0:00 most of the match this guy grabs me and I just go and then he like grabs me somewhere else and then I'm like and then we're just like this for like 3 [Music] minutes all right welcome back to another episode of the careful boys let's CL for subie huh Sub Sub sub s but it's not about s today you know why should be it's about bart yay let's go first when I saw bar I thought he was wearing eyeliner or something like that on his right eye cuz it's very k-p poopy oh ████ he's got he's got and a light the Contour looks really good kind of looks good like if you just he got eyes Shadow dude I'm trying to look [Music]
0:52 Egyptian ey Shadow how you get a black eye dog yeah black ey PE Gio punched me oh damn well I hope you w a little didn't call the police I didn't I called the firefighters cuz you shouldn't let your wife mess you up no I did a uh Jiu-Jitsu comp and then I didn't know when it happened but then after one of the matches my coach was like oh ████ you got a little Shiner on your eye oo and I was like oh I do and then I touch that oh ow you didn't call foul when they hit you in the eye like that you're supposed to sell it your immediate reaction is the touch a Shiner on your eye versus just look at it you didn't say it ref yeah like so that was the beginning of a lot of ████ in the day got it so I I think the whole day was just me being ████ did it start with you getting your eye injured and then you've been doing ████ like no that was I think they noticed it maybe my second match in
1:43 oh maybe yeah okay let's start over on a high note hey guys congratulations Bart you competed in Jiu-Jitsu I don't know if there's any high notes in this well that's why we're starting that's the high part now tell us everything else that goes downhill there it's amazing yeah it's amazing that she went out there competed it's really hard Nick's being a good black belt and making me feel very good everybody gets wrecked on their first tournament why why why why why is that my first tournament Bart Bart one his first tournament Bart one his first tournament honestly I thought it was Karma I was like I got a gold medal for doing jack this time I fought my life away for three matches I got nothing there's no free lunches in this game you know I mean my first tournament I won my first match right my second match guy put me in a triangle choke I threw up in my own mouth and I was like and I tapped yeah it was
2:33 bad I was so tired how often does that happen guys throwing up during the match it happens but that's what I found out yeah that wasn't on my bingo list either you know like well you're getting squeezed and bear hugged you're going to you get tired your conditioning is bad and then you know when you first do a tournament I don't think you think it's going to be one thing yes like and by this time I had already fought kickboxing matches I was like yeah a grappling match come I'm not getting punched in the head this is going to be easy easy easy peasy and then I get ████ get wrecked my third match wck I get wreck my deck I get like my arm popped in an arm bar and I was like I couldn't even tap so I go home you couldn't even tap couldn't even tap you're supposed to say tap I was like say but the guy just ripped it and went and it was just too late so it was popped before I could even tap so holy comp comp speeds really fast and then I
3:24 had everyone throws everything into it so like um it's not like in training where you feel something coming it's like it's not there and then Bop and you ████ rip like three ligaments and then the ref it even takes time for the ref to stop to stop it's very very fast how about you say freeze yeah I wish I wish after your arms dangling over like this it's like oh thanks for saing freeze guys I remember on the way home for the tournament I had to put I couldn't move my arm I and I was driving the Miata so I had to drive stick so I was driving with one hand going back I was like ████ oh and it was all the way in like it was like like an hour and a half drive so I drove an hour and a half to get my ass kicked and come back and be like ████ back to the gym see through the tears the whole way yeah back to the gym and that was at the time where it really ████ mattered to yourself you're like
4:14 like I'm in this I'm new but then you real in retrospect your first tournament is like you're supposed to get your ass destroyed right A lot of the times but some some guys go out there and win I don't know those guys maybe cuz they trained hard they're not my circles I mean for every match there's a winner and a loser and I'm like what the ████ I'm end up here those guys you competed against Bart did they also lose two and they won against you or did they just all win the whole time well one of them it was uh so the the when you sign up for tournaments you could sign up for your weight and then also your age Division and there was no one in my age division bracket whatever so I checked the box where like I'm down to go into open I'm down to go up a weight class cuz I'm like what the ████ 10 20 lbs I'm like I roll with big ████
5:04 all the time yeah that's right so I was I don't give a ████ and you know like based off like the last Oar we did I'm like my whole ethos of doing Jiu-Jitsu is self-defense anyways that's the wrong mentality I found out going into a competition cuz the competition is a game you need to win the game it's not self-defense right so I'm like okay if I'm here to like ████ back my my word up U I'm like I'll fight anybody anywhere anytime any age any whatever right damn and then so gangster and then so uh when I went in the first they bumped me into this uh the first guy there's still no no one in the our bracket so I fought one guy twice and then the other the other one I did ghee and I also learned another mistake try not to sign up for too many divisions and matches cuz it's ████ exhausting it's like trying to do like cuz I was
5:55 like oh like when I do open mats U which is like the Saturday kind of like free roll training you put on the gar you take it off you roll with this guy and you roll with that guy and you're like okay I'm used to this but it's like signing for signing up for two tournaments in the same day so I just learned a lot of like crazy mistakes but kind of like going back to what Nick was saying I kind of had the same mentality going into it where I was like people like competition is different I'm like ████ I've been powerlifting for 10 years I compete all the time shut the ████ up so I had that sure I had that going into it I was like competition I'm not going to have game day nerves I all the ████ time I I understand this and then the other one was um uh what was it like uh in in training I started uh running through all the white belts at my school and touching some of the blue belts which is the next belt up above me so I'm like okay cool
6:47 I'm I'm edging towards that level so I'm like I'm going to be a blue belt amongst white belts I go to different other gyms I visit other gyms and I test myself against those people and I started to get like this big head about myself right I'm like okay cool I'm good I I'm not I'm not winning at my gym because of familiarity I'm winning because I'm actually good at this level and so and then on top of that I'm doing strength and conditioning like a pro athlete with my coach and then also after that every single night I do a 100 reps of drilling on my own so I'm like treating this like this is this is a ████ UFC so going into it I felt like I'm 100% prepared I ████ got this and then I think the first nerves that I felt was was maybe I think it was like two or 3 days before I think I was texting Nick or Nick texted me and he's like yo how do
7:38 you feel and I was like dude I ████ woke up at 2: a.m. with a pack oh yo wow you're really nervous yeah it was like one of those where you wake up I'm like because I had so many scenarios in my head the ████ this I'm like that and I'm like oh what the ████ is going on I'm so nervous now and then I'm like damn that's crazy and then the second night I actually had like really good sleep so I'm okay cool I got this I got all I need is really good sleep the night before I show up and then uh oh no the first day I I'm watching and I think this is the part that kind of ████ me up a little bit um I started watching all of ta's matches and then I'm coaching and then one of the things I learned is in ta's first match my coach says he won the fight but lost the match
8:28 so most of that r it was taer choking the ████ out of the other kid but because he didn't have his feet in he didn't get back points cuz when he takes someone's back it's two points every single time so even though that kid was literally fighting for his life because that kid did take taica down I think like two times taica lost four to one so I was like oh ████ like this is different from a fight you're trying to win by points and that's why I go like the game is different than self-defense yeah so in a real fight Tao would have just kept squeezing this kid and he would just passed out right but because he didn't have his hooks in and he didn't tap by the end of the round the kid won so the whole coaching so the coach on the side was like Hey next time every time you take his back hooks in first before he get the choke so TAA came back around and and he fought the same kid again in a ghee and then he won 9 to zero cuz he understood it now so I
9:19 think that got too cerebral in my brain where like I became very like um like Risk adverse and very defensive so now whereas like in regular training someone can shoot on me I don't mind I'll like counter I'll do whatever but now it just becomes this match of like we're just both doing jack ████ for like the whole time and then I just started gassing out and then so the first match um oh one of them I was like ████ I I I was I could you know when you can sensor yourself from third person I can feel that this match is whack I'm like this is so ████ whack we're just holding on to each other for like 3 minutes matches so you know what I did I'm like what's up guys we got some new offerings for you on our patreon as you guys know can be deleting footage all
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11:00 good videos but they're not tooo YouTube friendly so if you sign up for the patreon you can watch those videos but not only that we're going to have exclusive access for just our patre Hors to our Discord where you can chat with us you can ask us questions but most importantly you guys can also submit your topics and everything and we'll be using those as videos for jkn so whatever burning question or or issue or anything that you wanted us to comment on and you want to see our perspective on or even a topic that you would love to hear us just banter on join our patreon and you can ask them in our Discord so the link is going to be in our description box below so see you soon on the patreons adios ████ it I'm going just I'm like I'm just going to go powerlifter mode and I'm just going to run this ████ I'm going to do something crazy I'm going to do something crazy so I literally just go
11:51 like this I'm just going to football tackle this fool so I start just ████ booking it across the M I push him into into the other M into another fight that's going on what they're like stop come back reset and here's the thing where like I think like also with the powerlifter mindset I'm like there ain't nobody stronger than me in my weight class but when you don't know what you're doing could be used against you so as hard as I sent it he just went boom I ████ flipped all the way oh ████ all the way to the other side and then he get and then he he ends up uh mounting me and then he got me in the and it's I tap I'm like ████ that was so ████ stupid and I broke all kinds of like day one mistakes like day one combat type stuff like you know you never like you never cross your feet right your feet you're always skipping
12:41 you're always skipping doesn't matter what kind of martial arts you do you never cross your feet the whole ████ time I'm like ████ ████ this guy's ████ walking out and like and then like the coach is like stop Crossing her feet stop Crossing her feet like I'm not he's doing it I'm not yeah just like a bunch of day one ████ stuff and I just think maybe I was too nervous that's the nerv too much I don't even do that like the first day I ever train I never even cross yeah I don't ever do that you do dumbass ████ I was do I'm like what the ████ the hail marry nerves I'm ████ crossing my feet and doing all kinds of dumb ████ so he Taps me then um then that's already in my head right cuz this guy already beat me we have a 10-minute rest before the next fight and in my mind I thought conditioning was going to be on point CU
13:31 on Open Mat days which is Saturdays I'll do six rounds six rounds of five minutes each so I'm like I'm ████ condition for this but when you're going 100 the other person's going 100 there's nerves 10 minutes isn't even enough yeah like by the end of 10 minutes cuz are you guys are up again I'm like I look at that ████ that for the same thing I'm like all right let's go now I try to make less mistakes which is even more wrong again because now it's super defensive mode but at least I learned learned how to survive and take breaks and that was like one thing I never learned where like I think in training I'm always trying to learn game plan and whatever but being able to stall a skill it's a skill like stall to run down the clock yeah run down the clock St stall to breathe stall it to breathe until you find the opening cuz at the end of that match um it was I did better cuz it went to a draw but that
14:22 was kind of like my worst nightmare because it was a draw the ref goes 2 minute overtime and then so like death none of us even knew that was even part of the rules so me and the other dude we look at each other like what do we do what the ████ and then my coach was like huh like no one ever heard of that and there's this part of the video which I'll show you guys later it's funny we were off the mats this is how ████ tired we were he goes all right you guys come back to the center it's just both of us going like this back to the center cuz we were so ████ exhausted oh damn and so the game part of it the game part of it my coach is had you stood up they might have gave you judge's decision wow oh he's not as tired as that guy wow
15:12 cuz when things are equal they have to go with like what's the closest thing that shows that you dominated this so I learned that competition is not self-defense at all it's like understanding all that stuff so both of us are ████ crawling so if they see both of us crawling to the center they're like draw you know like overtime versus if I just stood up that's why after all UFC fights they always guys even if they get their ass kicked had I stood up different story wow go to overtime and then I think he ends up scoring like one point or something so technically maybe or a sub attempt or something but it ended up being um what is it called so I did do better by that time I was ████ exhausted I was like dude I already emptied my gas tank on the second match and then I had overtime I'm like sitting there I'm like ████ I
16:03 told my coach I was like I don't think I want to do G cuz I'm ████ exhausted I'm really spent I'm spent there's nothing like it you feel why is Gore no no I just don't want to do another tournament I'm ████ done I'm like I'm ████ exhausted right and then and I know I just did this the ghe guy had zero tournaments before this so he was fresh I'm going to go up against a guy who cuz you don't sign up for two things at once like idiot 100 HP still yeah like damn I just signed up for a G tournament today I didn't know like I just don't understand these things right so I was just like oh ████ okay you don't want to do two marathons in one day one's pretty good and so I was like ████ I don't want to do it and then my coach keeps looking at me he goes you don't want to do it you're going to be a ████ right now and then all the other dudes that did compete like the brown and black belts like you should do it man and I was like
16:54 but if I already don't feel 100 like cuz there's this thing in Jiu-Jitsu where they call it like the last round that's where everyone gets hurt when you check out and then you check back in everyone's like when you check out just go home cuz when you check out and you check back in you're not there you ████ get ████ up there's this thing there's like this bad juju thing about it and I was like coach to be honest I think I checked out already but all of them like no you really should do it you're already here and I was like ████ it I did tell my coach if you tell me to jump through a fire I'll do it like like I my goal is to be a good athlete so if you tell me to do it I'll do it so I was like ████ it we go um and I'm actually surp I was actually happy that I did it cuz I learned a bunch of other lessons that I didn't do so the first one was no G which is just kind of like spandex or whatever the second one was ghee and I was like okay I'm just going to use strength because um I'm I'm strong but I
17:46 learned that and I was shaking the ████ out of this guy and I was like damn this motherfucker's made out of concrete he ain't moving and I didn't find out until after the match when my cuz my uh coach also competed in Judo he was like you're just shaking the fabric he's like you got to pull the guy yeah you got to feel the person inside so I was like going like this cuz he was like three uh three hard snap downs and then toss them and I was like you got it so I was like this I'm like and I was like what the this what ain't moving I'm like what is this guy youo black belt and so it wasn't until later and I I learned you got to pull the ████ inside you got to make the guy look like this so yeah the time my time timing was off um my I couldn't get my strength to transfer wait you guys start standing up yeah start standing
18:36 yeah you start so you can actually use Judo then yeah a lot of but guys just sit to their butt and that's the whole thing like a ju a Jiu-Jitsu comp is like a mix of Wrestling Judo and Jiu-Jitsu together cuz you start standing how come I see people starting on their knees sometimes that's that's in training that's in training not in a competition but a lot of guys when the match starts they shake hands they go like this they'll grab and sit to butt cuz the whole game in Jiu-Jitsu was like how can like you you made a good point about the self-defense thing it's like if you do Jiu-Jitsu and you compete you have to have a point A to point F like you need to get you need to know exactly where you're starting get to that spot and get to your end goal which is usually taking the back and choking the person out or maybe a leg lock or whatever so like your whole game has to be designed towards that pathway but it's not like
19:26 um Judo right where like let's say you get a throw you don't you don't stop it there right you have to submit or you have to complete it yeah I see or you either you can't submit them you have to win by points so that's actually old school Judo rules so Jiu-Jitsu is like this and Judo actually fits inside of Jiu-Jitsu does that make sense kind of like if kick this is kickboxing boxing fits inside of kickboxing like you could do everything you want in boxing in a kickboxing match so jiujitsu is more over encompassing than Judo and even wrestling is because even with wrestling the minute you go to a pin you're done but there's way more variables but you have to submit for for a jiujitsu yeah yeah yeah like cuz you do have to learn like three different marshal arts to be able to compete in jiujitsu nowadays before modern day jiujitsu yeah it's like you have to be a good wrestler you have to understand the Judo grips and then you have to understand like you
20:16 know the rest of jiujitsu which is already complex enough but yeah it's so much of it is like you got to get to your offense right away and you can't like let anybody dictate the pace cuz when someone else dictates the pace you're playing the back foot game and especially when you're tired you have nerves it's just it's a hard deficit to come back from so the goal is as soon as you shake hands with the guy you do your match you got to get right to your aame you got to get right to where you win like having a game plan for you like what was your game plan going in my first game plan with noge so I'm actually decent at wrestling but that's the crazy part I did have a game plan and I hit it a million times in training but but nothing prepares you for competition I was just ████ my um I usually like to hit singles or bubbles which is like picking up the leg or two legs and sweeping to the side um and I didn't do any of that I just got locked I just felt like uh what my coach calls
21:08 it he goes you're trying to be a blue belt before being a white belt and cuz in white belt he goes that's where you learn how to scrap with people people that doing ████ dumb ████ you have to learn how to deal with that blue Bel you learn skills and stuff but I think I'm trying to like jump and Rush the process that I skipped the very important part so I would say like the analogy would be like imagine you join a boxing gym and everyone's a Olympic level fighter and everyone throws the cleanest punches ever so that's your Technique right you're like okay cool and then your first amateur fight the guy just comes out like this and you're you're you're like you're not used to seeing that you're like what the ████ so he's like you need to get this out of your system before you start doing this so I was trying to jump the gun and I think because of that like he was like honestly if you jumped into a blue or purple bell tournament you probably do better cuz everyone's going to give you a different look and the look is going to be what you're used to which is what I see in training but the ████
22:00 like of someone just grabbing you in a place that you're not even been grabbed before I'm like I'm just like huh huh like most of the match this guy grabs me and I just go and then he like grabs me somewhere else and I'm like and then we're just like this for like ████ like 3 minutes that's a lot of matches they start like that start like that all the time yeah so yeah definitely learned a lot um couldn't believe I went 0 and three I was like I was like this is ████ crazy and then what was cool is after I I went back one of the black bus that competed he almost beat a UFC fighter he was like dude my first competition I went 0 and four and I was like honestly I really needed to hear that that makes me feel a lot better like cuz if you're normally not supposed to sign up for multiple things every o you get the rate is even higher the next
22:51 one will be an O isn't it cuz you're you're tireder and tireder and tireder yeah yeah well I didn't know that like usually people sign up for multiple things once they're a higher level then they'll do like like the 190 match and the absolute which is like no weight class I think it's better that you did so many though cuz it seems like that's way better experience instead of doing three separate competitions throughout two years you did three in one day and then now even though you got your ass kicked it's like's yeah he's saying instead of winning three separate competitions you lost three in one day yeah yeah yeah yeah you just cramble but as a beginner shouldn't you have built the grip grit and endurance and that's really what it is right cuz if you win everything your ego is going to get even
23:41 bigger evener and you're going to think that you actually are right but then you never got tested yeah but nothing prepares you like your first tournament though like you have to go through it cuz you don't experience a nerves like that unless you fought in a ████ cage or something like that right but and the conditioning is such a wake up call cuz you're like I've never felt this before I never felt my arms feel like I can't grip anything like it just all this random stuff that you wouldn't have experienced unless you did a juice tournament and then now you can okay now I could prepare for this way now your training quality will be improved you'll understand what the intensity is like and then you can mimic that better in training do you feel chill now when you do tournaments no you still get nervous you you still get ████ like you know how to manage it better you have like protocols better like so in between matches while you know you're tired you have to kind of chill and like you really have to work you're breathing cuz the first thing that happens is when you
24:31 get in a bad spot and you freak the ████ out what happens your breathing gets all crazy and you get yourself more tired so then you're ability to recover goes all the way down right so like in between matches you're focusing on breathing through your nose and just trying to get in that like mindset before you compete so it's like all these little things that you learn along the way but when you first start you're not well equipped with any of that ████ plus the idea of competition and like fight like that seems so much crazier like I can imagine with like let's say um like weightlifting or something like the weights are always going to be the same weights like if you're ready or if you know you're ready you're mentally there but the variable of stepping into a ring with somebody else and you have no idea what they're going to do means that you're always on the edge of your seat and like trying to figure something out and especially too and the weird thing about Jitsu is like when you train with the same people over and over again and you have a game like you develop like oh this is my ████ like I do this everywhere for each person too yeah for
25:21 each person but at the same time it's like you know you have these sweeps that you're like okay I play this type of guard or this type of wrestling and I hit it on everybody but then you train with your training Partners all the time they figure it out so they don't let you hit on anybody but that is what is actually going to work in a tournament because the guy you're rolling with they don't know what the ████ your game is unless they're watching you on unless they're looking up your matches on YouTube whatever so then when you start competing you're like ████ like I forgot what I do like you know so especially while you're anxious and you're nervous if you don't have that going in very clear on what you're going to do you go in the match and you're like all right you're just doing this to the guy like and it happens all the time but they don't tell you that ████ until you have to you have to feel for yourself I can tell this guy this all day he's going to be like yeah all right and then cuz we all did that bro that's how I felt so I went to uh one of my other teammates tournaments
26:11 last year in December um and he did noge worlds and it was him and this other dude their two blue belts and then he was like doing like this risk control ████ and they're like I'm like bro just grab the leg it's right there come on are you ████ Dum are you ████ serious I'm like come on dude it's right there yeah and then after after mine I was like it's not it's not what it seems like I have a I have a compilation of all the things I was GNA do in a tournament and you see me do it like I was supposed to pull guard one time I never done it and that's when you sit to your butt and you grab the guy I I usually go for takedowns I try to do this my foot slips I fall on my butt and I'm like oh ████ it happens all the time bro that's tight that you got to learn the first hand that's tight yeah that's not something people can teach you yeah the coolest part of it was um so like doing the competition with taica and then ta
27:02 is going to be a beast and I always like coach him and stuff like that after my loss he comes up to me goes Papa remember after the snapdown if they don't come down you have to do the Judo trip oh ████ that's tactical advice I was like I was like I was like you know what you're right dude I was like shut dude I was like you're right that's tight I had it wrong yeah wowen and then he was like he has more stripes than you he does and he was like he's your Senpai dude and he was like now you know how hard it is to get a silver medal I was like it's ████ hard damn that kid is a monster bro I was like it is it was Fu I was like cuz cuz I did the I couldn't even do what he did he lost to the first guy took the notes and beat him the second time and it's so hard cuz then you have this
27:52 psychological thing like ████ that guy figured me out right so I lost to the first guy the second time I couldn't beat I did do better but I'm like it's that much harder cuz that guy has the confidence of I just smashed that ████ you want me to do it again easy yeah you know so it's like a lot of it is like psychological I'm like dude I'm so proud of you dude that's really cool how exciting man that's cool good job man yeah good ████ we're losing for the first one for the first one that's a big one for real hey who who starts a new sport at 40 though come on dude what you like Jiu-Jitsu bro cool that's pretty hard dude I mean you should be proud of yourself man that's cool you did it man you guys are the best it's not for the week
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