0:00 Have you guys heard of this new trend where guys ask a girl on a date and then the girl says, "I'm getting my hair done and my nails done. Can you send me or Venmo me money because it's for our date?" >> Yeah, I've seen >> I've heard that that's a new trend. >> Y >> and I think that's if that's the case, then that should have bought me enough dates until you need to do your next hair and your next nails. >> Explain. So, what I don't want is if I pay for your hair and your nails to go on this date, you take these hair and nails and go on a date with another guy. >> That's true. Cuz you pay for it. So, I'm like, "Okay, cool. I'll pay for that s███." But as those nails are still good, as that hair is still good, you are mine for the rest of those dates. >> Well, those hairs and nails are, so you got to take it off. Hairs and nails. If
0:50 you're going to go on a date, you got to go bald. >> I've literally never heard that take before. So, congrats. >> That's what I would say cuz I'm like, "Okay, cool." like this is these are your rules of engagement. I agree to your rules. Now these are my rules of engagement. >> But how do you know that it's broken up into payments? Like how come it's it's not just a one-time thing. Is are you saying like as long as she has the style and the nails and it's not worn off? >> So like let's say she gets her hair done every two weeks. >> Yeah. >> If I pay for it, I got a twoe window to go on dates with you then. And you're not allowed to go on dates with anybody else unless they're cuz they're cuz now now that now I'm paying for that dude's prettiness. >> You're spoken like a gym owner. It's a weak pass. >> Yeah, I get it. >> Yeah. Week weak pass. >> Yeah. >> But then what if she makes that other dude pay for something, too? >> So, like, let's say you pay for it, right? And then if she wants to go on another date, the guy got to pay for her new hairstyle and new nails. >> They do a refresh.
1:40 >> Well, she got to first cut her hair and nails off and then the other guy could go do whatever. >> That's funny, dude. >> Cuz it's a reset, right? So then it's no longer your hair and nails, it's his. >> It's a different version. >> Yeah, >> that'll be fair. Could you see yourself still wanting to date a girl after she said that? >> ████ no. >> But that's what I'm saying. If you want to like, >> you know, it's like people go like, "Oh, can we play um like >> two hand touch football?" I'm like, "All right, fine. If you want to play two-hand touch and these are my rules, >> so I'll still entertain the rules set that you want to play, >> but ideally I don't even want to play that rule set. But if you do, then let's let's just see if we can have a good time out of this." >> It wouldn't turn you off. >> It would like crazy. >> Yeah. I just think you shouldn't start off being a pain in the ████ ass. >> Exactly. >> Like you should wait to be a pain in the ass later on, like when we're married or whatever. But being a pain in the ass
2:31 when we're dating is it's a bad move. >> Realistically, if someone said that to me and I was dating, I to me it's like pass. I would already not invest my time. >> Yeah. >> If there's already giant red flags right in the beginning, it's like you buy bread and like the first slice of bread is full of mold. I don't have to like I wonder if I can get past this. [laughter] I would just buy give me another loaf of bread. Can I see another loaf of bread? I wonder if >> let's say like in the from from the girl's perspective, right? She's like she's like ████ every time like I got to look my best and ████ I got to blow like 600 bucks and then he just he just after the date like we don't I don't even see him no more. And I'm like damn like that's money. That's like money every month or whatever, right? So then what if she's like h if I do want to go on a date but like I want to look good but I don't have money. I would go if I'm I
3:21 would actually prefer her say all that ████ and I'm like I don't even want you to spend 600 bucks. Let's go on a date and we'll have a ugly contest. You bring your ugliest version, I'll bring my ugliest version. >> That's funny. Actually, that's hilarious. We'll bring our ugliest version and let's see if we can have fun out of this. Cuz if we can, then there's probably something cool that could real. [laughter] That's so real. That's so real. >> The way that skanks can hide themselves with makeup is pretty scary, too. >> Crazy. That's why that calificer guy caricature guy >> nailed it. >> Calligraphy. There we go. That guy believes in looks maxing because he's like women are doing it. And then doesn't he have like those silicone shoulders or like he does all kinds of weird ████ >> He did he did some facial surgery. >> Yeah. And he punches himself so then he gets high cheekbones and then he smokes cigarettes so he doesn't eat that much
4:12 or something. And >> if you're a guy and you get a nose job, you're ████ gay though, right? >> You got a deviated septum though. Unless it's a breathing thing. >> Unless it's a breathing thing. >> Yeah, >> but everyone says it's a breathing thing. >> Yeah, [laughter] >> that's true. >> That's so true. >> Cuz you can't argue with them. Like, what are you going to say? Everyone says that. >> But then I wonder if it's a chicken or the egg situation here because I know there are guys who who were doing that thing, but opposite. They would ask a girl out and then they would send money and be like, "Get get yourself something nice." >> But that's class. >> That's kind of dope. >> That's like cool. >> Is it class? >> Yeah, that's like that's generous. >> But like what? But then if the girl takes that and now makes that decision, I think she's entitled. >> She's being demanding. >> Right. Right. Right. >> Yeah. But if you're like, let's say a billionaire, right? And then you're taking this peasant cuz you met her at McDonald's to the ████ billionaire
5:02 ball and you're like, I know you have nothing to wear, so don't worry about it. I got you. And then she goes to the store and when she walks in, they're like, you don't belong here. And then she walks out, right? And then so he's like, what the ████ How dare they? And then he calls them and then she comes back and then they treat her like a princess. >> Like Pretty Woman. >> You just described Pretty Woman. >> Yeah, you just plagiarized the whole movie. >> No, it's not. That's not That's not what I did. >> And then he runs up the fire escape at the end. >> How did you know that? >> Yeah, I seen Pretty Woman. >> Oh, you're gay. You're gay, dude. [laughter] >> I'm gay. Wait, wait, wait. I'm gay. >> No, like this can happen in real life. This can really happen. That can happen in real life. You know, >> I mean, you described the part where she's at the store and they're like, "You don't belong here. You're a hooker." >> No, that's not what happened. That's my story. >> Oh, my bad. >> Yeah. Yeah. That's his personal That's my personal billionaire story that I did. >> Okay. Okay, cool. >> And he shows her jewelry and when she
5:52 reaches for it, she closes it. [laughter] >> Why you taking my story? >> Closes the box. >> That happened to That happened to Colleen. Some guy just like wasn't even asking her out. Just like met her and then sent money >> for no reason. >> Holy. >> Yeah. He sent like 200 bucks or something. >> That's rich. >> Why? >> Did he say why? >> No, he he was just like, "Get yourself something nice, girl." >> That's cool. >> He was like a cool black dude. >> Nice. [laughter] That's something a cool black guy would do. >> Why are they so cool like that? >> That's why I'm like I think there's just different dating pools just move differently. >> Yeah. >> But then the the funny thing is that even though this isn't everyone's experience, everyone's pissed about it. Which is funny. Like all these guys are so mad then they're like girls asking for money for nails and hair. It's like that's never happened to you. It's so rare. That's so insanely rare. >> And social media is just spotlighting it. >> Yeah. But it is different when you're just giving it to them
6:43 >> as a guy. >> That's cool. >> Yeah. But doesn't that set an odd precedent? >> I don't know. >> That like you're Oh, this like now everything that's the baseline. Now everything is like 300 400 500. >> Sure. Yeah. I guess if that's really your way of life, then that makes sense. But >> I mean, I gave Nikki a gift card to like Gellson's on our first date >> cuz when I picked up this girl in Hollywood um in my sports car. >> Yeah. The Lotus Spree. >> And then I was just asking for direct Yeah. >> Directions. Yeah. >> Directions. Yeah. Um I just I I used to move like that when I had money, you know, like and then so I think it's normal in that world where if you feel like >> I don't want you to like blow a lot of money, but like just come hang with me. I like hanging with you. >> Yeah. >> You don't need a ████ or anything like that. You just hang at the hotel room or whatever. But I definitely made that mistake when I was dating this girl and I um wanted to impress her. So when I finally came back in town from tour, I
7:34 like got this um suite at like Pelican Hill, which is like a really nice resort off of like Newport area. >> And then she ████ for real thought that that's how I move all the time. And then like later on in our relationship, we were like having a kind of like a Rocky Point like arguing a little bit and she's like, "You know what? I think we need >> we need another Pelican Hill getaway." And I was like, "Are you ████ serious? I can't afford that s███." >> I was like, damn. >> How much was that place? >> Crazy. It was like thousands of dollars at the time. Yeah. >> Got it. >> At the time. >> Yeah. But it's like I didn't have I barely had that much then, but I was just trying to like have a strong start. And it worked cuz she was like, "Wow, this guy can really take care of me." And she needed that at the time. >> You got to go like this. >> That's why I'm like, "It's a bad precedent if that's not how you move all the time." You know, >> you can't go like this.
8:24 >> No. Like it's not it's not you're not going to win looking at advice from some other guy and be like, "Oh, I should do that then." And if that's not you, you know, >> so you got to start off going like after the date, try to borrow 50 bucks. [laughter] >> Yeah. >> And that way it's like anything else you do. >> Can I get my nail and hairs done? >> Yeah. I need a haircut. >> Yeah. No, it's like that's a bad thing. But again, like like like we're all saying, if that's how you are 24/7, there's no wrong in that. That's you. Whatever. >> Like you said, this is make I think this just makes the dudes in the manosphere hate women more. >> Yeah, I know it does. It just services all that angst and hate. >> It's the whatever podcast effect. It's like that thinking that that's the dating pool you're going to have to go in. It's not. You're not going to be dating in Miami in clubs. Like, it's not you. >> Like, you don't get how hard it is to date now. You got to pay for ████ nails before the date. No, you don't. >> But these are the guys that's never been
9:14 on a date talking about that ████ Exactly. It's a myth. It's like these girls aren't even going to be interested in you. Don't worry, you're safe. These guys don't [clears throat] even talk to women and they're talking like that. You're safe from them. Yeah. And that sucks because good girls are going to get blamed. You know what I mean? They're going to be like, "Oh, what do you want me to pay for your nails and hair?" He's like, "No, what? Where'd you get that?" [laughter] >> Or guys that are dating hookers all day, they're like, "These women, [laughter] >> these women are going to be the death of me. >> All they want is your money." >> It's like your friend that counts hookers on his body count. And he's like, >> he goes, "Oh, oh, all these one night stands at the club." And I'm like, [laughter] "You get hookers at the strip club. That's Dude, it's so funny. What are you talking about? You're paying for them. >> Yeah, that's why I think the majority of the world is still pretty decent. It's still sane. I don't think it's like an epidemic that like, oh my god, dating is
10:04 so hard now. But in LA though, we did hear, remember that one boy from ATI was here and he said this girl, he was like, "Let's go on a date." And she goes, "Send me 200 bucks." >> But they're already in higher circles than like the average person. Like they're going to deal with. >> So they're like the person he's asking, you're you're thinking is like in that world. Oh, completely. >> I also do think the when you go big city, it like it may not be that extreme, but it starts to skew that way. >> Those type of mannerisms and everything. >> Mhm. >> You don't think that like people on the bottom end of the income spectrum are doing this ████ to people? >> No, it's like $20. >> Maybe in the hood. Maybe in the hood they are. Just kidding. Yeah, maybe. Maybe. It just depends cuz that's more like like you're not There's a reason why when you do impressions of people that talk like this, they're not going to sound like us. [laughter] >> You know what I mean? That's a different demographic. >> What do they sound like?
10:54 >> I did it earlier. You can rewind it. >> Drug dealer girlfriends. >> But also, I think you could almost like sniff people out like that. You know, we're talking about how people that think they're like that lawyer we're making fun of that thinks he's so ████ tight. Yeah. When they think they're so ████ tight. >> Like you see a girl and then you can tell, okay, this girl thinks she's ████ tight. And if you message her, cold message her with no rapport, she probably is gonna ask you to pay for her ████ hair and nails, right? Because there's like a thousand other dudes that are doing the same thing. So, she's like, "I'm going to sift through like she has to find a way of like qualifying her leads or whatever." So, that's kind of your bad. But, if you're like on Instagram and you actually build a relationship with someone, she might be a girl next door person or you have common hobby and it's not just a cold approach. Yo, we should go on a date. Chances are you probably aren't going to get that $200 bill. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
11:45 Yeah. [laughter] >> Oh my gosh. >> This guy, >> he's on all these billboards now >> in Vegas. He like he's like I'm ████ tight. It's that's all the billboards are about. Like I'm the ████ man. >> He's got a huge team. >> He got a Super Bowl commercial like a year ago and it's just him getting out of his car and he's just like looking sick. >> We win. >> Yeah. But there are a lot of relationships though that are like not even that crazy but so transactional like even like like negotiating a prenup and all this stuff. Like I know I know a couple where the wife was like, "Okay, if we're going to get married then um I need an allowance of this much and then you have to provide me this this whatever." >> And they're not even like wealthy wealthy like that. >> They're wealthy. >> Oh, they're wealthy. >> And then so she and then she was like uh I think she got like a push gift and all these things. So it was all on paper.
12:35 Holy ████ >> Oh yeah. Push gift. >> Yeah. For every kid, this is the value of the like. >> Yeah. I just I just learned about the concept of that. >> That's another >> cuz my cousin was like, "Hey, Smack Getting you a push gift." And I was like, "What are you talking about? What's that?" And he sent me a video explaining it. And it's like a thing where like here this is to push you in your motivation to work harder and make more money. And it's like a car or something. >> All those videos we need to report block private flag. [laughter] Wait, push gif is for guys? I thought it was for girls. Well, the one I I watched was all about guys. It's like they were they gave him like a car to be like, "Thank you, Dad, for like working for this family." That's what the push >> That sounds like something Anthony does for himself. >> That does sound like some Anthony ████ >> That's I get a calendar invite for his push party. >> Yeah, he's going to have a push party. ████ a. He would. He's had a dachelor. What was it? Dachelor. >> Even that I'm just like it's it's so
13:26 transactional, man. I'm like I don't know. It's weird to me. >> It's hard weird, You know what's difficult too is like when you have a friend that's like I had a buddy who wanted really badly to date this one porn chick that had that vibe of like pay for my stuff, you know, kind of deal. And we were trying to dissuade him from it cuz we're like, "Dude, you're a good guy. You have a lot of money." And he's he's kind of like a good naturatured person. So he's going to fall for every trap, right? Cuz he wants to save her. But then he took it like, "Oh, you guys think I can't hang with this girl. You guys think that she's better than me." So it's hard to talk people out of that situation, you know? Like >> Yeah. Yeah. cuz she's gonna milk you dry cuz they're just going to be like, "Oh, you guys are just jealous." You know what I mean? Like it's it's a tough thing to be like, "Oh, you know, they're gonna they're going to get over on me." >> He has to learn. >> He has to learn on his own. >> Yeah. Those cats have to learn on their
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