. >> I think you were once said like guys who get the doors for their daughters are weirdos, which I Or I think it was you. >> I said that >> Because you should get the door for your wife. >> Yeah. >> Like not for your daughter. Like why are you getting the door for your daughter? >> Open it for your wife. As soon as your daughter comes close, you ████ shut the door, yeah. >> Yeah, I'm all in on that. >> Oh, okay. >> That's so funny. I think a better example of showing her is taking her out
13:33 on a date with your wife. Let her ████ observe what a what it what she >> Yeah, let her go What grownups do. This is what grownups do. >> And then ████ the ████ out of your wife in front of them. >> Yeah. He's like, "This is how dates end, baby." >> Yeah. >> Damn, that's crazy. >> Yeah, take your kids out on a ████ date with your wife and show them how that that should So, let's say let's say this guy's son is gay. Would he go >> Father-son date. >> to teach you what a good man is. >> Oh. >> I'mma teach my gay son what a good man is. >> That's Yeah, that's interesting. >> be the same thing. >> That's the same thing. >> Yeah, interesting, dude. >> But I guarantee it's not out there. >> It's two gay dudes hanging out. >> But it's always these like churchy guys who like, you know, they they really got to put an image out there of themselves.
14:23 >> I'm a good Christian. >> Yeah. >> Yeah, they think they're really doing a certain >> Nobody can date my daughter but me, brother. It's ████ like that. >> And do they not know how ████ weird that is? >> I don't think so. I don't think they have honest friends around them. >> And then what about all the low IQ people that build a community around this? >> Dude, I don't know. That's That's like when you see you know animal videos where like a deer stuck in the ice and they play these they do this thing where they go, "Here's a good guy. He's the best guy in the world. He's saving this deer from the ice." And it's just the most benign clip, but people it gets like a million views and all the comments are like, "This is the great He's better than Jesus." >> Mhm. Yeah. >> So, I don't know who that s███'s for. >> And they And they're the ones who threw the deer under that ice. >> Who knows? How'd you find a deer in the middle of a ████ lake in the winter? >> I don't trust guys like this, man. They all I feel like there's something up like they're manipulating all the women
15:13 in the ████ neighborhood and ████ them all. And then like it's always these like like well-polished corporate-looking good guys. They're like the worst >> Like Gavin Newsom guys. >> Yeah, they need to interview the mom. The mom's probably like, "Man, I don't know. My husband has a weird side to him." >> She's like, "He hasn't ████ me in 10 years." >> Yeah, the mom's in the kitchen smoking a cigarette being like, "I haven't been on a date with the guy in forever." I guarantee it, man. Date your wives, not your daughters, you >> I wish he looked at me the way he looked at our daughter. >> The way he looks at our daughter. He doesn't look at me that way anymore. What the ████ dude? Sick, babe.
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