0:00 Basically, like this is technically my everyday wedding ring. >> I have my legit wedding ring, but it's so inconvenient. I have an Amazon ████ rubber one. >> I have one of those, too. But for me, I just tattooed the same image on the band on my finger. >> That's cool. I didn't realize it was it was for Nina. I thought it was for the N word, but yeah. >> What's up, Mike? >> You're just a fan of the N word. >> You don't want to talk about lab grown diamonds? >> I don't think that's very interesting. >> I don't care about diamonds. Yeah, we got nothing to say. We're going to reference this one. >> Cheap out on an engagement ring. >> No, mine is overly expensive for no reason. You got blood diamonds, bro. >> She picked it, right? >> No. No. She She had descriptions. I had her I had her make a uh >> And you knew that it was going to be expensive as ████ >> So, like I'm I honestly You guys bougie. This is going to be This is going to be such ass. >> I know. It's up to the woman, though.
0:50 But what I did was uh be like years before I proposed when we had the conversation because I think you got to have the conversation about getting married like before you like ask a question. Uh and uh I was able to discern what kind of like ideal wedding ring would be and then uh I jokingly I jokingly had her turn it into a PDF one sheet the description. >> Did you tell make it one page on Chad B? Yeah. >> No, it was before Chachi was out. So, so I got a onepage PDF of the type of wedding ring she would want. I just had that for years >> before actually going to get the ring. >> Do a good Pinterest board. >> You're a good husband. >> She did a Pinterest board of like all her favorite like kind of looks and then I just kind of picked the one I like the most. >> That's That's the way you got to do it. Nobody loses. >> You're a good husband. >> And she loves her ring. Like that's probably the best thing I've done. She was like, "Oh, I love this ring." Either
1:40 that or you'd have to be so >> Oh, sure is, Mary. Let me know. >> Have to be so like fashion forward on that type of hand jewelry to to know what's better than your wife's choice. >> Are we starting the video? >> This is already a good topic. You guys have been going off. >> I just did it organically. I forced you into it. We're talking about wedding rings. Everybody, welcome back to another episode of the Career Boys, where uh Nick is convinced that lab grown diamonds are impossible to discern between real blood diamonds that everybody spends more money on. There's so many people now that like it's not the thing you have to do, but I feel like in the '9s or even up into the 2000s, like if you didn't get one, something's ████ wrong with you. >> Which one? Like a wedding ring? >> Like they they you get judged. >> I think it's still the majority. >> What do you mean? >> Yeah, I guess so. People don't get wedding rings at all. >> Well, in our religion. >> Oh, really? >> Yeah. It's not that I thought those they
2:31 were getting rings. Seventh Day Adventist. They didn't wear they don't wear jewelry. >> I think a lot of them were sinning, too. >> And all that. I thought that was like an exception. >> Well, maybe it's >> Well, maybe they don't get lavish ones. >> Yeah, but also it could be like >> or they don't wear it to church. >> The Japanese ones were different from like the Filipino ones, you know, like >> so like But anyways, like Yeah, a lot of >> uh people in our religion didn't get like diamond engagement rings, wedding rings, stuff like I think they might get like the bands. >> Yeah, that's true. >> But it's not like a big ████ rock. >> No, they don't. I think modern day it's like people are okay with the alternatives, but the majority people still have rings and there's still like people looking at each other's like I'll hear chicks all the time. Oh my god, did you see that girl's ring? Like like it's the thing that like if dudes look at other dudes cars, girls look at other
3:22 girls rings. >> I mean it's still a thing. And then I I do think that they get judged and stuff and then families they still want you to get something or whatever. Like it's still tradition, right? It's also in incredibly ceremonial like it's part of being ordained and stuff like that, you know, like having a ring bearer and and the traditional ceremony of like bonding through that that moment. Let alone it's um >> Yeah, >> it's just part of the the symbolism moving forward too, right? Like that one's taken. >> That's a way sicker exchange though. Cars. >> That's like a dowy though. >> You exchange cars. >> That would be sick. That would be a dowy, right? >> Holy ████ The stupid ass ring, dude. >> Wouldn't fathers have to like pay a dowy to like pay a dude to like of higher standard to like marry his his daughter
4:12 or something like that and pay a fee. >> Yeah. We have to like give him a car like the dad a car or something like that. That's how it used to be, right? Cuz it was a whole exchange >> cuz the ring is so impractical. >> It's like one like we go do an event or whatever like let's say we're go workout. Oh, I'm going to leave it at home. So most of the time it's at home and then there are the times where like she took it off and put it somewhere. Oh my god, where the ████ did I put it? >> Like god damn, you can't lose a car like that. >> When when do >> So the the the diamond is the engagement ring, right? >> That's the one that's baller looking. >> But then that's the big one, right? >> So then that's the scam, bro. >> That's a scam. >> And then you got to buy another ring. But but when you get but when you get engaged, right, you have the big diamond one. And is that the one that they wear?
5:02 >> So there's a diamond one >> when they're engaged. >> Yes. >> All day every day. >> Yeah. And then you get the wedding one and that one's got to kind of be on par with that one, too. >> And it's got to, bro. And it's got to form like Voltron on her finger, bro. >> It's got to It's got to be a two-piece. >> It's got to be like It looks good together. >> When did that start? >> That was recent. >> The the whole >> Yeah. >> The Voltroning together was recent. And then once you had like one girl get it, you're like, I want that. And now everybody wants that. >> You see what Rebecca did? You're like, ████ ████ Rebecca, dude. >> Honestly, honestly, that's how it felt. When when Tiff was like, when she was explaining the kind of ring she wanted and she saw someone else do it, I forgot the name of the girl. And in my head, I said, "Man, ████ Rebecca, dude. You want to copy like her?" But apparently that's what everybody does. They get >> some of them want the three-piece
5:53 ████ third. >> What is that? >> You get a bottom or the top or you can get like >> Wait, what's the third symbolizing? >> You got your I don't know what it symbolizes. More love. Uh you got you got your engagement, you got your wedding band, and then you got just like I don't know the the finisher. >> But where do you when do you give the finisher or like at what point does that get put on? >> Whenever you decide. >> When they've when they've given you over a thousand married ████ That'll never happen. Marriage is the end of ████ >> I know. That's how you got to earn the third one. >> Damn. There's a third thing. I didn't even know that. >> There's the third one. >> Did you get a third thing? >> She wants one. >> No way. What's the third one? Dude, >> you guys just got married. >> What's the third one? >> It's just a third piece of the ring. >> ████ >> So, for my How do you connect all three? My engagement ring that I gave her is
6:43 basically the rock. I believe it's pear-shaped. And then I have like studs like around the band and stuff like that. So on the for the wedding band, I basically got her the same color gold ring, but then put uh more like small diamonds. >> And does she wear it all the time or is it like inconvenience? >> Well, now she's pregnant, so she can't wear it at all cuz her finger's too sausagey. >> You don't even wear them most of the time, too. You got something sick and you're not even wearing it? >> That's tough. That's tough. >> Now she wants the third one, which is cleaned. >> She already don't wear the other two and now ████ Nina wants the third one. got to put a camera cuz you know she's watching. >> She's like ████ Nina. >> Well, um, is that your plan to get the third one? For sure. >> Yeah, eventually. Eventually. >> But when she gave you the plans, right, it was only for the engagement ring. How did you find out about the other two connectors? >> Well, I mean, at that point, I had
7:34 already learned that there was always a wedding band, just like because also the guy's got to get a band as well, >> right? >> That's true. >> You're not getting yourself a band when you're when you're proposing. >> Yeah. ring. >> Hey, is that supposed to be like your everyday? So, you got your diamond, right? But then like your band is your everyday >> basically. Like this is technically my everyday wedding ring. The one that I got for like my wedding. >> I have my legit wedding ring, but it's so inconvenient. I have an Amazon ████ rubber one. >> I have one of those, too. But for me, I just tattooed the same image on the band on my finger. >> That's cool. >> Wow. >> Cuz I thought I thought I didn't realize it was it was for Nina. I thought it was for the N word, but yeah. >> Wow. It's your allegiance to the N word, huh? >> That's my allegiance. >> Yep. >> Yeah. >> So that's why >> is that so you don't have to say what's up, mate? >> Yeah. I got one pass and you got it tatted. >> He's just a fan of the N word.
8:25 >> I think that's cool though. Like how a lot of people are doing that now. It's just like they do a tattoo and then >> they're alternative versions. >> Yeah. Cuz I think >> I mean if if if I'm dancing or performing or if I'm working out, if I'm playing golf or whatever, it's like I can't be wearing a ring. >> Yeah. Too many too many hotties at the golf course. >> Those golf cart girls, dude, you need help with your swing. >> I can't let them know. >> My cousin My cousin got his wife uh the third band as a push present. >> What is that? >> That's for the baby. >> Push presents. >> Yeah. What the hell is that? >> Push present is is for the baby to to be like, "Hey, you're about to go through a crazy push, so here's a gift of my appreciation." >> Oh, I see. Wow. They call that push present. Damn, dude. >> No, it's a it has a good ring to it and it's a good way for these.
9:15 >> They just keep the ████ economy just finds a way. >> They find a way. They find a reason >> the scam is out there and ████ >> I mean I'm I'm learning. >> Then they're going to be like, "Oh, is there a gray hair present because you're getting older? Oh, you got ring first gray hair ring. >> Oh, our first fight present." He's like, "God, it's ████ presents for everything." >> Like like Joe said earlier in the day though, novelty, right? Like they you got to celebrate life. >> That's what gives things purpose. Yeah. >> Yeah. But it's a it ends up turning into a pile of ████ on the ████ >> I went to a bachelor party. Like people people are just starting to get hip to bachelor parties. >> What's bachelor parties? >> There's just different reasons to have fun. >> Yeah. >> Just go have fun. >> Yeah. It's just like a bachelor party before you get married. You know, you go out with your boys. A dash one. I never had a bachelor party. >> I don't I didn't have one. >> I thought they're gay. I think they're
10:05 gay, dude. Honestly, if I'm being honest, I think >> they're extremely gay. It's all dudes. >> I don't want to do that. >> Wait, is it supposed to be all guys? >> Yeah. Well, I mean, >> some people do co-ed now. They do co-ed ones. Is more fun. >> Does it always end up all guys? >> Wait, what? Why is it called bachelors? >> You have you're bringing a new child to the world, so you want to have your last three days. >> So, it's like a baby shower. >> It's already gay. >> I feel like that makes parenting harder. >> Like you're longing for the days where you didn't have a kid. >> It's just an excuse to have some fun. That's >> just have fun. Yeah. Yeah. It's like, let it go, dude. Those days are over, bro. You got to say goodbye to those days. >> You have you have different versions of fun, right? It's like a night out with your boys is going to be different than a night out with like your your in-laws. >> Yeah, you're right. >> You know, so like you you give different categories for different types. >> Is there a format like like what you're supposed to do? Cuz you know how like
10:55 all these things have like like a a wedding reception or like a baby shower? There's always like a theme that like >> Well, there's definitely got to be intention. Is there is there something there like you go to a strip club and then you do this >> for bachelor parties? There's various there for so what's the bachelor one strip club? >> Like it's always strip club. IT'S ALL JUST EXCUSES TO GO TO THE STRIP CLUB. THAT'S ALL IT IS. THERE'S NOTHING ELSE. All the strippers are moms. >> It's just an excuse to be like get off my back and let me go do something. >> They have to make a whole >> I could touch chicks. Yo, that's a G. I could grow babes. And then you get in there, they're like, sorry, no touching. What if that's the whole thing is like guys had to figure out a way so the girls would understand and be like it's a bachelor thing and they're like oh I get it. It's a it's like you guys have a baby shower.
11:45 >> We need a guy thing. >> That's what overtime is at work. >> Yeah. >> You you think there's actually a job happening. >> I got to work late. >> Classic. if if you want an excuse to go do something unnatural in terms of like hanging out with your boys because you you might see your boys all the time but like what's the difference between going to teas Brazil versus like going to another country? You need like a big a big type of commemorative novelty experience to to merit going cuz you we >> you can't just say that. >> No, you can't not normal people can't always do that. They can't just be like, "Hey guys, do you guys all want to just go to Japan? I would love to go with you guys." You guys be like, "No, I got ████ to do." I have a reasonable why. >> No, but if I have >> if I go I want to go to Singapore with Anthony. Jill would be like, "Oh yeah, it's opening the schedule. Go." >> You weren't going to go to my baby shower if I just said, "Hey, we're doing a little potluck on Saturday. You're
12:36 down to drive to LA." You went because of a commemorative crazy. >> I still didn't want to GO THOUGH. >> WHAT IF I DIDN'T want to go, but I went anyway. >> Baby shower up here. Bachelor party down here. I think >> dad parties down parties. Get the ████ out of here, dude. It's all relative, right? It's It's like getting a a jaywalking ticket when you're younger versus getting like, you know, attempted murder when you're older. Like, >> wo wo. >> You can stomach different things varying on what's important to you at that era is all. Of course, a baby shower is crazier. But you probably haven't been married yet. >> But baby shower actually has meaning. >> All the whole point is this is the biggest thing that you can do in your life right now. >> That's everything then. >> And if Dasher party is up there, then that's the standard two. Dasher Party is not up there. I'm just saying. would make having a kid is up there. You
13:26 >> you know when a bachelor party so like you know in a baby shower you bring gifts and there's a registry and you have a little party get together and then people like kind of crowdfund for you. That's essentially what it is. It's a party to crowdfund right. So if there was a bachelor party where guys get together and then they'll be like hey yo I'mma bring alcohol for you. I'm going to bring gifts for you. I think there there it makes a little bit more sense if there was a thing like yo I'm going to give you some money cuz you have a kid coming out. So then now you have like two events of like crowdfunding. >> Yeah, I guess. Or by the time you >> cuz just having fun sounds gay. >> Yeah, that's true. >> Hey, wait until you want to go have fun and need a reason. Okay. >> No, >> but just don't put a name on it. Do it. Just don't put a name on it. >> Make it sound gay. Make it sound gay so it's NOT THREATENING. >> NO. >> OH, OKAY. NO, THAT MAKES SENSE. I get it. >> AND THEN YOU go to the strip club.
14:16 >> I understand what you're talking about. >> If I tip I was like, "Hey, me and the boys are going to go snowboarding." That it should that should be it. We're not going to call. >> But the whole thing is that the branding is there so the girl doesn't get upset about it. >> But why would they get upset? >> Girls need branding. Girls need branding. You're right. Girls need branding. You're right. It's not to us. It's for the >> Women don't like when men have a good time. >> Yeah. If it's naughty town. Like Yeah. If you're going to go to Amsterdam to bang hookers, you got to call the Dachelor party. >> YEAH. FOR REAL. THAT'S ALSO TRUE. That's also true. >> In the bubble of Dachelor, it includes that, but it doesn't have to be. >> Yeah. It's a way to safeguard the possibilities. >> If we're going to call it a bachelor party, we better go to Amsterdam. >> What if you go I want to go snoring even? And then they're like, I want to go. And you're like, no, it's got to be just the guys. So, they have to make it
15:06 just the guys. >> I just tell her, I don't want you to go to this one. >> But that's what I mean. You have a reasonable wife. Yeah. You have a reasonable wife. The stereotypical wife doesn't want you to have fun.
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